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I was out walking last week and fairly certain I saw a sexy lady had chatted to on cam. She had same figure and also a tattoo I had seen. Also she was was walking a spaniel dog. She had told me on last chat she had to take her dog out and I had asked her what type. I am almost 99% sure it was her but missed my chance as did not think quickly. I now can’t stop thinking about her and what might have missed.
It has worked sometimes as saw a lady reading fab messages on her phone at breakfast in a hotel - she had all those yellow box messages so clear what she doing! That one led to some fun.
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It comes and goes I guess
I was shopping the other day and noticed a guy looking at me... Turns out he is on Fab and I responded to the status he posted about seeing someone off the site minutes after seeing me....thought 'no way he means me' so I messaged asking him, turns out it was him, and he did mean me!!
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Happens alot! First few times was strange now it's just what happens!on holiday down in Cornwall on the Isle of wight at work out on my bike! At least once a week! Most don't approach me (some have) but get a message saying when/where they saw me! But I do update my pics with face almost daily so it's to b expected x |
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"I would be mortified if a man approached me whilst I was walking the dog alone. What happens on the site, stays on the site, unless private arrangements have been made. "
 It's creepy as hell! |
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"I would be mortified if a man approached me whilst I was walking the dog alone. What happens on the site, stays on the site, unless private arrangements have been made.
It's creepy as hell!"
Yes can imagine can be scary. Never my intention to cause any upset or alarm. Is there any way to avoid though. It was just a coincidence I saw her. She was very keen on chat as well |
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"Happens alot! First few times was strange now it's just what happens!on holiday down in Cornwall on the Isle of wight at work out on my bike! At least once a week! Most don't approach me (some have) but get a message saying when/where they saw me! But I do update my pics with face almost daily so it's to b expected x"
I will have to look out for you and say hello if I may do so. Xxx |
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"It comes and goes I guess
I was shopping the other day and noticed a guy looking at me... Turns out he is on Fab and I responded to the status he posted about seeing someone off the site minutes after seeing me....thought 'no way he means me' so I messaged asking him, turns out it was him, and he did mean me!!
We are meeting for coffee in the week "
I hope the meet goes well for you and have fun xxx |
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"I would be mortified if a man approached me whilst I was walking the dog alone. What happens on the site, stays on the site, unless private arrangements have been made.
It's creepy as hell!
Yes can imagine can be scary. Never my intention to cause any upset or alarm. Is there any way to avoid though. It was just a coincidence I saw her. She was very keen on chat as well"
Message and ask if she'd like to meet. The women who are ok being approached in public are the minority on here. Also you say you're 99% sure...if you were wrong, what then? |
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"I would be mortified if a man approached me whilst I was walking the dog alone. What happens on the site, stays on the site, unless private arrangements have been made.
It's creepy as hell!
Yes can imagine can be scary. Never my intention to cause any upset or alarm. Is there any way to avoid though. It was just a coincidence I saw her. She was very keen on chat as well
Message and ask if she'd like to meet. The women who are ok being approached in public are the minority on here. Also you say you're 99% sure...if you were wrong, what then?"
Good point and would not like to cause offence if I got it wrong with her. Will message her I think. Thank you |
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"I would be mortified if a man approached me whilst I was walking the dog alone. What happens on the site, stays on the site, unless private arrangements have been made.
It's creepy as hell!
Yes can imagine can be scary. Never my intention to cause any upset or alarm. Is there any way to avoid though. It was just a coincidence I saw her. She was very keen on chat as well
Message and ask if she'd like to meet. The women who are ok being approached in public are the minority on here. Also you say you're 99% sure...if you were wrong, what then?
Good point and would not like to cause offence if I got it wrong with her. Will message her I think. Thank you"
I used to work in a shop and chatted with a man every Saturday who had special needs. I often saw him outside of work and he explained to me that he wouldn't talk to me because his mum had explained to him that women didn't have to know him in the street. His mum gave him good advice. |
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"I would be mortified if a man approached me whilst I was walking the dog alone. What happens on the site, stays on the site, unless private arrangements have been made.
It's creepy as hell!
Yes can imagine can be scary. Never my intention to cause any upset or alarm. Is there any way to avoid though. It was just a coincidence I saw her. She was very keen on chat as well
Message and ask if she'd like to meet. The women who are ok being approached in public are the minority on here. Also you say you're 99% sure...if you were wrong, what then?
Good point and would not like to cause offence if I got it wrong with her. Will message her I think. Thank you
I used to work in a shop and chatted with a man every Saturday who had special needs. I often saw him outside of work and he explained to me that he wouldn't talk to me because his mum had explained to him that women didn't have to know him in the street. His mum gave him good advice. "
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"Anyone who approached me out and about would get short shrift.
I think the ‘were you at so and so this afternoon?’ message has to be carefully handled too because it mostly comes off as creepy. "
It does seem this is a difficult issue. I will think very carefully as my priority is not to cause offence or any anxiety. Thanks all |
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"Anyone who approached me out and about would get short shrift.
I think the ‘were you at so and so this afternoon?’ message has to be carefully handled too because it mostly comes off as creepy.
It does seem this is a difficult issue. I will think very carefully as my priority is not to cause offence or any anxiety. Thanks all"
Your best bet by a long chalk is to message without reference to having seen her. It doesn't need to be difficult.  |
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"Anyone who approached me out and about would get short shrift.
I think the ‘were you at so and so this afternoon?’ message has to be carefully handled too because it mostly comes off as creepy.
It does seem this is a difficult issue. I will think very carefully as my priority is not to cause offence or any anxiety. Thanks all
Your best bet by a long chalk is to message without reference to having seen her. It doesn't need to be difficult. "
That’s the good thing about here as can talk through. There are some lovely people on here. Some not but you are all so kind |
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