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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So we all fancy the pants off each other, that’s a given.
But are there any members that you see on here that you think “omg, we would be best friends”?
Sometimes it’s difficult as an adult to make those friendships, getting the courage to message someone asking to be their friend. Take this thread as an opportunity to spill all your friend crushes, and make some new ones  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not spilling any crushes, but definitely a number of people from Fab who are good friends and I do not feel the urge to jump in to bed with. Some we natter away on wats app, one I meet for a drink and a meal whenever I go to Cornwall, another I meet for waffles in a cafe in High Barnet - some people on Fab are alright.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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GeordieJeans. He’s my People.
You Demi also. I think you get a lot of my references.
JoystickMCR used to get my references a lot too. And TimberSwindler .
Genuinely very few people in the forums I feel like I could genuinely be my preferred self around and they get Me. It’s not that deep but I know why. |
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There are people on here that I think are fucking wonderful and I'd love to spend actual in person time with them, possibly sexual but mostly just because I think they're awesome.
I'm not great at being forward in these situations, but I think I’ve got my point across to them |
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I’ve made a genuine friend with a really lovely AND stunningly attractive lady. She has a sarcastic sense of humour, can be totally balmy but has proven herself to be a great confidante.
Kudos to her! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a few people who I read and think we could be friends as we think alike or have similar humour.
Its not always about the sex, even with the people you do have sex with. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Not best friends, no. There are a few posters where I think gosh, we're quite similar it'd be great to talk to them. Hope I get the opportunity to do so soon.
I actually used the term "platonic crush" yesterday to describe someone's well... platonic crush on me. He adores me. It's delightful. I always thought they were too witty and sharp to pay much attention to me but now they're one of my very good friends from here.
I've felt that way about a few people here. Now I get their voices and words on my screen on a frequent basis. Sometimes it's good to just shoot your shot. Say fuck it and talk to people who you think might be on your level. |
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"There are people on here that I think are fucking wonderful and I'd love to spend actual in person time with them, possibly sexual but mostly just because I think they're awesome.
I'm not great at being forward in these situations, but I think I’ve got my point across to them "
Same here.
(It’s you Prey. I mean you.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting thread.
I have a practice, the people who I meet through this world, if I couldn’t be friends with them then I won’t sleep with them.
Quite simple really, if I don’t want your company of lunch or dinner and putting the worlds to rights, whatever makes me think I’m going to sleep with them.
Communication and humour and the ability to actually converse and connect are vital, otherwise all your chase is muscle spasms without any cerebral connection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There’s probably 3 people on here who I think I’d vibe with humour wise. And that’s quite a lot for me!"
Hope you don't include me in that. I only laughed at your jokes because you had my balls in a vice like grip  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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There are people on here I "like" I get on well with, humour and personality in this setting we mesh well. I don't think I'd get on quite the same with them away from here. Likely too many different none fab interests.
There are very few I feel I'd even converse with away from here.
Generally if I feel we would get on as "Friends" I will likely be asking to chat off of fab to allow the vibe to last beyond an Unlos - sex stuff not even a factor. This would go for men and women. |
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I've made a few friends sure.
Best friends as in we are basically like family. Key to my door, let yourself in at 3am and make yourself a coffee. I'll come down and chat with you till Maccies opens and we get a brekkie? Sitting off in a car in the rain for hours. Wandering around in our own little bubble as if the rest of the world doesn't exist?
There's a bit more to that than just appreciating someone's humour or personality online for me. Comes from spending time together.
Part of me thinks that world has faded a little since the smart phone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a few on here that I think they would be cool to meet. But I haven't been talking to many for that long to want to feel comfortable meeting yet.
On another site, I do have many that I'd love to meet. I've been talking to them for a while, we have fun, they help when I have stupid questions I want to ask and they are always honest to me and tell me how it is. But that has taken time and I've built up trust in them and what they are saying is not just bollocks to get me in bed |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"So we all fancy the pants off each other, that’s a given.
But are there any members that you see on here that you think “omg, we would be best friends”?
Sometimes it’s difficult as an adult to make those friendships, getting the courage to message someone asking to be their friend. Take this thread as an opportunity to spill all your friend crushes, and make some new ones "
I won't name people. I have seen people online that by observing their comments and they way they come across, am fairly certain that if we got to know each other could become good friends. |
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That is very nice OP!!! Well done
But the problem is and I’m not putting a downer on anything, but I am on my own on fab, which means I will just be lost amongst all the other males
But saying that I have made a few friends we have a laugh and it’s great fun |
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"I won't name people. I have seen people online that by observing their comments and they way they come across, am fairly certain that if we got to know each other could become good friends."
This for me too. Some people here are fucking amazing. |
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There are people on here I like and would sit and have a natter with.
Best of friends with, probably not. I don't have many and the ones I have I've known for years and I treasure them beyond words. I don't think I'll find that here, but I'm not opposed to it either I suppose. |
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I’ve have met some people on here who have become true friends, we don’t even consider each other as fab friends now.
I don’t think you see enough of peoples true self in the forums to be able tell if they are someone I could be friends with. It would take one to one conversations for me to know that.
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