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By *ust me 2 OP   Man  over a year ago

Cheshire

Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple  over a year ago

Manchester-ish

We've not had this one for a while

Before the pile on starts. It is in the site rules that No Reply = No Thank You.

I'm sure if everyone did reply No Thank You we'd soon get threads about the disappointment of never getting a reply other than "No thank you"

J

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Here is mine:

READ THE HALF MILLION THREADS THAT HSVE ALREADY BEEN POSTED ON THIS TOPIC

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

NO REPLY = NO THANK YOU

It's in the rules.

Plus why should I reply to people who have messaged and not bothered to read my profile.

Or I reply no thank you despite the fact they've not read it to be bombarded with minging cock pics or abuse.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Jeez, stop shouting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No reply is a no thank you. Sadly a polite reply often ends up in message exchange I don't really want to have at best or a lot of abuse at worse.

I understand your frustration but if you focus less on your sent messages you might enjoy the site a little more.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well actually Mark it does.

1. It is usually met with one of the following

"awww not your type hehe"

"Well you seem awesome I'd like to just be friends"

"Stuck up bitch"

"Hahaha obviously you're a guy!"

2. They are now past your filters and can message even when you block all men. To stop this you'd have to block each guy individually.

3. I don't want to.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

It costs time and effort

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"Jeez, stop shouting "

Yeah! DF has sensitive little ears.

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By *weetiepie99Woman  over a year ago

cardiff

Do you mean NOW REPLY, KNOW REPLY OR NO REPLY, it makes a difference

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By *ust me 2 OP   Man  over a year ago

Cheshire

True

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple  over a year ago

Manchester-ish

OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Popcorn anyone? I feel this thread is in for a loooooong day and could get exciting!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J"

Good point

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By *entlemanrogueMan  over a year ago

Motherwell


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

it doss, when jou have to send that message 500 times per day, often to the same person you already told, you are not interested.

No reply is not interested, take it on the chin and move on.

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By *weetiepie99Woman  over a year ago

cardiff


"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J"

Well played!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds


"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J"

Exactly!!

Mrs

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By *ou only live onceMan  over a year ago

London


"True "

And relax. You seem calmer already, OP, which is good.

But would you honestly want loads of messages saying "no, thanks"? Seems a bit pointless. Just delete your sent items and any reply is a nice surprise !

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By *asty tatsyMan  over a year ago

london


"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J"

This

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By *cnugatugMan  over a year ago

Chatham

Where's my popcorn

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By *ruceyyMan  over a year ago

London


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

Time, it costs time

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds


"True "

Come on op where's everyone's individual reply?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

We owe nothing so no.

Half the time it's people that haven't read our profile or ignore it.

Plenty of times people try to convince us or ask us why etc...

So why should we?

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Time and aggravation aren't free. Opening yourself up to abuse isn't free.

Just because it's effort rather than pounds and you're not the one having to deal with it, doesn't mean it's without cost.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Jeez, stop shouting

Yeah! DF has sensitive little ears. "

And eyes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

IT CAN COST THEIR SANITY WHEN PEOPLE CAN'T HANDLE REJECTION AND GET RANTY

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

For what it's worth - I am not interested

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

Why is everyone shouting!

Think of DFs poor little sensitive ears. Has he not suffered enough already?

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville

OP.. do you reply 'No thanks' to every radio or television advert that you receive? Every leaflet through your front door? Every on-line advert?

No? I thought not...

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By *uliette500Woman  over a year ago

Hull

Also a reply to say no thanks stops future filters from working on your profile so I don't reply to anyone I'm not interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Also a reply to say no thanks stops future filters from working on your profile so I don't reply to anyone I'm not interested in. "

Didn't know that!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman  over a year ago

Tamworth


"Also a reply to say no thanks stops future filters from working on your profile so I don't reply to anyone I'm not interested in. "

Precisely why I just delete too.

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By *ris GrayMan  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

It costs time unfortunately, thats why they don't do it, its in the rules

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Coz some people see a no thank you as meaning you still want to chat, that ir gives them reason to hurl abuse

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By *urvySub87Woman  over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Some profiles recieve 100s of messages a day, most of whom probably haven't bothered to read the profile. Also, lots of people can't take rejection, a polite "no thank you" is met with abuse. So yes, I'm afraid answering isn't always an option and like what has been said a thousand times before, no reply means no thanks

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Do you reply to every shit email you receive OP????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I DON’T WANT TO

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

I'm sure this comes up every single week. No-one owes you a reply, you're a complete stranger.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple  over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J"

Oh, I'm guessing you weren't interested in doing that.

