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Nasty messages

By *arl828 OP Man over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire

Can anyone tell me why some men on here feel the need to send women nasty messages then block the lady so she can't reply, coward spring to mind. I just don't can't get my head round it at all???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rejection maybe???????

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I wish I knew, because I've had a few in my time and they were from people I had never spoke to before never mind rejected them!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Its called life and it happens.... Just advise to ignore it or report the message and move on.. The amount of abusive messages I have had since being on fab.. However I don't let it affect the fun side..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I's suggest it's immaturity...regardless of the ages of the people involved.

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Can anyone tell me why some men on here feel the need to send women nasty messages then block the lady so she can't reply, coward spring to mind. I just don't can't get my head round it at all???

Have you been pretending to be a woman and messaging men?

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple over a year ago

Manchester

On the bright side at least they can be blocked and have taken themselves out of the running. It would be worse to meet and have them be abusive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It actually makes me laugh when that happens as it is playground mentality.

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By *arl828 OP Man over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire

"Rejection maybe???????"

She's never had any contact with the sender until he messaged her, she has moved on but it does upset her, she like myself can't see the point of doing it.

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By *arl828 OP Man over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire

"Can anyone tell me why some men on here feel the need to send women nasty messages then block the lady so she can't reply, coward spring to mind. I just don't can't get my head round it at all???

Have you been pretending to be a woman and messaging men?

HAHA you made me chuckle

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By *ransylvesterTV/TS over a year ago

Close enough for fun!

The recipients of nasty messages aren't just women and it isn't just men who send them. Some people are frustrated and others plain nasty but there is little that will change no matter how many questions we ask.

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Can anyone tell me why some men on here feel the need to send women nasty messages then block the lady so she can't reply, coward spring to mind. I just don't can't get my head round it at all???

Have you been pretending to be a woman and messaging men?

HAHA you made me chuckle

Yeah so did your post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can only remember having one nasty message from a stranger. I just laughed. Why be upset, they don't know you to judge you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can only remember having one nasty message from a stranger. I just laughed. Why be upset, they don't know you to judge you?"

Wise words , block ignore move on.

It's not just the ladies I've had a few , I just don't give them the time of day ,they don't know me and they certainly don't know the in's and out's of my life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had one or two from people I've never spoken to, maybe they've seen me on cam and don't like me....who cares tho, block, report and move on, plenty of nice people here to chat with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On the bright side at least they can be blocked and have taken themselves out of the running. It would be worse to meet and have them be abusive."

Totally agree

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By *arl828 OP Man over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire

"I've had one or two from people I've never spoken to, maybe they've seen me on cam and don't like me....who cares tho, block, report and move on, plenty of nice people here to chat with

She does all the above but it just gets to me because I know her and she like anyone else doesn't deserve the abuse. I just think they are sad individuals at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just think they are sad individuals at the end of the

day."

And possibly think swinging is just any easy way to get a shag, but can, t handle rejection .......they, re not swingers ......just " chancers"

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Can anyone tell me why some men on here feel the need to send women nasty messages then block the lady so she can't reply, coward spring to mind. I just don't can't get my head round it at all???

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I have recently had a couple of blocks and it was quite a novelty for me. I put it down to immaturity really the need to have the last word and for that to be an unpleasant comment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never received a nasty message on here...I don't get messages full stop lol

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By *arl828 OP Man over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire

"I've never received a nasty message on here...I don't get messages full stop lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never received a nasty message on here...I don't get messages full stop lol"

I'll send you some of mine.....you wont want anymore haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had nasty messages from complete strangers, I mailed a guy once asking why he sent me such a nasty message and he said that the nasty ones elicited more replies than the nice ones, they started conversations for him!

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

"I wish I knew, because I've had a few in my time and they were from people I had never spoke to before never mind rejected them!

Blimey, really?

Doesn't make any sense!

Whilst not condoning it, I could understand if they had had the old "spanish archer" (El Bow lol), but doing it before they've even chatted?

