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Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your dick size really isn't the problem.
You could have a massive cock which may turn a few ladies heads, but the majority are looking for so much more than just a penis."
Perky is correct! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your dick size really isn't the problem.
You could have a massive cock which may turn a few ladies heads, but the majority are looking for so much more than just a penis."
Two penises? Penii? Peens?
whatever |
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I don't meet men and I hate cock pics just throwing that out there...
But I'm quite fond of a small cock, it definitely wouldn't put me off at all, if the man of a couple was small I'd probably be more inclined to meet than one that's huge.
To be honest though it all depends on the bloke not the cock.
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I play with a guy who spends most of the time giving me oral or using his fingers. His cock isn’t big and only lasts about a minute when he does have sex.
It’s definitely more about what else he can do rather than the penetration. Focus on other things to make a partner happy such as massage, oral, teasing with other things. Look into sensual play. |
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Can't comment, as there are no pics (which isn't a bad thing) but we aren't all size queens.
I'd much rather have average any day!
You're not my type overall, but as a positive, you do have lovely eyes op. |
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome "
You haven't asked for profile advice but you don't have one so that could be the problem  |
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"Maybe but im new to swinging scene I guess I thought just meeting for a social drink and a chat would be ok I can't accommodate which is probably a huge problem for a lot of women on here "
Look on the meets section of the forum for some of the organised group socials.
Good luck
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"Maybe but im new to swinging scene I guess I thought just meeting for a social drink and a chat would be ok I can't accommodate which is probably a huge problem for a lot of women on here "
With no profile there's not much advice we can give you OP.
But, the reply and quote button makes it a lot easier for people to know what you're responding to on here. |
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"Maybe but im new to swinging scene I guess I thought just meeting for a social drink and a chat would be ok I can't accommodate which is probably a huge problem for a lot of women on here
With no profile there's not much advice we can give you OP.thanks totally newbie sorry x
But, the reply and quote button makes it a lot easier for people to know what you're responding to on here."
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Your bio doesn’t say anything about you, other than saying you can accommodate, your profile also says you can’t accommodate, that’s a bit confusing. Also that you can’t travel.
Tbh as a single guy your profile really needs to stand out or you won’t get many replies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That would be great if I could get some advice especially from a female perspective "
If you use the 'reply + quote' button, we know who you are responding to
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"Can't comment, as there are no pics (which isn't a bad thing) but we aren't all size queens.
I'd much rather have average any day!
You're not my type overall, but as a positive, you do have lovely eyes op."
I'm well below average |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
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"Your bio doesn’t say anything about you, other than saying you can accommodate, your profile also says you can’t accommodate, that’s a bit confusing. Also that you can’t travel.
Tbh as a single guy your profile really needs to stand out or you won’t get many replies"
That is if people read the profile. ? Not sure how many photos OP has . ?
The number of times when I do get messages . I ask if read my profile and inform my age is correct . No more replies.  |
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"I've just added to my profile and added a very modest photo of my penis little embarrassed to say the least .
Please comment on what I should change if anything "
You're new to the swinging scene but uploaded that photo to a swinging site 7 years ago?
Given that most comments on here have said the penis size is not the issue but that's your choice of action anyway, perhaps you should ask a question where the answer might actually have an effect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP best thing to do is either go to a club or a meet near you that is for fab peeps and get to meet and get verified by fabsters then the fun will start.. Do not think the scene is just about getting naked, it is about friendship too. Just take it slow and join in the chat in the forums. Have fun and play safe  |
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"Maybe but im new to swinging scene I guess I thought just meeting for a social drink and a chat would be ok I can't accommodate which is probably a huge problem for a lot of women on here "
Your profile text says you can accommodate. Your profile says you can.
Your stating here you can't so which one is it.
You need a whole profile overhaul I'd say.
The advice of going to clubs and socials is good. So much easier to come across better in person.
Flaccid cock pics are defo not for me.
Also if you have any kind of growth when hard I'd say you're nowhere near well below average.
Lastly. Size queens aside. Very few women care that much about cock size. Or at least there is about 30 other things that come above that when choosing a sex partner. |
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"Maybe but im new to swinging scene I guess I thought just meeting for a social drink and a chat would be ok I can't accommodate which is probably a huge problem for a lot of women on here
Your profile text says you can accommodate. Your profile says you can.
Your stating here you can't so which one is it.
You need a whole profile overhaul I'd say.
The advice of going to clubs and socials is good. So much easier to come across better in person.
Flaccid cock pics are defo not for me.
Also if you have any kind of growth when hard I'd say you're nowhere near well below average.
Lastly. Size queens aside. Very few women care that much about cock size. Or at least there is about 30 other things that come above that when choosing a sex partner. "
I have just updated my profile I did say I can't accommodate at the moment now x |
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Your penis size isn't the problem. I'm taking your post as asking for profile advice.
