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Why can’t I get a meet!? :-( (sad face)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well, not *just* me (it’s because I’m fugly and odious, isn’t it?  ) but kind of everyone, generically, really.
And when I say everyone let’s be honest, I mean the men, yes? (Obviously with a “any holes a goal” attitude the ladies will never be short of demand will they?  (pelters incoming!))
So why can’t a lot of us men get meets on here?
Give us the reasons, Fabsters, whether it’s serious, tongue in cheek, sarcastic or just plain cwazy! 
And you lucky popular handsome, charming, ripped, hung men knee deep in pussy .. this isn’t a humble brag thread! Give us something tangible us mortals can work with!
Fanks |
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"Well, not *just* me (it’s because I’m fugly and odious, isn’t it? ) but kind of everyone, generically, really.
And when I say everyone let’s be honest, I mean the men, yes? (Obviously with a “any holes a goal” attitude the ladies will never be short of demand will they? (pelters incoming!))
So why can’t a lot of us men get meets on here?
Give us the reasons, Fabsters, whether it’s serious, tongue in cheek, sarcastic or just plain cwazy! "
It's because your standards are too high.
If you tick that box and open your inbox to single men then you too will always have the option of an undesirable penis at short notice, just like us silly females with all the options  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is nature itself
Is not about fabs . Or dating apps . Is nature .
To match is hard . always been always will beans . Loads of beans . Baked beans everywhere .
Watch the animal world . Birds , frogs , etc
The lvl of failure , frustration n depression is high in all species all around the world …
I read in a previous reply that you ( OP ) appears as not single any longer …
I wouldn’t say you doing bad at all .
Can take years to brake that label .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“I’m attached and here alone so I appreciate that might not be for you.”
This sentence is what puts me off "
This op. I have read forum posts where lots of women will not meet married, attached, bf etc. Nor will I. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh gawd .. Mods! Mods! 
Can you change a thread title? Anyone!? ..
Nobody is reading the actual post.. it’s not a me post! That would be just a little *too* egotistical, even for me!
It’s an *every man* post!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“I’m attached and here alone so I appreciate that might not be for you.”
This sentence is what puts me off "
Married men are the best, they don't message you constantly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op it is the same for all who cannot get meets... Loads of forum posts on here for you to read about how others feel.
I cannot be sarcastic op when it is a question asking why.. Why do we go to work, pay our bills so it is what it is. Good, bad or indifferent. Same as meets. If you not getting them, it is what it is. Just have fun on forums in meantime |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Op it is the same for all who cannot get meets... Loads of forum posts on here for you to read about how others feel.
I cannot be sarcastic op when it is a question asking why.. Why do we go to work, pay our bills so it is what it is. Good, bad or indifferent. Same as meets. If you not getting them, it is what it is. Just have fun on forums in meantime "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well, not *just* me (it’s because I’m fugly and odious, isn’t it? ) but kind of everyone, generically, really.
And when I say everyone let’s be honest, I mean the men, yes? (Obviously with a “any holes a goal” attitude the ladies will never be short of demand will they? (pelters incoming!))
So why can’t a lot of us men get meets on here?
Give us the reasons, Fabsters, whether it’s serious, tongue in cheek, sarcastic or just plain cwazy!
And you lucky popular handsome, charming, ripped, hung men knee deep in pussy .. this isn’t a humble brag thread! Give us something tangible us mortals can work with!
Fanks"
Personally from my point of view….it’s because all the women on here are intimidated by my looks, physique, personality and banging profile 
Perfection is hard and they’re terrified that they just can’t measure up to my standards   
I have been told I’m delusional by experts I might add |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because men should meet more men, go out for beers, play soggy biscuit, have a round of golf. You’d forget all about fab then.
Next i fix world peace "
That’s just the pubs around Twickenham on an international weekend isn’t it? Except the golf bit. Substitute that for drinking pints of piss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The trouble isn't who won't meet us/you, it's who we/you choose not to meet.
It's far easier for anyone here to meet men than it is to meet women.
