What’s everyone’s opinions on apparently it looks better if someone is open to travel a little or lot either or for a meet weather it’s a one and go or full weekend thing. Been told that it looks better because kinda proves you are genuine and want it to happen and willing to travel for it. I’m not sure on it tbf. I can a little bit understand why people thinking like that but can’t be all that can it? Will say sometimes feels easier to chat or talk about a meet with people who are always not in your area lol |
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People are different and want different things. The most important is that someone is reliable and a good match. If you make it easy for others to evaluate your suitability for them, then it will be easier than if it's harder for them to ascertain this. Certainly it can be helpful for them to know where and how you may meet them. Not everyone wants a close by neighbour but conversely, they may not consider someone who's very far away. Whilst it could be helpful to know someones flexibility for meet duration, the specifics are probably going to be the type of details that can be discussed and evaluated, once they've determined your general compatibility. Do you view your having already given them your best shot overall in being able to evaluate your suitability as a good match? |
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The only thing that stands for anything here is consistency. That's the only thing that encourages me to meet someone as its far and few between on here. Anyone can say they will travel but actually showing up, that's rare. |
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"The only thing that stands for anything here is consistency. That's the only thing that encourages me to meet someone as its far and few between on here. Anyone can say they will travel but actually showing up, that's rare."
Yes I know what you mean. Iv got a couple regular people and like you say it’s very rare to have that. |
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My dynamic means I don’t mind traveling even long distances even if it’s just a day time social or night social
Learned though only big major cities
Got stood up ones in a small place down south and couldn’t salvage as people were 30-40 miles away
At least if I do big places like Newcastle Manchester London and things like that
If I get stood up I can just fly the meet now flag and salvage it
Same with if it’s just a social to see if we want to take things further
My dynamic with guys is just sexual and high numbers I like to be that 4 letter bad word that ever guys used at some point in time so for instance I can kill two birds with one stone so to speak
I can take a mid day / evening social with a woman or couple to see they want to take things further at a later date / arrange baby sitter for the night and what not and know I will turn up down there when I say
And then once finshed the social and back at hotel fly the meet now flag meet and get used by a couple off guys get used at them to my count off guys
So it’s never a wasted journey as I just killed two birds with one stone
Potential set up a thing to go futher with a woman or couple and also sampled some local tatlent in guys
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O.P.
It doesn't 'look' better. Why say you will travel just to 'look' better?
If you don't want to travel don't say you will.
Travelling certainly opens up the pool but it also increases expenses and being far from home if someone else doesn't show up.
Stick to what you want.
If you are happy not travelling don't lie and say you will ..... no point. |
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"My dynamic means I don’t mind traveling even long distances even if it’s just a day time social or night social
Learned though only big major cities
Got stood up ones in a small place down south and couldn’t salvage as people were 30-40 miles away
At least if I do big places like Newcastle Manchester London and things like that
If I get stood up I can just fly the meet now flag and salvage it
Same with if it’s just a social to see if we want to take things further
My dynamic with guys is just sexual and high numbers I like to be that 4 letter bad word that ever guys used at some point in time so for instance I can kill two birds with one stone so to speak
I can take a mid day / evening social with a woman or couple to see they want to take things further at a later date / arrange baby sitter for the night and what not and know I will turn up down there when I say
And then once finshed the social and back at hotel fly the meet now flag meet and get used by a couple off guys get used at them to my count off guys
So it’s never a wasted journey as I just killed two birds with one stone
Potential set up a thing to go futher with a woman or couple and also sampled some local tatlent in guys
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Fascinating glimpse into your life . |
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"O.P.
It doesn't 'look' better. Why say you will travel just to 'look' better?
If you don't want to travel don't say you will.
Travelling certainly opens up the pool but it also increases expenses and being far from home if someone else doesn't show up.
Stick to what you want.
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Op. Listen to this. Stick to doing what YOU want.  |
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over a year ago
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I would say we would prefer to travel or be travelled too , just because we don’t particularly want to see the person or persons every time we go to Tesco.
On the other hand , there is a limit , let’s say 30 miles
Just as an arbitrary line
Cos if you’re gonna travel 400 miles … and we have had that offer
That screams red flag |
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"My dynamic means I don’t mind traveling even long distances even if it’s just a day time social or night social
Learned though only big major cities
Got stood up ones in a small place down south and couldn’t salvage as people were 30-40 miles away
At least if I do big places like Newcastle Manchester London and things like that
If I get stood up I can just fly the meet now flag and salvage it
Same with if it’s just a social to see if we want to take things further
My dynamic with guys is just sexual and high numbers I like to be that 4 letter bad word that ever guys used at some point in time so for instance I can kill two birds with one stone so to speak
I can take a mid day / evening social with a woman or couple to see they want to take things further at a later date / arrange baby sitter for the night and what not and know I will turn up down there when I say
And then once finshed the social and back at hotel fly the meet now flag meet and get used by a couple off guys get used at them to my count off guys
So it’s never a wasted journey as I just killed two birds with one stone
Potential set up a thing to go futher with a woman or couple and also sampled some local tatlent in guys
Fascinating glimpse into your life ."
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"What’s everyone’s opinions on apparently it looks better if someone is open to travel a little or lot either or for a meet weather it’s a one and go or full weekend thing. Been told that it looks better because kinda proves you are genuine and want it to happen and willing to travel for it. I’m not sure on it tbf. I can a little bit understand why people thinking like that but can’t be all that can it? Will say sometimes feels easier to chat or talk about a meet with people who are always not in your area lol"
some people see travelling long distances as desperation despite the weather  |
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The thing is ,if you travel a good way ,what happens if that person doesn't show up ?.
It can be costly In terms or money and your time.
Personally if I was meeting someone for the first time say from my single profile,I wouldn't travel too far. There seems to be so many people getting stood up lately & unless you've met before how do you know who will turn up and who will no show.
You meet the way that suits you the best op and don't let anyone make you feel you have to travel miles.
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