I'm not sure your pictures represent you in your best light. Your penis isn't small. It's just not gigantic. But the pictures you have of it aren't that attractive - both "disembodied body part" and flaccid are probably not likely to go over well. How do you show off your body in its best light in your pictures? (Try standing up your phone on something and using the camera timer and/or mirrors for more options of pictures you can take of yourself)
Similarly, put some thought into your profile text. Answer the following questions. What am I looking for, who am I looking for, and why might they want to meet me? (The last bit is the most important)
Saying you're "new to this" when you've been here since 2017 (date on one of your photos) shows you've put little or no thought into it since you joined. |
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"Your penis size isn't the problem. I'm taking your post as asking for profile advice.
I'm not sure your pictures represent you in your best light. Your penis isn't small. It's just not gigantic. But the pictures you have of it aren't that attractive - both "disembodied body part" and flaccid are probably not likely to go over well. How do you show off your body in its best light in your pictures? (Try standing up your phone on something and using the camera timer and/or mirrors for more options of pictures you can take of yourself)
Similarly, put some thought into your profile text. Answer the following questions. What am I looking for, who am I looking for, and why might they want to meet me? (The last bit is the most important)
Saying you're "new to this" when you've been here since 2017 (date on one of your photos) shows you've put little or no thought into it since you joined."
thank you for your comments ?? I joined in 2017 and came off cos I knew I wasn't what women would want not much change there in 2023 |
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"Your penis size isn't the problem. I'm taking your post as asking for profile advice.
I'm not sure your pictures represent you in your best light. Your penis isn't small. It's just not gigantic. But the pictures you have of it aren't that attractive - both "disembodied body part" and flaccid are probably not likely to go over well. How do you show off your body in its best light in your pictures? (Try standing up your phone on something and using the camera timer and/or mirrors for more options of pictures you can take of yourself)
Similarly, put some thought into your profile text. Answer the following questions. What am I looking for, who am I looking for, and why might they want to meet me? (The last bit is the most important)
Saying you're "new to this" when you've been here since 2017 (date on one of your photos) shows you've put little or no thought into it since you joined. thank you for your comments ?? I joined in 2017 and came off cos I knew I wasn't what women would want not much change there in 2023"
OK. But you can no longer say you're new. I've been pretty active, granted, but I've been on this site less time than you have and I consider myself very experienced. |
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"I joined in 2017 and came off cos I knew I wasn't what women would want not much change there in 2023"
You determine your own journey here.
If you haven't evolved or changed your outlook, why would you expect the site to? |
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"I joined in 2017 and came off cos I knew I wasn't what women would want not much change there in 2023
You determine your own journey here.
If you haven't evolved or changed your outlook, why would you expect the site to?"
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome "
Doesn't look small buddy, so I guess it must be some other reason. |
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"Your penis size isn't the problem. I'm taking your post as asking for profile advice.
I'm not sure your pictures represent you in your best light. Your penis isn't small. It's just not gigantic. But the pictures you have of it aren't that attractive - both "disembodied body part" and flaccid are probably not likely to go over well. How do you show off your body in its best light in your pictures? (Try standing up your phone on something and using the camera timer and/or mirrors for more options of pictures you can take of yourself)
Similarly, put some thought into your profile text. Answer the following questions. What am I looking for, who am I looking for, and why might they want to meet me? (The last bit is the most important)
Saying you're "new to this" when you've been here since 2017 (date on one of your photos) shows you've put little or no thought into it since you joined. thank you for your comments ?? I joined in 2017 and came off cos I knew I wasn't what women would want not much change there in 2023
OK. But you can no longer say you're new. I've been pretty active, granted, but I've been on this site less time than you have and I consider myself very experienced."
think women have a great selection to choose from |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
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To appeal to women, you have to appeal. Be yourself but sell yourself.
Know what you want in a woman and articulate it, as well as explaining what you can offer.
You are one of hundreds in your area. Stand up, stand out, stand proud.
(Advice I don't take myself. but hey ho) |
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"Your penis size isn't the problem. I'm taking your post as asking for profile advice.
I'm not sure your pictures represent you in your best light. Your penis isn't small. It's just not gigantic. But the pictures you have of it aren't that attractive - both "disembodied body part" and flaccid are probably not likely to go over well. How do you show off your body in its best light in your pictures? (Try standing up your phone on something and using the camera timer and/or mirrors for more options of pictures you can take of yourself)
Similarly, put some thought into your profile text. Answer the following questions. What am I looking for, who am I looking for, and why might they want to meet me? (The last bit is the most important)
Saying you're "new to this" when you've been here since 2017 (date on one of your photos) shows you've put little or no thought into it since you joined. thank you for your comments ?? I joined in 2017 and came off cos I knew I wasn't what women would want not much change there in 2023
OK. But you can no longer say you're new. I've been pretty active, granted, but I've been on this site less time than you have and I consider myself very experienced.think women have a great selection to choose from "
Yes. Women are vastly outnumbered here (which comes with its own challenges).
