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Inspired by a conversation with a coworker who hasn’t spoke to his girlfriend for 2 days because she snapped at him. What is the longest you haven’t spoke to your other half? What was the reason? |
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over a year ago
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"Inspired by a conversation with a coworker who hasn’t spoke to his girlfriend for 2 days because she snapped at him. What is the longest you haven’t spoke to your other half? What was the reason?"
My now ex husband, not spoken to him for 12 years. |
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over a year ago
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Probably like half hour after a row to cool off but talk about it fairly quickly like adults. Silent treatment is actually pretty abusive, I hate that shit. |
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over a year ago
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"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids. "
I think the longest we’ve done is 2 days but we work opposite shifts so it’s easily done if we’re angry with each other. |
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"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids. "
My ex never spoke to me for 12 years.. Married to him till this year. He lived in another country. Silence is golden at times |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Inspired by a conversation with a coworker who hasn’t spoke to his girlfriend for 2 days because she snapped at him. What is the longest you haven’t spoke to your other half? What was the reason?
My now ex husband, not spoken to him for 12 years. "
Remind me not to upset you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.
I think the longest we’ve done is 2 days but we work opposite shifts so it’s easily done if we’re angry with each other."
We didn't do shifts. He just did the silent treatment because I hadn't agreed with him or some crap. It is a standard feature of emotional abuse.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Probably like half hour after a row to cool off but talk about it fairly quickly like adults. Silent treatment is actually pretty abusive, I hate that shit. "
It depends what caused it. Sometimes people need space to get their head right. |
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over a year ago
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"I don’t think we’ve ever went a day without talking to each other, even after an argument.
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I assumed most couples had done at least a day. Especially in the early days before they live together. |
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Maybe 24hrs if one of us is away on a work or social trip.
Purposely not speaking because of a disagreement…
Never.
We are adults and when we have disagreements or do something to piss each other off we talk about it until it’s sorted out. |
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I haven't ever.
I find the silent treatment stupid to be honest, if you can't talk out your issues then there's a lot of lacking communication.
If one needs a breather go get one then sort the shit out.
Mrs
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"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.
This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere "
Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think we’ve ever went a day without talking to each other, even after an argument.
I assumed most couples had done at least a day. Especially in the early days before they live together."
We can definitely go hours without talking after, but it’s good to give each other the space to cool down before trying to fix it.
Silent treatment for days would drive me up the wall and probably make the situation a lot worse than it needs to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.
This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere
Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years. "
Did we have the same ex?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe 24hrs if one of us is away on a work or social trip.
Purposely not speaking because of a disagreement…
Never.
We are adults and when we have disagreements or do something to piss each other off we talk about it until it’s sorted out."
Not even for an hour or so after an argument? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I haven't ever.
I find the silent treatment stupid to be honest, if you can't talk out your issues then there's a lot of lacking communication.
If one needs a breather go get one then sort the shit out.
Mrs
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I sometimes need my space. Go for a drive, go to the gym or whatever. I’m fine after that. |
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"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.
This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere
Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years. "
I'm the same with my ex, horrid memories! So glad you're out of that now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.
I think the longest we’ve done is 2 days but we work opposite shifts so it’s easily done if we’re angry with each other.
We didn't do shifts. He just did the silent treatment because I hadn't agreed with him or some crap. It is a standard feature of emotional abuse. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"About 5 days, but he was busy fucking someone else so I guess that's fair.
I hate when you post things I can’t make jokes about."
It's ok, I've had rum, you can joke. |
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"About 5 days, but he was busy fucking someone else so I guess that's fair.
I hate when you post things I can’t make jokes about."
This is the perfect one to make a joke with. And who cares if it's true? Maybe if she put out more.... 
(I'll take myself off to repent my sins)
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"About 5 days, but he was busy fucking someone else so I guess that's fair.
I hate when you post things I can’t make jokes about.
It's ok, I've had rum, you can joke. "
It’s not your reaction I’m afraid of  |
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"Maybe 24hrs if one of us is away on a work or social trip.
Purposely not speaking because of a disagreement…
Never.
We are adults and when we have disagreements or do something to piss each other off we talk about it until it’s sorted out.
Not even for an hour or so after an argument?"
We just don’t leave arguments unfinished really.
Well stay pissed at each other for a period but never silent treatment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"About 5 days, but he was busy fucking someone else so I guess that's fair.
I hate when you post things I can’t make jokes about.
It's ok, I've had rum, you can joke.
It’s not your reaction I’m afraid of "
Ah,good memories.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe 24hrs if one of us is away on a work or social trip.
Purposely not speaking because of a disagreement…
Never.
We are adults and when we have disagreements or do something to piss each other off we talk about it until it’s sorted out.
Not even for an hour or so after an argument?
We just don’t leave arguments unfinished really.
Well stay pissed at each other for a period but never silent treatment."
For us it’s more to avoid another argument until we’ve calmed down. |
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"About 5 days, but he was busy fucking someone else so I guess that's fair.
I hate when you post things I can’t make jokes about.
This is the perfect one to make a joke with. And who cares if it's true? Maybe if she put out more....
(I'll take myself off to repent my sins)
F"
Mine was more body hair related |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.
This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere
Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years.
Did we have the same ex? "
Narcissistic wanker? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.
This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere
Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years.
Did we have the same ex?
Narcissistic wanker? "
That's him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.
This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere
Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years.
Did we have the same ex?
Narcissistic wanker?
That's him! "
A wanker but great taste in women, huh?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My ex ignored me for several days at a time even when we lived together. And had kids.
This. And it made for a very awkward atmosphere
Yeah.it makes me so sad to remember what it was like. He did it for fucking years.
Did we have the same ex?
Narcissistic wanker?
That's him!
A wanker but great taste in women, huh? "
50/50 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't keep a grudge with Tom. If I get in a mood with him, he just comes up to me and tells me I look sexy when i'm in a mood..
We hardly ever argue, but when we do, it doesn't last long...
xx Jess |
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