J

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Did you mean No reply or Know reply??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m not interested

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville


"Did you mean No reply or Know reply?? "

Some people have dyslexia, didn't receive a full education or English is not their first language, so be kind..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm glad this issue is finally being brought up OP. Thanks for shedding light on this issue that has only been discussed every day since the forums opened.

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm sure they'll be a long queue

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Covent Garden

It's already cost me 22Ø kilobytes in network bandwidth to read this thread...

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By *otsossieMan  over a year ago

local, but not too local


"Jeez, stop shouting "

No wonder they didn’t reply.

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By *imply DeeWoman  over a year ago

Wherever

Hi OP

Up too much?

Hope I get your reply, even if it’s just “no thanks, not looking for a chat”, it costs nothing after all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Did you mean No reply or Know reply??

Some people have dyslexia, didn't receive a full education or English is not their first language, so be kind.."

I get that and not taking the P but if the recipient doesn't understand the message they are less likely to reply.

OP your status reads:

HERE'S MY RANT OF THE DAY. IT COSTS NORTH TO SAY NOT INTERNET THANKS

Maybe you or a friend proof reads before updating/messaging

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By *ust me 2 OP   Man  over a year ago

Cheshire

Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies

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By *ris GrayMan  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies "
pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Woosaaaaaa

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple  over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies "

I wasn't being sarcastic. If you take the time and energy to reply to every single message here then you'll understand exactly why people don't do it.

J

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By *ust me 2 OP   Man  over a year ago

Cheshire


"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies pleasure "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies "

I was genuinely trying to help but there you go!

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By *ust me 2 OP   Man  over a year ago

Cheshire


"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies

I wasn't being sarcastic. If you take the time and energy to reply to every single message here then you'll understand exactly why people don't do it.

Thanks

J"

thanks

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies "

I wasn't being sarcastic. Apparently some people need to be told that people they want to fuck have time that's of value and don't want to have to dodge abuse or manipulation. Apparently fully grown adults don't realise the world doesn't revolve solely around them.

I'm hoping that pointing out another person's perspective will educate people who failed to develop capacity to understand that other people exist outside their desires.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan  over a year ago

Bradford


"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J

Good point"

I got told off yesterday for replying to everyone who posted on some of my threads .

But to the op this fab and the women here get to bombarded with messages but keep trying some actually do reply there are some fabulous people here .

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

It does cost something. It costs time. Why do you think you are entitled to get people to use their time to tell you they are not interested?

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By *imply DeeWoman  over a year ago

Wherever

I have commented before, have you read my comment OP?

Respond if you did, it costs nothing after all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

Please don't shout, I have a headache.

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By *oo..Woman  over a year ago

Boo's World

It takes typing effort to send that out numerous times a day so I disagree with the rant!

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

No thanks op. I'm not interested in this thread and won't be posting on it.

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By *vilgasamWoman  over a year ago

The dot in the i

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By *aomilatteCouple  over a year ago

Midlands


"Do you reply to every shit email you receive OP????"

Jumping on the bandwagon here, but can this question get a reply?

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple  over a year ago

Southampton


"Jeez, stop shouting

Yeah! DF has sensitive little ears. "

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"Do you reply to every shit email you receive OP????

Jumping on the bandwagon here, but can this question get a reply?"

I do. With the exception of the automated oness.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple  over a year ago

Southampton


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED.

Please don't shout, I have a headache."

Passes the paracetamol.. have two of these and some earplugs lol

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By *.T.Man  over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

It costs nothing to read the site rules.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan  over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

Here's my rant...

DROP THE EXPECTATIONS, NO ONE I MEAN NO ONE OWES YOU A RESPONSE, AN EXPLANATION.

DROP THE ENTITLEMENT..

that got very shouty, remember some times the loudest message, is in the quietest reply I.e the one you dont get back

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By *cnugatugMan  over a year ago

Chatham

Juicy thread ??

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You're probably right it does cost nothing to reply I'm not interested,but my experience on here has shown me that some people take a reply as a faint chance you might be.Ajf they keep messaging.

So now I can't be bothered wasting my time replying to most of the messages I get when I'm not interested,because I don't want to it's as simple as that.And I don't get a lot of messages but I'm not going to waste my time replying to those who clearly haven't read my profile.

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By *hrimper36Couple  over a year ago

Central France dept 36


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

Thank you for showing the forum your caring and understanding side because it will help cut down your interaction on Fab.

