"What do woman like to see on men’s profiles? Also opening messages talk to me what do you want in them? "
For me, because everyone likes different thing.
Teasing pictures, not too graphic, with a decent enough idea of how physically attractive they are overall.
A profile that tells me what they want what they offer, and something to actually connect with.
A message that shows they have actually read my profile, genuinely believe we can be compatible, and an attempt to connect over something that's been said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly, don't bother OP. You can do everything right. You can have the best looking photos, the clearest bio, the most glowing verifications and it's all still a game of numbers.
It's pointless to seek the advice of strangers because it doesn't mean it will lead to anything. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Honestly, don't bother OP. You can do everything right. You can have the best looking photos, the clearest bio, the most glowing verifications and it's all still a game of numbers.
It's pointless to seek the advice of strangers because it doesn't mean it will lead to anything."
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want a fit Dom to crack my code. Not too much to ask is it? 
Oh and a woman.
I only want one of each, I'm not asking for much, honest. 
What about a fit Domme?  "
That could work...as long as she restrains me and reddens this blank canvas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put what you want.
Show what you want.
The birds will either like ya or they won’t.
Putting stuff that you think they wanna hear will just turn you into another generic single man amongst the sea of other generic single men. |
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"I just want a fit Dom to crack my code. Not too much to ask is it?
Oh and a woman.
I only want one of each, I'm not asking for much, honest.
What about a fit Domme?
That could work...as long as she restrains me and reddens this blank canvas."
Right.
I will hit the gym and see if I can get better than occasional service top  |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
Belfast |
Are you trying to be what people want or trying to sell yourself in the best light?
If you try and follow a template of what you think people want, you'll lose yourself along the way.
Tweak your profile but remain true to yourself. |
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"Are you trying to be what people want or trying to sell yourself in the best light?
If you try and follow a template of what you think people want, you'll lose yourself along the way.
Tweak your profile but remain true to yourself."
I try to give people an outline rather than something to copy.
So "be original" rather than "post a picture of your X at a 90 degree angle"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want a fit Dom to crack my code. Not too much to ask is it?
Oh and a woman.
I only want one of each, I'm not asking for much, honest.
What about a fit Domme?
That could work...as long as she restrains me and reddens this blank canvas."
I would love to restrain you and redden the blank canvas, however, I doubt I could overcome your code cracking questionnaire, so many ????? Yet they could all be answers, and I certainly wouldn't class myself as fit.
I did find myself lured into reading your entire bio though!! |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Honestly, don't bother OP. You can do everything right. You can have the best looking photos, the clearest bio, the most glowing verifications and it's all still a game of numbers.
It's pointless to seek the advice of strangers because it doesn't mean it will lead to anything."
exactly your just a guy amongst many guys and some with stunning bodies, abs, tatts and down n out beards and young sheeesh |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Put what you want.
Show what you want.
The birds will either like ya or they won’t.
Putting stuff that you think they wanna hear will just turn you into another generic single man amongst the sea of other generic single men. "
Some men really need the advice given here, it’s good advice and insight into what women want , if only they would / could act on it.
You are kind of right , they would need to change who they are to be able to do it authentically, but trying is probably more likely to lead to success than sending abusive messages & having profiles that look like 14 year old boys with their Willy out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I try to show enough but not too much … to be confident but not arrogant … to be intriguing and hopefully engage the mind.
We can’t please everybody and shouldn’t try to … it’s about attracting the right minds / people |
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By *elshmumWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I want to tease photos not a million dick pic, I also want to know what their likes and dislikes are and what they are looking for.
I also want them to read my profile before messaging so they know abit about me and see if what I want is suitable for the.
If they message then don't start with sex talk or dic pics. I like a man who can hold a conversation. I also have to be able to see at least 1 photo public and pref a face pic when they message |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
Belfast |
"Are you trying to be what people want or trying to sell yourself in the best light?
If you try and follow a template of what you think people want, you'll lose yourself along the way.
Tweak your profile but remain true to yourself.
I try to give people an outline rather than something to copy.
So "be original" rather than "post a picture of your X at a 90 degree angle" "
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Tasteful, creative, recent photos.
A little bit about them and what they're looking for, the activities they enjoy and why they came to Fab.
Short, polite first msg, which proves they read the profile, with a clear, recent face pic attached. |
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