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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you watch it? Do you watch it when you’re having sex? What’s your relationship with it? (It’s a bit of a fantasy for me to get Lubed up with a bunch of sexy women and blokes maybe too and have a proper party like brazzers house)
Have you seen one that’s become a fantasy for you? X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have been quite critical of porn in a similar previous post and stand by my views.
Advise people to read The Porn Trap just as an informative book."
Instant gratification is the death of progress. |
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"Yeah I stopped watching porn a few years ago. Not good for the mind or body."
You may have a point. I think I probably always feel a bit better if I don't watch it for a good while. I suppose people could say the pics are these sites are like porn, but of course it's a bit more real and earthy.
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"I watch non agressive porn only! "
-A lot of mainstream porn is getting out of hand (pun not intended) and I tend to look for S&M! It's the Tate approach, it's insane. The female's clear failure to hide her discomfort for the whole act seems to be actually part of the show. It's like the polar opposite to so much of the traditional regular stuff, where believing in the harmony is key!
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I don't watch it often. I think it’s a bit boring, repetitive and I do find it desensitizing at times. I've watched it during sex maybe once or twice... but we quickly decided it wasn't an activity we enjoyed during sex, kind of ruins the moment putting your attention elsewhere. It's overrated. |
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My partner doesn't like the same kind of porn so we don't exchange it. It is wank fodder. Yes wank fodder is my masculine interpretation. Her description is, it helps me sleep. Porn is a personal thing. You will do well to keep it that way. |
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I’ll get really nerdy and will (for about 2-3 weeks) compile playlists my favourite categories (PAWG, Lesbian, Interracial etc)
Add videos to the playlists.
Never watch the videos
Catch myself doing this
Realise it’s not about the videos, just the ‘compiling’
Delete everything.
Not visit the sites for months
Repeat.
Currently I’m on a ‘non-watching’ loop, three months in, with no desire to break this trend…yet.
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"My partner doesn't like the same kind of porn so we don't exchange it. It is wank fodder. Yes wank fodder is my masculine interpretation. Her description is, it helps me sleep. Porn is a personal thing. You will do well to keep it that way."
Video porn doesn’t do a great deal for me initially, literotica is much more horny and more likely to get me in the mood |
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"I’ll get really nerdy and will (for about 2-3 weeks) compile playlists my favourite categories (PAWG, Lesbian, Interracial etc)
Add videos to the playlists.
Never watch the videos
Catch myself doing this
Realise it’s not about the videos, just the ‘compiling’
Delete everything.
Not visit the sites for months
Repeat.
Currently I’m on a ‘non-watching’ loop, three months in, with no desire to break this trend…yet.
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Play No Man's Sky, basically a huge exercise in cataloging and inventory control |
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Its a very occassional event in my world.
Usually more for a laugh at the falseness and highly unlikey exaggerated scenarios.
Only had one partner who enjoyed watching it together, mostly for inspiration for new and crazier ideas to try out. |
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When i was in my teens I watched a load of porn, Not just to get off, but to learn some techniques and get tips on what women loke (yes porn isnt quite like real life, but it isnt too far off).
Now I only watch porn of someone i am chatting with sends me a link, to show memwhat they like, want and are into. Or if i am with a play partner who wants to watch some.
I do believe that watching porn regularly isn't conduitive to good sexual relationships and can often make (men in particular) not put in proper effort to meet women and have a proper sexual relationship.
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"I’ll get really nerdy and will (for about 2-3 weeks) compile playlists my favourite categories (PAWG, Lesbian, Interracial etc)
Add videos to the playlists.
Never watch the videos
Catch myself doing this
Realise it’s not about the videos, just the ‘compiling’
Delete everything.
Not visit the sites for months
Repeat.
Currently I’m on a ‘non-watching’ loop, three months in, with no desire to break this trend…yet.
Play No Man's Sky, basically a huge exercise in cataloging and inventory control"
Thanks will try it |
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"My partner doesn't like the same kind of porn so we don't exchange it. It is wank fodder. Yes wank fodder is my masculine interpretation. Her description is, it helps me sleep. Porn is a personal thing. You will do well to keep it that way.
Video porn doesn’t do a great deal for me initially, literotica is much more horny and more likely to get me in the mood"
Yeah I voraciously read a lot of literotica - I have a higher tolerance for that than the typical suck, squeeze bang blow or visual porn. |
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"I watch non agressive porn only!
-A lot of mainstream porn is getting out of hand (pun not intended) and I tend to look for S&M! It's the Tate approach, it's insane. The female's clear failure to hide her discomfort for the whole act seems to be actually part of the show. It's like the polar opposite to so much of the traditional regular stuff, where believing in the harmony is key!
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Porn is too geared towards male pleasure |
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