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Where’s the love for the short kings?
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By *rJ88888 OP Man
over a year ago
London/Cardiff |
Just had a heated debate with someone on here. I don’t understand what the issue is with men needing to be taller than the woman. Like you guys know it’s not a personality trait and can’t be controlled? Women want to promote body positivity and being beautiful just the way you are and yet treat men under 6” like we’re second class citizens. DEBATE |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Away for Christmas |
I got news for you, some women don't care. Some prefer taller men, while some it's an absolute deal breaker if not tall.
Those that do care it's generally because they are attracted to height. They like that dynamic. It's what makes them get the flutters.
Should they go for something they find less appealing? Settle because of somebody else's feelings?
Do they punch down with their comments about you being shorter? If yes, then they are twats and best avoided anyway.
If they don't punch down with their comments then they aren't treating you any different. They just don't feel attracted to your height. |
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"Just had a heated debate with someone on here. I don’t understand what the issue is with men needing to be taller than the woman. Like you guys know it’s not a personality trait and can’t be controlled? Women want to promote body positivity and being beautiful just the way you are and yet treat men under 6” like we’re second class citizens. DEBATE"
Very close to raging misogyny.
You are beautiful just as you are.
No one will say you are not beautiful but they might express their preference which is for a taller male.
Also no one will have said you are second class, just that they like men taller than themselves.
And no one expects you to shag all the women you tell are beautiful just as they are if they don't have the physique you are looking for in a woman. |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Preference.
Unless people are looking for a life partner, where connection and compatibility is the most important aspect, a lot on here are choosing based on what they want in that moment.
Some women want men with huge biceps so they can feel protected. It isn't because they need a bodyguard though.
Play to your strengths. |
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I would never treat anyone as a second class citizen because they're on the shorter side op.
However we are all allowed to like what we like,I do like tall men which is a good job as Jack is 6ft3.
I have met men who were shorter in the past when I was single & it made no difference to me.
Some like a shorter man,not all will go for 6ft +.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would you even waste your time having a heated debate over height when a preference isn't something people are likely to change along with ignorant attitudes?
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"Just had a heated debate with someone on here. I don’t understand what the issue is with men needing to be taller than the woman. Like you guys know it’s not a personality trait and can’t be controlled? Women want to promote body positivity and being beautiful just the way you are and yet treat men under 6” like we’re second class citizens. DEBATE"
Eh? That’s not true. I like a man to be taller than me. That’s not ever gonna change. How’s that treating them like a second class citizen? I’m confused. Explain. |
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By *rJ88888 OP Man
over a year ago
London/Cardiff |
"I would never treat anyone as a second class citizen because they're on the shorter side op.
However we are all allowed to like what we like,I do like tall men which is a good job as Jack is 6ft3.
I have met men who were shorter in the past when I was single & it made no difference to me.
Some like a shorter man,not all will go for 6ft +.
Miss"
Listen I hear what you’re saying and fair enough. If you have a preference you have a preference. But it’s easier to say these things. I genuinely feel like I’m lesser of a person because of something that I can’t control. I literally just got told by someone on chat that because I’m small I must have a tiny cock (ladies this is simply false). She then proceeded to block me and make me feel insecure. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I don’t actually care. And I say that as a tall lass.
Height has never been a deciding factor on somebody’s attractiveness to me and in all of my romantic relationships I’ve been the tall one.
Far more important traits to look for in a man as far as I’m concerned, and I couldn’t give a flying hula hoop what other people may think about that or what we may look like as a couple.
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By *rJ88888 OP Man
over a year ago
London/Cardiff |
"I don’t actually care. And I say that as a tall lass.
Height has never been a deciding factor on somebody’s attractiveness to me and in all of my romantic relationships I’ve been the tall one.
Far more important traits to look for in a man as far as I’m concerned, and I couldn’t give a flying hula hoop what other people may think about that or what we may look like as a couple.
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I would never treat anyone as a second class citizen because they're on the shorter side op.
However we are all allowed to like what we like,I do like tall men which is a good job as Jack is 6ft3.
I have met men who were shorter in the past when I was single & it made no difference to me.
Some like a shorter man,not all will go for 6ft +.
Miss
Listen I hear what you’re saying and fair enough. If you have a preference you have a preference. But it’s easier to say these things. I genuinely feel like I’m lesser of a person because of something that I can’t control. I literally just got told by someone on chat that because I’m small I must have a tiny cock (ladies this is simply false). She then proceeded to block me and make me feel insecure. "
Yeah, she sounds like a bit of a div. The best thing to do is to throw v’s at the screen, do a loud raspberry, think to yourself “fuck you!” and move on.
