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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.
My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?
Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in? |
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"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.
My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?
Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"
I rarely change my profile as I think it’s a good blanket of information for people and conversation starters such as kinks limits experiences ect ect
As for attracting. Less so but I think that’s more to do with the being a fairly inexperienced young single male. So the wish for that isn’t great.
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
visits Paisley, Scot, lives in Preston, Eng |
"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.
My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?
Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"
Ohhhhh you got me. Damn you.
My profile is too long. But I am fine with that. I talk a lot in real life so it reflects me.
I tweak it every now and then but it is largely the same I first wrote it.
I don't really know why I bother though as I am not really doing Fab just the forums and socials.  so it is a waste of every one's time. Which when I think about it is probably quite an accurate analogy for when you meet me. |
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"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.
My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?
Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"
With regards to yours it draws you in and cuddles you leaving you wanting more…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kinda pointless as no one reads it  but I would say it reflects the kind of people I'm looking to attract yes. Too much effort to change it so I'll keep it as it is. |
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Too few people read them. They would save so much time in wasted messages and reduce frustration. Mine is pretty clear, and I give a whole list of things that people can connect with me on. So few do. I still do tweak it, as is quite a good gauge and a way to sort out who is just horny and looked at my pics and those interested in me as a person. |
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My main thing is - are you happy with your profile?
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I think that's something of an unattainable goal for me - I want it to be the best (while remaining honest of course) it can be, but have no concrete way of measuring what good is! (not quite true, see below)
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How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?
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I've done a full re-write once and update/remove pics sometimes. I also like to include some in-jokes and tweak wording here or there. I like receiving feedback on my profile (the re-write was following one such occurrence) because that gives me an opportunity to measure how good it is.
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Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"
Yes, or even if it doesn't, some people are nice enough to give me a chance anyway! Some even offer advice on how to improve my profile so I can continue to attract people like them. |
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"Kinda pointless as no one reads it but I would say it reflects the kind of people I'm looking to attract yes. Too much effort to change it so I'll keep it as it is."
Can’t be arsed messaging but lamb fucking chops…… and people are looking now at the mess before then as 10 star jumps was a lot… |
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"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.
My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?
Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"
Your profile is good,short & sweet. If you’re happy with it then that’s all that matter.
Mine is long. I waffle quite a bit on mine but I waffle irl too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slam on a veri or 2 of a woman saying how hilarious I was until my monster cock gave her pleasures she didn't know existed and I'm good!"
Set up a fake profile of your right hand and leave a veri saying you’ve ghosted him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm continually changing my profile,never happy with my pics etc, seem to spend half my life taking pics for it. My profile doesn't attract anyone, yeah I get messages but I've never had anyone message me first who I'd wanna meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get hate mail, it's genuinely heart warming 
I can send you some junk mail if you want. It's no bother! "
I've seen enough of your images thank you very much  |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.
My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?
Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"
You need to mention your QUIM |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I get hate mail, it's genuinely heart warming
I can send you some junk mail if you want. It's no bother!
I've seen enough of your images thank you very much "
Don't be like that!
CU promised me a handy with a bag on her head if I sent them to you. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.
My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?
Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?
Ohhhhh you got me. Damn you.
My profile is too long. But I am fine with that. I talk a lot in real life so it reflects me.
I tweak it every now and then but it is largely the same I first wrote it.
I don't really know why I bother though as I am not really doing Fab just the forums and socials. so it is a waste of every one's time. Which when I think about it is probably quite an accurate analogy for when you meet me. "
Oh shush! You're not a waste of time at all, you're a delight. I don't think you have to be fucking to be on here you know - not that you're not or anything.
I think if a profile reflects you and you're happy with it, that's enough. |
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When I had my previous Fab account I used to tweak it fairly frequently as I couldn't really work out what worked in this kind of space (even though I found a FWB through here quite quickly).
Now I'm back but am looking for something quite specific (hanging out on the forums aside) and I think my profile reflects that. It hasn't really attracted anyone as yet, but I expect that as I don't post lots of pictures that show I'm a total hunk (mainly because I'm not). So right now it's OK but I might review it soon. |
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"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.
My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?
Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"
ours needs an edit...... attracts a broad mix.. if you get me... maybe too broad, but we are open minded |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.
My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?
Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?
