feel like swinging really isn’t for the younger mans game. Maybe because a lot of younger people haven’t explored enough to know this is a lifestyle for them?
But it just seems really difficult for a younger man to have fun when his type is older haha |
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It’s difficult because there’s a much smaller pool of people to choose from.
That doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy successful times here. Just means you gotta work harder to find it. |
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Well the 2 years difference in age will be factor - people can see straight away you haven’t updated your profile and so therefore aren’t really that serious.
There’s ways of showing maturity and there’s ways of showing your age and having socks on in pics is definitely not what someone who is trying to create the right image would show 
Also you sound like a kid in a sweet shop in your profile - ‘I love girls, all of them, any will do, I’ll drive anywhere…’ - you wouldn’t and you don’t fancy every women but stating it makes it sound like anyone will do. It’s very generic - like you’re trying to appeal to everyone.
Your profile comes across as someone too young and too keen…like I say, there’s ways of showing your age without putting it.
You are in a sea of 50,000 men, so you’ve got to make yourself stand out.
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"Well yes it does matter when it’s peoples types etc? "
Yes absolutely people enjoy different things. Just my view but l don’t get worried about the age. Have been with lovely older and younger. I celebrate that |
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I have to say well done to the OP, your taking the advice and tinkering with your profile. Many ask about their profiles but hours later or days....it hasn't changed. |
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If you are looking exclusively for older women then I guess fab is a tough place to be. There’s only so many women that like younger men that are reasonably close then you have to factor in the likelihood There’s a mutual attraction etc.
If you’re into women of similar ages that are also into a non monogamous and/ or perhaps more kinky type of relationship then try feeld or OkC |
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By *elshmumWoman
over a year ago
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The issue alot of more mature qoman have, is they have kids the age of the men trying to bed them. Sometimes it just takes time, conversations and trust, but this is a lengthy process that most youngsters don't possess. I have a lower age limit of 30 but did make an exception for an amazing young man who spent alot of time talking thing through with me before we met. And for my kink, he is turning out to be one of the best meets I have had. |
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I know not everyone is into clubs but their are clubs that do specific cubs and cougars nights ..
Their are women that are definitely into younger men it’s just hard on fab as you have to try and get yourself seen through 1000’s of other profiles then you have the fakes and the fantasists . |
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By *MCMan
over a year ago
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"Any advice is welcome "
Saw someone mentioned a guide somewhere on here the other day that was quite informative, have a search for it.. might not be aimed at ‘younger’ males but new single males trying to get a meet, still would suggest give a read..
Members have age range preferences set for a reason, just move on from them if you’re outside… If you put some effort into messages you send to members you fit their preferences you shouldn’t have a problem. It won’t always be a yes, nor is anyone obligated to give you a reply but you’ll increase your chances… I know as I’m speaking from experience. |
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"I have to say well done to the OP, your taking the advice and tinkering with your profile. Many ask about their profiles but hours later or days....it hasn't changed."
Yeah changed his age from 25 to 27 - will be swimming in older women now 
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It's difficult for all of you single men, whatever the highlighted reason that you express - age, height, body type, sexuality, ethnicity, etc.
As most people are older than the young, with many having kids of the same age, which deters their interest, it's an additional issue.
But most men can do much, much better here than they do. And if you get lots of no strings sex in real life, you may not need fab. It's always better to have multiple options anyway anyway, so you get choice and variety.
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