It’s HER issue. Not yours. Never let anyone make you feel less. And just laugh to yourself that she may think that, but you look down and you’re blessed with a 8 inch whopper (or whatever) and quietly smile.
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By *rJ88888 OP Man
over a year ago
London/Cardiff |
"Height is irrelevant to me.
Except for when the angsty short Kings decide to feel emasculated by my height.
People are welcome to their preferences as long as they're not assholes about it  "
Impossible to be emasculated by a tall woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never treat anyone as a second class citizen because they're on the shorter side op.
However we are all allowed to like what we like,I do like tall men which is a good job as Jack is 6ft3.
I have met men who were shorter in the past when I was single & it made no difference to me.
Some like a shorter man,not all will go for 6ft +.
Miss
Listen I hear what you’re saying and fair enough. If you have a preference you have a preference. But it’s easier to say these things. I genuinely feel like I’m lesser of a person because of something that I can’t control. I literally just got told by someone on chat that because I’m small I must have a tiny cock (ladies this is simply false). She then proceeded to block me and make me feel insecure. "
2 points here. You feel less of a person....that's for you to work on accepting yourself as you are.
She then made you feel insecure....no, she blocked you, the insecurity is coming from within. If what you've said above is factual then yes, shes been a dick to you but how you respond is up to you, an insult is only an insult if you accept it. Fk her opinion, be confident in yourself, thats WAY more attractive than just about anything  |
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"I would never treat anyone as a second class citizen because they're on the shorter side op.
However we are all allowed to like what we like,I do like tall men which is a good job as Jack is 6ft3.
I have met men who were shorter in the past when I was single & it made no difference to me.
Some like a shorter man,not all will go for 6ft +.
Miss
Listen I hear what you’re saying and fair enough. If you have a preference you have a preference. But it’s easier to say these things. I genuinely feel like I’m lesser of a person because of something that I can’t control. I literally just got told by someone on chat that because I’m small I must have a tiny cock (ladies this is simply false). She then proceeded to block me and make me feel insecure.
2 points here. You feel less of a person....that's for you to work on accepting yourself as you are.
She then made you feel insecure....no, she blocked you, the insecurity is coming from within. If what you've said above is factual then yes, shes been a dick to you but how you respond is up to you, an insult is only an insult if you accept it. Fk her opinion, be confident in yourself, thats WAY more attractive than just about anything "
Absolutely this ^^ x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a huge thing about height (pub not intended!).
I had a date with a guy who said he was 5ft 5, I thought ok, in 5ft 1 shouldn't be an issue but I swear I bent down to kiss him and kinda made me question how tall men should be (for me to meet them) so I have a rule, 5ft 7 or above.
If a guy was 5ft 6 of course I might still think about it, but anything shorter than that, I'm not sure and that's not because they probably aren't nice people, just my preference as I am short myself and I like to look up to the guy in seeing, I find it attractive.
I get my shovel and dig my own hole lol
Danish x |
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By *rJ88888 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have a huge thing about height (pub not intended!).
I had a date with a guy who said he was 5ft 5, I thought ok, in 5ft 1 shouldn't be an issue but I swear I bent down to kiss him and kinda made me question how tall men should be (for me to meet them) so I have a rule, 5ft 7 or above.
If a guy was 5ft 6 of course I might still think about it, but anything shorter than that, I'm not sure and that's not because they probably aren't nice people, just my preference as I am short myself and I like to look up to the guy in seeing, I find it attractive.
I get my shovel and dig my own hole lol
Danish x"
Okay thanks I guess? |
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By *rJ88888 OP Man
over a year ago
London/Cardiff |
"I would never treat anyone as a second class citizen because they're on the shorter side op.
However we are all allowed to like what we like,I do like tall men which is a good job as Jack is 6ft3.
I have met men who were shorter in the past when I was single & it made no difference to me.
Some like a shorter man,not all will go for 6ft +.
Miss
Listen I hear what you’re saying and fair enough. If you have a preference you have a preference. But it’s easier to say these things. I genuinely feel like I’m lesser of a person because of something that I can’t control. I literally just got told by someone on chat that because I’m small I must have a tiny cock (ladies this is simply false). She then proceeded to block me and make me feel insecure.
