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By *ouple360 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Profiles with cock size requirements are so common, and regardless of what people say at the dinner table, size does seem to matter for many women (and gay/bi men). So it’s quite common to read things like “hot wife for 8” or more”…
However profiles with similar requirements for pussies are inexistent. In light of equality shouldn’t men also “demand” tight pussies, and advertise it freely: “hot man for small tight pussy”. Or in this case would that be genital shaming?
Post your thoughts…
PS: on a personal note me Alex (mr) I’m not hung but also don’t have a micro penis. And being bi for years I can say I’ve had plenty of pussies and cocks on every shape, size, and tone to actually say size doesn’t matter. But again, for us sex has so many other factors than the physical “specs”, it would be impossible to explain to those only focused on one of them… |
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over a year ago
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If the pussy is tight she’s not turned on anuff simple as
Human genetics
When a woman gets turned on her muscles relax to accommodate the size
If it feels “tight” you ither not turned her on or your cock is a monster bigger than a baby’s head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a two way street.
It's preference. We are all shapes differently. Some women prefer hot dog to a party sausage, just like I prefer a clamshell to a wizards sleeve. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profiles with cock size requirements are so common, and regardless of what people say at the dinner table, size does seem to matter for many women (and gay/bi men). So it’s quite common to read things like “hot wife for 8” or more”…
However profiles with similar requirements for pussies are inexistent. In light of equality shouldn’t men also “demand” tight pussies, and advertise it freely: “hot man for small tight pussy”. Or in this case would that be genital shaming?
Post your thoughts…
PS: on a personal note me Alex (mr) I’m not hung but also don’t have a micro penis. And being bi for years I can say I’ve had plenty of pussies and cocks on every shape, size, and tone to actually say size doesn’t matter. But again, for us sex has so many other factors than the physical “specs”, it would be impossible to explain to those only focused on one of them…"
Headache brewing so concentration is low but
Are you asking if people would get more arsey if a male profile or male half of a couple profile wanted a type of fanny? Than seeing female wants 8+ |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"If the pussy is tight she’s not turned on anuff simple as
Human genetics
When a woman gets turned on her muscles relax to accommodate the size
If it feels “tight” you ither not turned her on or your cock is a monster bigger than a baby’s head "
Not necessarily. I mean yes, of course generally a woman is looser and more lubricated the more aroused she is, to help her accommodate the penis.
I think that there's also a fundamental difference - no two women feel the same. Sometimes women are naturally tighter, sometimes spongier, sometimes a bit looser. There's nothing wrong with that is there?
As far as the OP goes... genital shaming/daftness happens both ways. I don't think someone having a preference for a larger penis is that. In a similar vein, I don't think if a man prefers a more snug sleeve than he is shaming.
I don't quite follow the x must mean y should happen as well argument but it's not midday.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are strange sometimes. It's not fair women ask for certain sized cocks. Therefore we must ask about vagina size for equality sake and all that
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Do women want equality or not? This is the reason people hate feminism !12!!2  |
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By *ouple360 OP Couple
over a year ago
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The main point is: how would it be perceived if a profile had as a requirement: “please only tight vaginas, if you are loosen don’t contact us” (which would be an exact mirror of common profiles with their cock requirements).
We don’t advocate for either, just making a point that man so often praise tight pussies when they find them (we know these by first hand experience  )
As said in the original post this has nothing to do with our personal preference, just stating something that does seem to show a double standard (or not) and def benefit from the community’s point of view |
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"People are strange sometimes. It's not fair women ask for certain sized cocks. Therefore we must ask about vagina size for equality sake and all that
Do women want equality or not? This is the reason people hate feminism !12!!2 "
Cock and vagina sizing is definitely why people hate those pesky feminists |
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And how would we as women know how tight we are, I mean the tape measure isn't going to work, I can go by what people say but then again that varies depending how much I'm turned on.
I'll go with
Tight when turned off.
Tight when turned on a little.
Slightly looser when turned on a lot.
Can clench around a small bullet so if your bigger you'll feel me.
Would that be correct
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"The main point is: how would it be perceived if a profile had as a requirement: “please only tight vaginas, if you are loosen don’t contact us” (which would be an exact mirror of common profiles with their cock requirements).
