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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
For when you recognise someone from fab in the real world? Just saw a very tasty woman, who hasn't responded to my overtures. We just gave each other a sweet little smile. That seemed enough, but is there any kind of secret handshake or something else, that I'm missing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To my mind that was the perfect response"
Same. I wouldn't approach someone outside of Fab if we didn't already have some kind of social relationship. You never know who they're out with, and possibly having to explain who you are could be awkward for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you are meant to do a Luis Rubiales, grab her head, force a kiss on her lips and say "you are on Fab, you must have wanted that, lets get naked now" - or have I misunderstood the protocol?
The secret handshake actually is well known, if you have watched people's profiles on hear, you will realise that for a bloke it is to pull his todger out, wave it at the woman and either have a Lynx deoderant held next to it or his sky remote.
The women will have to inform you about their mode of identifying that they are Fabsters to another member.
Hope that helps. |
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I was going to suggest a little slap on your right thigh whilst rubbing your left ear but thar would be silly. I would not dream of acknowledging anyone like that in public and would expect the same from them  |
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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"Absolutely no reaction is the right etiquette.
Fab and my day to day life are very separate. I’d be extremely irritated with anyone who tried to approach me and start blathering on about Fab. "
I get that. It was the surprise of meeting someone I recognised. If I had expected her, I would
Have not done anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For when you recognise someone from fab in the real world? Just saw a very tasty woman, who hasn't responded to my overtures. We just gave each other a sweet little smile. That seemed enough, but is there any kind of secret handshake or something else, that I'm missing?"
What do you mean 'a sweet little smile'? Do you think she actually wants to fuck you now she's seen you in person?
Or was she just smiling back at a stranger to be polite. |
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"For when you recognise someone from fab in the real world? Just saw a very tasty woman, who hasn't responded to my overtures. We just gave each other a sweet little smile. That seemed enough, but is there any kind of secret handshake or something else, that I'm missing?"
If she hasn't responded to your overtures then just go with that..
It might change in time if she wants it to but that's totally her perogative.. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"If she hasn't responded then don't pursue her. Nothing more creepy than being approached in public by people who recognise you of having the 'I saw you' messages "
This. Creepy as hell and had it a lot, even a verification years ago off a guy who apparently stalked me around Tesco!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well in my experience apparently I don't look like my pictures
I remember speaking to woman on here. Coincidently we were in the same pub later on that day. She winked and we ended up chatting. After a while In realised she didn't know who I was.
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If she was interested she would've responded to your overtures.
The protocol is ignore her as she goes about her everyday life or you will creep her out. I find it alarming that you don't realise this.
Women often smile to disarm strangers. It is a defense mechanism.
J |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If she was interested she would've responded to your overtures.
The protocol is ignore her as she goes about her everyday life or you will creep her out. I find it alarming that you don't realise this.
**Women often smile to disarm strangers. It is a defense mechanism.**
J"
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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"For when you recognise someone from fab in the real world? Just saw a very tasty woman, who hasn't responded to my overtures. We just gave each other a sweet little smile. That seemed enough, but is there any kind of secret handshake or something else, that I'm missing?
What do you mean 'a sweet little smile'? Do you think she actually wants to fuck you now she's seen you in person?
Or was she just smiling back at a stranger to be polite. "
Your reaction is a little weird. |
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"If she was interested she would've responded to your overtures.
The protocol is ignore her as she goes about her everyday life or you will creep her out. I find it alarming that you don't realise this.
Women often smile to disarm strangers. It is a defense mechanism.
J"
All of these things. |
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My protocol is just pretending that i know nothing  , and when they msg me with their inumerous profiles i keep pretending i don't know who i am talking with. Unless they aproach me respectful and as adults, instead playing games , i won't open my hand at all or even a smile |
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.. It was the surprise of meeting someone I recognised. If I had expected her, I would
Have not done anything. "
How on earth does one recognise anyone on here when the the vast majority have their face hidden? |
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I think you were right not to approach. Personally I keep this area of my life very separate for good reason (not just personal preference) and would not be pleased if someone approached me, especially if I hadn't responded to their messages yet.
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"If she was interested she would've responded to your overtures.
The protocol is ignore her as she goes about her everyday life or you will creep her out. I find it alarming that you don't realise this.
Women often smile to disarm strangers. It is a defense mechanism.
J"
100% this |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"For when you recognise someone from fab in the real world? Just saw a very tasty woman, who hasn't responded to my overtures. We just gave each other a sweet little smile. That seemed enough, but is there any kind of secret handshake or something else, that I'm missing?
What do you mean 'a sweet little smile'? Do you think she actually wants to fuck you now she's seen you in person?
Or was she just smiling back at a stranger to be polite.
Your reaction is a little weird. "
It's just a polite smile people do this it's weirder to think because she smiled wants you under her skin  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For when you recognise someone from fab in the real world? Just saw a very tasty woman, who hasn't responded to my overtures. We just gave each other a sweet little smile. That seemed enough, but is there any kind of secret handshake or something else, that I'm missing?
What do you mean 'a sweet little smile'? Do you think she actually wants to fuck you now she's seen you in person?
Or was she just smiling back at a stranger to be polite.
Your reaction is a little weird.
It's just a polite smile people do this it's weirder to think because she smiled wants you under her skin "
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