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Does age matter??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes and no
Ie yes on hear in real life no
Why only on here?"
Because I can see they age on here
In real life in a club or sanua I am not going to ask someone they age
So it’s completely unknown in real life
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"Yes and no
Ie yes on hear in real life no
Why only on here?
Because I can see they age on here
In real life in a club or sanua I am not going to ask someone they age
So it’s completely unknown in real life
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It matters to me.
I would think there are very few people who would literally be interested in 18 - 99. 
This is true"
I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.
Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.  |
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"It matters to me.
I would think there are very few people who would literally be interested in 18 - 99.
This is true
I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.
Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'. "
I do agree there as on mine im open minded to ages but yeah 99 year old isn't exactly realistic |
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over a year ago
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"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?
Good point that but I mean as more would you ever be interested in someone younger/older than you by years. I don't mean literally all ages "
Well no, I wouldn’t shag an 18 year old or a 99 year old |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think it does to some people. Me personally? Not as much any more. Before I thought I was exclusively attracted to men who are considerably older than me. The past few months I've realised that's not true. |
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"I think it does to some people. Me personally? Not as much any more. Before I thought I was exclusively attracted to men who are considerably older than me. The past few months I've realised that's not true. "
Opinion on younger guys? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it does to some people. Me personally? Not as much any more. Before I thought I was exclusively attracted to men who are considerably older than me. The past few months I've realised that's not true.
Opinion on younger guys?"
Erm... never been with a man younger than me. So my opinions are... I don't know. :D |
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"I think it does to some people. Me personally? Not as much any more. Before I thought I was exclusively attracted to men who are considerably older than me. The past few months I've realised that's not true.
Opinion on younger guys?
Erm... never been with a man younger than me. So my opinions are... I don't know. :D"
I respect that one haha maybe a test is needed? Haha |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"Hello, does age matter? That endless question that seems to always come around. Some have their limits and some see it as a number. Interesting to see people's opinions on it. "
To be fair bro I think your basically asking if older women would be attracted to younger men your age |
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Yes definitely.
In the fab world I'm looking for people who fit in with my current kinks and interests. Is an 80 year old going to do that? No. Is a 18 year old going to do that? No.
In reality it matters too. As someone who's in a marriage with a significant age difference I think I have good insight. When we first met neither of us thought it was a thing, but as we've got older it definitely is. We work round it and it's fine but to say it's not 'a thing' wouldn't be true.
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"Yes definitely.
In the fab world I'm looking for people who fit in with my current kinks and interests. Is an 80 year old going to do that? No. Is a 18 year old going to do that? No.
In reality it matters too. As someone who's in a marriage with a significant age difference I think I have good insight. When we first met neither of us thought it was a thing, but as we've got older it definitely is. We work round it and it's fine but to say it's not 'a thing' wouldn't be true.
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Well thats nice to hear! Glad you both have developed together. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
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"It matters to me.
I would think there are very few people who would literally be interested in 18 - 99. "
I am aiming for the 99 club, only 16 more years to go  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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To me? Not much. Depends on what for? I'll gladly chat to anyone that isn't in the age bracket I'd get jiggy with but I'm sure everyone actually has limits on who they'd meet for sex.
To others? It can be cast in stone and unwavering.
Age can be a barrier at times but less relevant at others. Never been asked once my age in a club, where social skills, conversation and looks always seem more important.
Also helps most are relatively dark of course....... 
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"To me? Not much. Depends on what for? I'll gladly chat to anyone that isn't in the age bracket I'd get jiggy with but I'm sure everyone actually has limits on who they'd meet for sex.
To others? It can be cast in stone and unwavering.
Age can be a barrier at times but less relevant at others. Never been asked once my age in a club, where social skills, conversation and looks always seem more important.
Also helps most are relatively dark of course.......
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Haha definitely get that one |
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I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.
Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'. "
This.
At least we know that the ones who take it seriously aren't for us |
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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago
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Yes age does matter, but also it can be quite frustrating, especially when you come across someone you like and you are just outside the age range. For example theres not much difference between someone who's 49 to someone who's 50, but I understand that, otherwise where would you set your limit. Frustrating but hey that's Life |
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It's the first thing I look for on any profile.