I reply to all inane crap messages because I have time but others don’t have the luxury that I have.

Get over yourself.

T

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli

I was going to say something really helpful but as the OP can't be arsed to reply to everyone on thread individually, I can't be arsed

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED.

Thank you for showing the forum your caring and understanding side because it will help cut down your interaction on Fab.

I reply to all inane crap messages because I have time but others don’t have the luxury that I have.

Get over yourself.

T"

You're making me think of an answering machine.

"Thank you for messaging _naswingdress. Unfortunately my pussy is drier than the Sahara at this time. Please don't leave a message and don't try again."

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By *ou only live onceMan  over a year ago

London


"True

And relax. You seem calmer already, OP, which is good.

But would you honestly want loads of messages saying "no, thanks"? Seems a bit pointless. Just delete your sent items and any reply is a nice surprise !"

Why haven't you replied to me, OP? Did you not like my message? What have I done wrong? How's a reply meant to catch a break around here if they're just ignored!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would hate to read the messages you are sending if you require them to send a response if they are interested or not … maybe that’s the problem.

Maybe take the time to read a profile and send a decent interaction, try engaging in a normal respectful conversation …. Just an idea

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By *vilgasamWoman  over a year ago

The dot in the i


"I would hate to read the messages you are sending if you require them to send a response if they are interested or not … maybe that’s the problem.

Maybe take the time to read a profile and send a decent interaction, try engaging in a normal respectful conversation …. Just an idea "

Respectful conversation? On fab?

Good golly what a radical idea

I think you’re a little ahead of your time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 21/08/23 10:49:53]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For women if we don’t reply on here it means we are not interested.

The reason why we don’t respond or just hit the block button is because when we did we would get a load of abuse from men.

I only play with women which means I am the one sliding into their dms and I get the same thing, I take no offence to it, just move on to the next.

I certainly wouldn’t make any women feel bad or guilty for not responding even if we had been chatting for a bit.

Some people get scared when they realise that you are actually serious about meeting as the fantasy is becoming a reality. Some just are not into how you present yourself on here or something you said put them off.

Making a post about it on the forums where the very women you messaged can see won’t do you any favours.

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By *JB1954Man  over a year ago

Reading

I first look at profile and read. Yes if photos have a look at then also. Sometimes send wink . If depending on wording about looking for in profile a message. Then wait. If no reply or message unread. Do not contact again. This very easy to do ?

If looked , winked or messaged a profile . Fab shows on that profile when wink, message done. So do not try again.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J"

If he did he would actually start to see what women deal with every day, as in the sheer volume of messages. This is a great idea

Gives op some perspective of what it means to be a woman on here

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By *imisugarWoman  over a year ago

Rugby


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

Genuine questions: why do you feel entitled to a reply?

Do you get messaged first or are you the person always messaging ?

Are you confident if you received a message from someone you weren't interested in, you'd take the time to reply to every single one? Even if that was double/triple figures per day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J

If he did he would actually start to see what women deal with every day, as in the sheer volume of messages. This is a great idea

Gives op some perspective of what it means to be a woman on here "

Yeah but... something something... manners... something... cost nothing... blah blah... women... yadda yadda... polite and respectful

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple  over a year ago

Middle England


"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J

If he did he would actually start to see what women deal with every day, as in the sheer volume of messages. This is a great idea

Gives op some perspective of what it means to be a woman on here "

^^ this

Looking forward to our reply from the OP. How long can I hold my breath!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well actually Mark it does.

1. It is usually met with one of the following

"awww not your type hehe"

"Well you seem awesome I'd like to just be friends"

"Stuck up bitch"

"Hahaha obviously you're a guy!"

2. They are now past your filters and can message even when you block all men. To stop this you'd have to block each guy individually.

3. I don't want to.

"

This I agree with Op

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By *irminghamlady08Woman  over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"Well actually Mark it does.

1. It is usually met with one of the following

"awww not your type hehe"

"Well you seem awesome I'd like to just be friends"

"Stuck up bitch"

"Hahaha obviously you're a guy!"

2. They are now past your filters and can message even when you block all men. To stop this you'd have to block each guy individually.

3. I don't want to.

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED.

Please don't shout, I have a headache.

Passes the paracetamol.. have two of these and some earplugs lol"

Thanks, MS Teams meeting in 15 mins, so they may help - maybe I should not share my screen with Fab open!