However, that doesn't change that you're not new and to make this site work for you, you should consider what your profile looks like to others and/ or your outlook. |
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"think women have a great selection to choose from
If by great you mean large, sure.
If you mean great as in there's multiple options that actually appeal, not so much."
yeah. there's these fifty guys or deep cleaning the bathroom and a novel.
That mop looks mighty hot right now |
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"Your penis size isn't the problem. I'm taking your post as asking for profile advice.
I'm not sure your pictures represent you in your best light. Your penis isn't small. It's just not gigantic. But the pictures you have of it aren't that attractive - both "disembodied body part" and flaccid are probably not likely to go over well. How do you show off your body in its best light in your pictures? (Try standing up your phone on something and using the camera timer and/or mirrors for more options of pictures you can take of yourself)
Similarly, put some thought into your profile text. Answer the following questions. What am I looking for, who am I looking for, and why might they want to meet me? (The last bit is the most important)
Saying you're "new to this" when you've been here since 2017 (date on one of your photos) shows you've put little or no thought into it since you joined. thank you for your comments ?? I joined in 2017 and came off cos I knew I wasn't what women would want not much change there in 2023
OK. But you can no longer say you're new. I've been pretty active, granted, but I've been on this site less time than you have and I consider myself very experienced.think women have a great selection to choose from
Yes. Women are vastly outnumbered here (which comes with its own challenges).
However, that doesn't change that you're not new and to make this site work for you, you should consider what your profile looks like to others and/ or your outlook."
think I just need to get out on a social group night and meet people that way as I'm not coming across the best way on here I agree x |
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"Your penis size isn't the problem. I'm taking your post as asking for profile advice.
I'm not sure your pictures represent you in your best light. Your penis isn't small. It's just not gigantic. But the pictures you have of it aren't that attractive - both "disembodied body part" and flaccid are probably not likely to go over well. How do you show off your body in its best light in your pictures? (Try standing up your phone on something and using the camera timer and/or mirrors for more options of pictures you can take of yourself)
Similarly, put some thought into your profile text. Answer the following questions. What am I looking for, who am I looking for, and why might they want to meet me? (The last bit is the most important)
Saying you're "new to this" when you've been here since 2017 (date on one of your photos) shows you've put little or no thought into it since you joined. thank you for your comments ?? I joined in 2017 and came off cos I knew I wasn't what women would want not much change there in 2023
OK. But you can no longer say you're new. I've been pretty active, granted, but I've been on this site less time than you have and I consider myself very experienced.think women have a great selection to choose from
Yes. Women are vastly outnumbered here (which comes with its own challenges).
However, that doesn't change that you're not new and to make this site work for you, you should consider what your profile looks like to others and/ or your outlook.think I just need to get out on a social group night and meet people that way as I'm not coming across the best way on here I agree x"
Yes. However, you should also work on how you come across here. (I've deliberately given you a "how" more than a "what" because a cookie cutter "this is what women want" profile isn't good either, and we can spot it a mile off) |
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"Your penis size isn't the problem. I'm taking your post as asking for profile advice.
I'm not sure your pictures represent you in your best light. Your penis isn't small. It's just not gigantic. But the pictures you have of it aren't that attractive - both "disembodied body part" and flaccid are probably not likely to go over well. How do you show off your body in its best light in your pictures? (Try standing up your phone on something and using the camera timer and/or mirrors for more options of pictures you can take of yourself)
Similarly, put some thought into your profile text. Answer the following questions. What am I looking for, who am I looking for, and why might they want to meet me? (The last bit is the most important)
Saying you're "new to this" when you've been here since 2017 (date on one of your photos) shows you've put little or no thought into it since you joined. thank you for your comments ?? I joined in 2017 and came off cos I knew I wasn't what women would want not much change there in 2023
OK. But you can no longer say you're new. I've been pretty active, granted, but I've been on this site less time than you have and I consider myself very experienced.think women have a great selection to choose from
Yes. Women are vastly outnumbered here (which comes with its own challenges).
However, that doesn't change that you're not new and to make this site work for you, you should consider what your profile looks like to others and/ or your outlook.think I just need to get out on a social group night and meet people that way as I'm not coming across the best way on here I agree x
Yes. However, you should also work on how you come across here. (I've deliberately given you a "how" more than a "what" because a cookie cutter "this is what women want" profile isn't good either, and we can spot it a mile off)"
 I'm not trying to be fake or come across that way I'd rather find a woman who we could get to know each other over time for regular meets and share this journey together there are some really nice people here I just need to learn how to be a part of the lifestyle ?? |
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Yes, having a good-sized knob helps on this site but you can still get plenty of action with any cock if you show personality and charm.