Boy, some people, nowt as queer as folk!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can anyone tell me why some men on here feel the need to send women nasty messages then block the lady so she can't reply, coward spring to mind. I just don't can't get my head round it at all???

Have you been pretending to be a woman and messaging men?

HAHA you made me chuckle

then chances are the guy was rejected by what was written in her profile.

does she have something like "i dont like guys with beards" and he had a beard?

this is what i find for unprovoked abuse.. its still rejection

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It's called misogyny. There are some men who actually hate women, even if they do want sex with them.

They are easy enough to ignore. Plenty of decent guys around.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"I wish I knew, because I've had a few in my time and they were from people I had never spoke to before never mind rejected them!

Blimey, really?

Doesn't make any sense!

Whilst not condoning it, I could understand if they had had the old "spanish archer" (El Bow lol), but doing it before they've even chatted?

Boy, some people, nowt as queer as folk!

I had one from a guy once id had no previous contact with saying that he'd read my profile and I shouldn't be too choose as I 'wasn't all that' I don't profess to be but I like what I like and I ain't changing x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny how we all view things differently, Male friends of mine experience this kind of thing from women, anyone know what the opposite of mysogony is?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had nasty messages from complete strangers, I mailed a guy once asking why he sent me such a nasty message and he said that the nasty ones elicited more replies than the nice ones, they started conversations for him! "

My goodness Laine I've had that situation also. I then told him that I always reply and would decline any further conversation to which he said that was a wise decision as our different standards would become an issue anyway.

You've got to smile at the mentality of some

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Funny how we all view things differently, Male friends of mine experience this kind of thing from women, anyone know what the opposite of mysogony is?"

Actually yes that is very true, I have some very lovely and decent male friends on here who have had some very rude replies from women, it does work both ways.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I wish I knew, because I've had a few in my time and they were from people I had never spoke to before never mind rejected them!

Blimey, really?

Doesn't make any sense!

Whilst not condoning it, I could understand if they had had the old "spanish archer" (El Bow lol), but doing it before they've even chatted?

Boy, some people, nowt as queer as folk!

Yeap really! I couldn't understand it either, but hey ho, block and move on

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"Funny how we all view things differently, Male friends of mine experience this kind of thing from women, anyone know what the opposite of mysogony is?"

Misandry xx

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

It happens to men too.

I am sure the lady in question could report and block like lots of other people do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never received a nasty message on here...I don't get messages full stop lol

I'll send you some of mine.....you wont want anymore haha

Love a sense of humour...send then to me, I'll put them in the recycle bin for you

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Funny how we all view things differently, Male friends of mine experience this kind of thing from women, anyone know what the opposite of mysogony is?

Misandry xx "

There's misanthropy too - I just send nasty messages to everyone

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"Funny how we all view things differently, Male friends of mine experience this kind of thing from women, anyone know what the opposite of mysogony is?

Misandry xx

There's misanthropy too - I just send nasty messages to everyone

Good plan. Wouldn't want to appear biased lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never received a nasty message on here...I don't get messages full stop lol

I'll send you some of mine.....you wont want anymore haha

Love a sense of humour...send then to me, I'll put them in the recycle bin for you

Oohhhh no, I don't want them recycled, maybe you could tweak them and send them back, it would look like I've got a full inbox then

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By *arl828 OP Man over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire

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By *arl828 OP Man over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire

"It happens to men too.

I am sure the lady in question could report and block like lots of other people do.

Oh she does block and report, she's not a newbie on here by any means, she actually introduced me to the site, I was just wandering what motivates individuals to send them though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never have never will even if they deserve one and believe me they have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's called misogyny. There are some men who actually hate women, even if they do want sex with them.

They are easy enough to ignore. Plenty of decent guys around."

true and there are some women who hate other women too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's most strange, I've never had a nasty one from a single guy just a couple. After looking at her profile I could just about figure out why she may not like me and my profile but not why she would care enough to bother messaging me her views. It just made me laugh, maybe if I wasn't feeling in a great mood at the time it may have upset me I suppose.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Ok before I have to remove any more posts and people end up with bans for pasting mails I am shutting this.

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