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

NOT INTERESTED

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple  over a year ago

Southampton

According to his status it "costs north to say not Internet.".. in BIG SHOUTY CAPITALS! If you're going to make bold statements like that at least check grammar and spelling before posting ... and before anyone crucifies me for pointing out spelling errors... yes I know bad me lol

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

If message opened then yes agree! Although can b met with abuse if rejected! Which is why I leave the majority of my messages unread as look at the profile and decide weather or not their for me x

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple  over a year ago

Southampton


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED.

Please don't shout, I have a headache.

Passes the paracetamol.. have two of these and some earplugs lol

Thanks, MS Teams meeting in 15 mins, so they may help - maybe I should not share my screen with Fab open!"

Welcome.. yeah probably best to keep fab off teams lol

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By *orny-DJMan  over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea


"Thanks very much for all your nice sarcastic replies "

Maybe you should have read through the site FAQ's where this subject has been covered

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED.

NOT INTERESTED "

This OP

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By *od ThrusterMan  over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

Life is too short to get upset by not getting a reply. At the end of the day if someone deletes my message without replying it's no different to them replying "no thank you" - there won't be a meeting and there won't be any further emails (unless I reply to say "thanks for the reply, all the best" or some such).

What gets my mind whirring is when my message is read, not replied to, but not deleted either. I never know what to make of that. Are they keeping it because there's an interest? What other reason would there be to keep a message you don't reply to?

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J

If he did he would actually start to see what women deal with every day, as in the sheer volume of messages. This is a great idea

Gives op some perspective of what it means to be a woman on here "

But we couldn't possibly understand the hassle of replying to threads. We love all these messages because... reasons

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By *trueceltMan  over a year ago

Bristol

my beef is with the people who aren't interested but keep your messages with the pics attached forever - seemingly. is there anyone who does this that would care to explain?

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

True, it is free, but it can be time consuming.

I do make the effort to say no thank you, as I can't do the searching myself.

I've opened my filters so I'll try to respond to everyone.

That usually ends in me getting brain ache and hiding, plus making me less likely to be able to have a decent conversation until my brain has recovered; which could spoil it for anyone I am chatting to.

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

NO INTERNET....

Have I answered this correctly now???

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By *ustus555Couple  over a year ago

NG 21

It's all about time & effort.

If you can't be arsed to use any, then we DEFINITELY won't.

Simples really

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan  over a year ago

Gourock

I am also not an internet, i do like using the internet though

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By *.T.Man  over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J

If he did he would actually start to see what women deal with every day, as in the sheer volume of messages. This is a great idea

Gives op some perspective of what it means to be a woman on here

Yeah but... something something... manners... something... cost nothing... blah blah... women... yadda yadda... polite and respectful "

you missed "give us good guys a chance" and "spoiling it for others"

otherwise you'd have had a full house.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"OP, please reply to everyone in this thread individually. Use reply+quote. It costs nothing after all

J

If he did he would actually start to see what women deal with every day, as in the sheer volume of messages. This is a great idea

Gives op some perspective of what it means to be a woman on here

Yeah but... something something... manners... something... cost nothing... blah blah... women... yadda yadda... polite and respectful

you missed "give us good guys a chance" and "spoiling it for others"

otherwise you'd have had a full house. "

I give good guys a chance by not burning out my goodwill on little boys who can't follow the norms of the site and take no reply for an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Life is too short to get upset by not getting a reply. At the end of the day if someone deletes my message without replying it's no different to them replying "no thank you" - there won't be a meeting and there won't be any further emails (unless I reply to say "thanks for the reply, all the best" or some such).

What gets my mind whirring is when my message is read, not replied to, but not deleted either. I never know what to make of that. Are they keeping it because there's an interest? What other reason would there be to keep a message you don't reply to?"

Sometimes there are ‘pest messagers’ (not saying you are), but there is a set of people who will continually message - the previous 15 messages have been deleted unread and that hasn't been accepted, so i will read the message and not reply. That seems to break the spell. I guess folk just want to be noticed.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Life is too short to get upset by not getting a reply. At the end of the day if someone deletes my message without replying it's no different to them replying "no thank you" - there won't be a meeting and there won't be any further emails (unless I reply to say "thanks for the reply, all the best" or some such).

What gets my mind whirring is when my message is read, not replied to, but not deleted either. I never know what to make of that. Are they keeping it because there's an interest? What other reason would there be to keep a message you don't reply to?

Sometimes there are ‘pest messagers’ (not saying you are), but there is a set of people who will continually message - the previous 15 messages have been deleted unread and that hasn't been accepted, so i will read the message and not reply. That seems to break the spell. I guess folk just want to be noticed. "

Sometimes I leave them on read to see what happens, how many times they send an identical message or if it escalates

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"my beef is with the people who aren't interested but keep your messages with the pics attached forever - seemingly. is there anyone who does this that would care to explain?"

