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"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"
Op, if your feeling this way, my suggestion woukd be put fab down for a while, as fab will only heighten any of those feelings for you, come back when your in a better place. Where it may not knock you so badly.
Remember this your of value and if worth don't ever forget that, and your seen and noticed, even if it feels like your not |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?
Op, if your feeling this way, my suggestion woukd be put fab down for a while, as fab will only heighten any of those feelings for you, come back when your in a better place. Where it may not knock you so badly.
Remember this your of value and if worth don't ever forget that, and your seen and noticed, even if it feels like your not "
Sound advice. Thanks |
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By *iggingMan
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"
Go into the chat rooms...try the ones specific to your region...generally quiet without the usual baying men asking to see them ahem play...can build up a rapport from there...you won't necessarily get a meet if that is what you are after but can have a good chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"
Serious answer now.
This place is a strange ecosystem. It is absolutely not reflective of reality.
So don't allow your self esteem in the real world be impacted by interactions on a niche interest internet site. |
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"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?
Serious answer now.
This place is a strange ecosystem. It is absolutely not reflective of reality.
So don't allow your self esteem in the real world be impacted by interactions on a niche interest internet site. "
Nod. Serious. |
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"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?
Serious answer now.
This place is a strange ecosystem. It is absolutely not reflective of reality.
So don't allow your self esteem in the real world be impacted by interactions on a niche interest internet site. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"
Nope, whatever happens here happens,l don't let what happens or doesn't happen worry me in the slightest, lm supposed to feel overlooked or undervalued by a complete stranger on the Internet that hasn't chatted to me at all ? ..not a hope .. |
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"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?
Nope, whatever happens here happens,l don't let what happens or doesn't happen worry me in the slightest, lm supposed to feel overlooked or undervalued by a complete stranger on the Internet that hasn't chatted to me at all ? ..not a hope .."
Give it time |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"
Bear in mind that there are no more than 50 or 60 thousand men and women on here. Sorry I should say, 50 thousand men and 10 thousand women. Despite the apparent freedom, the same rules apply or should apply. The Women decide who they want to fuck! It's a bloody bothersome thing - consent and desire - but that is just how it is. My advice is to widen your horizons. I'm telling you now that I am far more likely to give you a blow job (and I have regretted a few) than any of the no-tails on here. |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?
Op, if your feeling this way, my suggestion woukd be put fab down for a while, as fab will only heighten any of those feelings for you, come back when your in a better place. Where it may not knock you so badly.
Remember this your of value and if worth don't ever forget that, and your seen and noticed, even if it feels like your not "
Or see if you can get yourself a copy of the anarchist's handbook (is that still a thing?) |
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"Does anyone else just feel overlooked and undervalued?"
If you mean on fab, it doesn't phase me any.
Some people are popular and on forums a lot and others get ignored at times.
Doesn't mean you are of no value or you shouldn't contribute if you feel like it.
Just view it as idle time passing maybe, it shouldn't affect your self worth any, just a way of passing time.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Just to rephrase, I wasn’t referring to fab specifically. I get that it’s a quieter place for a lot of people and a popularity contest for others.
I meant in general. Not just myself either. So many people get overlooked in life |
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"Just to rephrase, I wasn’t referring to fab specifically. I get that it’s a quieter place for a lot of people and a popularity contest for others.
I meant in general. Not just myself either. So many people get overlooked in life "
This is true unfortunately. I guess you just get used to it in the end.
Sometimes its nice to float along and know no one is paying attention to you though. Which is a positive from it.
I have no advice on how to change it though.
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There is a manager I work with sometimes who just looks through me, and I have to really fight for her time despite my productivity. She just isn't interested. It's a very needlessly frustrating thing though, as we simply have to communicate at times. It's a weird ego thing, and a weird world.
I find the trick in dealing with this is to look around and 'down' not just up. Like people say, the world is full of people being ignored.
On the scale of things I think I do ok, and I know the places where I'm valued. |
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