Very flirty and sexy vibe because you both really liked each others body photos and he loved your face pics and hoping for an equally enthusiastic response from you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on the vibe

Very flirty and sexy vibe because you both really liked each others body photos and he loved your face pics and hoping for an equally enthusiastic response from you

I’d carry on chatting and let it die a natural death

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on the vibe

Very flirty and sexy vibe because you both really liked each others body photos and he loved your face pics and hoping for an equally enthusiastic response from you

I’d carry on chatting and let it die a natural death

When they reply with, Do you like my pics then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on the vibe

Very flirty and sexy vibe because you both really liked each others body photos and he loved your face pics and hoping for an equally enthusiastic response from you

I’d carry on chatting and let it die a natural death

When they reply with, Do you like my pics then?

Lovely pics, you’re not my usual type

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Option 4 block me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on the vibe

Very flirty and sexy vibe because you both really liked each others body photos and he loved your face pics and hoping for an equally enthusiastic response

I’d carry on chatting and let it die a natural death

When they reply with, Do you like my pics then?

Lovely pics, you’re not my usual type

You're good haha. Tactful Chicken

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think if I’d been talking to them and then I didn’t like them i would carry on chatting but not sexual if it’s new messages I have no interest in I leave them unread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on the vibe

Very flirty and sexy vibe because you both really liked each others body photos and he loved your face pics and hoping for an equally enthusiastic response

I’d carry on chatting and let it die a natural death

When they reply with, Do you like my pics then?

Lovely pics, you’re not my usual type

You're good haha. Tactful Chicken

I try

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Which of these 4 options would you generally do if you are swapping face pics by message and you are instantly not attracted to them...

1. Reply directly apologising that you are not interested.

2. Leave message open and don't reply

3. Mark message as unread indefinitely and never reply

4. Block user

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

always 1

Treat others as you would like to be treated yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

3 x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

"Depends on the vibe

Very flirty and sexy vibe because you both really liked each others body photos and he loved your face pics and hoping for an equally enthusiastic response from you

I’d carry on chatting and let it die a natural death

Yeah this is probably closer to what I would do.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

If we’ve been chatting, then I’d reply saying sorry you’re not for me, enjoy the site.

If it’s a first message and the profile and message are poor, I don’t reply.

If it’s a decent message and a good profile I sometimes do although I’m very conscious it allows them to bypass filters if these change at a later date.

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By *eally_RosieWoman over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The biggest issue is when I’m genuinely not sure because the pics are that crap quality I can’t tell if I’m attracted or not, and then it just gets awkward.

Most guys I have good banter with aren’t unattractive, they just take the most unflattering pictures possible.

I mean… if I loved mugshots, toilet selfies, or seeing right up nostrils… I would be shagging everyone left right and centre

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By *osey WalesMan over a year ago

I'd like to say most of the time its a 1.

But guilty of them all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If we have gone far enough to ask for pics we will of course reply regardless of if we are attracted or not.

So #1

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

If we are actively swapping photos then it's definitely 1.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

- 3

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"- 3"

- in my eyes this leaves the sender with a modicum of self-respect. Not replying may sting a little but they’ll get over that sooner than an outright ‘not for me’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If we’ve previously been chatting then I’ll reply and let them know that I’m not attracted to them.

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By *uddy laneMan over a year ago

dudley

Delete account and start again.

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

5- naturally just let the conversation die off, I've never had the heart to be able to tell someone they're not for me. I just can't say it to someone.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

I would start an opinion poll and go with the best answer

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By *obilebottomMan over a year ago

All over

Always good to reply with a polite 'sorry not what I was personally looking for but all tge very best to you' message. I appreciate people get lots and may not be practical. Marking message as unread indefinately even though it was read, to me it seems not the thing to do and certainly not my kind of person. Each to thrir own though and how tgey manage their inbox

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Which of these 4 options would you generally do if you are swapping face pics by message and you are instantly not attracted to them...

1. Reply directly apologising that you are not interested.

2. Leave message open and don't reply

3. Mark message as unread indefinitely and never reply

4. Block user

Oh, there should be a 5. I like chatting to people, so if we have got on and are chatting, but are not attracted to each other physically, that does not stop the chat going on. There are a number of Fabsters who I chat with, have met with socially, but we're not going to get naked - still like chatting to them even if neither of us find the other to be their type.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

I find it difficult to decide on who to meet going on face pics.

Someone can look a right miserable git on a pic, but be a delight in person.

There are some faces I immediately think ooh yes please, but that doesn't mean we'll get on in chat.

As I don't have a type it's hard for me to feel attraction purely on a face pic.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

I'd probably carry on chatting then say I don't feel any attraction, and the wanting to be naked with them isn't there.

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan over a year ago

Little clacton

I'd do 1

But women/couples get 100's of messages.So could understand if they didn't reply/block.

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By *vpamelaTV/TS over a year ago

kinkville

Oh dear, I think I'm mostly a 2 which is the worst, right? Feeling a bit guilty

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