And so to give yourself an equal chance of a meet, don't expect others to change how and who they meet, if you want change, you have to be willing to change yourself.
Open yourself up to meet men too.
Problem solved. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The trouble isn't who won't meet us/you, it's who we/you choose not to meet.
It's far easier for anyone here to meet men than it is to meet women.
And so to give yourself an equal chance of a meet, don't expect others to change how and who they meet, if you want change, you have to be willing to change yourself.
Open yourself up to meet men too.
Problem solved. "
For all us men who struggle on this site
Who message lots and try as they might
If you want your time on Fab to pay
Come on fellas, it’s time to turn gay!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women have all the power. Not just on fab, but on every other app and in real life too.
Unless your a solid 10/10 Giga Chad, it’s gonna be a bitter road through life."
It's 50/50 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women have all the power. Not just on fab, but on every other app and in real life too.
Unless your a solid 10/10 Giga Chad, it’s gonna be a bitter road through life."
On sex sites yeah. Any woman can get laid. Looking to find a quality boyfriend / life partner? The odds are much more equal! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women have all the power. Not just on fab, but on every other app and in real life too.
Unless your a solid 10/10 Giga Chad, it’s gonna be a bitter road through life."
Pussy power |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women have all the power. Not just on fab, but on every other app and in real life too.
Unless your a solid 10/10 Giga Chad, it’s gonna be a bitter road through life.
It's 50/50"
Is Her who decides . The Queen , the Mother , the Godess.
I agree . Is nature itself . Fool the man who believes can put our beautiful ladies in a lower step , in a lower level .
Why is Ace , King , Queen , Jack ?
Gets worse . In Portugal , when I was younger , when a kid , I learned how to play it was :
Ace , King , Jack , Queen .
Now : what is that all about ? Can see how macho the culture is .
Why did the male had a massive need to put the Queen down ?
Was the only way to give themselves a crown .
Have you ever seen the female trying knock the King down ?
Never .
There they are stronger . Bigger .
By far ^^ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women have all the power. Not just on fab, but on every other app and in real life too.
Unless your a solid 10/10 Giga Chad, it’s gonna be a bitter road through life.
Pussy power"
Why have I got Scrappy Doo in my head now?
Ta dadada ta daaa! Pussy power!  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women have all the power. Not just on fab, but on every other app and in real life too.
Unless your a solid 10/10 Giga Chad, it’s gonna be a bitter road through life.
Pussy power"
Punani massive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women have all the power. Not just on fab, but on every other app and in real life too.
Unless your a solid 10/10 Giga Chad, it’s gonna be a bitter road through life.
It's 50/50
Is Her who decides . The Queen , the Mother , the Godess.
I agree . Is nature itself . Fool the man who believes can put our beautiful ladies in a lower step , in a lower level .
Why is Ace , King , Queen , Jack ?
Gets worse . In Portugal , when I was younger , when a kid , I learned how to play it was :
Ace , King , Jack , Queen .
Now : what is that all about ? Can see how macho the culture is .
Why did the male had a massive need to put the Queen down ?
Was the only way to give themselves a crown .
Have you ever seen the female trying knock the King down ?
Never .
There they are stronger . Bigger .
By far ^^ "
Yeah, it's 50/50. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women have all the power. Not just on fab, but on every other app and in real life too.
Unless your a solid 10/10 Giga Chad, it’s gonna be a bitter road through life.
Pussy power
Why have I got Scrappy Doo in my head now?
Ta dadada ta daaa! Pussy power!
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I'm using this on the next guy I meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women have all the power. Not just on fab, but on every other app and in real life too.
Unless your a solid 10/10 Giga Chad, it’s gonna be a bitter road through life.
Pussy power
Punani massive "
How have you seen it?  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Women have all the power. Not just on fab, but on every other app and in real life too.
Unless your a solid 10/10 Giga Chad, it’s gonna be a bitter road through life.
Pussy power
Punani massive
How have you seen it? "
Its that massive it's hard to miss |
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"Oh gawd .. Mods! Mods!
