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Do your friends know you swing?
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over a year ago
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Hi op
One sex is not dirty it is natural pleasure.
Plus we are all here for various reasons.
Do I tell anyone, I believe my private life stays private. No need to keep anything a secret people accept me as I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best friend does, because she's the "security" contact. She knows where we're going, who we're seeing, and as much information as we can give her about the people we are meeting.
I find this extra important when I do solo meets. Another people looking out for me.
But otherwise? Not really. I don't hide it as such, but it never seems to come into general conversation! |
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"My best friend does, because she's the "security" contact. She knows where we're going, who we're seeing, and as much information as we can give her about the people we are meeting.
I find this extra important when I do solo meets. Another people looking out for me.
But otherwise? Not really. I don't hide it as such, but it never seems to come into general conversation!"
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"Intrigued to know if your friends know you're a swinger or whether it's your dirty little secret?"
My close friends know but the associates don't need to know. It's none of their business and I don't ask them about their personal life either |
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"Intrigued to know if your friends know you're a swinger or whether it's your dirty little secret?"
Yes my friends know I am a swinger. Its not a dirty little secret... my family and my children know too.
I don't give details... just that I choose this lifestyle |
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"Yeah my friends live vicariously through me, I’m the token single girl with a wild sex life apparently. I don’t like to tell them I spend most weekends in my Star Wars pyjamas eating pizza. "
That sounds kind of perfect though x |
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A few have or believe they have some knowledge or awareness of my involvement what they’d probably be thinking are tv/movie style threesomes but that’s about it. I’d be confident in saying they wouldn’t know I’m in the scene. They’re all extremely vanilla I and wouldn’t be surprised to discover that most of them neither know a scene exists nor have even considered the concept of there being such a thing in existence lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of my guy friends know but the girls don’t - they would be horrified, shocked, perplexed etc etc - and worried about my safety! I’m not ashamed of it at all but just don’t think they would understand, and can’t be bothered explaining and justifying.
Guys are more ok with it it seems. But then again I’ve made a few of my good guy friends on here hahaha, it’s how I met them in the first place! |
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"A few have or believe they have some knowledge or awareness of my involvement what they’d probably be thinking are tv/movie style threesomes but that’s about it. I’d be confident in saying they wouldn’t know I’m in the scene. They’re all extremely vanilla I and wouldn’t be surprised to discover that most of them neither know a scene exists nor have even considered the concept of there being such a thing in existence lol "
Hahaha exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some of the male friends do but they don’t know about the site. Few females do, one asked her hubby about it and he wasn’t happy, she had to leave work lol |
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"Intrigued to know if your friends know you're a swinger or whether it's your dirty little secret?"
Nope, I’m not interested in knowing there’s unless they come to me and ask to chat about something bothering them and like wise I have no interest in publicising private stuff to any old person, which it will as they’ll then talk to others about etc and before you know it people who’ve never meet you know etc  |
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A couple of close friends know, they we're very surprised but are intrigued, my dad knows too that one was an accident he tried to join a social media group aimed towards the lifestyle and he noticed we we're both admin that was slightly awkward but he's a chilled out bloke and didn't care, just the usual look after yourself speach.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yup, but mostly all my friends are swingers!. When I had work colleagues that I used to go out with, they all knew but since I changed jobs a month ago, even if I become close with any of my colleagues (highly doubtful) I will not tell any of them as my old work colleagues just found me fascinating and always topic of conversation so I'd rather keep that side of my life private.
Danish x |
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"A couple of close friends know, they we're very surprised but are intrigued, my dad knows too that one was an accident he tried to join a social media group aimed towards the lifestyle and he noticed we we're both admin that was slightly awkward but he's a chilled out bloke and didn't care, just the usual look after yourself speach.
Mrs "
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