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I've been thinking, bear with me. See the whole fab double standards thing? As in, men get slagged off for existing, women are awesome goddesses even if they kick puppies? How about... We just don't do that? Cos us, the people on fab, are the ones who make it happen 
Men could try not flattering women cos they have their pretty bums out. Women could try not rolling their eyes. We could just speak to each other like people rather than pieces of meat? I don't mean everyone has to be nicey nice. Just cut through the shit.
Who's with me?!
P.S. I'm aware this is pie in the sky. But I like pie.
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For this to happen we need the below 2 things.
1. Men not to fawn over every female going. Never gonna happe.
2. Women not to be total bitches. I'm out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For this to happen we need the below 2 things.
1. Men not to fawn over every female going. Never gonna happe.
2. Women not to be total bitches. I'm out.
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Thank fuck that bitch is out of here. I might get to actually have sex with a few of the guys here rather than just sharing horror stories.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
I don't do that! You are all fair game for me to be brutal or sweet to. My focus is solely on the situation that is presented to me, not the person - I will make adjustments but none is based upon sex/gender/a fine bair of boobs. |
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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago
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Bill Bryson wrote about dogs so small you want to kick them. Not because you have anything in the slightest against the dog, simply out of pure intellectual curiosity as to how far you could kick them.
Realise I may not be squarely addressing the central point of the thread. |
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"Bill Bryson wrote about dogs so small you want to kick them. Not because you have anything in the slightest against the dog, simply out of pure intellectual curiosity as to how far you could kick them.
Realise I may not be squarely addressing the central point of the thread."
It's worth a punt  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"All the women above are pricks and all the men below can’t fuck off. Am I doing this right?
Can**
I’m clearly not doing this right  "
Prob should get your wife to do it for you. Fucking failure.
Then when she fails she won't be a fucking failure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the women above are pricks and all the men below can’t fuck off. Am I doing this right?
Can**
I’m clearly not doing this right
Prob should get your wife to do it for you. Fucking failure.
Then when she fails she won't be a fucking failure "
She posted once on the forums. Never again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For this to happen we need the below 2 things.
1. Men not to fawn over every female going. Never gonna happe.
2. Women not to be total bitches. I'm out.
Thank fuck that bitch is out of here. I might get to actually have sex with a few of the guys here rather than just sharing horror stories.
F"
Well if you stop having sex with them they wouldn't have the horror stories. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the women above are pricks and all the men below can’t fuck off. Am I doing this right?
Can**
I’m clearly not doing this right
He's cancelled "
I agree because you have sort of alright boobs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the women above are pricks and all the men below can’t fuck off. Am I doing this right?
Can**
I’m clearly not doing this right
He's cancelled
I agree because you have sort of alright boobs."
Have you been drinking?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the women above are pricks and all the men below can’t fuck off. Am I doing this right?
Can**
I’m clearly not doing this right
He's cancelled
I agree because you have sort of alright boobs.
Have you been drinking??"
I’m still poorly. I’m not thinking straight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive never kicked a puppy in my life. Sheep on the other hand i lost a beautiful shoe up ones ass.
Im nice to everyone. I love all the people. You and you and you and you. Mwah. Mwah. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the women above are pricks and all the men below can’t fuck off. Am I doing this right?
Can**
I’m clearly not doing this right
He's cancelled
I agree because you have sort of alright boobs.
Have you been drinking??
I’m still poorly. I’m not thinking straight."
I was worried for a second. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"All the women above are pricks and all the men below can’t fuck off. Am I doing this right?
Can**
I’m clearly not doing this right
He's cancelled
I agree because you have sort of alright boobs.
Have you been drinking??
I’m still poorly. I’m not thinking straight."
Got a cold? Because you didn't wear a scarf |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the women above are pricks and all the men below can’t fuck off. Am I doing this right?
Can**
I’m clearly not doing this right
He's cancelled
I agree because you have sort of alright boobs.
Have you been drinking??
I’m still poorly. I’m not thinking straight.
Got a cold? Because you didn't wear a scarf"
Why did I read that to the tune of we buy any car? |
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"I've been thinking, bear with me. See the whole fab double standards thing? As in, men get slagged off for existing, women are awesome goddesses even if they kick puppies? How about... We just don't do that? Cos us, the people on fab, are the ones who make it happen
Men could try not flattering women cos they have their pretty bums out. Women could try not rolling their eyes. We could just speak to each other like people rather than pieces of meat? I don't mean everyone has to be nicey nice. Just cut through the shit.