We don’t advocate for either, just making a point that man so often praise tight pussies when they find them (we know these by first hand experience )
As said in the original post this has nothing to do with our personal preference, just stating something that does seem to show a double standard (or not) and def benefit from the community’s point of view "
There's plenty of profiles stating I'm paraphrasing as I don't want to use their wordings as they are generally offensive. Slim women only no larger ones. Larger women only I don't want to fuck a derogatory term for a slim woman. So I think there are not so nice people on here, and that there isn't a double standard particularly against men.
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"The main point is: how would it be perceived if a profile had as a requirement: “please only tight vaginas, if you are loosen don’t contact us” (which would be an exact mirror of common profiles with their cock requirements).
We don’t advocate for either, just making a point that man so often praise tight pussies when they find them (we know these by first hand experience )
As said in the original post this has nothing to do with our personal preference, just stating something that does seem to show a double standard (or not) and def benefit from the community’s point of view "
It's not really a double standard though there's literally no way if measuring it, I mean how tight are you op?
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"And how would we as women know how tight we are, I mean the tape measure isn't going to work, I can go by what people say but then again that varies depending how much I'm turned on.
I'll go with
Tight when turned off.
Tight when turned on a little.
Slightly looser when turned on a lot.
Can clench around a small bullet so if your bigger you'll feel me.
Would that be correct
Mrs "
Make us do a handstand and fill us with water and then weight it? 
Totally not volunteer for this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the pussy is tight she’s not turned on anuff simple as
Human genetics
When a woman gets turned on her muscles relax to accommodate the size
If it feels “tight” you ither not turned her on or your cock is a monster bigger than a baby’s head
Not necessarily. I mean yes, of course generally a woman is looser and more lubricated the more aroused she is, to help her accommodate the penis.
I think that there's also a fundamental difference - no two women feel the same. Sometimes women are naturally tighter, sometimes spongier, sometimes a bit looser. There's nothing wrong with that is there?
As far as the OP goes... genital shaming/daftness happens both ways. I don't think someone having a preference for a larger penis is that. In a similar vein, I don't think if a man prefers a more snug sleeve than he is shaming.
I don't quite follow the x must mean y should happen as well argument but it's not midday. "
Sorry but all medical text books papers published by people who have degrees in the feel would disagree
From ever study and medical paper I have read she’s not turned on that’s medical facts |
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By *ouple360 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Re measuring: I think you’re missing the point; most women would know if they’re on the right side of the spectrum or closer to the other end. And of course, depending on arousal it does loosen etc.
Also, as a joke, as if men measured it accurately… we all add 1 or 2 centimetres!! Hehe
Very Good point on body shapes/size, wasn’t saying there are not other prejudices and not so pretty behaviours in the community - think that was the whole point: should we be treating people as in a porn movie interview? Or should there be more to this lifestyle than ticking body requirements… food for thought it seem |
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"Re measuring: I think you’re missing the point; most women would know if they’re on the right side of the spectrum or closer to the other end. And of course, depending on arousal it does loosen etc.
Also, as a joke, as if men measured it accurately… we all add 1 or 2 centimetres!! Hehe
Very Good point on body shapes/size, wasn’t saying there are not other prejudices and not so pretty behaviours in the community - think that was the whole point: should we be treating people as in a porn movie interview? Or should there be more to this lifestyle than ticking body requirements… food for thought it seem "
Again how tight are you op, surely you know if you're on the right side of the spectrum.
But then again you'd be tighter with an 8 inch than you would with a 2 inch, it's not measurable.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"If the pussy is tight she’s not turned on anuff simple as
Human genetics
When a woman gets turned on her muscles relax to accommodate the size
If it feels “tight” you ither not turned her on or your cock is a monster bigger than a baby’s head
Not necessarily. I mean yes, of course generally a woman is looser and more lubricated the more aroused she is, to help her accommodate the penis.
I think that there's also a fundamental difference - no two women feel the same. Sometimes women are naturally tighter, sometimes spongier, sometimes a bit looser. There's nothing wrong with that is there?
As far as the OP goes... genital shaming/daftness happens both ways. I don't think someone having a preference for a larger penis is that. In a similar vein, I don't think if a man prefers a more snug sleeve than he is shaming.
I don't quite follow the x must mean y should happen as well argument but it's not midday.
Sorry but all medical text books papers published by people who have degrees in the feel would disagree
From ever study and medical paper I have read she’s not turned on that’s medical facts "
Natalie. Women do get a bit looser when they're aroused. That's not up for discussion. It's a fact.
My point is that women are naturally tighter or looser - not all vaginas are the same. The same universal natural tightness.
