"Never regret, these things happen for a reason  "
True I don’t have regrets but like looking back I went on a 3 day weekend with a swingers Kik group. I didn’t play just enjoyed a relaxing time but I had an opportunity to play with a lovely lady that I was really into but didn’t haha. I just wish I did or invite her into the shower with me |
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over a year ago
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I try not and have regrets, what's the point in mulling over something that could have happened, whatever happened and you can't change it now so I tend to learn from them, although sometimes I think I confuse regrets with mistakes if that makes sense? They are quite similar...for example:
I decide to go out in the car, for no real reason, I fancy just going for a drive, while I'm out a deer accidently runs out if no where into the side of my car, knocking my sensor out of place (said deer is fine and ran off, I had no chance to miss it) and now I'm left with a beeping noise everytime I slow down"
Now you see my dilemma: mistake going out or regret going out? If I didn't go out, my car would have been fine. So in that instance I regret my mistake of going out!!
For the record, said outting did happen and the deer was absolutely fine, I was a little shaken and I have learned that no matter how slow I am going round the lanes, they can still charge out the bushes
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"So just curious what people’s regrets of like a missed opportunity for a play meet or something else"
Regret serves me no purpose, so I dont see things as regrets. Just as things that were not meant to be in life, and weren't ever destined for me |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
Fairytale Wood |
Don't belive many cannot have regrets, like many things, they define you as a person.
There is a difference though is letting regrets control you, undermine you, consume you.
I have regrets, one of my bigest is hurting someone who was there for me when nobody else was, through my own foolishness. Need to grow from that regret and not let it consume me.  |
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By *assy69Man
over a year ago
West Sussex and Wales |
"So just curious what people’s regrets of like a missed opportunity for a play meet or something else"
I have regrets…… regret not learning Latin, regret not learning ballet or to play an instrument …….. but generally no, no regrets, things happen for a reason, these things shape is, strengthen us and make us the people that we are |
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There is one that me and my partner have as a regret, we met this lovely couple in the club way back last year and they seemed ok but we were more into her than him and we wished that we actually took her upstairs. Unfortunately that couple isn’t together anymore and from what we heard she went into the vanilla life |
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The last time I was in Torture Garden - before covid - a really beautiful man came up and told me red suited me (I was just wearing a red fish net body), I thanked him and held my bf’s hand. I really regret I didn’t pursue anything with the stranger, I don’t know why but that one moment haunts me |
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