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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Depends. If we’ve shagged and they’re top notch at it, great - crack on.
But a lot of folk sext like they’re awesome in bed and then when you meet it’s a bit “meh”.
So if you can walk the walk then yeah it’s great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind it. But I put it on the back burner unless I've got enough of a relationship to try it without blowing up in my face or the female enitiates it |
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I adore it… BUT only with the people I’m already connected to. It does absolutely nothing for me unless we’ve already got that sexual tension going on.
* that means DONT DM me asking to sext… thanks  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Away for Christmas |
"Nah. Usually predictable and unimaginative  "
I'm a bit of a broken record on this but, for it to work both sides need an imagination.
It also helps if both sides have excellent word usage, but as long as 1 person does it can work. The ability to describe and make you feel the words causing something, not just attempting to be sexy.
It is something closer to erotic literature than just sexting.
Obviously you need to be in the mood, or open to being turned on at the time. It won't so anything if you headspace is not there for it. |
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I don't mind it as long as it's part of the overall getting-to-know-you process, building on any chemistry and mental connection, with the caveat that it's not prone to juvenile 'text speak' and with some reasonable expectation it's going to lead somewhere. I'm not looking for penpals. I have enough already. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you ever read the comments on these. Threads and wonder who is actually good at sexting and who isn't?
Nope? Just me then.
It's great when you're already in a lustful place with someone and already have the connection, after you've already got naked. Beforehand doesn't really work for me.
Outside of that it's boring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah. Usually predictable and unimaginative
I'm a bit of a broken record on this but, for it to work both sides need an imagination.
It also helps if both sides have excellent word usage, but as long as 1 person does it can work. The ability to describe and make you feel the words causing something, not just attempting to be sexy.
It is something closer to erotic literature than just sexting.
Obviously you need to be in the mood, or open to being turned on at the time. It won't so anything if you headspace is not there for it."
That's partly another reason why I'm not a huge fan of it. I'm just shit at saying anything remotely erotic or describing certain feelings and sensations because when they happen, they're just euphoric in the moment and don't really drill down enough to describe what makes it so. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
I prefer voice notes. But I can do it and enjoy it too. But it probably matters more to men knowing a hot woman that could literally be spending her time messaging any other man is spending time solely on you and getting you hard |
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By *alsam1Couple
over a year ago
Caister |
Its great if you in physical contact with the other person. To see them after a cyber or to be doing it with them and you can see them its awesome.
Long distance it has to be video chat other wise you may as well be talking to a bot x |
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It can be fun with a partner or FB, but with a stranger off the internet- massive cringe! Particularly when the very first message is extremely descriptive about what they want to do to you.
I am not a huge fan of the cyber thing, prefer real life. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
It frustrates me, I would rather just wait. But with the right person it’s enjoyable, if you’re both brave and creative you can really surprise yourselves but ultimately leaves me frustrated & wanting the real thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can be fun and is a good way to find out what people like and don't though many women on here seem to use it as escapism. In my experience it tends to end up with the woman playing with herself (often a number of times), so don't start sexting me unless you have some time to spare, somewhere quite to go, or can turn off the camera in whatever work teams meeting you are supposed to be in (that seems to be a favourite bit of escapism).
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I found it funny as we'd be talking over the phone just normal chat with a twist and she'd start feeling horny. she found this difficult to control herself so we'd switch to texting (her suggestion). While she played I'd write a script to help her through. We had a super senses of humour connection/chemistry was like we'd known each other most of our lives, but was only few months which became years we'd never met it's amazing what can be achieved when you're not a prick and we've become mutual best friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the connection is intense and in the context of a conversation going that way it can engage the mind and build up the anticipation but that’s extremely rare .,., |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Sometimes I enjoy it - if they're particularly skilled with words or know exactly how to press my buttons. Or if they can come on demand which I'll never get tired of seeing - he's got the perfect arms to watch as he wanks.
Generally no because I end up wanting the person even more; it's like a temporary scratch on an itch that needs so much more and I end up contemplating how quickly I can worship their cock in person. |
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By *assy69Man
over a year ago
West Sussex and Wales |
With someone I know, and have met and played with, I enjoy sexting when I know already what my partner enjoys, what my partner wants.
Words, when used well, can be incredibly hot and sexy, and they can help build the anticipation and excitement for the next time we meet.
It can be quite erotic, knowing beforehand, how things will pan out when we do next get together. |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
Reading |
This week chatted with a female from here. But on another app. Mostly was general chat finding out about each other . Photos exchanged , not many . Yes and some sexy chat. At end of chat . She made comment . Sent two photos. . From message thought was about how someone else turned her on. Her reply was look at photos. Both taken now. Realised yes was selfie she had sent earlier in chat . She said this was what our chat had done to her.  . She was very wet. Lol |
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