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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
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Never done the whole "girls night" out thing as I have more male friends (non sexual) than female.
Also not sure Grumpy can pull off a dress very well, he'd make one bloody ugly woman!  |
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over a year ago
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"Never done the whole "girls night" out thing as I have more male friends (non sexual) than female.
Also not sure Grumpy can pull off a dress very well, he'd make one bloody ugly woman! "
Can you ask him though  |
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game"
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never done the whole "girls night" out thing as I have more male friends (non sexual) than female.
Also not sure Grumpy can pull off a dress very well, he'd make one bloody ugly woman!
Can you ask him though "
I'll lend him a wig |
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No idea why it matters who goes to a night out. I know women who go out and one or two will often take their best man friends too. Perhaps I am missing something but it's not my night so whoever you imvute, enjoy |
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"Never done the whole "girls night" out thing as I have more male friends (non sexual) than female.
Also not sure Grumpy can pull off a dress very well, he'd make one bloody ugly woman! "
Cheeky Fucker  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ?"
Both.
Neither.
Depends on the TV.
Generally, in my experience, identifying as a TV stops short of TS. I dont identify as a woman when dressed, but I don't really identify as a man either.
It's complicated and I don't really understand it all myself |
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"Never done the whole "girls night" out thing as I have more male friends (non sexual) than female.
Also not sure Grumpy can pull off a dress very well, he'd make one bloody ugly woman!
Can you ask him though "
Don't encourage her ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never done the whole "girls night" out thing as I have more male friends (non sexual) than female.
Also not sure Grumpy can pull off a dress very well, he'd make one bloody ugly woman!
Can you ask him though
Don't encourage her ffs "
I'm requesting this in the picture challenge thread |
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ?"
I use fem pronouns when I'm dressed, or when I'm talking about Miss Jo
And you end up doing it in guy mode more often than not too. |
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ?
Both.
Neither.
Depends on the TV.
Generally, in my experience, identifying as a TV stops short of TS. I dont identify as a woman when dressed, but I don't really identify as a man either.
It's complicated and I don't really understand it all myself "
Oh right,that's helpful.....not .
How could we word the invitation to be inclusive then ? |
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ?
Both.
Neither.
Depends on the TV.
Generally, in my experience, identifying as a TV stops short of TS. I dont identify as a woman when dressed, but I don't really identify as a man either.
It's complicated and I don't really understand it all myself "
Pretty much this
I call myself Her/She when I'm dressed, but I still identify as a guy |
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ?
Both.
Neither.
Depends on the TV.
Generally, in my experience, identifying as a TV stops short of TS. I dont identify as a woman when dressed, but I don't really identify as a man either.
It's complicated and I don't really understand it all myself
Pretty much this
I call myself Her/She when I'm dressed, but I still identify as a guy"
You just answered the question I posed to you, hence my deleted post  |
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"Never done the whole "girls night" out thing as I have more male friends (non sexual) than female.
Also not sure Grumpy can pull off a dress very well, he'd make one bloody ugly woman!
Can you ask him though
Don't encourage her ffs
I'm requesting this in the picture challenge thread "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes for a normal fun night out, but I wouldn't involve them in our intimate conversations about menopause for instance, as that wouldn't be an inclusive conversation "
This.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ?
Both.
Neither.
Depends on the TV.
Generally, in my experience, identifying as a TV stops short of TS. I dont identify as a woman when dressed, but I don't really identify as a man either.
It's complicated and I don't really understand it all myself
Oh right,that's helpful.....not .
How could we word the invitation to be inclusive then ?"
Honestly?
I am not sure you can! Someone will choose to be offended. 
You could say 'women', you could say 'those who identify as women'.
Sadly either option will get extremists from either end of the spectrum all sniffy. Mine field |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ?
Both.
Neither.
Depends on the TV.
Generally, in my experience, identifying as a TV stops short of TS. I dont identify as a woman when dressed, but I don't really identify as a man either.
It's complicated and I don't really understand it all myself
Oh right,that's helpful.....not .
How could we word the invitation to be inclusive then ?
Honestly?
I am not sure you can! Someone will choose to be offended.
You could say 'women', you could say 'those who identify as women'.
Sadly either option will get extremists from either end of the spectrum all sniffy. Mine field"
I also think people in Pumpkin or my situation need to be careful not to muscle in on women's safe spaces (Be they cis or trans). We have no automatic right of access, invitations are nice but should not be expected |
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ?
