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When you feel too old.
I tend to tone it down a little now. I won't wear short skirts and a low top at the same time when I go out and I will only wear a short skirt with boots.
It *shouldn't* matter but people judge. |
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"When you feel too old.
I tend to tone it down a little now. I won't wear short skirts and a low top at the same time when I go out and I will only wear a short skirt with boots.
It *shouldn't* matter but people judge."
I am not quite ready yet!
Luckily time and some hard work has kept me in ok shape.
I love people looking, and so does hubby!! |
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"When you feel too old.
I tend to tone it down a little now. I won't wear short skirts and a low top at the same time when I go out and I will only wear a short skirt with boots.
It *shouldn't* matter but people judge.
I am not quite ready yet!
Luckily time and some hard work has kept me in ok shape.
I love people looking, and so does hubby!!"
You're much younger than me  .
I say as long as you're comfortable keep wearing what you want to wear |
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"Mrs loves to dress really naughty when going out.
See through tops and short skirts.
What is the general view on when people are too old to do this?
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When they are dead |
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"Mrs loves to dress really naughty when going out.
See through tops and short skirts.
What is the general view on when people are too old to do this?
When they are dead"
Even then you could request to be dressed in your favourite mini skirt for your final journey  |
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"So when I'm 85 if I get on the bus in a mini skirt and see through top with no bra? Nobody will stare or assume I'm in the early stages of dementia?"
Let ‘em stare, you’ll have forgotten by the time you get off the bus anyway, or where you were going in the first place. |
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"So when I'm 85 if I get on the bus in a mini skirt and see through top with no bra? Nobody will stare or assume I'm in the early stages of dementia?
Let ‘em stare, you’ll have forgotten by the time you get off the bus anyway, or where you were going in the first place. "
 very true
My dad got off the bus once to find a naked man standing at the bus stop. The police arrived in short order and took him back to hospital.
I do think society will judge a woman who dresses provocatively at any age and the judgement gets harsher the older you get. |
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"When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter." |
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"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves. "
You could be right.
I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden. |
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""When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter.""
My mum used to quote that. Why do we have to wait until we're old? |
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"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.
You could be right.
I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden. "
Indoors clothes are different, I look like a right tramp especially in my gardening clothes  |
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"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.
You could be right.
I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden.
Indoors clothes are different, I look like a right tramp especially in my gardening clothes "
I'm wearing a very low top, tight, short shorts and bare feet. Something you'd expect to see on a much younger woman than I. Personally I think I look great, Mr N thinks so too. I still wouldn't wear it out because I wouldn't feel comfortable. I would wear these clothes on holiday though.
I don't know how I feel about it really because I strongly believe that we should wear exactly what we want and it doesn't matter what other people think. Then I take into at what other people *might* think  . |
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"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.
You could be right.
I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden.
Indoors clothes are different, I look like a right tramp especially in my gardening clothes
I'm wearing a very low top, tight, short shorts and bare feet. Something you'd expect to see on a much younger woman than I. Personally I think I look great, Mr N thinks so too. I still wouldn't wear it out because I wouldn't feel comfortable. I would wear these clothes on holiday though.
I don't know how I feel about it really because I strongly believe that we should wear exactly what we want and it doesn't matter what other people think. Then I take into at what other people *might* think . "
I do think we care what others think if us. And what they will assume of us when we wear xyz. It's silly in a way but it's human nature I think, we're pack animals in so many ways |
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""When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter."
My mum used to quote that. Why do we have to wait until we're old? "
Because with age, I think, comes wisdom that people care less than you assume
And with retirement you lose the fear of reputation tied to career |
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"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.
You could be right.
I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden.
Indoors clothes are different, I look like a right tramp especially in my gardening clothes
I'm wearing a very low top, tight, short shorts and bare feet. Something you'd expect to see on a much younger woman than I. Personally I think I look great, Mr N thinks so too. I still wouldn't wear it out because I wouldn't feel comfortable. I would wear these clothes on holiday though.
I don't know how I feel about it really because I strongly believe that we should wear exactly what we want and it doesn't matter what other people think. Then I take into at what other people *might* think .
I do think we care what others think if us. And what they will assume of us when we wear xyz. It's silly in a way but it's human nature I think, we're pack animals in so many ways "
This has made me think actually.
In general I don't really care what people think or say about my personality or looks but the way I was brought up has made me quite conscious of how I dress. Even Mr N would tell me that I couldn't wear a particular outfit to visit my parents and he'd have me walking around in next to nothing |
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""When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter."
My mum used to quote that. Why do we have to wait until we're old?
Because with age, I think, comes wisdom that people care less than you assume
And with retirement you lose the fear of reputation tied to career"
Very true. Is a red hat compulsory with a purple dress though? |
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""When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter."
My mum used to quote that. Why do we have to wait until we're old?
Because with age, I think, comes wisdom that people care less than you assume
And with retirement you lose the fear of reputation tied to career
Very true. Is a red hat compulsory with a purple dress though? "
good god no |
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""When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter."
