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over a year ago
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"Anyone else a fan of c-section scars, stretch marks and wobbly bellies?
They do something for me I just can’t explain!"
This I am on board with…stretch marks and wobbly bits here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else a fan of c-section scars, stretch marks and wobbly bellies?
They do something for me I just can’t explain!
This I am on board with…stretch marks and wobbly bits here "
All looks good to me!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone else a fan of c-section scars, stretch marks and wobbly bellies?
They do something for me I just can’t explain!
This I am on board with…stretch marks and wobbly bits here "
Some women think it’s weird that I worship their mummy’s tummy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I'm doing doggy I can mop the floors with my boobs.
F
Bang and the dirt is gone?
What about the mess that's left behind? "
That’s not a very nice thing to say about F  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a mum bod and I’m so insecure about it 
I have cancelled meets purely because I thought the guy was to fit to actually like my body…"
There are more of us mum bod lovers than you’d think. |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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"Anyone else a fan of c-section scars, stretch marks and wobbly bellies?
They do something for me I just can’t explain!
This I am on board with…stretch marks and wobbly bits here
Some women think it’s weird that I worship their mummy’s tummy "
You've been watching Shirley Valentine last night  |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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"I have a mum bod and I’m so insecure about it
I have cancelled meets purely because I thought the guy was to fit to actually like my body…"
We all have insecurities about our bodies, even those you may say I wish I had her boobs and body, then you hear that a couple weeks later they've had a little suction here and there.
Well for me, I've invested good money in my one pack over the years, and I see myself as my own ADONIS!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I kinda get the sentiment....maybe.
But yeah, any guy that refers to me that way would not be meeting me. "
Yeah, its a unique way to lean into things that's for certain, maybe stick with the classics like their eyes, smile or chebs.
Do I look for it? Not particularly.
Does it bother me? Not at all.
I'm usually busy looking at their eyes, smiles and or chebs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a mum bod and I’m so insecure about it
I have cancelled meets purely because I thought the guy was to fit to actually like my body…"
I've been there. I'm probably hating my body more now than I ever have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I kinda get irritated when men make these statements. It's like highlighting the things I'm already insecure about and trying to make me be okay with them in a patronising way. This isn't aimed at you OP and I know most men come from a good place but I'd rather they didn't mention what I see as flaws at all. |
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"Anyone else a fan of c-section scars, stretch marks and wobbly bellies?
They do something for me I just can’t explain!"
Absolutely this, mum bods are the best and some gorgeous ladies on this thread. |
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"I kinda get irritated when men make these statements. It's like highlighting the things I'm already insecure about and trying to make me be okay with them in a patronising way. This isn't aimed at you OP and I know most men come from a good place but I'd rather they didn't mention what I see as flaws at all."
Thought as much, just better unsaid & we all know why they are there. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I kinda get irritated when men make these statements. It's like highlighting the things I'm already insecure about and trying to make me be okay with them in a patronising way. This isn't aimed at you OP and I know most men come from a good place but I'd rather they didn't mention what I see as flaws at all."
Indeed. Most comes from a good place.
But christ how many of these often seem to be very untactful backhanded compliments. And as said just do the reverse of what's intended.
Come on people. Think a little. |
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"I kinda get irritated when men make these statements. It's like highlighting the things I'm already insecure about and trying to make me be okay with them in a patronising way. This isn't aimed at you OP and I know most men come from a good place but I'd rather they didn't mention what I see as flaws at all.
Indeed. Most comes from a good place.
But christ how many of these often seem to be very untactful backhanded compliments. And as said just do the reverse of what's intended.
Come on people. Think a little. "
I do get where she’s coming from but I’m the opposite really. I like the threads like this as it shows who’s interested in the not so slim lady. When I was meeting I always read them and made notes. I see them as positive. I agree in the past some of the wording could have been a lot better! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"I kinda get irritated when men make these statements. It's like highlighting the things I'm already insecure about and trying to make me be okay with them in a patronising way. This isn't aimed at you OP and I know most men come from a good place but I'd rather they didn't mention what I see as flaws at all.
Indeed. Most comes from a good place.
But christ how many of these often seem to be very untactful backhanded compliments. And as said just do the reverse of what's intended.
Come on people. Think a little.
I do get where she’s coming from but I’m the opposite really. I like the threads like this as it shows who’s interested in the not so slim lady. When I was meeting I always read them and made notes. I see them as positive. I agree in the past some of the wording could have been a lot better!"