I wouldn't say people 'keep' them, just don't get around to deleting messages. It's not that they're saving them for some reason. I've only recently started deleting messages at all

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By *vilgasamWoman  over a year ago

The dot in the i


"Life is too short to get upset by not getting a reply. At the end of the day if someone deletes my message without replying it's no different to them replying "no thank you" - there won't be a meeting and there won't be any further emails (unless I reply to say "thanks for the reply, all the best" or some such).

What gets my mind whirring is when my message is read, not replied to, but not deleted either. I never know what to make of that. Are they keeping it because there's an interest? What other reason would there be to keep a message you don't reply to?

Sometimes there are ‘pest messagers’ (not saying you are), but there is a set of people who will continually message - the previous 15 messages have been deleted unread and that hasn't been accepted, so i will read the message and not reply. That seems to break the spell. I guess folk just want to be noticed.

Sometimes I leave them on read to see what happens, how many times they send an identical message or if it escalates "

Oh, I tried that, after 4 of the same I finally replied ‘unsubscribe’ he lost it a little so I had to block in the end

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Life is too short to get upset by not getting a reply. At the end of the day if someone deletes my message without replying it's no different to them replying "no thank you" - there won't be a meeting and there won't be any further emails (unless I reply to say "thanks for the reply, all the best" or some such).

What gets my mind whirring is when my message is read, not replied to, but not deleted either. I never know what to make of that. Are they keeping it because there's an interest? What other reason would there be to keep a message you don't reply to?

Sometimes there are ‘pest messagers’ (not saying you are), but there is a set of people who will continually message - the previous 15 messages have been deleted unread and that hasn't been accepted, so i will read the message and not reply. That seems to break the spell. I guess folk just want to be noticed.

Sometimes I leave them on read to see what happens, how many times they send an identical message or if it escalates

Oh, I tried that, after 4 of the same I finally replied ‘unsubscribe’ he lost it a little so I had to block in the end "

I remember once I got to about 20 before I pointed out that it was a copy and paste. He asked me how I knew. I pointed out the idiosyncratic typo he made every time.

Then he got mad.

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By *vilgasamWoman  over a year ago

The dot in the i


"Life is too short to get upset by not getting a reply. At the end of the day if someone deletes my message without replying it's no different to them replying "no thank you" - there won't be a meeting and there won't be any further emails (unless I reply to say "thanks for the reply, all the best" or some such).

What gets my mind whirring is when my message is read, not replied to, but not deleted either. I never know what to make of that. Are they keeping it because there's an interest? What other reason would there be to keep a message you don't reply to?

Sometimes there are ‘pest messagers’ (not saying you are), but there is a set of people who will continually message - the previous 15 messages have been deleted unread and that hasn't been accepted, so i will read the message and not reply. That seems to break the spell. I guess folk just want to be noticed.

Sometimes I leave them on read to see what happens, how many times they send an identical message or if it escalates

Oh, I tried that, after 4 of the same I finally replied ‘unsubscribe’ he lost it a little so I had to block in the end

I remember once I got to about 20 before I pointed out that it was a copy and paste. He asked me how I knew. I pointed out the idiosyncratic typo he made every time.

Then he got mad."

How dare you notice his low bar testing, tut

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"my beef is with the people who aren't interested but keep your messages with the pics attached forever - seemingly. is there anyone who does this that would care to explain?"

Because we can't be arsed deleting. Trust me, we're not going back perving the pics you attached, we're just shit at admin.

Also, you can choose to auto delete your photos once a message has been read

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I send a message I always add.. if I'm not for you no worries just disregard this message, if they don't reply I know they're not interested

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It costs nothing to not take offence when you get no reply

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By *uliette500Woman  over a year ago

Hull


"Also a reply to say no thanks stops future filters from working on your profile so I don't reply to anyone I'm not interested in.

Didn't know that!"

I didnt either till someone told me.

If you have engaged with someone either messaging or I believe winking too is able to still message you if you change your filters at a later date.

So say you message every single man back who sends you something then decide to block single men. All those who you have previously replied to are not blocked by the filter.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It costs nothing to not take offence when you get no reply "

It stops the whole cycle and costs everyone a whole lot less.

But why do that when you can make your feelings someone else's problem?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

Silence means just that,so much traffic and noise. Winks/peeps/messages dont mean a thing. Even a real meet there are too many odds in place!