My mum used to quote that. Why do we have to wait until we're old?
Because with age, I think, comes wisdom that people care less than you assume
And with retirement you lose the fear of reputation tied to career
Very true. Is a red hat compulsory with a purple dress though?
good god no "
Thank goodness.
I wore a red hat when we got married |
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I believe that the older generation can be as sexy as a nubile 20 year old. Old gal by me turns many a head in the pub, dress not to short , cleavage plentiful but not in your face. Hair always neat and tidy, and heels and lips to match bright red . My age looks twenty years younger, mind you make up less might be different. She is a becon of fun in the room , good on her. Her husband is always a busy man lol fending of others. |
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"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.
You could be right.
I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden.
Indoors clothes are different, I look like a right tramp especially in my gardening clothes
I'm wearing a very low top, tight, short shorts and bare feet. Something you'd expect to see on a much younger woman than I. Personally I think I look great, Mr N thinks so too. I still wouldn't wear it out because I wouldn't feel comfortable. I would wear these clothes on holiday though.
I don't know how I feel about it really because I strongly believe that we should wear exactly what we want and it doesn't matter what other people think. Then I take into at what other people *might* think .
I do think we care what others think if us. And what they will assume of us when we wear xyz. It's silly in a way but it's human nature I think, we're pack animals in so many ways
This has made me think actually.
In general I don't really care what people think or say about my personality or looks but the way I was brought up has made me quite conscious of how I dress. Even Mr N would tell me that I couldn't wear a particular outfit to visit my parents and he'd have me walking around in next to nothing "
Haha I definitely got that, I'm definitely the odd one out when I go out with my family. They're more jeans and a top kind of people. I never wear jeans except for football practice with the boys.
Got asked in work this week where I get my clothes from. And someone said you never wear trousers. And another colleague said she did once, when it was snowing. Which is true, was wearing hiking shoes the lot just in case I had to walk home. I just like looking different to everyone else. |
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"We judge ourselves with the same eyes we judge others. I don't think it's necessarily that we worry about what others think, we're worrying about what we think about ourselves.
You could be right.
I'm wearing an outfit today I wouldn't dream of wearing outside of the house or garden.
Indoors clothes are different, I look like a right tramp especially in my gardening clothes
I'm wearing a very low top, tight, short shorts and bare feet. Something you'd expect to see on a much younger woman than I. Personally I think I look great, Mr N thinks so too. I still wouldn't wear it out because I wouldn't feel comfortable. I would wear these clothes on holiday though.
I don't know how I feel about it really because I strongly believe that we should wear exactly what we want and it doesn't matter what other people think. Then I take into at what other people *might* think .
I do think we care what others think if us. And what they will assume of us when we wear xyz. It's silly in a way but it's human nature I think, we're pack animals in so many ways
This has made me think actually.
In general I don't really care what people think or say about my personality or looks but the way I was brought up has made me quite conscious of how I dress. Even Mr N would tell me that I couldn't wear a particular outfit to visit my parents and he'd have me walking around in next to nothing
Haha I definitely got that, I'm definitely the odd one out when I go out with my family. They're more jeans and a top kind of people. I never wear jeans except for football practice with the boys.
Got asked in work this week where I get my clothes from. And someone said you never wear trousers. And another colleague said she did once, when it was snowing. Which is true, was wearing hiking shoes the lot just in case I had to walk home. I just like looking different to everyone else. "
I like looking different too. I try to wear what suits me . Someone described my dress sense as daring another told me that I came to work looking as if I was going out for dinner |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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In my opinion anyone can wear what they want in the right situation.
I wouldn't have my arse in knickers or a thong, or my nipples showing anywhere but in the bedroom.
I believe we shouldn't show nipples in public, regardless of age.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"When you feel too old.
I tend to tone it down a little now. I won't wear short skirts and a low top at the same time when I go out and I will only wear a short skirt with boots.
It *shouldn't* matter but people judge."
As long as there's no nipplage it wouldn't matter to me.
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If the women have the legs for short skirts then I’d say go for it
The low cut top is either inviting men to ogle her or maybe she’s getting at her partner |
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"If the women have the legs for short skirts then I’d say go for it
The low cut top is either inviting men to ogle her or maybe she’s getting at her partner "
But the "if they have the legs for it", is a different kind of judgement in itself though. Everyone judges in some form or another. |
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"When you feel too old.
I tend to tone it down a little now. I won't wear short skirts and a low top at the same time when I go out and I will only wear a short skirt with boots.
It *shouldn't* matter but people judge.
As long as there's no nipplage it wouldn't matter to me.
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It's fine mine are tucked into my belt  |
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I'm probably considered very conservative in my dress sense, in that I don't wear anything 'revealing '.
It does sadden me a little that being considered dressed sexy ( for a woman) usually involves showing either legs or cleavage |
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"I'm probably considered very conservative in my dress sense, in that I don't wear anything 'revealing '.
It does sadden me a little that being considered dressed sexy ( for a woman) usually involves showing either legs or cleavage "
I tend to agree. I think people can look sexy without wearing revealing clothes. |
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