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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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They must be. Another wake up to not a single FAF.
It is a sex site isnt it? Are people letting their own standards, preferences and rights to have the final say about their own bodies take over? What about MY right to have all the sex?
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I am, after all, entitled.
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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"They must be. Another wake up to not a single FAF.
It is a sex site isnt it? Are people letting their own standards, preferences and rights to have the final say about their own bodies take over? What about MY right to have all the sex?
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I am, after all, entitled.
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You HAVE looked in a mirror, haven't you? Or do you keep all yours covered with sheets?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They must be. Another wake up to not a single FAF.
It is a sex site isnt it? Are people letting their own standards, preferences and rights to have the final say about their own bodies take over? What about MY right to have all the sex?
.
I am, after all, entitled.
You HAVE looked in a mirror, haven't you? Or do you keep all yours covered with sheets? "
Why should it be about how I look?
Thats just being picky
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get that sweet arse up north and you can have all the sex 
See?
Precisely my point.
Why should I do the traveling?
pfffft
Drop the entitlement and meet half way "
But I am entitled |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We need to see what's behind the remote! Show us that and I'm sure you will be flooded!  "
But that's requires me to put some effort in, you are just too picky! |
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"They must be. Another wake up to not a single FAF.
It is a sex site isnt it? Are people letting their own standards, preferences and rights to have the final say about their own bodies take over? What about MY right to have all the sex?
.
I am, after all, entitled.
You HAVE looked in a mirror, haven't you? Or do you keep all yours covered with sheets? "
Ouch cat fight? |
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In the words of Bo Burnham.
If you want love then you should lower your expectations.
I am incredibly picky. There's not even a discernable set of criteria. No specific looks or personality. Just a: if it's there it's there.
Some it vexes, with others it's respected. I get frustrated with it myself, at times. I get talking to someone and I really wish that I wanted to, they may be an absolute delight.
It's just how I am. Demi-sexual is the word apparently. |
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"In the words of Bo Burnham.
If you want love then you should lower your expectations.
I am incredibly picky. There's not even a discernable set of criteria. No specific looks or personality. Just a: if it's there it's there.
Some it vexes, with others it's respected. I get frustrated with it myself, at times. I get talking to someone and I really wish that I wanted to, they may be an absolute delight.
It's just how I am. Demi-sexual is the word apparently."
I totally get this. I just googled that and yep that’s me too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In the words of Bo Burnham.
If you want love then you should lower your expectations.
I am incredibly picky. There's not even a discernable set of criteria. No specific looks or personality. Just a: if it's there it's there.
Some it vexes, with others it's respected. I get frustrated with it myself, at times. I get talking to someone and I really wish that I wanted to, they may be an absolute delight.
It's just how I am. Demi-sexual is the word apparently."
I knew it |
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"In the words of Bo Burnham.
If you want love then you should lower your expectations.
I am incredibly picky. There's not even a discernable set of criteria. No specific looks or personality. Just a: if it's there it's there.
Some it vexes, with others it's respected. I get frustrated with it myself, at times. I get talking to someone and I really wish that I wanted to, they may be an absolute delight.
It's just how I am. Demi-sexual is the word apparently.
I totally get this. I just googled that and yep that’s me too. "
Swiper no swiping! x
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve heard sex is overrated …. I might try it myself one day  "
I have gotten to the “sex or hot chocolate?” phase of my swinging journey… and now I actually think about which! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"In the words of Bo Burnham.
If you want love then you should lower your expectations.
I am incredibly picky. There's not even a discernable set of criteria. No specific looks or personality. Just a: if it's there it's there.
Some it vexes, with others it's respected. I get frustrated with it myself, at times. I get talking to someone and I really wish that I wanted to, they may be an absolute delight.
It's just how I am. Demi-sexual is the word apparently.
I totally get this. I just googled that and yep that’s me too.
Swiper no swiping! x
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See, I was told I wasn't demi-sexual because I don't need to have deep feelings of love before I have sex with someone. Just friendship. A connection but not a mahoosive one.
What you've typed resonates with me - it's not about looks etc. Without it, I don't feel sexual desire for a person. I can think they're attractive but not want to have sex with them.
For me, that's not being picky. It's just being true to myself. After years of thinking I was weird for the way I am, it's nice to feel a bit less weird. Well I'm still weird but there are others who understand it. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"In the words of Bo Burnham.
If you want love then you should lower your expectations.
I am incredibly picky. There's not even a discernable set of criteria. No specific looks or personality. Just a: if it's there it's there.
Some it vexes, with others it's respected. I get frustrated with it myself, at times. I get talking to someone and I really wish that I wanted to, they may be an absolute delight.
It's just how I am. Demi-sexual is the word apparently.
I totally get this. I just googled that and yep that’s me too.