Mostly coz of Bia's being carried arround and Baggage!!

The real approach you know where you stand.

I Ieave my number if no call,adios!

Its a numbers game. Best approach face to face

IMHO.

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By *trueceltMan  over a year ago

Bristol


"my beef is with the people who aren't interested but keep your messages with the pics attached forever - seemingly. is there anyone who does this that would care to explain?

Because we can't be arsed deleting. Trust me, we're not going back perving the pics you attached, we're just shit at admin.

Also, you can choose to auto delete your photos once a message has been read"

blocking the has the same effect and you don't need to subscribe to do it

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"my beef is with the people who aren't interested but keep your messages with the pics attached forever - seemingly. is there anyone who does this that would care to explain?

Because we can't be arsed deleting. Trust me, we're not going back perving the pics you attached, we're just shit at admin.

Also, you can choose to auto delete your photos once a message has been read

blocking the has the same effect and you don't need to subscribe to do it"

I don't believe it does.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just came back to see if op has responded back to everyone individually in this thread lol

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By *andycandy88Woman  over a year ago

Northolt

Rather strange your worried or care about not getting a reply from strangers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thank god somebody bumped this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP your status needs help.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan  over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"OP your status needs help."

Internet Is buffering bad day to be Op

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By *orillaman32Man  over a year ago

Christchurch

Noone owes anyone a reply, in my opinion.

I think it would be polite to reply if ...

1. Mesaager reads the profile

2. Delivers a message that is based on mutual likes

3. Answers the list of questions that are in said profile.

4. Uses language that is not text speak

5. Has written a message that is clearly not cut and paste

6. Has put the quirky animal/place/random vegetable in the title as requested.

But if they don't reply then that's tough shit. Nothing you can do, no need to get shitty. Have fun all xx

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By *apnDomMan  over a year ago

London

I know right? But the reality is that women will always be more laid back and only feel like they need to reply to men they want. Everyone else can just piss off.

You can be upset about it, or you can just accept the fact. Either way - the behaviour won't ever change.

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By *orillaman32Man  over a year ago

Christchurch


"Noone owes anyone a reply, in my opinion.

I think it would be polite to reply if ...

1. Mesaager reads the profile

2. Delivers a message that is based on mutual likes

3. Answers the list of questions that are in said profile.

4. Uses language that is not text speak

5. Has written a message that is clearly not cut and paste

6. Has put the quirky animal/place/random vegetable in the title as requested.

But if they don't reply then that's tough shit. Nothing you can do, no need to get shitty. Have fun all xx"

I forgot 7, didn't just say a variation of hi wanna fuck/you free now/great tits

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED.

Here's my rant...

DROP THE EXPECTATIONS, NO ONE I MEAN NO ONE OWES YOU A RESPONSE, AN EXPLANATION.

DROP THE ENTITLEMENT..

that got very shouty, remember some times the loudest message, is in the quietest reply I.e the one you dont get back "

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

I am not interested

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am not interested "

I've been trying to tell them this from the start

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Getting a bit incelly on here

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan  over a year ago

Gourock

Cant complain about the lack of replies now

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple  over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Replying to everyone also means they can bypass any future message filters so it's easier not too......plus it's in de rules no reply is a no

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Getting a bit incelly on here "

Careful, Fluffy, us women get told off for using that word. Naughty!

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By *illie69Woman  over a year ago

leeds/wakefield


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

That's true but when women / couples have over 400 messages to reply to it gets a little tiring

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By *apnDomMan  over a year ago

London


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED.

That's true but when women / couples have over 400 messages to reply to it gets a little tiring "

Only gets more and more if you don't read them

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By *amantha_JadeWoman  over a year ago

Newcastle


"Here is my Rant for today.

IT COSTS NOTHING TO SAY WE OR I AM

NOT INTERESTED. "

Do you reply to every junk email you get? You know… the ones that you’ve zero interest in or didn’t ask for or that advertise things and places you would never want to do or visit? Didn’t think so…

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cant complain about the lack of replies now "

He’s definitely got plenty of replies on this

However we are all still waiting for his individual reply to our comments

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Getting a bit incelly on here

Careful, Fluffy, us women get told off for using that word. Naughty! "

Haha, change it up a bit and the incels miss it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Getting a bit incelly on here

Careful, Fluffy, us women get told off for using that word. Naughty!

Haha, change it up a bit and the incels miss it "

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It costs time, energy, and the ability to keep them out of your inbox in future by using the filters. Actually

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