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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Do you involve yourself in group chats on what's app or telegram?

If you do, do you find yourself overwhelmed by them or your contributions ignored? Do you ever mute the notifications for them and do you keep the history?

I currently only have 3 group chats and 2 of them are family. I don't post much and don't keep history of them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

God no, I was in a telegram one once. I was UNLOS a few days later and telegram deleted.

People in groups are dickheads.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a group chat for a game me and household members play, but it's stupidly quiet.

I have another with my household members but obviously that's only used when any of us are out or away.

I have a couple of group chats with friends, there is no more than 4 people in any of those chats.

I manage them fine as they aren't busy enough or big enough to overwhelming at any point.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't like enough people to be in a group.

Plus I don't like crowds, which is kind of the same thing.

Person's I like. People I can't stand

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By *smith87Man  over a year ago

totton

I have one with family and hate it lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have them all muted. I hate notifications.

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester

The people here are enough to deal with don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have a group chat for a game me and household members play, but it's stupidly quiet.

I have another with my household members but obviously that's only used when any of us are out or away.

I have a couple of group chats with friends, there is no more than 4 people in any of those chats.

I manage them fine as they aren't busy enough or big enough to overwhelming at any point. "

Actually I totally missed out school class chats

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By *ruceyyMan  over a year ago

London

I'm in a fair few and just mute notifications until I can be assed to look!

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By *eyyouguys888Couple  over a year ago

Essex, Suffolk

Would like to join some sex group chats where you can share pictures and fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hell no, I’m far too much of a billy no mates to have even 1-2-1 group chat let alone an actual group.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

The closest to a group chat I'm in is on discord.

I'm not even in a work group chat. I've said, if it's important enough xxxx can tell me.

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By *otsossieMan  over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Would like to join some sex group chats where you can share pictures and fantasies"

Ditto, but they just become sausage-fests.

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By *riar BelisseWoman  over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes and I mute

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes and I mute "

You break my heart..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My regular chat is my son’s school parents group.

I’m in a couple of Fab organised social groups at the moment, until the event but I very rarely comment in them.

I don’t message much in general.

Miles

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple  over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I am ridiculous. I am probably the reason everyone else hates group chats. Apologies to everyone who is in a group chat with me.

J

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m only in 2 group chats. One with my friends and another with Mr family.

I’m not interested in any of the group chats on here.

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

Used to have few but seems some people have more time on their hands than myself so switched everything off. life is important when very busy their is a time for everyone but relaxing is precious my friends keep me busy enough

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just one, kinda dinner club, we used to work together and meet reg for a dinner and catch up. Group is used to arrange it.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple  over a year ago

kent

I’m in lots of group chats for all sorts of things in real life, but for the most part I don’t contribute to them unless I need to. I don’t really message people anymore, just occasionally see people IRL.

Used to be in two fab group chats, which were fun for a while and, at one crucial point in time, very supportive, for which I will always be grateful.

They were also full of misandry and politics. when most of the people stopped responding to me, it made me feel unwelcome so I left.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just really one with women full of wisdom and joy who don't need to yap every day about every single thing they did and what do we think of it. love you if you read this.

Other than that the usual school/scouts/other crap and events chats.

Tones

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

No. I have in the past and always regretted it. If you think white Knighting is bad on the forums its disgusting in group chats.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope find group chats and stuff brings around bullying and singleing off people out just bad all around to be honest

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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I'm in four group chats.

One is an alumni group for attendees of a social. Two are for upcoming socials that'll be deleted the morning after. One is a family group chat (which is excitedly buzzing away after my little sister's results today).

Oh wait, five. If a chat with a couple is a group chat. Yep, five. :D

I left fab group chats not involving socials almost three years ago now. No desire to join any.

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle


"Nope find group chats and stuff brings around bullying and singleing off people out just bad all around to be honest "

Id say a lot of this would actually depend on the actual type of people within. It can be a rare find, finding level headed people on the same wavelength at times and I'm grateful for those I have its like you don't need anything else

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have some group chats on Skype with single ladies and come MF couples. Some are one offs and some on and off, just depends. Generally start as one to one contacts and goes from there. They're always good fun though!

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'm in a work group chat.

On here I don't do them anymore. Too much drama, fighting back stabbing and passing of others info goes on in them from what I saw when I was in any. There were very few that were good craic and people just having a laugh and getting on. So I made the decision to not bother with them a few years ago.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman  over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Do you involve yourself in group chats on what's app or telegram?

If you do, do you find yourself overwhelmed by them or your contributions ignored? Do you ever mute the notifications for them and do you keep the history?

I currently only have 3 group chats and 2 of them are family. I don't post much and don't keep history of them. "

I'm on 2 telegram groups and one kik group...don't talk much if im honest.but when I do I talk complete rubbish

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By *agerMorganMan  over a year ago

Canvey Island

I have one with my friends, that’s about it.

I avoid swinger related ones as they come across as elitist and “look at me!”

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm in a group chat on a messenger app, it took me a long time to feel settled in it.

I'm not a lover of group chats myself, especially ones that move fast but through that group I've met some wonderful friends

Danish x

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester

I used to be in a kik group chat but sadly that ended and i was in a snapchat group invited by two women i chatted to but i suspect one was very depressed she was beautiful too and she kinda left the group for long periods toward the end so i left

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m in a group, it’s easy to manage. I pop in and reply and then pop out. ????????

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m in a group, it’s easy to manage. I pop in and reply and then pop out. ????????"

Doesn't count when you are the only one in there Woody!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m in a group, it’s easy to manage. I pop in and reply and then pop out. ????????

Doesn't count when you are the only one in there Woody! "

*Woody cries.

Narrator- don’t worry Woody, you’re a strong and capable man.

Oh, I see what you mean.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

Fuck that haven’t got the time or the patience for my phone constantly buzzing while 6 different people have 3 different conversations.

The mr

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

I'm in 3 WhatsApp groups, 2 of which are for a walking group and the third for kayaking.

There has been zero conversation on 2 of those groups in the last year or more and even the active one is only a handful of messages a week so I don't worry too much about notifications etc.

I'm not in any fab related groups and haven't been in a few years mainly because I'm an adult and haven't been at school in 40+ years.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can't usually be arsed to join in the friends group chat. It's always led by the one person I don't count as a friend!!

Family chats can be absolutely wonderful.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't really get involved with group chats only for family invites or activity information. I'd rather just ring people and speak much easier

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