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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago
Baildon,West Yorkshire |
Hey,I had a meet with a guy this morning,left me feeling unsatisfied!!….he’s desperate for a verification,and I really don’t want to give him one,he’s being pushy and quite intimidating with his request,threatening to report me if I don’t give him one today….thoughts? |
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By *hy_bbw24Woman
over a year ago
Buckinghamshire |
You can't be forced to leave a verification, that's ultimately your own decision x
In the past if 'things' weren't satisfying or to my liking I have written a neutral verification; "genuine, turned up when expected, is who he says he is" kind of thing xx |
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"You can't be forced to leave a verification, that's ultimately your own decision x
In the past if 'things' weren't satisfying or to my liking I have written a neutral verification; "genuine, turned up when expected, is who he says he is" kind of thing xx"
If he's being pushy and threatening I wouldn't leave him any kind of verification. He can hide the negative words and just show that he was verified recently with no context. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can't be forced to leave a verification, that's ultimately your own decision x
In the past if 'things' weren't satisfying or to my liking I have written a neutral verification; "genuine, turned up when expected, is who he says he is" kind of thing xx
If he's being pushy and threatening I wouldn't leave him any kind of verification. He can hide the negative words and just show that he was verified recently with no context."
If he is 'straight' then 20 verifications from random guys should royally fuck his account, not that you can do that though as its against fab rules.  |
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By *jphotMan
over a year ago
Stourbridge |
"Hey,I had a meet with a guy this morning,left me feeling unsatisfied!!….he’s desperate for a verification,and I really don’t want to give him one,he’s being pushy and quite intimidating with his request,threatening to report me if I don’t give him one today….thoughts?"
I think it would have been fine to leave a verification saying 'yeah met this guy he is a real person' enough said. But as soon as someone starts to be pushy or worse in this case block and report. You did the right thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey,I had a meet with a guy this morning,….."
How do we know you did? ….
But seriously. That’s my point isn’t it. Just don’t leave him one.
But we’re only getting your side of the story.
Block him and move on.  |
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The problem is that he will most likely use the verification to attract more victims - I mean women and no one deserves to be left unsatisfied or feeling intimidated, stressed or pestered.
You owe him nothing OP.
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"Could just tell the truth and leave a veri he was a shit shag
Yes, but as _reytothefairies said, he would then show as verified, and he can withold displaying the verification message."
Could do that but if someone asked to see it then he'd be screwed but not the way he wanted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Name and shame the account, for educational purposes of course, I'd like to pre block him.
Don't you will go on the naughty step that IS against forum rules."
Write his username with each letter one ahead in the alphabet, so mark would he nbsl, a very low-level code, but would mean the rule hasn't been broken. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey,I had a meet with a guy this morning,left me feeling unsatisfied!!….he’s desperate for a verification,and I really don’t want to give him one,he’s being pushy and quite intimidating with his request,threatening to report me if I don’t give him one today….thoughts?"
Did you meet at yours? |
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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago
Baildon,West Yorkshire |
"Hey,I had a meet with a guy this morning,…..
How do we know you did? ….
But seriously. That’s my point isn’t it. Just don’t leave him one.
But we’re only getting your side of the story.
Block him and move on. "
I have! |
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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago
Baildon,West Yorkshire |
"The problem is that he will most likely use the verification to attract more victims - I mean women and no one deserves to be left unsatisfied or feeling intimidated, stressed or pestered.
You owe him nothing OP.
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Thankyou x |
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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago
Baildon,West Yorkshire |
"The problem is that he will most likely use the verification to attract more victims - I mean women and no one deserves to be left unsatisfied or feeling intimidated, stressed or pestered.
You owe him nothing OP.
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Thankyou x |
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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago
Baildon,West Yorkshire |
"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.
It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.
Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level."
Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though |
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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago
Baildon,West Yorkshire |
"Hey,I had a meet with a guy this morning,left me feeling unsatisfied!!….he’s desperate for a verification,and I really don’t want to give him one,he’s being pushy and quite intimidating with his request,threatening to report me if I don’t give him one today….thoughts?
Did you meet at yours? "
Yes,rather stupidly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.
It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.
Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.
Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though "
Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you. |
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"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.
It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.
Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.
Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though
Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you. "
Because of his demands and threats if she didn't give him a verification. |
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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago
Baildon,West Yorkshire |
"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.
It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.
Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.
Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though
Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you. "
Slagging him off??…What??
The man was pushy,and intimidating in demanding a verification,slagging him off,Wow |
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"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.
It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.
Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.
Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though
Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you. "
I think it's the fact that she's feeling pushed and intimidated that she's done this post. Not the fact that the sex wasn't great. That's how we are reading it anyway. |
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By *icole 123 OP Woman
over a year ago
Baildon,West Yorkshire |
"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.
It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.
Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.
Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of
women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though
Why are you slagging him off on the forums
? Perhaps he thought the same of you. "
Judging by your profile,I’d be very wary of you too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.
It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.
Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.
Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of
women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though
Why are you slagging him off on the forums
? Perhaps he thought the same of you.
Judging by your profile,I’d be very wary of you too "
Did I ask for your review of my profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.
It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.
Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.
Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though
Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you.
Because of his demands and threats if she didn't give him a verification."
Agree about that aspect. However repeatedly bitching about his sex skills is against site rules.
Hey ho she's a woman so it's ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would it be his first verification, as he’s so desperate to receive one? Don’t do it.
It will show he’s been verified and he won’t display it.
Sorry to hear that OP, that’s not ok on every level.
Yes it would have been his first,even though he rather cockily claimed to have made plenty of women gush!!!!….nothing to show for it though
Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you.
Slagging him off??…What??
The man was pushy,and intimidating in demanding a verification,slagging him off,Wow "
This is still just your side of the story.
It might have happened.
But, if he came in here and got HIS side of the story in first, that might NOT be true. …?
You’re a woman, you’re doing okay.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why are you slagging him off on the forums? Perhaps he thought the same of you.
Slagging him off??…What??
The man was pushy,and intimidating in demanding a verification,slagging him off,Wow
This is still just your side of the story.
It might have happened.
But, if he came in here and got HIS side of the story in first, that might NOT be true. …?
You’re a woman, you’re doing okay.
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Just to clarify, there’s a lot of asshats out there. I know! And there’s nothing right about that, and they should be stopped.
But my point stands about posting this stuff here.
Everyone is just taking the word of a poster.
He could be back next week with a different story.  |
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"You can't be forced to leave a verification, that's ultimately your own decision x
In the past if 'things' weren't satisfying or to my liking I have written a neutral verification; "genuine, turned up when expected, is who he says he is" kind of thing xx"
Exactly. Isn't the idea that a verification, first and foremost, is to indicate that a profile was genuine, not that they're a sex god.
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"You can't be forced to leave a verification, that's ultimately your own decision x
In the past if 'things' weren't satisfying or to my liking I have written a neutral verification; "genuine, turned up when expected, is who he says he is" kind of thing xx
Exactly. Isn't the idea that a verification, first and foremost, is to indicate that a profile was genuine, not that they're a sex god.
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Of course, I don't have any, so what do I know  |
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"Hey,I had a meet with a guy this morning,left me feeling unsatisfied!!….he’s desperate for a verification,and I really don’t want to give him one,he’s being pushy and quite intimidating with his request,threatening to report me if I don’t give him one today….thoughts?"
Had you not already blocked/reported I would have said leave a truthful one. |
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