And like a few suggested: bring something else to the table. You can still lick, finger, massage and toy with her as you please. One of my regulars enjoys sex but what she really loves is spanking, oral and getting fucked with dildos and cock. It gets interesting everytime and there are loads of things you can do besides ramming your cock down her throat.
Also, do go to clubs and socials on Fabs. Great way to meet people and break ice. Get a few verifications too. Don't be timid and let her know exactly what you like and what you would like to do to her. She says no? No problem. Move on.
There's a very well known club in Darlaston which is one of the best in the country. In fact, I was there last Sunday for their BBW night shaking my arse on the dance floor. You should go and have a ball. There are more clubs in West brom and Birmingham. Time for some action. |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Lesbians supposedly have more orgasms than straight women which would suggest that penis size does not have a major effect on how good a time the woman will have. I wouldn’t worry about your penis size. |
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"Lesbians supposedly have more orgasms than straight women which would suggest that penis size does not have a major effect on how good a time the woman will have. I wouldn’t worry about your penis size. "
I love oral sex especially giving I'm not a selfish lover I know I have to make up for the lack of my cock size some how lol
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"Yes, having a good-sized knob helps on this site but you can still get plenty of action with any cock if you show personality and charm.
And like a few suggested: bring something else to the table. You can still lick, finger, massage and toy with her as you please. One of my regulars enjoys sex but what she really loves is spanking, oral and getting fucked with dildos and cock. It gets interesting everytime and there are loads of things you can do besides ramming your cock down her throat.
Also, do go to clubs and socials on Fabs. Great way to meet people and break ice. Get a few verifications too. Don't be timid and let her know exactly what you like and what you would like to do to her. She says no? No problem. Move on.
There's a very well known club in Darlaston which is one of the best in the country. In fact, I was there last Sunday for their BBW night shaking my arse on the dance floor. You should go and have a ball. There are more clubs in West brom and Birmingham. Time for some action. "
I don't think you have that problem but are there any good organised social for swingers especially single males |
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome "
Doesn't look small to me, and I've been around a few
Maybe buy a small remote control |
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome
Doesn't look small to me, and I've been around a few
Maybe buy a small remote control "
remote control for what sorry lol |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome
Doesn't look small to me, and I've been around a few
Maybe buy a small remote control remote control for what sorry lol"
It's an in joke. Cock compared to a sky remote is a fab standard to show off size. |
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome
Doesn't look small to me, and I've been around a few
Maybe buy a small remote control remote control for what sorry lol"
You see a lot of men taking photos of their cock with a remote control next to it to give a sense of scale |
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"Your penis size isn't the problem. I'm taking your post as asking for profile advice.
I'm not sure your pictures represent you in your best light. Your penis isn't small. It's just not gigantic. But the pictures you have of it aren't that attractive - both "disembodied body part" and flaccid are probably not likely to go over well. How do you show off your body in its best light in your pictures? (Try standing up your phone on something and using the camera timer and/or mirrors for more options of pictures you can take of yourself)
Similarly, put some thought into your profile text. Answer the following questions. What am I looking for, who am I looking for, and why might they want to meet me? (The last bit is the most important)
Saying you're "new to this" when you've been here since 2017 (date on one of your photos) shows you've put little or no thought into it since you joined. thank you for your comments ?? I joined in 2017 and came off cos I knew I wasn't what women would want not much change there in 2023
OK. But you can no longer say you're new. I've been pretty active, granted, but I've been on this site less time than you have and I consider myself very experienced.think women have a great selection to choose from
Yes. Women are vastly outnumbered here (which comes with its own challenges).
However, that doesn't change that you're not new and to make this site work for you, you should consider what your profile looks like to others and/ or your outlook.think I just need to get out on a social group night and meet people that way as I'm not coming across the best way on here I agree x
Yes. However, you should also work on how you come across here. (I've deliberately given you a "how" more than a "what" because a cookie cutter "this is what women want" profile isn't good either, and we can spot it a mile off) I'm not trying to be fake or come across that way I'd rather find a woman who we could get to know each other over time for regular meets and share this journey together there are some really nice people here I just need to learn how to be a part of the lifestyle ?? "
OK. But if you want to find that person, you need to present yourself in the best possible light. I go back to my original advice - that's how you do it, if you want to use this site to its best potential to find a person or people to explore the lifestyle with. |
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"Your penis size isn't the problem. I'm taking your post as asking for profile advice.
