I just posted this in the “cuddle therapy” forum. Instead of just sitting astride, be in her at the same time. Should be pretty ecstatic experience. Good luck!
think it’s a wonderful idea and one I have researched a lot and considered doing. For those people that are very kinaesthetic or in need of support. It would be great for older folk too- they rarely get any human touch at all. I have a regular masseuse I see and we always include some tantra holding during the session and it makes me really happy. I would definitely vary your price list on the types of hugs. I would love to hear how you get on with it so feel free to message me x
What does tantra holding involve?
There are variations. One is to exchange masculine vs feminine energy through breathing. That is regardless of your sex. One partner sits cross legged over the other.
The one below is the masculine energy in that position. The masculine breathes “out” through their groin “into” the groin of their partner who is breathing in from there. The female then channels that up and out through their heart to the heart space of their masculine partner.
Think of it as a circular form of energy passed between you both.
It’s incredibly attuned and comforting and can release some intense feelings in the process. Above all it leaves you feeling totally safe, held and secure. It isn’t for everyone.
I like the sound of this."
It really is beautiful. But it matters who you do it with. I tried with one fellow and he was in a panic, his breath everywhere. Not everyone is ready for that level of intimacy. With the masseuse I see regularly it’s like our souls are in synch and we could stay there for hours. |
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"I just posted this in the “cuddle therapy” forum. Instead of just sitting astride, be in her at the same time. Should be pretty ecstatic experience. Good luck!
think it’s a wonderful idea and one I have researched a lot and considered doing. For those people that are very kinaesthetic or in need of support. It would be great for older folk too- they rarely get any human touch at all. I have a regular masseuse I see and we always include some tantra holding during the session and it makes me really happy. I would definitely vary your price list on the types of hugs. I would love to hear how you get on with it so feel free to message me x
What does tantra holding involve?
There are variations. One is to exchange masculine vs feminine energy through breathing. That is regardless of your sex. One partner sits cross legged over the other.
The one below is the masculine energy in that position. The masculine breathes “out” through their groin “into” the groin of their partner who is breathing in from there. The female then channels that up and out through their heart to the heart space of their masculine partner.
Think of it as a circular form of energy passed between you both.
It’s incredibly attuned and comforting and can release some intense feelings in the process. Above all it leaves you feeling totally safe, held and secure. It isn’t for everyone.
I like the sound of this."
It really is beautiful. But it matters who you do it with. I tried with one fellow and he was in a panic, his breath everywhere. Not everyone is ready for that level of intimacy. With the masseuse I see regularly it’s like our souls are in synch and we could stay there for hours."
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Thanks for the replies. I've done some research too.
We feel really connected to each other so eye contact, attention, etc will be simple, I hope.
Yab yum position looks like it will suit us.
I'll report back x |
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