There's nothing wrong with that but it would be daft to pretend they're all identikit wouldn't it? |
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"And how would we as women know how tight we are, I mean the tape measure isn't going to work, I can go by what people say but then again that varies depending how much I'm turned on.
I'll go with
Tight when turned off.
Tight when turned on a little.
Slightly looser when turned on a lot.
Can clench around a small bullet so if your bigger you'll feel me.
Would that be correct
Mrs
Make us do a handstand and fill us with water and then weight it?
Totally not volunteer for this! "
How about if it was wine? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the pussy is tight she’s not turned on anuff simple as
Human genetics
When a woman gets turned on her muscles relax to accommodate the size
If it feels “tight” you ither not turned her on or your cock is a monster bigger than a baby’s head
Not necessarily. I mean yes, of course generally a woman is looser and more lubricated the more aroused she is, to help her accommodate the penis.
I think that there's also a fundamental difference - no two women feel the same. Sometimes women are naturally tighter, sometimes spongier, sometimes a bit looser. There's nothing wrong with that is there?
As far as the OP goes... genital shaming/daftness happens both ways. I don't think someone having a preference for a larger penis is that. In a similar vein, I don't think if a man prefers a more snug sleeve than he is shaming.
I don't quite follow the x must mean y should happen as well argument but it's not midday.
Sorry but all medical text books papers published by people who have degrees in the feel would disagree
From ever study and medical paper I have read she’s not turned on that’s medical facts
Natalie. Women do get a bit looser when they're aroused. That's not up for discussion. It's a fact.
My point is that women are naturally tighter or looser - not all vaginas are the same. The same universal natural tightness.
There's nothing wrong with that but it would be daft to pretend they're all identikit wouldn't it? "
Yes it would be but I am only going on what’s out there logically that’s all don’t want bicker with you meil as your wonderful so we just chalk it up to seeing things differently and there’s nothing wrong with that |
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"And how would we as women know how tight we are, I mean the tape measure isn't going to work, I can go by what people say but then again that varies depending how much I'm turned on.
I'll go with
Tight when turned off.
Tight when turned on a little.
Slightly looser when turned on a lot.
Can clench around a small bullet so if your bigger you'll feel me.
Would that be correct
Mrs
Make us do a handstand and fill us with water and then weight it?
Totally not volunteer for this!
How about if it was wine? "
Not sure I fancy drinking that afterwards |
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So bored at work, even more bored after reading this....let me get my tape measure out, measure depth, width to find out the cubic cm capacity. Then divide that by my cocks circumference add 10. To see if I can fit inside her vagina....then maybe get on with the sex ting |
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By *ouple360 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Again think you’re missing the point here. It’s not really about how big and small any of us are, but rather is it ok for profiles to set this as a requirement the same way that do with penises. How would that make women feel, and how would that profile be perceived?
Someone compared this with other requirements towards women (like slim vs BBW) and that is a really good point: why are some physical attributes “ok” to include in the profile and others not (are they really ok, do women feel good about requirements regarding their body size? Maybe not)
Finally is it ok to look for a penis of a certain ethnicity? BBC, BWC… is that ok because it’s validated across the porn industry as categories, or is it plain racist stereotypes?
Forums exist to discuss these this right? Hope you approach this in a healthy and elevated way and please avoid offensive comments, it’s not the intention and we all already face too many unfriendly behaviour outside- just be nice. |
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"And how would we as women know how tight we are, I mean the tape measure isn't going to work, I can go by what people say but then again that varies depending how much I'm turned on.
I'll go with
Tight when turned off.
Tight when turned on a little.
Slightly looser when turned on a lot.
Can clench around a small bullet so if your bigger you'll feel me.
Would that be correct
Mrs
Make us do a handstand and fill us with water and then weight it?
Totally not volunteer for this!
How about if it was wine?
Not sure I fancy drinking that afterwards "
But it would barely be a mouthful 
Or about three bottles |
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By *ouple360 OP Couple
over a year ago
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" Natalie. Women do get a bit looser when they're aroused. That's not up for discussion. It's a fact.
My point is that women are naturally tighter or looser - not all vaginas are the same. The same universal natural tightness.
There's nothing wrong with that but it would be daft to pretend they're all identikit wouldn't it? "
Exactly that. Thank you! |
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"Again think you’re missing the point here. It’s not really about how big and small any of us are, but rather is it ok for profiles to set this as a requirement the same way that do with penises. How would that make women feel, and how would that profile be perceived?