2 points here. You feel less of a person....that's for you to work on accepting yourself as you are.
She then made you feel insecure....no, she blocked you, the insecurity is coming from within. If what you've said above is factual then yes, shes been a dick to you but how you respond is up to you, an insult is only an insult if you accept it. Fk her opinion, be confident in yourself, thats WAY more attractive than just about anything "
I feel like less of a person because of the perception some women will have about me. Also I have no reason to make up some sob story so believe me when I say it’s all true. |
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"Impossible to be emasculated by a tall woman
It's a choice some people make.
Stupid choice
I'm not disagreeing.
I agree with your lack of disagreement "
Do you though? You talk as though you allow yourself to feel lesser because of the baseless opinions of people who don't matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do get this as I’m only 5’7”
Went on a date recently and the women stopped it cause of my height, said she only wants a man 5’10” and above.
No idea why she even engaged with me tbh if she had such a fixed requirement that I clearly didn’t meet |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I have a preference for a man to be taller than me, for an abundance of reasons.
There are some very sexy men who aren't taller than me. I've got nothing against them, I just don't want to date them. Or have the sex with them. And that's my choice.
People who aren't being nice will pick up on whatever they think their target is sensitive about and they'll strike. Unfortunately that's just people. Try not to let it fester, OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had a heated debate with someone on here. I don’t understand what the issue is with men needing to be taller than the woman. Like you guys know it’s not a personality trait and can’t be controlled? Women want to promote body positivity and being beautiful just the way you are and yet treat men under 6” like we’re second class citizens. DEBATE
Eh? That’s not true. I like a man to be taller than me. That’s not ever gonna change. How’s that treating them like a second class citizen? I’m confused. Explain. "
…is that tumble rolling past?! OP - would love to see your reply to this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never treat anyone as a second class citizen because they're on the shorter side op.
However we are all allowed to like what we like,I do like tall men which is a good job as Jack is 6ft3.
I have met men who were shorter in the past when I was single & it made no difference to me.
Some like a shorter man,not all will go for 6ft +.
Miss
Listen I hear what you’re saying and fair enough. If you have a preference you have a preference. But it’s easier to say these things. I genuinely feel like I’m lesser of a person because of something that I can’t control. I literally just got told by someone on chat that because I’m small I must have a tiny cock (ladies this is simply false). She then proceeded to block me and make me feel insecure.
2 points here. You feel less of a person....that's for you to work on accepting yourself as you are.
She then made you feel insecure....no, she blocked you, the insecurity is coming from within. If what you've said above is factual then yes, shes been a dick to you but how you respond is up to you, an insult is only an insult if you accept it. Fk her opinion, be confident in yourself, thats WAY more attractive than just about anything
I feel like less of a person because of the perception some women will have about me. Also I have no reason to make up some sob story so believe me when I say it’s all true. "
I was actually being supportive of you, nowhere did I accuse you of making up sob stories but hey, if you want to base your worth on the perception of others then fill your boots  |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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I once dated a guy who was a good 2 inches shorter than me.
His intelligence was his most attractive trait and that got my attention for a good while! It was good while it lasted, but I realised that I wasn’t comfortable with the height difference and wouldn’t do it again.
So no hate, but I am not attracted to men who are my height or shorter…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the guys under 5ft 8 Ive known had very large willies.
Alas it's true. We are destined to wander alone dragging our big under used cocks behind us "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is it a problem it's just a preference?
For me I prefer taller and generally well built men as I'm a big girl and taller guys have longer arms to wrap around me. |
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It's down to preferences, we all have and we all have to respect that.
There are always abusive people on here, chat to most of the women here and they'll tell you about abuse they've received because of their looks and sometime or another. You just have to dust yourself off and get on with it. You can't change people, you can only change how you deal with such messages. |
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We all have preferences just because you don't agree with someone's doesn't make it wrong.
Men like BBW, slim women, short women, tall women, they are allowed to specify what type of woman they are looking for.
Women like small cocks, big cocks, tall men, short men, dad bods & other body types.
