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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Away for Christmas |
I used to sort of think so. But not quite as much the same way. I have zero expectation of sex.
Its just sort of more a community (good and bad) that sex is not a taboo subject, on which by the mere hint of its mention you are considered a pervert or only after one thing.
However with that said, anyone for the sex? |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"If you have a penis then yes
Men only want one thing and it’s disgusting is i think how the meme goes  "
She is the meme! Not once have I tried to put my penis near her!
I value it's safety far too much. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.
If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success |
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If we’re talking ‘ultimately’ then yes.
The rants, forums, ego boosts from pic displays, frustrations, convos, cam chats, weirdos, lovely people and everything else are all entertaining, but…
If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here |
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"If we’re talking ‘ultimately’ then yes.
The rants, forums, ego boosts from pic displays, frustrations, convos, cam chats, weirdos, lovely people and everything else are all entertaining, but…
If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here "
This ^ I can totally relate.
In fact, I’m closer to hit “delete” button than ever before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we’re talking ‘ultimately’ then yes.
The rants, forums, ego boosts from pic displays, frustrations, convos, cam chats, weirdos, lovely people and everything else are all entertaining, but…
If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here
This ^ I can totally relate.
In fact, I’m closer to hit “delete” button than ever before. "
Why? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If we’re talking ‘ultimately’ then yes.
The rants, forums, ego boosts from pic displays, frustrations, convos, cam chats, weirdos, lovely people and everything else are all entertaining, but…
If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here
This ^ I can totally relate.
In fact, I’m closer to hit “delete” button than ever before. "
You’d better not. I want you at pickle’s picnic in the park |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Away for Christmas |
"If we’re talking ‘ultimately’ then yes.
The rants, forums, ego boosts from pic displays, frustrations, convos, cam chats, weirdos, lovely people and everything else are all entertaining, but…
If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here
This ^ I can totally relate.
In fact, I’m closer to hit “delete” button than ever before.
You’d better not. I want you at pickle’s picnic in the park"
Yeah! He wants to pickle your picnic in the park. |
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"I used to sort of think so. But not quite as much the same way. I have zero expectation of sex.
Its just sort of more a community (good and bad) that sex is not a taboo subject, on which by the mere hint of its mention you are considered a pervert or only after one thing.
However with that said, anyone for the sex? "
This! Now I don't need to type a reply and will go get another coffee instead.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to sort of think so. But not quite as much the same way. I have zero expectation of sex.
Its just sort of more a community (good and bad) that sex is not a taboo subject, on which by the mere hint of its mention you are considered a pervert or only after one thing.
However with that said, anyone for the sex?
This! Now I don't need to type a reply and will go get another coffee instead.
J"
Yes.
I’m here for coffee. |
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"If we’re talking ‘ultimately’ then yes.
The rants, forums, ego boosts from pic displays, frustrations, convos, cam chats, weirdos, lovely people and everything else are all entertaining, but…
If I were to stop getting meets (which has been close a few times), I wouldn’t be on here
This ^ I can totally relate.
In fact, I’m closer to hit “delete” button than ever before.
You’d better not. I want you at pickle’s picnic in the park"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the drama 
And the football headlines.
BIG game tonight Geordie......."
They’ve got a few players missing so if we can manage to keep that big robot quiet we could get a result. |
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"For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.
If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success"
Are you poly ? or a non committal serial shagger ? |
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"I used to sort of think so. But not quite as much the same way. I have zero expectation of sex.
Its just sort of more a community (good and bad) that sex is not a taboo subject, on which by the mere hint of its mention you are considered a pervert or only after one thing.
However with that said, anyone for the sex? "
Ah this is such a good way to put it.
I feel less judged here and in the swingers community as a whole, I have more energy for more social situations because when I do them I mask less.
Came for the sex, love the sex (continue to want the sex) but it is the people and the chat that I love. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.
If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success
Are you poly ? or a non committal serial shagger ?"
I don’t even know how to take this from you lol |
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"For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.
If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success
Are you poly ? or a non committal serial shagger ?
I don’t even know how to take this from you lol"
Just as written Pickle. Just as read.
How do YOU differentiate being polyamorous from being non committal and having sex with different people ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.
If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success
Are you poly ? or a non committal serial shagger ?
I don’t even know how to take this from you lol
Just as written Pickle. Just as read.
How do YOU differentiate being polyamorous from being non committal and having sex with different people ?"
Well mostly by having more ‘typical’ relationships I guess. Like dating, meeting friends etc. I don’t mind non committed sex though. Every relationship you have with different partners is different.
I was only confused because I have said I’m poly plenty of times and can never read you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it’s about the interaction, the finding new friends, the discovery of different views and cultures. If the sex happens it’s a bonus 
And the gossip!  "
Omg the gossip |
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If I'm honest I like chatting and reading peoples opinions, occasionally adding in a thought or two of my own.