Someone compared this with other requirements towards women (like slim vs BBW) and that is a really good point: why are some physical attributes “ok” to include in the profile and others not (are they really ok, do women feel good about requirements regarding their body size? Maybe not)
Finally is it ok to look for a penis of a certain ethnicity? BBC, BWC… is that ok because it’s validated across the porn industry as categories, or is it plain racist stereotypes?
Forums exist to discuss these this right? Hope you approach this in a healthy and elevated way and please avoid offensive comments, it’s not the intention and we all already face too many unfriendly behaviour outside- just be nice."
It's perfectly ok to set this requirement for a meet however this will change cock to cock, arousal to arousal, someone may request tight and I am tight but that 1inch skinny cock will feel disappointed when I'm infact not tight for him, there's literally no way of saying yes I'm tight (for you) it's not at all possible, but the 8 inch cock that needs some extra lube I'm extremely tight for.
It's physically not possible to say I'm tight or loose or in-between because of the tons of variables.
If you think your tight in all circumstances you're mistaken.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
Size matters because people prefer different things. Very few women will be open... To just any size at all. And neither should they. Size queen's are just the far more vocal about what they like. So you notice them staring it more than you notice those that don't.
There are plenty of women that prefer smaller. An ex of mine much prefers no bigger than 7 (and that's the maximum).
As for why men don't state that.
1. Options are limited enough as it is, you start turning thst in to a size requirement you are going to turn away far more than just those it offends. Limiting choices even more.
2. The penis is still the body shaming punching bag that most people ignore. It's easy to belittle men quite easily based upon penis size. Women do it, men do it. It's the go to if you want to attempt to insult a man.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I usually see myself out from those minimum requirement profiles but I do always think: are they going to crack out a steel rule at the start of a meet, or are they relying on the totally accurate measurements that previous men have supplied of their appendage to base their standard on...  |
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"People can ask for whatever they like. Asking for something that's not able to measured seems fairly self-defeating though, no?
Mrs TMN x"
Exactly this.
Plus if a profile said it. I just wouldn't know if I fit the requirements or not so would therefore have to assume incompatibility. |
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"Again think you’re missing the point here. It’s not really about how big and small any of us are, but rather is it ok for profiles to set this as a requirement the same way that do with penises. How would that make women feel, and how would that profile be perceived?
Someone compared this with other requirements towards women (like slim vs BBW) and that is a really good point: why are some physical attributes “ok” to include in the profile and others not (are they really ok, do women feel good about requirements regarding their body size? Maybe not)
Finally is it ok to look for a penis of a certain ethnicity? BBC, BWC… is that ok because it’s validated across the porn industry as categories, or is it plain racist stereotypes?
Forums exist to discuss these this right? Hope you approach this in a healthy and elevated way and please avoid offensive comments, it’s not the intention and we all already face too many unfriendly behaviour outside- just be nice."
We all have our requirements - the ones that sometimes go unstated in the profile that we filter naturally when reviewing profiles and those that are defined - age, size of boobs, ethnicity, body shape, body hair, smoothness, cock size, cut/ uncut, sexuality, predilections, kinks, attitude, smoking or non-smoking, drugs… The reason that no one has ever, in the history of Fab requested a specific vagina size is simply the F/M RATIO. (Most) Men will not limit their potential meets with women based on this body part. Women however will place limits on cock size due to potential pain and injury knowing what’s pleasurable (max length, sometimes girth), practical (minimum length) and possible (girth, esp. when there are DVP / anal aspirations). I watched a guy get turned down twice in the Chams hot tub in 15 mins because his magnificent-to-look-at flaccid / semi-on cock was the size of a baby’s arm. I have a female friend that will absolutely not play with Black guys due to a physically and emotionally distressing encounter from years ago. Are these size-ist or racist? It is not for us as observers to judge. Social norms on inclusiveness don’t fly with the incredibly emotional and physical act of intimate sex. |
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"- it’s ALL okay
No, it’s not but I do believe there’s something for everybody x"
Yes it is. It is ALL okay to ask for. Whether anyone is offended is by-the-by |
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"If the pussy is tight she’s not turned on anuff simple as
Human genetics
When a woman gets turned on her muscles relax to accommodate the size
If it feels “tight” you ither not turned her on or your cock is a monster bigger than a baby’s head
Not necessarily. I mean yes, of course generally a woman is looser and more lubricated the more aroused she is, to help her accommodate the penis.
