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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay so a female friend of mine’s best friend has been messaging me and seems to be keen to meet up but keep it a secret from our mutual friend, do I or don’t I ? |
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"Okay so a female friend of mine’s best friend has been messaging me and seems to be keen to meet up but keep it a secret from our mutual friend, do I or don’t I ? "
How good a friend is she and how much do you value the friendship? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Edit: I’m not implying you’re doing something wrong, but asking for opinions suggests you feel you might be. Horniness isn’t an excuse for hurting feelings, so if that’s a potential consequence then address it first. Otherwise, you do you. But like owt else, manners, decency, confrontation and mutual understanding, all need to be the priority |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I get that, guess I was just questioning my morals and was looking for other opinions "
Why did ya need another opinion? Not being a prick, just what was concerning ya mate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I get that, guess I was just questioning my morals and was looking for other opinions "
Really can’t give opinions has all we know is it’s a friends off yours best friend
You not gave any other information on it
Like dose she have a boyfriend or something then the answer would be stay clear
if yous are both single then there shouldn’t be a problem it’s not up to your friend who you or they friend see
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"Edit: I’m not implying you’re doing something wrong, but asking for opinions suggests you feel you might be. Horniness isn’t an excuse for hurting feelings, so if that’s a potential consequence then address it first. Otherwise, you do you. But like owt else, manners, decency, confrontation and mutual understanding, all need to be the priority"
This guy knows what he's talking about.
Personally I'd tell the friend if you value the friendship especially since you've been sleeping together.
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I can't see anything morally wrong with it v but why does she want it kept a secret? That implies that the friends will be upset so you do risk losing her as a friend and hurting her. I personally souks be upfront and talk to all parties. But then that's what enm is all about. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Nope. Don't do it.
One. A secret? No fuck that. Have more self respect for yourself. Respect for others. Secrets rarely stay that secret anyway.
Two. Getting involved with friends can be very messy. The fallout isn't worth it. |
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"As soon as someone asks you to keep something they want you to be involved in a secret it's a giant clue that at least one of you thinks it's wrong. "
Or she just thinks her friend wouldn't be happy and doesnt want the hassle. I don't see a right or wrong thing here. |
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"As soon as someone asks you to keep something they want you to be involved in a secret it's a giant clue that at least one of you thinks it's wrong.
Or she just thinks her friend wouldn't be happy and doesnt want the hassle. I don't see a right or wrong thing here. "
I don't see a right of wrong morally. |
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