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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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sometimes we just need to look deep inside to better or selfs we not all perfect we all humen
self reflection Can be good can be inlighting so take some time to self reflect if you need it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sometimes we just need to look deep inside to better or selfs we not all perfect we all humen
self reflection Can be good can be inlighting so take some time to self reflect if you need it "
After 2 hours sleep im avoiding my reflection at all costs today. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"sometimes we just need to look deep inside to better or selfs we not all perfect we all humen
self reflection Can be good can be inlighting so take some time to self reflect if you need it
After 2 hours sleep im avoiding my reflection at all costs today. "
Awww hugs on the 2 hours sleep know that all to well hopefully you get some sleep to night |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Spare a thought for the vampires of this world...no self reflection for them..  "
Ha ha it was more a feel good post as I took a little 2 days away to self reflect on something |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I think it’s a good thing to do from time to time. There is a knack to it and finding the balance is key, otherwise too much self reflection can make you feel a bit meh. But done proper, it’s cathartic.
Hope you feel better for it Natalie x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it’s a good thing to do from time to time. There is a knack to it and finding the balance is key, otherwise too much self reflection can make you feel a bit meh. But done proper, it’s cathartic.
Hope you feel better for it Natalie x"
Thanks yes your right it can be and yes I feel lot better woken up and released that effort maybe best spent elsewhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes as long as you don't get stuck in it or start a negative train of thought. Try to be as kind to yourself as you would to your best friend."
We are often nicer and more accepting of friends than we are ourselves |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes as long as you don't get stuck in it or start a negative train of thought. Try to be as kind to yourself as you would to your best friend."
Yes definitely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sometimes we just need to look deep inside to better or selfs we not all perfect we all humen
self reflection Can be good can be inlighting so take some time to self reflect if you need it "
Totally agree..
You gain (sometimes) a better perspective and can plan a few changes to better yourself or deal with something ..
But, NEVER forget, You're not alone and sometimes it's good to talk to someone else as well for another view/direction |
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It's a balancing act. It's good to be self aware, to learn, to grow. I think most people benefit from it.
If you start hearing things like "oh, you're so self aware" from people who know about these things... maybe you should lay off the navel gazing for awhile, because it can become self perpetuating and have diminishing returns. (Ask me how I know etc   ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a balancing act. It's good to be self aware, to learn, to grow. I think most people benefit from it.
If you start hearing things like "oh, you're so self aware" from people who know about these things... maybe you should lay off the navel gazing for awhile, because it can become self perpetuating and have diminishing returns. (Ask me how I know etc )"
It can be a balancing act that is for sure
And yes sometimes it can have |
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I like to think I’m well balanced and self aware. I’m bothered if I think I’ve offended someone though and that would trigger some reflection.
I get that awful icky feeling if someone is off with me  I assume I’ve pissed them off !! |
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"I like to think I’m well balanced and self aware. I’m bothered if I think I’ve offended someone though and that would trigger some reflection.
I get that awful icky feeling if someone is off with me I assume I’ve pissed them off !! "
Same here I try my best to not offend anyone |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"I like to think I’m well balanced and self aware. I’m bothered if I think I’ve offended someone though and that would trigger some reflection.
I get that awful icky feeling if someone is off with me I assume I’ve pissed them off !!
Same here I try my best to not offend anyone "
you can't please all of the people all of the time  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I like to think I’m well balanced and self aware. I’m bothered if I think I’ve offended someone though and that would trigger some reflection.
I get that awful icky feeling if someone is off with me I assume I’ve pissed them off !!
Same here I try my best to not offend anyone you can't please all of the people all of the time "
Unfortunately it’s in my nature to try to |
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