I think that there's also a fundamental difference - no two women feel the same. Sometimes women are naturally tighter, sometimes spongier, sometimes a bit looser. There's nothing wrong with that is there?
As far as the OP goes... genital shaming/daftness happens both ways. I don't think someone having a preference for a larger penis is that. In a similar vein, I don't think if a man prefers a more snug sleeve than he is shaming.
I don't quite follow the x must mean y should happen as well argument but it's not midday.
Sorry but all medical text books papers published by people who have degrees in the feel would disagree
From ever study and medical paper I have read she’s not turned on that’s medical facts
Natalie. Women do get a bit looser when they're aroused. That's not up for discussion. It's a fact.
My point is that women are naturally tighter or looser - not all vaginas are the same. The same universal natural tightness.
There's nothing wrong with that but it would be daft to pretend they're all identikit wouldn't it?
Yes it would be but I am only going on what’s out there logically that’s all don’t want bicker with you meil as your wonderful so we just chalk it up to seeing things differently and there’s nothing wrong with that "
My ex wife had a medical condition that meant she was getting tighter with age, got to the point sex was too painful for her and there was no lack of wetness so wasn't that she wasn't turned on.
So it can be a medical condition that causes too much tightness |
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This is ludicrous conversation!
If you're asking for equality in dick/pussy, surely that should lead to equality in the breast/chest area too?
Are you really just looking for a way to allow moobs??
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"This is ludicrous conversation!
If you're asking for equality in dick/pussy, surely that should lead to equality in the breast/chest area too?
Are you really just looking for a way to allow moobs??
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Free the Moobs |
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Someone said us women should know if we're tight or not. Hmmm not really  I've no idea and have just taken partners word for it. I would question if some men tell the truth or just say in the heat of the moment/out of flattery. Maybe a question for another thread.
To answer OPs question, if a profile stated they were looking for "tight pussy only" I'd probably pass it by. As others have said, there's no real way to measure it. I could be tight to some but not others.
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
Reading |
I remember reading somewhere. Average size penis in UK is 6 inches.
I go in cam rooms . Do not look at males. But have never seen a male state in chat they have average size penis. All seem to be 8 inches or above. ?
On profiles that I read. Again as others have said females / couples are asking for 8 inch or bigger. Yet there cannot be that amount of above average penis on site due to percentages ? |
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By *oxy jWoman 34 weeks ago
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people can ask for what ever they want as ;png as lawful and no one has the rights to shame them for doing so and that include women who want bigger cocks if guys cant deal with that then that is for themselves to own nobody else ...
ive never ever asked for a guys size before a meet yet i ask for cock pics everytime as there are certain cocks i will not play with ..again my choice and really dont give a toss if that cause's offense not my fault some guys dont look after themselves ... as for size variety is the spice of life biggest guy ive been with was a short guy with a 11 inch cock that i only found out about when i pulled his boxers down ...
every womans vagina is different but if you look after yourself with pelvic floor extercise then alot of women will retain there tightness how tight that is will differ with every woman .. i do these extercise's every day they take 10 mins and can do then standing or sitting or even when going for a pee syrong pelvic floor will not only keep you tight but it also helps with bladder control most women can improve there tightness not all as medical conditions dont allow all ..
i find it very strange when a guy say if your tight yopour not turned on well im tight i get very wet i orgasm alot and fairly easy so if im still tight when turned on i must be not of this earth im tight and i can clamp tight these extercise's allow me to do that just like a body builder with arms muscles women can extercise down there too  |
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"Profiles with cock size requirements are so common, and regardless of what people say at the dinner table, size does seem to matter for many women (and gay/bi men). So it’s quite common to read things like “hot wife for 8” or more”…
However profiles with similar requirements for pussies are inexistent. In light of equality shouldn’t men also “demand” tight pussies, and advertise it freely: “hot man for small tight pussy”. Or in this case would that be genital shaming?
Post your thoughts…
PS: on a personal note me Alex (mr) I’m not hung but also don’t have a micro penis. And being bi for years I can say I’ve had plenty of pussies and cocks on every shape, size, and tone to actually say size doesn’t matter. But again, for us sex has so many other factors than the physical “specs”, it would be impossible to explain to those only focused on one of them…"
There are plenty of men on here looking for tight pussies only |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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How does one measure a pussy's diameter? Because if it involves a speculum I already have one and I'm very interested
Can we measure total volume? Millilitres of clunge? |
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