I'm not sure your pictures represent you in your best light. Your penis isn't small. It's just not gigantic. But the pictures you have of it aren't that attractive - both "disembodied body part" and flaccid are probably not likely to go over well. How do you show off your body in its best light in your pictures? (Try standing up your phone on something and using the camera timer and/or mirrors for more options of pictures you can take of yourself)
Similarly, put some thought into your profile text. Answer the following questions. What am I looking for, who am I looking for, and why might they want to meet me? (The last bit is the most important)
Saying you're "new to this" when you've been here since 2017 (date on one of your photos) shows you've put little or no thought into it since you joined. thank you for your comments ?? I joined in 2017 and came off cos I knew I wasn't what women would want not much change there in 2023
OK. But you can no longer say you're new. I've been pretty active, granted, but I've been on this site less time than you have and I consider myself very experienced.think women have a great selection to choose from
Yes. Women are vastly outnumbered here (which comes with its own challenges).
However, that doesn't change that you're not new and to make this site work for you, you should consider what your profile looks like to others and/ or your outlook.think I just need to get out on a social group night and meet people that way as I'm not coming across the best way on here I agree x
Yes. However, you should also work on how you come across here. (I've deliberately given you a "how" more than a "what" because a cookie cutter "this is what women want" profile isn't good either, and we can spot it a mile off) I'm not trying to be fake or come across that way I'd rather find a woman who we could get to know each other over time for regular meets and share this journey together there are some really nice people here I just need to learn how to be a part of the lifestyle ??
OK. But if you want to find that person, you need to present yourself in the best possible light. I go back to my original advice - that's how you do it, if you want to use this site to its best potential to find a person or people to explore the lifestyle with."
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"Your penis size isn't the problem. I'm taking your post as asking for profile advice.
I'm not sure your pictures represent you in your best light. Your penis isn't small. It's just not gigantic. But the pictures you have of it aren't that attractive - both "disembodied body part" and flaccid are probably not likely to go over well. How do you show off your body in its best light in your pictures? (Try standing up your phone on something and using the camera timer and/or mirrors for more options of pictures you can take of yourself)
Similarly, put some thought into your profile text. Answer the following questions. What am I looking for, who am I looking for, and why might they want to meet me? (The last bit is the most important)
Saying you're "new to this" when you've been here since 2017 (date on one of your photos) shows you've put little or no thought into it since you joined. thank you for your comments ?? I joined in 2017 and came off cos I knew I wasn't what women would want not much change there in 2023
OK. But you can no longer say you're new. I've been pretty active, granted, but I've been on this site less time than you have and I consider myself very experienced.think women have a great selection to choose from
Yes. Women are vastly outnumbered here (which comes with its own challenges).
However, that doesn't change that you're not new and to make this site work for you, you should consider what your profile looks like to others and/ or your outlook.think I just need to get out on a social group night and meet people that way as I'm not coming across the best way on here I agree x
Yes. However, you should also work on how you come across here. (I've deliberately given you a "how" more than a "what" because a cookie cutter "this is what women want" profile isn't good either, and we can spot it a mile off) I'm not trying to be fake or come across that way I'd rather find a woman who we could get to know each other over time for regular meets and share this journey together there are some really nice people here I just need to learn how to be a part of the lifestyle ??
OK. But if you want to find that person, you need to present yourself in the best possible light. I go back to my original advice - that's how you do it, if you want to use this site to its best potential to find a person or people to explore the lifestyle with.so how ???"
By making your profile the best version of yourself you can present. As outlined above |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome "
Women will either find you attractive or they won't. For me, penis size isn't a consideration providing it's not enormous |
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Hiya OP, yes size matters.
However, some women are able to have mind-blowing orgasms during intercourse when they are with men who have small penises. Reason being the penis is able to directly press on their G spot, which we know is located at different depths in the vagina for each woman. Having a small penis doesn't preclude a man from being able to please a woman.
How two partners fit together physically matters a lot more than just sheer penis size. |
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"Hiya OP, yes size matters.
However, some women are able to have mind-blowing orgasms during intercourse when they are with men who have small penises. Reason being the penis is able to directly press on their G spot, which we know is located at different depths in the vagina for each woman. Having a small penis doesn't preclude a man from being able to please a woman.
How two partners fit together physically matters a lot more than just sheer penis size."
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome
Women will either find you attractive or they won't. For me, penis size isn't a consideration providing it's not enormous "
so am I attractive or not really |
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome
Women will either find you attractive or they won't. For me, penis size isn't a consideration providing it's not enormous so am I attractive or not really "
Trouble with asking someone if you're attractive is everyones taste is different, it's like asking someone if they like a chocolate digestive...... Loads will say yes but also loads will say no, some like gingernuts (insert your own pun here) some like rich tea and some would love a nice custard cream(again insert your own pun here). |
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Without trying to sound mean to the op but maybe try not sending a Dick pic at the first sign of interest I'm just guessing here and say that you could be bombarding them with messages and that's why or it may be because they don't fancy you facially it's not always down to cock size I don't know you from Adam but this thread and tbh your profile needs work it doesn't sell you or make you stand out there is like 200 eager solo guys to every female on here so standing out being unique and just being honest and patient will help you sure it may not result in a meet but even a reply is better than nothing try chatting with people on here more |
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome
Women will either find you attractive or they won't. For me, penis size isn't a consideration providing it's not enormous so am I attractive or not really "
that's subjective to every different person here |
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The cold hard truth of the matter is that women have more power on this site than men.