So I stay for the odd meander through the forum and a peruse of some pics.
If some sex stuff came up I wouldn't object but was mainly hoping to find people who liked yapping and such that I didn't have to censor myself so much in front of.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me it’s about the interaction, the finding new friends, the discovery of different views and cultures. If the sex happens it’s a bonus
And the gossip!
Omg the gossip "
And the drama! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it’s about the interaction, the finding new friends, the discovery of different views and cultures. If the sex happens it’s a bonus
And the gossip!
Omg the gossip
And the drama! "
It’s all the drama mick! I just love it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me it’s about the interaction, the finding new friends, the discovery of different views and cultures. If the sex happens it’s a bonus
And the gossip!
Omg the gossip
And the drama!
It’s all the drama mick! I just love it!"
I understood that reference |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Away for Christmas |
"For me it’s about the interaction, the finding new friends, the discovery of different views and cultures. If the sex happens it’s a bonus
And the gossip!
Omg the gossip
And the drama!
It’s all the drama mick! I just love it!"
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"I signed up for the sex.
The sex isn’t happening at the minute but I’m not loosing hope.
Pretty much this
Tinder "
To add though its turned into more like meeting new people, socials and more and not just only about the sex.
Tinder |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I really like meeting and growing from
other people and I really like sex, I think it’s 50/50.
Sex without any kind of adventure or journey doesn’t really interest me. But there’s definitely people I’d meet / carry on seeing even if sex wasn’t on the table. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yea all about the cake....
That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank."
You know cake is code for vagina  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea all about the cake....
That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.
You know cake is code for vagina "
Ffs. I'm going back to annoy the virus people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea all about the cake....
That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.
You know cake is code for vagina "
Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie  |
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"Yea all about the cake....
That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.
You know cake is code for vagina
Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie "
Prefer a nice bit of lemon drizzle.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea all about the cake....
That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.
You know cake is code for vagina
Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie
Prefer a nice bit of lemon drizzle...."
Oh back door action! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Away for Christmas |
"Yea all about the cake....
That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.
You know cake is code for vagina
Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie
Prefer a nice bit of lemon drizzle....
Oh back door action! "
I think I may have just but DF off cakes for life... |
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By *ibLeiMan
over a year ago
Manchester |
I’d be lying if I said sex wasn’t a massive driver of me creating a profile. But connection and friendship are two very important elements that I seek in a potential sexual partner.
So yes, sex is a big reason for me being here, but far from being the only one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?"
I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?
I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her"
Apparently her brother Wan is a referee. I’ll see myself out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?"
I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?
I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!"
I knew I always liked you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It started with sex, sex is very important to me as an older woman who knows time is not on her side.
However, I have chatted at length with people I'll never ever meet, shared things we'd never share if it was just about sex.
Being older has also helped share some knowledge of what their partners are physically going through
So I see it as a support system, in a variety of ways now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Started as a way to explore my sexuality and still hope to.
But also a place to chat support or get support and live vicariously through other people's adventures |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.
If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success
Are you poly ? or a non committal serial shagger ?
I don’t even know how to take this from you lol
Just as written Pickle. Just as read.
How do YOU differentiate being polyamorous from being non committal and having sex with different people ?"
So Pickle, no. I'm mainly here for friendship. Sex is great obviously but I place more value on friendship. I joined for sex. I stay around for friendship.
I really like this post GC. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea all about the cake....
That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.
You know cake is code for vagina
Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie
Prefer a nice bit of lemon drizzle....
Oh back door action!
I think I may have just but DF off cakes for life... "
Still in!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?
I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!
I knew I always liked you "
That's good because my dad doesn't now! |
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Everything here is about one thing for me. Fun.
Whether that is naked fun with someone, fun in the forums, fun chatting to friends, fun feeding the trolls (yes I know I’m a terrible person), fun flirting, fun on socials/group socials… fun taking pictures
As soon as I stop having fun - I’m off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?
I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!
I knew I always liked you
That's good because my dad doesn't now! "
I’m cooler anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?
I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!
I knew I always liked you
That's good because my dad doesn't now!
I’m cooler anyway "
He's pretty bad for a 79yo Tbf |
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"Yea all about the cake....
That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.
You know cake is code for vagina
Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie
Prefer a nice bit of lemon drizzle....
Oh back door action! "
Chocolate fudge cake surely  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?
I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her
Apparently her brother Wan is a referee. I’ll see myself out."
Boo this man!!!
Boooooooooooooooo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?
I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!
I knew I always liked you
That's good because my dad doesn't now!
I’m cooler anyway
He's pretty bad for a 79yo Tbf "
Now I want to go for a pint with your dad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea all about the cake....