Can you change a thread title? Anyone!? ..
Nobody is reading the actual post.. it’s not a me post! That would be just a little *too* egotistical, even for me!
It’s an *every man* post!
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No one ever reads the post Dan. |
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"Women have all the power. Not just on fab, but on every other app and in real life too.
Unless your a solid 10/10 Giga Chad, it’s gonna be a bitter road through life."
Women only have the power to say yes or no.
They don't get anyone they want.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Women have their pick of the bunch in a way that would never happen in real life. Just the way it works"
All women, and all bunches?
I'm pretty sure I couldn't have all the men on here I find attractive.
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"All the men are out of my league.
Is that the justice league, or the league of legends?
The premier league "
You’re certainly a higher tier than those poxy footballers
Surely it’s the super league!?  |
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By *oufouCouple
over a year ago
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For men, this is probably the worst place to find casual sex. For every woman here, every man has several hundred direct competitors.
So there’s that.
But also in our experiences on Fab, most men seem utterly clueless in the arts of seduction…
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For men, this is probably the worst place to find casual sex. For every woman here, every man has several hundred direct competitors.
So there’s that.
But also in our experiences on Fab, most men seem utterly clueless in the arts of seduction…
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I think it’s the latter that’s my problem.
And the face like a slapped arse. |
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"All the men are out of my league.
Is that the justice league, or the league of legends?
The premier league
You’re certainly a higher tier than those poxy footballers
Surely it’s the super league!? "
I'm more like the Sunday league |
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Scabs, you* need scabs and/or peeling skin. It's like catnip to the ladies. Photo your scabs with 'Fab if you want to pick at this' on it and you'll be knee deep in no time**.
*generic you
**not guaranteed
B |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Scabs, you* need scabs and/or peeling skin. It's like catnip to the ladies. Photo your scabs with 'Fab if you want to pick at this' on it and you'll be knee deep in no time**.
*generic you
**not guaranteed
B"
Hmm, I have genital crabs. That’s close enough isn’t it? Almost an anagram at least. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For men, this is probably the worst place to find casual sex. For every woman here, every man has several hundred direct competitors.
So there’s that.
But also in our experiences on Fab, most men seem utterly clueless in the arts of seduction…
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I’m really bad at flirt . And I refused to learn how to charme . Is a mask I refuse to wear for how much I love to act and theatre n art etc .
I need be real , can’t fake .
Or the lady wants to me cane to me cause likes who I am or don’t bother . Rather don’t have any friend or love at all .
The end :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“I’m attached and here alone so I appreciate that might not be for you.”
This sentence is what puts me off
Married men are the best, they don't message you constantly. "
Bit cynical? |
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"All the men are out of my league.
Is that the justice league, or the league of legends?
The premier league
You’re certainly a higher tier than those poxy footballers
Surely it’s the super league!?
I'm more like the Sunday league "
I know my opinion is likely worth little here, but I think you’re selling yourself short; those photos are giving “Phwoar” vibes!  |
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"For men, this is probably the worst place to find casual sex. For every woman here, every man has several hundred direct competitors.
So there’s that.
But also in our experiences on Fab, most men seem utterly clueless in the arts of seduction…
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I’m going to have to say from personal experience this has absolutely been the best site (in the U.K.) for casual sex. There’s no other sites that have the direct connection with so many swingers clubs, parties and social events - the majority of people that go to these places are also active on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All the men are out of my league.
Is that the justice league, or the league of legends?
The premier league
You’re certainly a higher tier than those poxy footballers
Surely it’s the super league!?
I'm more like the Sunday league
I know my opinion is likely worth little here, but I think you’re selling yourself short; those photos are giving “Phwoar” vibes! "
Pah! Get a room you two!!
This is a self-pitying “can’t get a meet” thread, we don’t want any flirty “getting it on” activity here! |
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"All the men are out of my league.
Is that the justice league, or the league of legends?
The premier league
You’re certainly a higher tier than those poxy footballers
Surely it’s the super league!?