Men need to make the effort to look good, be funny, charming, available and even with that it's still a numbers game.
Women, no matter how they look or sound, only need have to have a profile - even with a blank profile they still get attention.
Making it about your cock is pathetic tbh -- if you can really be arsed (I can't), you really need to work for it in so many ways.
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"Women, no matter how they look or sound, only need have to have a profile - even with a blank profile they still get attention."
To be fair, any man with no profile or pictures but having single males as an option, or even just not blocked, will also get attention and offers.
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome
Women will either find you attractive or they won't. For me, penis size isn't a consideration providing it's not enormous so am I attractive or not really "
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Try saying you prefer to receive pleasure more than you like giving it and that you are not very good with your tounge(sic).
That way the women will know you are not desperate, unlike all the thousands of others who peddle those lines! |
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome "
Your penis isn't an issue for women as a rule, though your apparent dissatisfaction with it might be. I have honestly never considered cock size at all when deciding if I want to have sex with a man.
Personality and outlook are important.
Your profile needs work... it needs to reflect the current situation, what you can offer and what you're looking for.
If you're a social person get to clubs and social meets. Likely to have more success than on here.
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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The ratio of men to women here is very imbalanced.
Hang out in the forum chatting and checking out other profiles.
Get to a club and meet.
I'ts really unlikely that you will make connections just by messaging women here, I think.
I like profiles which have creative pictures and sexy hints of nudity. You don't need to put a dick pic on unless you want to. Good attitude reflected in the text.
You have lovely eyes, the suit pic is nice.
Its great you've popped here for feedback.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hiya OP, yes size matters.
However, some women are able to have mind-blowing orgasms during intercourse when they are with men who have small penises. Reason being the penis is able to directly press on their G spot, which we know is located at different depths in the vagina for each woman. Having a small penis doesn't preclude a man from being able to please a woman.
How two partners fit together physically matters a lot more than just sheer penis size.I have a good tounge "
That and your Lamborghini Egoista should do it |
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"The ratio of men to women here is very imbalanced.
Hang out in the forum chatting and checking out other profiles.
Get to a club and meet.
I'ts really unlikely that you will make connections just by messaging women here, I think.
I like profiles which have creative pictures and sexy hints of nudity. You don't need to put a dick pic on unless you want to. Good attitude reflected in the text.
You have lovely eyes, the suit pic is nice.
Its great you've popped here for feedback.
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"The ratio of men to women here is very imbalanced.
Hang out in the forum chatting and checking out other profiles.
Get to a club and meet.
I'ts really unlikely that you will make connections just by messaging women here, I think.
I like profiles which have creative pictures and sexy hints of nudity. You don't need to put a dick pic on unless you want to. Good attitude reflected in the text.
You have lovely eyes, the suit pic is nice.
Its great you've popped here for feedback.
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome "
How do they know you have a small cock? You don't mention it in your profile or have any pics of it, unless they are 'Friends'! |
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome
How do they know you have a small cock? You don't mention it in your profile or have any pics of it, unless they are 'Friends'!"
I did show it as to not to get that disappointing look when they see me face to face not a great feeling I have removed all cock photos to private and will re think my image and profile over the weekend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women (as much as they like to deny it) prefer a bigger penis
I know
Ffs OK well then I suggest you look in the other forum section their small cock aprecieation thread ."
Everyone is different some like big ones others like small ones. It’s up to the individual |
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I know many males with a small penis.The ones who are great company, cute or handsome, and good with their fingers and tongue have plenty of dates.Or are married and have great regular sex.The toxic ones don't get sex.It can be about size....but for Me personally it would be about the person it's attached to |
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"I know many males with a small penis.The ones who are great company, cute or handsome, and good with their fingers and tongue have plenty of dates.Or are married and have great regular sex.The toxic ones don't get sex.It can be about size....but for Me personally it would be about the person it's attached to "
I was married 18 years so I guess she didn't mind |
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome "
All men think they need to have as big a cock as possible, yet the truth is; women are more concerned about who the cock (of whatever size it is) is connected to
Update your profile text for starters mate. You’ve been here for over a year now, so no longer a ‘total newbie’.
Lose the line “A bit about me”, it really is unnecessary.