We are all allowed preferences.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you are 5ft6in that's 5in taller than me (dude) and I have never really struggled with the ladies, I was once married to a women who was 5ft11in had children and a normal married life, sure we ultimately split up as we didn't see eye to eye but hey just think of taller women as a challenge and go get them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had a heated debate with someone on here. I don’t understand what the issue is with men needing to be taller than the woman. Like you guys know it’s not a personality trait and can’t be controlled? Women want to promote body positivity and being beautiful just the way you are and yet treat men under 6” like we’re second class citizens. DEBATE"
Do they? Do they really treat me under 6’ like second class citizens? Try a few hundred years of oppression just for being a woman then come back and see if you still wanna follow that whinge  |
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"Just had a heated debate with someone on here. I don’t understand what the issue is with men needing to be taller than the woman. Like you guys know it’s not a personality trait and can’t be controlled? Women want to promote body positivity and being beautiful just the way you are and yet treat men under 6” like we’re second class citizens. DEBATE
Do they? Do they really treat me under 6’ like second class citizens? Try a few hundred years of oppression just for being a woman then come back and see if you still wanna follow that whinge "
Man’s right to fuck, denied  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"OP you are 5ft6in that's 5in taller than me (dude) and I have never really struggled with the ladies, I was once married to a women who was 5ft11in had children and a normal married life, sure we ultimately split up as we didn't see eye to eye but hey just think of taller women as a challenge and go get them."
Well of course you didn't see eye to eye! |
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"Just had a heated debate with someone on here. I don’t understand what the issue is with men needing to be taller than the woman. Like you guys know it’s not a personality trait and can’t be controlled? Women want to promote body positivity and being beautiful just the way you are and yet treat men under 6” like we’re second class citizens. DEBATE
Do they? Do they really treat me under 6’ like second class citizens? Try a few hundred years of oppression just for being a woman then come back and see if you still wanna follow that whinge "
Anyone who says women are melodramatic hasn't been on the fab forums. Woe is me my cock is too small, I'm too short, it's a NIGHTMARE sending all these messages to CCC women and then they DENY me!  |
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"Just had a heated debate with someone on here. I don’t understand what the issue is with men needing to be taller than the woman. Like you guys know it’s not a personality trait and can’t be controlled? Women want to promote body positivity and being beautiful just the way you are and yet treat men under 6” like we’re second class citizens. DEBATE
Do they? Do they really treat me under 6’ like second class citizens? Try a few hundred years of oppression just for being a woman then come back and see if you still wanna follow that whinge
Anyone who says women are melodramatic hasn't been on the fab forums. Woe is me my cock is too small, I'm too short, it's a NIGHTMARE sending all these messages to CCC women and then they DENY me! "
oh away with you!
have a CCC+ on me x |
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"Just had a heated debate with someone on here. I don’t understand what the issue is with men needing to be taller than the woman. Like you guys know it’s not a personality trait and can’t be controlled? Women want to promote body positivity and being beautiful just the way you are and yet treat men under 6” like we’re second class citizens. DEBATE
Do they? Do they really treat me under 6’ like second class citizens? Try a few hundred years of oppression just for being a woman then come back and see if you still wanna follow that whinge
Anyone who says women are melodramatic hasn't been on the fab forums. Woe is me my cock is too small, I'm too short, it's a NIGHTMARE sending all these messages to CCC women and then they DENY me!
oh away with you!
have a CCC+ on me x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m short and prefer women to be the same height or smaller. That’s my preference. I don’t completely rule out women that are taller but don’t like the idea of looking like a toddler when she wants to hold hands. |
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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago
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Fellow shortie here, personally I think there’s someone for everyone and I have met women that towered over me it it all comes down to personal preference. I use my lack of height as a badge of honour and am not afraid to have a joke about it. |
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I'm 2 inches shorter than you OP and do understand where you're coming from. I was about 21 before I accepted I'm not getting any taller and just thought "Fuck it, I am what I am".
I've never had a problem attracting women and apart from my good looks and decent physique (  ) I think how I see myself and my attitude plays a part in that.
Someone above says they sometimes make a joke about their height. I do too, but only very occasionally and only to people who know me well. Taller people think they're so original by coming up to you and leaning on you and saying something 'clever' about a leaning post or whatnot, but it's not funny, you may laugh it off but it isn't funny. Thankfully I give off a certain vibe that no-one has tried that with me in decades.
We have couples message us and I always ask if they've read the profile properly and noticed my height, and tell them it's OK if they haven't noticed and don't want to continue corresponding. I'd say it's a 50/50 split they don't get back to us.
Anyway, I've waffled on too much but just want to ask the general audience a question; in how many Danny DeVito films have they made a joke about his height?
No idea what that question has to do with a preference, but... (where is that shrug emoji!)
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