I don't subscribe to the "age is just a number" mantra because it's not. It's a fact of life.
I exclude everyone below the age of 41 regardless of how hot or mature they or others may think they are because I don't meet anyone within 10 years of my kids age.
It's not negotiable and if that is classed as ageism I'm good with that. |
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"It's the first thing I look for on any profile.
I don't subscribe to the "age is just a number" mantra because it's not. It's a fact of life.
I exclude everyone below the age of 41 regardless of how hot or mature they or others may think they are because I don't meet anyone within 10 years of my kids age.
It's not negotiable and if that is classed as ageism I'm good with that."
Respect that one |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"Hello, does age matter? That endless question that seems to always come around. Some have their limits and some see it as a number. Interesting to see people's opinions on it. "
Depends on the subject and friends how you physically and mentally age |
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"If course it does, I don't want to fuck anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parents.
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Exactly this. In a club setting we are less likely to ask age so it would come down to looks a bit more but if someone reminds me of my parents or seems really immature it's a no from me. |
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"If course it does, I don't want to fuck anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parents.
Mrs
Exactly this. In a club setting we are less likely to ask age so it would come down to looks a bit more but if someone reminds me of my parents or seems really immature it's a no from me. "
Can definitely agree with that. Makes sense |
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"Hello, does age matter? That endless question that seems to always come around. Some have their limits and some see it as a number. Interesting to see people's opinions on it.
Depends on the subject and friends how you physically and mentally age"
Indeed |
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over a year ago
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I have a strong dislike of those who lie about there age on fab. I understand why.
I think we all judge once we know someone's age. I do, I find it difficult when 18-25 yr olds message as I wonder if they had enough normal/natural life/sex experience.
Since being on fab I have very much enjoyed playing with older men & I may even have a bit of a kink towards older guys - 65+.
Ultimately I've learnt for me it's all about the person and how you get on with each other.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are often say to others "we are outside your age limits" and they reply, "yes but it does not matter".
Why put it if it does not matter?
When you meet someone there is either an attraction or not. Age does not come into that. |
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"I have a strong dislike of those who lie about there age on fab. I understand why.
I think we all judge once we know someone's age. I do, I find it difficult when 18-25 yr olds message as I wonder if they had enough normal/natural life/sex experience.
Since being on fab I have very much enjoyed playing with older men & I may even have a bit of a kink towards older guys - 65+.
Ultimately I've learnt for me it's all about the person and how you get on with each other.
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Glad you have found what you like |
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"Yes. I'm getting on a bit and my body isn't what it was, so many people won't want to have crap sex with me.
I prefer younger men because one of us has to be strong and flexible."
Do you have a lower limit? |
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It's a level of maturity for me rather than an age in numbers, I've spoken to 25 year old with their heads screwed on and 55 year old who can't hold a decent conversation. Very much about the individual and connection for me. |
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"It's a level of maturity for me rather than an age in numbers, I've spoken to 25 year old with their heads screwed on and 55 year old who can't hold a decent conversation. Very much about the individual and connection for me."
Agree completely need that connection too |
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"It's a level of maturity for me rather than an age in numbers, I've spoken to 25 year old with their heads screwed on and 55 year old who can't hold a decent conversation. Very much about the individual and connection for me."
I’ve spoken to plenty of older people that can’t string a sentence together or behave like a responsible adult and it is  fr |
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It matters to me for my own reasons.
noticed quite a few profiles whose age range is significantly younger than their own.
I don't understand the drama personally, if people's age range excludes you on here, it's a clear sign you are not what they are seeking. Plenty of profiles that would interact with you. |
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Yes age matters in some situations.
Socially it doesn't matter at all but I want a GP who has enough years under their belt to have completed medical school and the appropriate further training. Nobody would be able to suspend their disbelief long enough to see Helen Mirren play Juliet and I want a firefighter who has the physical strength and agility to rescue me from a burning building.
Sexually some people find personality and attitude is what they seek so age is irrelevant others look for different things which might include a certain age group so it matters very much to them.