Does anyone’s profile in here really get hacked? I seriously doubt it. Alter that line to “Returning to Fab after a break” or something…..
Punctuate your sentences correctly. Women like details, and grammar speaks volumes.
If you’re only happy to show face pics in your profile, smile! Big, cheesy, ‘I laugh at the world and I do it every day’ smiles attract the ladies more than wandering around with a 3ft phallus swinging out of your fly….. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Most women (as much as they like to deny it) prefer a bigger penis
I know"
Oh for goodness sake .You have been given lots of advice on here and several women have said how penis size isn't a factor in deciding why they meet someone and yet the one comment you agree with is the one that goes against what most of the women on this thread have said,and I agree with them penis size has never been a deciding factor in meeting anyone off here.
Yes there are some women who only want men who are well endowed but like anything on here it's easy to move on and not contact them.
You are in control of your journey on here and no one else.You can blame everything else or everyone else if you have no luck but at the end of the day it's up to you to take the steps to make your journey a success on here. Obsessing on a imaginary reason as to why you have no luck won't help that journey though. |
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"I know many males with a small penis.The ones who are great company, cute or handsome, and good with their fingers and tongue have plenty of dates.Or are married and have great regular sex.The toxic ones don't get sex.It can be about size....but for Me personally it would be about the person it's attached to "
mines detachable thats technology for you |
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over a year ago
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To be brutally honest, I'd give you and those like you, a wide berth. Not because of the size of your dick but because of your fixation on it. Theres less that fk all you can do about it so stop moaning about what you haven't got and be a bit more positive about yourself as a person! Sheesh...guys and their dicks  |
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"To be brutally honest, I'd give you and those like you, a wide berth. Not because of the size of your dick but because of your fixation on it. Theres less that fk all you can do about it so stop moaning about what you haven't got and be a bit more positive about yourself as a person! Sheesh...guys and their dicks "
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"To be brutally honest, I'd give you and those like you, a wide berth. Not because of the size of your dick but because of your fixation on it. Theres less that fk all you can do about it so stop moaning about what you haven't got and be a bit more positive about yourself as a person! Sheesh...guys and their dicks "
can you tell me what like minded is? |
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over a year ago
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I will mirror what a lot of others have said...
And for once I actually read every single post... which includes every single one of your replies.
You need to work on yourself buddy, if one can't love themselves how can you expect anyone else to? Get my drift?
Lots of good advice has been given and yet all throughout your replies you are still fixated on your cock size!
I'm not the best looking guy at all but I think S is a stunner! How did that come about? = My confidence in myself! Yeah I'm decently endowed but do you think I whipped it out when I first met her to make sure it was big enough for her? Lol
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"To be brutally honest, I'd give you and those like you, a wide berth. Not because of the size of your dick but because of your fixation on it. Theres less that fk all you can do about it so stop moaning about what you haven't got and be a bit more positive about yourself as a person! Sheesh...guys and their dicks can you tell me what like minded is? "
No, why do you ask? |
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"I will mirror what a lot of others have said...
And for once I actually read every single post... which includes every single one of your replies.
You need to work on yourself buddy, if one can't love themselves how can you expect anyone else to? Get my drift?
Lots of good advice has been given and yet all throughout your replies you are still fixated on your cock size!
I'm not the best looking guy at all but I think S is a stunner! How did that come about? = My confidence in myself! Yeah I'm decently endowed but do you think I whipped it out when I first met her to make sure it was big enough for her? Lol
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thanks I have read every response and appreciate all the comments I do know I need to work on a lot of things maybe this isn't right for me but I'm going to invest my time in good photos and re evaluation of my profile and what I'm looking for I know what I am and who I am I just don't come across to well on here but thanks for yours and everyone elses comments I will act upon them |
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"Good luck op  feeling like a social would probably be best to try
Yeah give it a try we find clubs are much easier to meet people "
think a social only party if I can find one local would be good I'm just afraid I will look like a rabbit in car head lights lol |
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"Good luck op feeling like a social would probably be best to try
Yeah give it a try we find clubs are much easier to meet people think a social only party if I can find one local would be good I'm just afraid I will look like a rabbit in car head lights lol"
It can be quite daunting the first time. But a lot of clubs have socials before and they are great to meet people before going to a club |
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"Good luck op feeling like a social would probably be best to try
Yeah give it a try we find clubs are much easier to meet people think a social only party if I can find one local would be good I'm just afraid I will look like a rabbit in car head lights lol
It can be quite daunting the first time. But a lot of clubs have socials before and they are great to meet people before going to a club "
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"You have 1 of the best clubs in England on your doorstep as well as a great place in West brom.
Get out there, show yourself off!