Oh it's the wording that's the big part. It's a fine line to walk to be fair between not overdoing it with praise so its not genuine or pointing out insecurities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with a mum bod or for us men dad bods , yes we'd all like to change a few things but it would be very boring if we all looked like Barbie and Ken |
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"Nothing wrong with a mum bod or for us men dad bods , yes we'd all like to change a few things but it would be very boring if we all looked like Barbie and Ken "
I had to watch that movie at the pictures the other day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with a mum bod or for us men dad bods , yes we'd all like to change a few things but it would be very boring if we all looked like Barbie and Ken
I had to watch that movie at the pictures the other day "
Was it any good ? |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Nothing wrong with a mum bod or for us men dad bods , yes we'd all like to change a few things but it would be very boring if we all looked like Barbie and Ken
I had to watch that movie at the pictures the other day "
another role i can't watch Ryan Gosling in  |
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"Nothing wrong with a mum bod or for us men dad bods , yes we'd all like to change a few things but it would be very boring if we all looked like Barbie and Ken
I had to watch that movie at the pictures the other day
Was it any good ? "
Wasn’t as bad as some I’ve had to endure. Was a few innuendos the kids wouldn’t get and some casual sexism obviously but was quite funny. |
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"Nothing wrong with a mum bod or for us men dad bods , yes we'd all like to change a few things but it would be very boring if we all looked like Barbie and Ken
I had to watch that movie at the pictures the other day another role i can't watch Ryan Gosling in "
Haha. His bleached blonde hair was weird |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Nothing wrong with a mum bod or for us men dad bods , yes we'd all like to change a few things but it would be very boring if we all looked like Barbie and Ken
I had to watch that movie at the pictures the other day another role i can't watch Ryan Gosling in
Haha. His bleached blonde hair was weird "
yes that and the musical he did |
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"Nothing wrong with a mum bod or for us men dad bods , yes we'd all like to change a few things but it would be very boring if we all looked like Barbie and Ken
I had to watch that movie at the pictures the other day another role i can't watch Ryan Gosling in
Haha. His bleached blonde hair was weird yes that and the musical he did "
Margot was the perfect one for stereotypical Barbie though haha. She is pretty perfect! |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with a mum bod or for us men dad bods , yes we'd all like to change a few things but it would be very boring if we all looked like Barbie and Ken
I had to watch that movie at the pictures the other day another role i can't watch Ryan Gosling in
Haha. His bleached blonde hair was weird yes that and the musical he did
Margot was the perfect one for stereotypical Barbie though haha. She is pretty perfect!"
she does look good in the trailers i saw of it but not my cuppa rosie |
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"Nothing wrong with a mum bod or for us men dad bods , yes we'd all like to change a few things but it would be very boring if we all looked like Barbie and Ken
I had to watch that movie at the pictures the other day another role i can't watch Ryan Gosling in
Haha. His bleached blonde hair was weird yes that and the musical he did
Margot was the perfect one for stereotypical Barbie though haha. She is pretty perfect!she does look good in the trailers i saw of it but not my cuppa rosie "
Nah. Not worth seeing unless you’re dragged there by a child really. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with a mum bod or for us men dad bods , yes we'd all like to change a few things but it would be very boring if we all looked like Barbie and Ken
I had to watch that movie at the pictures the other day another role i can't watch Ryan Gosling in
Haha. His bleached blonde hair was weird yes that and the musical he did
Margot was the perfect one for stereotypical Barbie though haha. She is pretty perfect!she does look good in the trailers i saw of it but not my cuppa rosie
Nah. Not worth seeing unless you’re dragged there by a child really. "
ahhhh thats your excuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with a mum bod or for us men dad bods , yes we'd all like to change a few things but it would be very boring if we all looked like Barbie and Ken
I had to watch that movie at the pictures the other day another role i can't watch Ryan Gosling in
Haha. His bleached blonde hair was weird yes that and the musical he did
Margot was the perfect one for stereotypical Barbie though haha. She is pretty perfect!she does look good in the trailers i saw of it but not my cuppa rosie
Nah. Not worth seeing unless you’re dragged there by a child really. "
Was just about to ask who did you go with , was there a hole in the bottom of the pop corn , but obviously you went with your kid |
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"I have a mum bod and I’m so insecure about it
I have cancelled meets purely because I thought the guy was to fit to actually like my body…"
That’s a shame, as you can see there are many guys who like mum bods, but you have to happy in yourself I guess…. |
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"A little rant surely it's a person as a whole that is attractive not the body parts that belong to that person."
But that’s part of a person as a whole though no? Someone could have the perfect bod and have a lovely personality but if I’m not attracted to their face it’s not happening. This person is attracted to a certain kind of body. |
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
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"I have a mum bod and I’m so insecure about it
I have cancelled meets purely because I thought the guy was to fit to actually like my body…"
As a twice c section mum with a knackered tummy I 100% feel this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A little rant surely it's a person as a whole that is attractive not the body parts that belong to that person."
I’m definitely more attracted to someone’s personality than anything else. If there isn’t a connection there than I won’t play. However, a mummy’s tummy is just an added bonus. |
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I've heard of 'mummy tummy' obviously, but never 'mum bod.' Does it come from the silly term 'dad bod' I wonder?
I've always thought the Fab term 'dad bod' was nonsense because dads simply don't go through what mums do to get changes to the belly. And of course irrespective of children, men can be large or thin at any point in their lives (and have kids over a 50-odd year stretch too for that matter) - if they have a belly it's because because! It's a bit daft to blame having kids, and even sillier to try and strike 'parity' with women - who of course never stop working when they become mums - so how does that work out in terms of 'dad bods' too?  It's been shown over and over that most men do a fraction of the family work lol! So what's the real excuse? Do the sad jokes somehow bring it on? Or giving up on impressing women any more perhaps? A 'dad bod' aught to be a fitter bod really!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find it attractive. I do like a mum bod/tum. Don't mind the scars, stretch marks, wobbly bits, extra skin etc. To me it doesn't bother me at all. The way I see it to me is that she's been through the battle/war and came out stronger  |
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"I have a mum bod and I’m so insecure about it
I have cancelled meets purely because I thought the guy was to fit to actually like my body…
I've been there. I'm probably hating my body more now than I ever have. "
Know exactly how you feel...don't mind others mum bods but not a fan of my own.. |
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"I have a mum bod and I’m so insecure about it
I have cancelled meets purely because I thought the guy was to fit to actually like my body…
I've been there. I'm probably hating my body more now than I ever have.
Know exactly how you feel...don't mind others mum bods but not a fan of my own.."
Looks mighty fine |
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