If you're concerned that your age is preventing you getting meets or you want to meet older people and their age range excluded you, you have one advantage...you will eventually be older |
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Yes it can do. I tend to have more in common with men my age but then you face various age related meducal issues. I find age much more relevant than any other single statistic eg height. I can understand people turned off by the idea of fucking someone young enough to be their child or old enough to be their parent. |
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"It matters to me for my own reasons.
noticed quite a few profiles whose age range is significantly younger than their own.
I don't understand the drama personally, if people's age range excludes you on here, it's a clear sign you are not what they are seeking. Plenty of profiles that would interact with you. "
Definitely agree there! |
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"It's a level of maturity for me rather than an age in numbers, I've spoken to 25 year old with their heads screwed on and 55 year old who can't hold a decent conversation. Very much about the individual and connection for me.
I’ve spoken to plenty of older people that can’t string a sentence together or behave like a responsible adult and it is fr"
I'm doing my best here! I just don't have much to work with ok.  |
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"I thought it mattered but I no longer feel this way somewhat. On Fab I've found more maturity, sensibilities and wisdom in some people who are much younger than me than those who are much older."
It's because I haven't been to the Churchill Suite isn't it  .
PS my phone's predictive text now shows 'Churchill Suite'  |
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If age really doesn't matter why do people refer to older men and women as 'still' being active or looking and behaving younger than they are. I think to most age matters very much and many people actually want the wisdom and experience of age in a body that appears younger. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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You go to a club they fancy you or they don't simple as they don't come up to you and say hi how old are you and when you say 51, oh you're one year over my age limit sorry nice cock though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If age really doesn't matter why do people refer to older men and women as 'still' being active or looking and behaving younger than they are. I think to most age matters very much and many people actually want the wisdom and experience of age in a body that appears younger. "
If that’s what they wanted then I’d be in high demand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really since dependent on individuals as I've learned to have some wonderful experiences from age group ranging from 21 - 74.
Although have to admit it would worry me if I had sex with any older than 74 for the fear of having to call an ambulance.
Have learned to never judge a book by its cover since some elderly guys have big dicks and can fuck much better than some youngsters. |
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"If age really doesn't matter why do people refer to older men and women as 'still' being active or looking and behaving younger than they are. I think to most age matters very much and many people actually want the wisdom and experience of age in a body that appears younger.
If that’s what they wanted then I’d be in high demand "
But you *are* younger. From what I see you're very much in demand too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If age really doesn't matter why do people refer to older men and women as 'still' being active or looking and behaving younger than they are. I think to most age matters very much and many people actually want the wisdom and experience of age in a body that appears younger.
If that’s what they wanted then I’d be in high demand
But you *are* younger. From what I see you're very much in demand too"
Yeah I am   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends. For sex and a bit of chat, I love meeting with women older than myself but I don't think I'd consider a serious long term relationship as we're too far apart on life experiences and might different expectations.
One of the things clicked for me was older women not meeting with younger men because they have kids my age. I always though that separation could be made between sex and their personal life but it's something that surprised me when I first heard it but made a lot of sense |
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over a year ago
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"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?"
I have seen women in there 70s I would to have and women in their late 40's who look more haggard. Age is not the benchmark for me I look about 10 years younger than my age. |
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"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?
I have seen women in there 70s I would to have and women in their late 40's who look more haggard. Age is not the benchmark for me I look about 10 years younger than my age. "
So is it the age people are or the age you think they look that's important?
I ask because I notice that older people are often described in terms of them looking and acting younger |
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"Yes definitely.
In the fab world I'm looking for people who fit in with my current kinks and interests. Is an 80 year old going to do that? No. Is a 18 year old going to do that? No.
In reality it matters too. As someone who's in a marriage with a significant age difference I think I have good insight. When we first met neither of us thought it was a thing, but as we've got older it definitely is. We work round it and it's fine but to say it's not 'a thing' wouldn't be true.
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Yep, a big age gap definitely matters the older you get.
Anyway, I've only posted this reply to say your profile pic is the best pic I've seen on Fab. Absolutely love it.
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"Hello, does age matter? That endless question that seems to always come around. Some have their limits and some see it as a number. Interesting to see people's opinions on it. "
Yes. Unless you want to get arrested or enjoy a gummy blowjob.