Both.
Neither.
Depends on the TV.
Generally, in my experience, identifying as a TV stops short of TS. I dont identify as a woman when dressed, but I don't really identify as a man either.
It's complicated and I don't really understand it all myself
Oh right,that's helpful.....not .
How could we word the invitation to be inclusive then ?
Honestly?
I am not sure you can! Someone will choose to be offended.
You could say 'women', you could say 'those who identify as women'.
Sadly either option will get extremists from either end of the spectrum all sniffy. Mine field"
If I was organising a 'girls night', I would be inviting friends/family/work colleagues. If I knew someone well enough that I was aware they dressed sometimes, I think I would just have a conversation and work it out between ourselves. |
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ?
Both.
Neither.
Depends on the TV.
Generally, in my experience, identifying as a TV stops short of TS. I dont identify as a woman when dressed, but I don't really identify as a man either.
It's complicated and I don't really understand it all myself
Oh right,that's helpful.....not .
How could we word the invitation to be inclusive then ?
Honestly?
I am not sure you can! Someone will choose to be offended.
You could say 'women', you could say 'those who identify as women'.
Sadly either option will get extremists from either end of the spectrum all sniffy. Mine field
I also think people in Pumpkin or my situation need to be careful not to muscle in on women's safe spaces (Be they cis or trans). We have no automatic right of access, invitations are nice but should not be expected "
We could issue a 5ft 10ins height limit |
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ?
Both.
Neither.
Depends on the TV.
Generally, in my experience, identifying as a TV stops short of TS. I dont identify as a woman when dressed, but I don't really identify as a man either.
It's complicated and I don't really understand it all myself
Oh right,that's helpful.....not .
How could we word the invitation to be inclusive then ?
Honestly?
I am not sure you can! Someone will choose to be offended.
You could say 'women', you could say 'those who identify as women'.
Sadly either option will get extremists from either end of the spectrum all sniffy. Mine field
I also think people in Pumpkin or my situation need to be careful not to muscle in on women's safe spaces (Be they cis or trans). We have no automatic right of access, invitations are nice but should not be expected "
Yes it's a very blurry area and easy to get things wrong.
But I do agree with Jennie that we should be mindful of not invading women's safe spaces.
As I said, although I use Fem pronouns when I'm dressed, I still identify as a guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ?
Both.
Neither.
Depends on the TV.
Generally, in my experience, identifying as a TV stops short of TS. I dont identify as a woman when dressed, but I don't really identify as a man either.
It's complicated and I don't really understand it all myself
Oh right,that's helpful.....not .
How could we word the invitation to be inclusive then ?
Honestly?
I am not sure you can! Someone will choose to be offended.
You could say 'women', you could say 'those who identify as women'.
Sadly either option will get extremists from either end of the spectrum all sniffy. Mine field
I also think people in Pumpkin or my situation need to be careful not to muscle in on women's safe spaces (Be they cis or trans). We have no automatic right of access, invitations are nice but should not be expected "
You'll be getting labelled an anti woke transphobe. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes. I have a trans woman acquaintance who would be included on a girls' night out. At the pub we go to the toilet together.
We treat her like a woman, so other people do too."
Transvestites included too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about a TV though?
Whole different ball game
Can I ask what might appear as a stupid question ? Does a TV identify as a woman when dressed, or is the dressing part of a sexual kink for sex ?
Both.
Neither.
Depends on the TV.
Generally, in my experience, identifying as a TV stops short of TS. I dont identify as a woman when dressed, but I don't really identify as a man either.
It's complicated and I don't really understand it all myself
Oh right,that's helpful.....not .
How could we word the invitation to be inclusive then ?
Honestly?
I am not sure you can! Someone will choose to be offended.
You could say 'women', you could say 'those who identify as women'.
Sadly either option will get extremists from either end of the spectrum all sniffy. Mine field
I also think people in Pumpkin or my situation need to be careful not to muscle in on women's safe spaces (Be they cis or trans). We have no automatic right of access, invitations are nice but should not be expected
You'll be getting labelled an anti woke transphobe."
My above comments relate to transvestites, which is the easy bit. Men who present fem.
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TS is a different conversation. In my mind, someone genuinely identifying as a woman, and living their life accordingly is a woman.
But that's easy for me to say, I haven't the lived experience of growing up as a female in a male dominated world. |
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