That actually is a very valid point. I'd choose cake over sex all day. Sex is meh, rather have a wank.
You know cake is code for vagina
Yah fancy a bit of my lemon meringue pie
Prefer a nice bit of lemon drizzle....
Oh back door action!
Chocolate fudge cake surely "
FFS don't make me associate the two things!  |
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"I used to sort of think so. But not quite as much the same way. I have zero expectation of sex.
Its just sort of more a community (good and bad) that sex is not a taboo subject, on which by the mere hint of its mention you are considered a pervert or only after one thing.
However with that said, anyone for the sex? "
Waves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?
I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her
Apparently her brother Wan is a referee. I’ll see myself out.
Boo this man!!!
Boooooooooooooooo"
I’m a dad. This is my level of humour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?
I did. I went for Newcastle and my dad yelled at me. Sigh!
I knew I always liked you
That's good because my dad doesn't now!
I’m cooler anyway
He's pretty bad for a 79yo Tbf
Now I want to go for a pint with your dad "
Dunno if he'd speak to you as you persuaded me to support Newcastle! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?
I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her
Apparently her brother Wan is a referee. I’ll see myself out.
Boo this man!!!
Boooooooooooooooo
I’m a dad. This is my level of humour "
I too am a dad. Obviously I’m a cool one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, is all about the sex. Well it would be, if I was getting any.
You could if you liked pickles. Alas
I love pickles  ... could eat a whole jar of them lol"
They’re so juicy. Ooooft |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?
I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her
Apparently her brother Wan is a referee. I’ll see myself out.
Boo this man!!!
Boooooooooooooooo
I’m a dad. This is my level of humour
I too am a dad. Obviously I’m a cool one "
My daughter in the bath the other day: ‘daddy, Look at all those chickens!’
That was my proudest moment in life. |
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"Yes, is all about the sex. Well it would be, if I was getting any.
You could if you liked pickles. Alas
I love pickles ... could eat a whole jar of them lol
They’re so juicy. Ooooft "
They are, ooft |
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Came here to find a woman to join us and Help people interested in bdsm but due to maya's ill health sex went out the window .I still have to have to have a meeting minds first
But yes sex would be nice .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I came hoping to find open-minded people I could feel at ease with. One way or another.
Did you ever find a football team?
I’m reliably informed she supports Chelsea ladies for Sam Kerr. Don’t blame her
Apparently her brother Wan is a referee. I’ll see myself out.
Boo this man!!!
Boooooooooooooooo
I’m a dad. This is my level of humour
I too am a dad. Obviously I’m a cool one
My daughter in the bath the other day: ‘daddy, Look at all those chickens!’
That was my proudest moment in life. "
Mine was when The Next Episode came on the radio and my son knew the words |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everything here is about one thing for me. Fun.
Whether that is naked fun with someone, fun in the forums, fun chatting to friends, fun feeding the trolls (yes I know I’m a terrible person), fun flirting, fun on socials/group socials… fun taking pictures
As soon as I stop having fun - I’m off.
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Wise words |
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"For me one main reason I’ve returned here is for non judgemental friendships that I can be open about being poly with. Hard to find that kind of community elsewhere I’ve found.
If it was just about sex I’d have stuck to dating apps. Way more success
Are you poly ? or a non committal serial shagger ?
I don’t even know how to take this from you lol
Just as written Pickle. Just as read.
How do YOU differentiate being polyamorous from being non committal and having sex with different people ?
So Pickle, no. I'm mainly here for friendship. Sex is great obviously but I place more value on friendship. I joined for sex. I stay around for friendship.
I really like this post GC. "
Twas a simple question, so many on here say they are poly when it seems to them to mean they want non commital sex |
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I came here for the sex and, after a while, wasn't disappointed. I stay here mainly for the sex. However there are other benefits too. I think this is probably one of the few sites I've been on where there are so many people with different points of view on the same site. There's hard core BREXITers and rejouners on here (ok they spend a lot of their time knocking seven bells of shit out of each other in the politics forum but they're all here), Vaxers and anti-vaxers, gays, straights, bulls, subs, etc etc.
Even if/when the sex dries up completely I'd probably still stay around here just for the social variety and comedic value of the place. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've decided to be here ONLY for 'the sex'
Hope you find it 
Thank you Pickle
I would but… Liverpool init
Don't worry Pickle , we've relaxed our standards to allow you to feel at home!
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The roasting thread is not this one |
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"I've decided to be here ONLY for 'the sex'
Hope you find it
Thank you Pickle
I would but… Liverpool init
Don't worry Pickle , we've relaxed our standards to allow you to feel at home!
The roasting thread is not this one "
I'd never roast you Pickle. Seriously. |
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