Does age matter in what context? |
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It should not matter in this lifestyle as long as legal. Folk of all ages are on here and enjoy the same things we are on here for. You don't ask age in a club, so why should it matter outside of a club. Why not enjoy mutual interests regardless. There are some fantastically sexy people on here young and old sharing experience. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"I have a strong dislike of those who lie about there age on fab. I understand why.
I think we all judge once we know someone's age. I do, I find it difficult when 18-25 yr olds message as I wonder if they had enough normal/natural life/sex experience.
Since being on fab I have very much enjoyed playing with older men & I may even have a bit of a kink towards older guys - 65+.
Ultimately I've learnt for me it's all about the person and how you get on with each other.
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That's an interesting debate about experience in general. And learning vicariously though others.
It's not hiw much you done something it matters what you learnt from doing it or what you can learn from others doing that activatey. |
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"There's a woman on here who has her profile age as 45 but she's actually 61 so I have to be careful on who I speak to when it comes to age
Did you report? "
No I didnt, I should of reported her but I stopped talking to her and blocked her |
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It's always mattered to me, never liked men much older than myself in my experience they just seemed to always talk like a dad to me and the respect was not there
The lies that was told like I'm stupid was enough to put me off.
For me I get along best with my own age group men or younger |
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"It should not matter in this lifestyle as long as legal. Folk of all ages are on here and enjoy the same things we are on here for. You don't ask age in a club, so why should it matter outside of a club. Why not enjoy mutual interests regardless. There are some fantastically sexy people on here young and old sharing experience. "
I don't go to clubs so that argument is irrelevant.
As I said above I don't really care if I have shared interests with anyone below my age filter because I'm not even slightly attracted to them simple because of their age.
I don't even look at pics on profiles that fall below my preferred age choice. |
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Only to a point, I have an older child (21) so I wouldn't meet anyone that age. But one of the best meets I've had was with the youngest guy I've met so far (just 25) incredibly mature in his attitude.
I definitely wouldn't go that much older though, they'd have to be exceptional for that to happen. |
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"It should not matter in this lifestyle as long as legal. Folk of all ages are on here and enjoy the same things we are on here for. You don't ask age in a club, so why should it matter outside of a club. Why not enjoy mutual interests regardless. There are some fantastically sexy people on here young and old sharing experience. "
Absolute rubbish. I would still ask people for old they are wherever I met them. Not everyone is here for the same thing. |
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over a year ago
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"It matters to me.
I would think there are very few people who would literally be interested in 18 - 99.
I am aiming for the 99 club, only 16 more years to go "
You can do it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the context.
Most of my close friends are around my age within a few years. It often means more things in common and more things to talk about.
Within kink I have been curious about exploring with different ages especially younger.
For one offs don't think she would matter as much, as long as they knew what they were doing. |
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By *ummorefunMan
over a year ago
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I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.
Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'. "
I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old? |
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I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.
Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.
I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old? "
They probably actually want 30 to 45 but they know people lie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It matters to me. I am not and never have been attracted to people the same age as me either romantically or in friendship. I've no idea why. I'd not go too young either though it's hard to set an exact cut off. I have been in a relationship with a man younger than my oldest daughter but I dont see the correlation between my kids and the people I am intimate with tbh. The last thing I'm thinking about is my family when I'm getting jiggy. Sometimes you meet someone and it just clicks. I want a social aspect so the age is a consideration there, I'd want someone of an age where we both feel comfortable with that side of things. |
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I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.
Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.
I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old?
They probably actually want 30 to 45 but they know people lie."
No! Surely not?! |
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"It should not matter in this lifestyle as long as legal. Folk of all ages are on here and enjoy the same things we are on here for. You don't ask age in a club, so why should it matter outside of a club. Why not enjoy mutual interests regardless. There are some fantastically sexy people on here young and old sharing experience.
Absolute rubbish. I would still ask people for old they are wherever I met them. Not everyone is here for the same thing."
 it's a sex site everyone is here for some sort of sexual pleasure
How everyone enjoys it is the difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.
Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.
I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old? "
Yes having the option there would be good, for those who don't have an age preference.
