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Someone please describe vanilla sex
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By *TG3 OP Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
To me because for the life of me how do you tell what ' vanilla' sex is if you are good at the art of sex you're good at the art of sex, if sex was good before you came here or after you came here whats the difference, is it just a label that had no meaning, well is it?  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not a vanilla sexer...
No, I am, yanking a pigtail there.
I think in terms of kink it can be used to describe the differences in style of sex.
I also think it can be used as a derogatory, this is so dull and I'm the first person to ever have kinky sex and orgasms kind of way. Superiority nonsense.
Vanilla can be great. So can a neopolitan sex life.
I don't always want all the bells and whistles during sex, you know? Sometimes I want lots of deep kissing, penetration and someone's fingers entwined in mine as they coax orgasm after orgasm out of me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Standard military position, soley pussy fucking sex.
...No anal, no piss-play, no spanking, no roleplay, no name-calling, hair-pulling, foot-fetish, rimming, crossdressing etc.
...She just lies their like a sack of tatties and you go in and out, in and out... in and (yawnnnn) out...
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"Is it just missionary and you pull her nightie back down when you are finished? 
Are you my ex husband by any chance? 
 ive gave the game away now
I knew it!
The dog is doing well btw. "
You broke my heart.....taking the dog |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"One kiss, one lick,one suck.
In,out,in,out and ends in 2 pumps.
Was it good for you babe?
That's it I think
To be fair i was tired "
You best get your sleep in this week then as you're not getting any once I arrive.  |
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To me vanilla is where I just put on some nice and we have lots of kisses and cuddles and the sex is slow and gentle. A very enjoyable time just like I had last night.
Where it's not vanilla is where the toys come out and it's all hard and rough. Like last week when the gag, rope and hook among other things where used.
It is subjective though and it does depend on a person bace line as to what is vanilla.
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Vanilla sex is just your every day run of the mill sex.
I had a boat yesterday and one side was rhubarb and custard and the other was blackcurrant ripple the change from vanilla was nice although I still like vanilla. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
"Standard military position, soley pussy fucking sex.
...No anal, no piss-play, no spanking, no roleplay, no name-calling, hair-pulling, foot-fetish, rimming, crossdressing etc.
...She just lies their like a sack of tatties and you go in and out, in and out... in and (yawnnnn) out...
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That sounds like I haven't had vanilla sex in a long time. |
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To me vanilla sex, is more a ritual than a loving act. People have sex because they feel they should etc. The beginning, middle and end is the same thing every time.
A little fiddle around on the pussy to see if its wet, if not gets lube from the drawer, maybe a bit of a quick pull on the cock to make sure its hard. If you're really lucky a bit of oral then finished off with a few pumps and then its all over as the bloke has cum. Female having an orgasm is unlikely.
Gosh, that sounds like a past experience!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The world of kink would like to present itself as open-minded and liberal, but far too often I witness a snobbery and self-awarded levels of superiority which lends itself to criticising and putting down others that aren't as kinky or experienced.
In that sense, vanilla is more often used as a tool to express a superior level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone I have sex with be it men woman or couples or tv/ts starts out what I would consider vanilla
Just normal sex no banned word no smacking no bdsm or tied up or anything no water sports or no invite freands or that
Just plane Jane kissing or none kissing oral and sex
Trust has to be established though time if you want to movie in to kinker things
Ones there the skys the limit when it comes to that
Want to share me with friends or maybe some you meet online I am down but got to eran my trust that I know I can trust the person your bring isn’t going to a be a dick
And if they are that you have my interest at hart and say think it’s time for them to leave
If you want to spank banned word and tie me up restrain me then got to ern that right that I no in a comprised state that I am going to be safe that you aren’t going to push to far
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"The world of kink would like to present itself as open-minded and liberal, but far too often I witness a snobbery and self-awarded levels of superiority which lends itself to criticising and putting down others that aren't as kinky or experienced.
In that sense, vanilla is more often used as a tool to express a superior level. "
Yes, this was my understanding of how the word vanilla is used. |
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