All the best OPwhere
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I've never been, but people rave about Chams
https://www.fabswingers.com/clubs/11 |
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"You have 1 of the best clubs in England on your doorstep as well as a great place in West brom.
Get out there, show yourself off!
All the best OPwhere
I've never been, but people rave about Chams
https://www.fabswingers.com/clubs/11"
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"You have 1 of the best clubs in England on your doorstep as well as a great place in West brom.
Get out there, show yourself off!
All the best OPwhere
I've never been, but people rave about Chams
https://www.fabswingers.com/clubs/11 wearing just a towel or shorts is where I have a problem with my body image "
Yes, a dress down club is a bit daunting for many people. However, by many accounts it's the best club in the UK, and you live there.
If your profile doesn't get you the attention you want, going to a club will mean you get to meet actual swingers. |
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome "
Alot of the comments by females on here are advising you your issue is not your ck size .
If you really think it is then try to stand out a bit more .
Be flexible, be kind, be generous, advertise your talents if you have them like massage or good at oral . Offer friendship first rather than be pushy .
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over a year ago
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome "
Don’t always assume op. |
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome
Alot of the comments by females on here are advising you your issue is not your ck size .
If you really think it is then try to stand out a bit more .
Be flexible, be kind, be generous, advertise your talents if you have them like massage or good at oral . Offer friendship first rather than be pushy .
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I don't think I have a pushy personality |
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"Been on here a while now and not had one women want to meet me I can only put it down to my small penis but if any of you ladies would like to comment on to why you wouldn't meet me ?? All constructive comments welcome
Alot of the comments by females on here are advising you your issue is not your ck size .
If you really think it is then try to stand out a bit more .
Be flexible, be kind, be generous, advertise your talents if you have them like massage or good at oral . Offer friendship first rather than be pushy .
I don't think I have a pushy personality "
Not saying you have Steve but when I was part of a couples profile , one of the main turn offs was pushy men . |
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You've been given a lot of help in this thread, OP. A local club that gets rave reviews (it's scary for everyone at first!), ways to change your profile in a way that will assist you, etc. (Does anyone buy the "being hacked" line? I just think you can't say you're new if you've been here over a year)
I hope it helps you develop as you move forward, and own your journey in the scene. |
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"You've been given a lot of help in this thread, OP. A local club that gets rave reviews (it's scary for everyone at first!), ways to change your profile in a way that will assist you, etc. (Does anyone buy the "being hacked" line? I just think you can't say you're new if you've been here over a year)
I hope it helps you develop as you move forward, and own your journey in the scene."
ok so not new but I've been inactive and not met anyone not even for a social drink so in that sense I'm new not the longevity that I've been aware of the site my mistake on that side but I was hacked by a work colleague who changed my login |
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You're right, a portion of women won't be interested if you're on the average or smaller size, penis wise. That's just a preference. However, statistically, that's not all women and plenty are with lots of shapes and sizes. However, with no pics and nothing in your bio about that, I'd say that's not a big issue (excuse the pun)
Your profile generally isn't terrible but you could do with a refresh, stating your new but have been online over year, that's not really "new". The "I've been hacked" line, isn't needed.
Some info about you, your interests would be nice.
Your pics are all very samey and give nothing about you. Be nice to see your style abit more. A suit is always a classic look for gents. Smiling to show positivity etc. |
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"You've been given a lot of help in this thread, OP. A local club that gets rave reviews (it's scary for everyone at first!), ways to change your profile in a way that will assist you, etc. (Does anyone buy the "being hacked" line? I just think you can't say you're new if you've been here over a year)
I hope it helps you develop as you move forward, and own your journey in the scene. ok so not new but I've been inactive and not met anyone not even for a social drink so in that sense I'm new not the longevity that I've been aware of the site my mistake on that side but I was hacked by a work colleague who changed my login"
OK. It still doesn't look good and people aren't likely to believe it. If your profile says you've been here over a year, you're not new.
Get out to a club, including arguably the best rated in the country right on your doorstep (!!!!!) and change your own luck. Use the advice that's been given to you to change your own luck. |
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over a year ago
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"I'll bite. How did he hack it? no reason for you to know is there
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Why would a work colleague hack you to stop you accessing your profile?
If he had worked out your email address / username and password for fab, he could equally have worked out your online banking details and fleeced you.
If he did hack it, is this that account? Are you trying to justify no meets through hacking rather than saying you rarely meet? |
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"I'll bite. How did he hack it? no reason for you to know is there
Why would a work colleague hack you to stop you accessing your profile?
If he had worked out your email address / username and password for fab, he could equally have worked out your online banking details and fleeced you.
If he did hack it, is this that account? Are you trying to justify no meets through hacking rather than saying you rarely meet?"
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Are you trying to break the internet?
Women is the plural of woman i.e. more than one.
I really hate calling out things like this but this made my brain hurt 