Who's with me?!
P.S. I'm aware this is pie in the sky. But I like pie.
Mrs TMN x"
Gets my vote |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...bear ...puppies ...bums ...meat ...shit ...pie "
This is an interesting thread, but shouldn't the shit come after the pie, or are you making room for the pie?
(*I don't fancy kicking a bear, and the last person who tried to kick my dog was made well aware what might happen to them if they connected). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Somebody mentioned cake....what kinda cake we talking about? no nobody mentioned cake..Jaffa cakes maybe "
Now I'm not going to get into the cake/biscuits debate with a mysterious stranger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Somebody mentioned cake....what kinda cake we talking about? no nobody mentioned cake..Jaffa cakes maybe
Now I'm not going to get into the cake/biscuits debate with a mysterious stranger"
ohh..ok carrot cake then |
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"I like the idea, OP.
I avoid all puppy kickers anyway, including their bums. But if I like your bum, I might still tell you - is that allowed? me I like your bum, is that allowed?"
Em, you're going to get me in trouble for breaking the OP's rules - but I like your bum. A lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love the optimism OP, but a lot of people will say stuff to suit their own agenda and further themselves as they see this place as a competition (which I get) and would happily chop and change their opinions accordingly.
Oh, and a slice of cherry pie would go down a treat right now  |
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Men could try not flattering women cos they have their pretty bums out. Women could try not rolling their eyes. We could just speak to each other like people rather than pieces of meat? I don't mean everyone has to be nicey nice. Just cut through the shit.
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I think this is an interesting topic - when you say flattering, do you mean physical features only (aka piece of meat) or in general? Because it's a shame how genuine compliments (not necessarily physical) are taken to be insincere on here - speaking as someone who's not a fab vet. I like expressing attraction with words, especially because I'm not as good as doing that with touch/IRL, but that doesn't mean I don't care about the person. In fact, my favourite conversations on here haven't involved any sex/dirty talk at all - although I still like to remind people if there's a quality about them I like if it comes up during conversation. For example, if it's a reasoned response on some topic, I could say they're smart, or if they tell me about how they helped someone, I could say they're kind. Yes, sometimes, I could say you look great, etc. but that's because I'm actually thinking it. I like that, and I hope I can continue doing that! |
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Honestly though, I don't really see that many men being over-criticised on here for just being 'men'! At least not all *that* much.
I do see lots of clearly-exaggerated complaints about "x can't even happen" or "men do x and.." It's just not fair etc.
But some men really will moan and moan and moan and moan. About anything. We all know it, it's just a fact. And in today's clime? It's a given, and it appears in almost every thread.
I do see both women and men getting rather 'gushed' on a fair amount (though it can be hard to tell) but that goes with the territory I think. I actually don't come here to flirt or score really - I'm just using Fab and like a good forum every now and again.
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
"For this to happen we need the below 2 things.
1. Men not to fawn over every female going. Never gonna happe.
2. Women not to be total bitches. I'm out."
Honestly? 90% of the battle is done with number 1. Probably don't need number 2... that'd just be bonus cake.
Love the sentiment, though, TC. Your heart's in the right place. |
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If I say I'm with you - would that be because I think you have a pretty bum?
Ok I'm not with you at all, I disagree entirely with everything you said and will ever say.
Christ it's so hard being a man, damned if I do - damned if I don't.
I mean I am pretty sure I just go off the content, but what if people think I am fawning, because she has a nice bum? Did I even look at her ass?
Oh hang on, I don't give a shit. Ahhh peace again, phew close. |
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"I like the idea, OP.
I avoid all puppy kickers anyway, including their bums. But if I like your bum, I might still tell you - is that allowed?"
Umm, of course - don't just be agreeing with everything I say cos you think that, though! |
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"I like the idea, OP.
I avoid all puppy kickers anyway, including their bums. But if I like your bum, I might still tell you - is that allowed?
Umm, of course - don't just be agreeing with everything I say cos you think that, though! "
Of course not, OP. Oh, and cute bum, btw.
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"Oh I'd like that.
Can you imagine, a whole new revolution that began right here on Fab.
Up the revolution! I'll be there with placards. Not a euphemism. "
I've got my green, purple and white sash handy |
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Lol jokes, fully agree 
p.s. what I wouldn’t give for some cherry pie and vanilla ice cream right now 
