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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
London |
I for one, has never asked anyone to be my girlfriend.
For me it's always been a natural progression with both of us knowing where we are without need it to be said.
So am I the only one that has/being there. Or do people need to be asked or told that they are boyfriend or girlfriend stages in there relationship  |
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In the olden days when I was dating if you went on more than about three dates you were considered boyfriend and girlfriend. Now I understand that there's 'seeing' someone, 'in a relationship', 'Facebook official ' and many other ways of being together. |
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
London |
" In the olden days when I was dating if you went on more than about three dates you were considered boyfriend and girlfriend. Now I understand that there's 'seeing' someone, 'in a relationship', 'Facebook official ' and many other ways of being together."
Oh... Easy with the olden days.
I still remember using the bunsen burner  |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I for one, has never asked anyone to be my girlfriend.
For me it's always been a natural progression with both of us knowing where we are without need it to be said.
So am I the only one that has/being there. Or do people need to be asked or told that they are boyfriend or girlfriend stages in there relationship "
you have a girl who wants to be your girlfriend i mean how outrageous  |
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" In the olden days when I was dating if you went on more than about three dates you were considered boyfriend and girlfriend. Now I understand that there's 'seeing' someone, 'in a relationship', 'Facebook official ' and many other ways of being together.
Oh... Easy with the olden days.
I still remember using the bunsen burner "
Me too |
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" In the olden days when I was dating if you went on more than about three dates you were considered boyfriend and girlfriend. Now I understand that there's 'seeing' someone, 'in a relationship', 'Facebook official ' and many other ways of being together.
Oh... Easy with the olden days.
I still remember using the bunsen burner
Me too "
I wasn’t allowed near the Bunsen burners after I heated a set of spring loaded test tube holders in one and then clipped it to another kid’s earlobe, there was a bit of a hoo haaa over that.
Still, he never tried to steal my lunch token ever again  |
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
London |
" In the olden days when I was dating if you went on more than about three dates you were considered boyfriend and girlfriend. Now I understand that there's 'seeing' someone, 'in a relationship', 'Facebook official ' and many other ways of being together.
Oh... Easy with the olden days.
I still remember using the bunsen burner
Me too
I wasn’t allowed near the Bunsen burners after I heated a set of spring loaded test tube holders in one and then clipped it to another kid’s earlobe, there was a bit of a hoo haaa over that.
Still, he never tried to steal my lunch token ever again "
But you were on free dinners and I was hungry 
Now I know where you are |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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With women it's never been discussed, it just kind of happens.
With men, they've always asked first 'so are we dating/are you my girlfriend now?'.
Now? I'd rather it wasn't said. They're just pretty words aren't they? I'd look more to the actions than what's being said. I'd prefer it that way.
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over a year ago
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I always ask. I at least have a conversation about what or where we are. Don’t go around calling me your boyfriend or talking about breaking up just because we dated  |
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I’d be uncomfortable if someone assumed they were my boyfriend just because we’ve been dating.
If they’re going to assume they’re my boyfriend, I’m going to go ahead and assume we’re getting married and I’ll book a venue.
Wanna play romance chicken with me, then let’s play. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"I’d be uncomfortable if someone assumed they were my boyfriend just because we’ve been dating.
If they’re going to assume they’re my boyfriend, I’m going to go ahead and assume we’re getting married and I’ll book a venue.
Wanna play romance chicken with me, then let’s play. "
A new take on the Saw franchise |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"I always ask. I at least have a conversation about what or where we are. Don’t go around calling me your boyfriend or talking about breaking up just because we dated
It must be a generational thing.
After taking a girl out to the ABC. Then off to the local Wimpy. She knows she has been treated right, so she must have a keeper
I wouldn't do that for any old girl
The problem with the youth of today is they care about consent 
(Jk btw)"
To be fair (and yes I do believe and practice consent to be important) consent by some (very small minority) has been take to such extremes that it's hard to know where such things stand when it comes to consent. It is a weird one. |
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