Swiper no swiping! x
See, I was told I wasn't demi-sexual because I don't need to have deep feelings of love before I have sex with someone. Just friendship. A connection but not a mahoosive one.
What you've typed resonates with me - it's not about looks etc. Without it, I don't feel sexual desire for a person. I can think they're attractive but not want to have sex with them.
For me, that's not being picky. It's just being true to myself. After years of thinking I was weird for the way I am, it's nice to feel a bit less weird. Well I'm still weird but there are others who understand it."
It is a spectrum and an overlap as far as I'm concerned. I don't give a fuck with what a rigid definition tells I am or I'm not. I fall in to an overlapping area when it comes to these sexuality labels. I'm too much of x so I can't be Y but I'm too much Y so I can't be z but I'm too much of z so I can't be x.
But based on the labels alone there isn't a thing that exists which is xyz! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"In the words of Bo Burnham.
If you want love then you should lower your expectations.
I am incredibly picky. There's not even a discernable set of criteria. No specific looks or personality. Just a: if it's there it's there.
Some it vexes, with others it's respected. I get frustrated with it myself, at times. I get talking to someone and I really wish that I wanted to, they may be an absolute delight.
It's just how I am. Demi-sexual is the word apparently.
I totally get this. I just googled that and yep that’s me too.
Swiper no swiping! x
See, I was told I wasn't demi-sexual because I don't need to have deep feelings of love before I have sex with someone. Just friendship. A connection but not a mahoosive one.
What you've typed resonates with me - it's not about looks etc. Without it, I don't feel sexual desire for a person. I can think they're attractive but not want to have sex with them.
For me, that's not being picky. It's just being true to myself. After years of thinking I was weird for the way I am, it's nice to feel a bit less weird. Well I'm still weird but there are others who understand it.
It is a spectrum and an overlap as far as I'm concerned. I don't give a fuck with what a rigid definition tells I am or I'm not. I fall in to an overlapping area when it comes to these sexuality labels. I'm too much of x so I can't be Y but I'm too much Y so I can't be z but I'm too much of z so I can't be x.
But based on the labels alone there isn't a thing that exists which is xyz! "
Ha! Oh Kai. Yes. I get it. I don't know if you have to fit a narrow definition of a label to be that way. I think the majority of things (well where sexuality is concerned) are on a spectrum.
My main thing? It's just nice talking to people who get it. It makes you feel a bit less alone. A bit less like you're weird. Demanding even.
That connection for me can vanish so sexual attraction isn't there. Or it can be strengthened and grow. I still don't think I'm fussy. |
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"In the words of Bo Burnham.
If you want love then you should lower your expectations.
I am incredibly picky. There's not even a discernable set of criteria. No specific looks or personality. Just a: if it's there it's there.
Some it vexes, with others it's respected. I get frustrated with it myself, at times. I get talking to someone and I really wish that I wanted to, they may be an absolute delight.
It's just how I am. Demi-sexual is the word apparently.
I totally get this. I just googled that and yep that’s me too.
Swiper no swiping! x
See, I was told I wasn't demi-sexual because I don't need to have deep feelings of love before I have sex with someone. Just friendship. A connection but not a mahoosive one.
What you've typed resonates with me - it's not about looks etc. Without it, I don't feel sexual desire for a person. I can think they're attractive but not want to have sex with them.
For me, that's not being picky. It's just being true to myself. After years of thinking I was weird for the way I am, it's nice to feel a bit less weird. Well I'm still weird but there are others who understand it."
Ironic, I just answered a post, which seemed to take issue with word picky. I don't see an issue with accepting that I'm picky - I suppose I could be framing the behaviour from the 'other' perspective rather than the self perhaps. But then I don't really mind if people view me as picky either so that doesn't seem likely.
I agree though it is about being true to yourself and in that spirit every label, under enough scrutiny is likely to become inadequate?
Odd creatures aren't we, when we feel understood it feels nice? It's almost as if we are all just chimps who need a hug or something. |
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"In the words of Bo Burnham.
If you want love then you should lower your expectations.
I am incredibly picky. There's not even a discernable set of criteria. No specific looks or personality. Just a: if it's there it's there.
Some it vexes, with others it's respected. I get frustrated with it myself, at times. I get talking to someone and I really wish that I wanted to, they may be an absolute delight.
It's just how I am. Demi-sexual is the word apparently.
I knew it"
You knew I was or you knew the word or both? |
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By *ndisMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"We need to see what's behind the remote! Show us that and I'm sure you will be flooded!
But that's requires me to put some effort in, you are just too picky! "
Maybe! But let's have a look please?  |
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"They must be. Another wake up to not a single FAF.
It is a sex site isnt it? Are people letting their own standards, preferences and rights to have the final say about their own bodies take over? What about MY right to have all the sex?
.
I am, after all, entitled.
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Just because you got new hair do don't get all demanding |
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