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If they want to, they will.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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It is true for me, to a point.
Sometimes I want to, but I don't have the spoons. Or the money. Or the low enough pain level at the time. But if I want to make something happen (and I know the other person does to... because, y'know, fear of rejection not just about sex stuff), I will do all I can to make it so. |
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Sometimes, life really does get in the way, and seeing someone in person just isn't plausible regardless of how much you want to.
But, you can always make sure that someone knows you care. And choosing not to do so just because you can't get your rocks off immediately is when that sort of phrase comes in. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Sometimes, life really does get in the way, and seeing someone in person just isn't plausible regardless of how much you want to.
But, you can always make sure that someone knows you care. And choosing not to do so just because you can't get your rocks off immediately is when that sort of phrase comes in."
That too.
And the conviction and confidence thing Cede said |
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The question is too abstract (maybe on purpose?), so I'll answer in broad terms.
If it's something I have full control over - yes, most likely.
If not, then I'll try, but can't make any statements as to the probability of it happening. |
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I didn't know you knew our teenage daughter...yes most definitely! She's such a confident go-getter and lives her life to the full.
We worry ourselves such a lot about her but we don't want to hold her back from living her best life.
As parents all we can do is guide and advise and pick up the pieces if things go wrong. |
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"Not in my case. Over-thinking, a lack of confidence and being an introvert have definitely made me miss opportunities of various kinds down the years. "
I was going to say this. Sometimes, people just aren’t able to.
You may find it easy to walk along a cliff top with a hundred foot drop to the rocks and crashing seas below, but others really can’t. It’s the same for emotional matters sometimes.
Unfortunately it’s difficult to know if someone can’t or just doesn’t want to without knowing them very well. |
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"Not in my case. Over-thinking, a lack of confidence and being an introvert have definitely made me miss opportunities of various kinds down the years.
I was going to say this. Sometimes, people just aren’t able to.
You may find it easy to walk along a cliff top with a hundred foot drop to the rocks and crashing seas below, but others really can’t. It’s the same for emotional matters sometimes.
Unfortunately it’s difficult to know if someone can’t or just doesn’t want to without knowing them very well."
Agree with this |
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