You need to mention your QUIM"
Ha those days have long passed. I'm toying with what to type now but the quim won't be coming out in photos or in text. |
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"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.
My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?
Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"
I can't remember what my profile actually says. The picture I use has more impact than anything I write. |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
Fairytale Wood |
My Profile is me well bits of me, if they want to engage and know more then that's cool, if not so be it, not loosing sleep over it.
I occasionally update it if something changes but mostly don't touch it.
Tried to keep it simple for obvious reasons but it seems nobody can reed anyway. Guys you're off the hook on this one as I have filters.
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"I feel I could do with a profile re-write, I feel it lacks humour and reads a bit too boring. Struggling how to add humour do any advice would be appreciated."
I don't think it's boring at all - you come across very well, definitely as someone worth talking to. |
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We feel ours is honest and we’re very happy with it, we do update it, but only when a certain circumstance requires an amendment, that’s purely because we like to remain honest with anyone who is paying us interest with their time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"Mines pretty awesome I reckon
Tldr
You missed the bit about being fed hash browns and Kraken then.
Pfft. Typical chicks, never reading profiles.  "
I don't have time for that JW, I just look at the pretty pictures. |
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I fiddled with mine about 3 years ago but haven't touched it since because I'm not currently meeting.
I don't send messages and haven't done in more than 4 years but people still get in touch now and again so they must like what they see. |
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By *rBobbMan 22 weeks ago
Birmingham |
I'm not really sure about mine to be honest. It doesn't attract much attention so I guess that speaks volumes.
I've looked at others in the hope of inspiration but would never copy someone else's ideas.
I probably need to think about a rewrite at some point. |
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By *eli OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.
I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.
I'm okay with that for now
Does that make sense?"
Not really, too much waffle. |
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"I mean, feel free to give me any, that's cool.
My main thing is - are you happy with your profile? How often do you change it/tweak a little bit here and there?
Does your profile attract the sort of people you're interested in?"
i dont get any attention dont know whats wrong with mine
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"Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.
I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.
I'm okay with that for now
Does that make sense?
Not really, too much waffle."
I love how you always call me out on my waffle, I just can't help myself. I respect you for that, Meli(love( |
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"Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.
I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.
I'm okay with that for now
Does that make sense?
Not really, too much waffle.
I love how you always call me out on my waffle, I just can't help myself. I respect you for that, Meli(love("
Don't call me out on that though |
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By *eli OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.
I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.
I'm okay with that for now
Does that make sense?
Not really, too much waffle.
I love how you always call me out on my waffle, I just can't help myself. I respect you for that, Meli(love(
Don't call me out on that though"
Noted. Whilst you're here fancy voting for my bum? I'm listening to I Want You Back atm and hoping people will notice it. Vote for my bum. |
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"Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.
I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.
I'm okay with that for now
Does that make sense?
Not really, too much waffle.
I love how you always call me out on my waffle, I just can't help myself. I respect you for that, Meli(love(
Don't call me out on that though
Noted. Whilst you're here fancy voting for my bum? I'm listening to I Want You Back atm and hoping people will notice it. Vote for my bum."
Where do I vote, Melissa? |
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By *eli OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"Hi Meli, sorry for the late reply.
I tweak it every now and again. I feel it's okay. I've seen better, but I've also seen worse.
I'm okay with that for now
Does that make sense?
Not really, too much waffle.
I love how you always call me out on my waffle, I just can't help myself. I respect you for that, Meli(love(
Don't call me out on that though
Noted. Whilst you're here fancy voting for my bum? I'm listening to I Want You Back atm and hoping people will notice it. Vote for my bum.
Where do I vote, Melissa?"
I'll start a thread soon, just working out the latest snazzy knitwear I can don for my avatar. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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I'm open to any advice. I know I need to add more photos
I do get a fair amount of views but nothing from there.
I'm crap at sending the 1st message as Probably too polite |
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"I change it every now and then but I always make sure the key info is covered
Yeah, like how you always keep it grounded. Say it as it is, job done."
I’m a great shag and I may or may not be what I claim to be online. Keep it short, keep it sweet, keep to the facts.  |
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I’m a great shag and I may or may not be what I claim to be online. Keep it short, keep it sweet, keep to the facts. "
I fear looking at mine again as it’d be a complete rewrite again. But I do need to be simpler like that. |
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