Hi guys, I know its gotta be the most commonly discussed issue within the forum but I'm looking for some help as I'm stuck. I don't have any luck with receiving messages or replies from other members. I admit that I'm not one of those who will dedicate lots of time and effort into doing so but I do log on every now and again and send the odd message to a lady or a couple who may catch my eye. In months of doing this I have probably received a maximum of 4 maybe 5 replies and none are reciprocal. I have tried all manner of approaches and just wanted to know what a couple or a lady generally look for in a message from a single lad. If you bothered reading all the way to the end of this then thanks and hope to read your replies soon |
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"I admit that I'm not one of those who will dedicate lots of time and effort into doing so but I do log on every now and again and send the odd message to a lady or a couple who may catch my eye. "
You've really answered your own question there. You'll get out of the site what you put in |
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I find its hit and miss... i tend to go at this site as a place to meet and conversate and the meets come naturally. Ive met some fantastic people that way.. believe me your soon start getting meets... |
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" If you bothered reading all the way to the end of this then thanks and hope to read your replies soon "
It was hard work and nearly gave me a headache
Your profile and post on this thread seem so intense, try putting what you are trying to say into paragraphs, it's much easier to read.
In response to your original question, it does take time and effort to get a meet, but as has already been mentioned guys outnumber gals
Be patient, your time will come |
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"over a year?...well..I'd say u havent been proactive enough
profile wise..a better range of pics might help
clubs and socials"
sorry just seen uve been to clubs, such as chameleons... I just dont know why u havent asked if there is someone who uve played with thats on fab
itd help getting some recognition at least, as ur only verify is from a male and via webcam |
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