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Oh lord 
It's like being back at school sometimes with the questions that get asked.
" yeah I've heard right, that if you cum on a toilet seat and a woman sits on it yeah,she can get like pregnant!" |
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"Oh lord
It's like being back at school sometimes with the questions that get asked.
" yeah I've heard right, that if you cum on a toilet seat and a woman sits on it yeah,she can get like pregnant!""
So it’s true! |
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"Oh lord
It's like being back at school sometimes with the questions that get asked.
" yeah I've heard right, that if you cum on a toilet seat and a woman sits on it yeah,she can get like pregnant!"
So it’s true! "
It's how I got pregnant.
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"present partner hates anal sex. Yet i love feeling my cock slide in a tight ass.so do meet guys for this pleasure. does that make me gay bi or curious."
You have bisexual on your profile, surely you have answered your own question?  |
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over a year ago
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"Oh lord
It's like being back at school sometimes with the questions that get asked.
" yeah I've heard right, that if you cum on a toilet seat and a woman sits on it yeah,she can get like pregnant!""
we were told if you sat on a hot radiator you would get pregnant (this was in sixth form with those large old fashioned radiators), not sure if it meant if I was sitting on it with a girl that she would get pregnant, or maybe biology was not the teacher's subject (think she may have taught geography A-level) |
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"Oh lord
It's like being back at school sometimes with the questions that get asked.
" yeah I've heard right, that if you cum on a toilet seat and a woman sits on it yeah,she can get like pregnant!"
we were told if you sat on a hot radiator you would get pregnant (this was in sixth form with those large old fashioned radiators), not sure if it meant if I was sitting on it with a girl that she would get pregnant, or maybe biology was not the teacher's subject (think she may have taught geography A-level)"
Probably because the teachers wanted pupils to stop sitting in radiators. It'd stop me. |
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I've had this argument with a gay mate of mine. I'm bi and bottom .. love feeling a cock inside me, I've even orgasmed hands free a few times if I'm being f'd hard. He says I must be gay if I like that. But bi means liking all sex, M or F. Gay/Bi, be yourself and if you like pussy your bi (& probably way past curious). |
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I don't understand why people are so afraid of this. You are what you are but you can keep it as private as you want. A neon sign doesn't appear above your head. If an inner dialogue is the issue then I would work on that. If this is about someone else then mind your own business. |
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"... It's the fucking guys part that affects sexuality.
What if he’s really hating doing it and is pretending he’s with a woman?
Or maybe just posting for attention?"
Therapy would be a better option all round. |
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"I don't understand why people are so afraid of this. You are what you are but you can keep it as private as you want. A neon sign doesn't appear above your head. If an inner dialogue is the issue then I would work on that. If this is about someone else then mind your own business."
The OP has only one veri from a woman, dated 15 years ago, yet he states he loves fucking men anally. My guess is; he knows how to keep this private  |
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"I don't understand why people are so afraid of this. You are what you are but you can keep it as private as you want. A neon sign doesn't appear above your head. If an inner dialogue is the issue then I would work on that. If this is about someone else then mind your own business.
The OP has only one veri from a woman, dated 15 years ago, yet he states he loves fucking men anally. My guess is; he knows how to keep this private "
or on fab guys as well |
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"I don't understand why people are so afraid of this. You are what you are but you can keep it as private as you want. A neon sign doesn't appear above your head. If an inner dialogue is the issue then I would work on that. If this is about someone else then mind your own business.
The OP has only one veri from a woman, dated 15 years ago, yet he states he loves fucking men anally. My guess is; he knows how to keep this private
or on fab guys as well"
I rest my case  |
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I think when you start fucking guys, you’re past the point of bi curious.
If you are still fucking women, you’re not gay.
So bi maybe? If you need a label. |
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It’s a confusing time when you are trying to work out if you bi or gay, especially when you thought you where bisexual for a long time. heteronormativity in society can make this difficult. I struggled with this for a while so I understand this question. Did you get turned on by men or women before you had sex with them ?
Is your sexual arousal higher with one sex over the other. Something I noticed was that when it came to men I would never let them go down on me and rare times it did happen I felt awkward, I couldn’t relax and it took me forever to get turned on, I thought there was something wrong with me. When it came to sex with men, I’d most of the time had a drink or I’d just tell them to put it in and I’d hope eventually my body would start to respond to the guy.
Meanwhile I could have an orgasm just thinking about a woman, kissing a woman or if I was playing with myself and thinking of a woman I’d cum in seconds. I get so incredibly turned on my women, their lips, eyes, hair, their beautiful figures. You get the drift
Growing up I knew I liked women but I didn’t understand what is was because society automatically assumes you’re straight that we all are straight. Every film, program, book was straight, even just your own friends and family would say things like, you’re gonna be a heartbreaker to some guy or is that your boyfriend when you’re a kid. So all throughout our lives we are fed this heteronormative world and so we ourselves assume ourself to be straight at first, then put it down as being bisexual as I couldn’t possibly be a lesbian if I’ve had relationships and sex with men.
Hence when you are trying to figure out if you’re bisexual or gay that is a very difficult realisation that can take years to come to terms with, especially when it’s later in life.
OP pay the ones mocking you no mind for they have never had to have this conversation in their own minds, if they had, they wouldn’t be mocking you as they would have known how much of a struggle this question is to someone trying to work it out in their own internal dialogue.
You will work it out, take your time and if anything just go with sexually fluid or no label for a while until it finally clicks for you. Take the pressure off from having a label. Only you can work out what your sexuality is and by having no label for yourself at all you may just figure it out.
Good luck
A lesbian
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"I am not gay! I have relationships with women, and sex with men!"
"I got news for ya, that means your gay"
I know I know! It's not accurate but that scene is still amazing everytime. Especially with the modified music |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Are you attracted to the guy prior to doing it yes"
Id say probably bi unless you feel more attracted to guys than women. But what also do you find attractive in women if it's just sex then you have your own answer |
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OP.
You like sausage rolls and Cornish pasties.
I think the difference is basically your attraction is the act not the sex of the recipient.
Gay is gay meaning you have no sexual feelings towards the opposite sex but are attracted to your own sex.
Bi basically means you'll fuck anyone |
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