I'm more like the Sunday league
I know my opinion is likely worth little here, but I think you’re selling yourself short; those photos are giving “Phwoar” vibes! "
Did you miss the sarcastic tone of my comments... |
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"All the men are out of my league.
Is that the justice league, or the league of legends?
The premier league
You’re certainly a higher tier than those poxy footballers
Surely it’s the super league!?
I'm more like the Sunday league
I know my opinion is likely worth little here, but I think you’re selling yourself short; those photos are giving “Phwoar” vibes!
Pah! Get a room you two!!
This is a self-pitying “can’t get a meet” thread, we don’t want any flirty “getting it on” activity here! "
No danger of that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All the men are out of my league.
Is that the justice league, or the league of legends?
The premier league
You’re certainly a higher tier than those poxy footballers
Surely it’s the super league!?
I'm more like the Sunday league
I know my opinion is likely worth little here, but I think you’re selling yourself short; those photos are giving “Phwoar” vibes!
Pah! Get a room you two!!
This is a self-pitying “can’t get a meet” thread, we don’t want any flirty “getting it on” activity here!
No danger of that "
Nooooo .. I thought we had a Fab wedding for a moment! |
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"All the men are out of my league.
Is that the justice league, or the league of legends?
The premier league
You’re certainly a higher tier than those poxy footballers
Surely it’s the super league!?
I'm more like the Sunday league
I know my opinion is likely worth little here, but I think you’re selling yourself short; those photos are giving “Phwoar” vibes!
Did you miss the sarcastic tone of my comments..."
Of course not… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit hard to get a feel of the room and gel with opposite gender through ascii text boxes on a 2001 circa looking website but this is 2023 where nothing makes sense and anything is possible |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bit hard to get a feel of the room and gel with opposite gender through ascii text boxes on a 2001 circa looking website but this is 2023 where nothing makes sense and anything is possible"
Those damn cock-blocking ascii text boxes!! Grrr! |
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By *oufouCouple
over a year ago
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"I’m going to have to say from personal experience this has absolutely been the best site (in the U.K.) for casual sex. There’s no other sites that have the direct connection with so many swingers clubs, parties and social events - the majority of people that go to these places are also active on Fab. "
That’s great! But you are in the minority…
If the emails we receive are typical, thousands of guys sign-up, have zero success, then leave… |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
Reading |
There was a recent thread on forums. About similar to this. A female posted roughly below.
Any female even if she looked / was Quasimodos identical twin sister put meet up would get hundreds of replies. Quasimodo if he did . Would not . ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There was a recent thread on forums. About similar to this. A female posted roughly below.
Any female even if she looked / was Quasimodos identical twin sister put meet up would get hundreds of replies. Quasimodo if he did . Would not . ? "
a lady posting a pic of just their finger gets more Fabs that a finely crafted artistic pose from a fella, it’s the way of Fab!
We are mere players in the game and as long as we know the rules and play along nicely then we get the best experience we can! |
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"There was a recent thread on forums. About similar to this. A female posted roughly below.
Any female even if she looked / was Quasimodos identical twin sister put meet up would get hundreds of replies. Quasimodo if he did . Would not . ?
a lady posting a pic of just their finger gets more Fabs that a finely crafted artistic pose from a fella, it’s the way of Fab!
We are mere players in the game and as long as we know the rules and play along nicely then we get the best experience we can! "
This is rather defeatist! Nothing mere about being a player in the game.
Play by your rules |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There was a recent thread on forums. About similar to this. A female posted roughly below.
Any female even if she looked / was Quasimodos identical twin sister put meet up would get hundreds of replies. Quasimodo if he did . Would not . ?
a lady posting a pic of just their finger gets more Fabs that a finely crafted artistic pose from a fella, it’s the way of Fab!
We are mere players in the game and as long as we know the rules and play along nicely then we get the best experience we can!
This is rather defeatist! Nothing mere about being a player in the game.
Play by your rules"
Depends if you want to win the game or not .. play the game that maximises your chances or success! |
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