For those who do I doubt they're really concerned about whether they'd have the time of their life with someone outside of their preference |
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Experience has taught us not so much. What's interesting about the club/party scene is you take people as you find them in the flesh without knowledge of the stats. It doesn't really matter and we have been genuinely surprised at the age of some people when it's been revealed. Obviously it matters to some extent. For example we don't seeks those below their late 20s as our eldest in early 20s, generally 30+. Sometimes we have seen profiles and said they sound/look amazing but when we've seen the age thought oh no too young for us. However were we to meet them in a club not knowing their age, the chemistry was right and they didn't come across as overly young that would be different. Similar could be said about people much older than us. As a general principle if it works, it works and age is just a number. So this is why we don't set a specific age range. |
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I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.
Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.
I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old?
They probably actually want 30 to 45 but they know people lie.
No! Surely not?! "
Genuine Swingers are all honest. |
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"There's a woman on here who has her profile age as 45 but she's actually 61 so I have to be careful on who I speak to when it comes to age
Did you report? No I didnt, I should of reported her but I stopped talking to her and blocked her"
Why ? For Gods sake.... ???
Is this what it's come to ? I'm reporting you for not being 45 ? Jesus , Mary , Mother of God and the little baby donkey ..... so puritan of you. |
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over a year ago
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"It's a level of maturity for me rather than an age in numbers, I've spoken to 25 year old with their heads screwed on and 55 year old who can't hold a decent conversation. Very much about the individual and connection for me."
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I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.
Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.
I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old?
They probably actually want 30 to 45 but they know people lie.
No! Surely not?!
Genuine Swingers are all honest. "
Sounds like one of those paradox questions... If there are 3 swingers in a room. One is genuine and always tells the truth, one always lies and the other will lie or tell the truth... How many questions do you have to ask to get a bj? |
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I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.
Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.
I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old?
They probably actually want 30 to 45 but they know people lie.
No! Surely not?!
Genuine Swingers are all honest.
Sounds like one of those paradox questions... If there are 3 swingers in a room. One is genuine and always tells the truth, one always lies and the other will lie or tell the truth... How many questions do you have to ask to get a bj? "
Just throw the question out to all 3, one of them will blow you. |
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Age does matter especially on here as many people use it as a defining factor in their searches or in who they will accept messages from.
I am at the older end of the range on here at 61 and yes it does heavily limit those who are still interested which is just somethng you have to accept and work with. It is by no means Game Over.
I suppose at the lower, legal, end of the age range the determining factor would be are those people mentally and emotionally mature enough to make informed decisions and consider outcomes and consequences fully.
Without knowing the individuals thats very hard to judge.
Like many things in an adult world it is a matter of personal choice and conscience.
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I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.
Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.
I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old? "
By that logic we can keep adding/removing years either side continuously! |
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Preferences matter. Age is just a number however your age may not be what others want.
You can be an old 21yo or a young 65yo it is how you go about your living that determines that.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"There's a woman on here who has her profile age as 45 but she's actually 61 so I have to be careful on who I speak to when it comes to age
Did you report? "
Why would he report them? If it's the person in the photos they aren't using fake pics.
What if someone were fatter or hairier, or using filters to look more attractive? Should we report those people? |
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Lying about it is a flag to me too.
There's a man on my updates ,on my single profile .He admitted he'd changed his age by 6 years to get past filters ,he also later admitted not being single.
So I think there's some truth in if you're willing to lie about age ,what else will you hide/change.
We are the ages stated ,no point in lying about it.
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I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.
Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.
I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old?
They probably actually want 30 to 45 but they know people lie.
No! Surely not?!
Genuine Swingers are all honest.
Sounds like one of those paradox questions... If there are 3 swingers in a room. One is genuine and always tells the truth, one always lies and the other will lie or tell the truth... How many questions do you have to ask to get a bj?
Just throw the question out to all 3, one of them will blow you. "
Didnt meat loaf write a song about that? |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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We don't have a set range and depends on attraction. Having said that those we have played with have fallen between mid 20's to mid 50's so guess that's our preference.
As mentioned close to parents age or children age would be a firm no. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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If someone your age could have come out of my vagina, or if I could have come out of the vagina of someone your age, I'm not interested in having you in mine. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Yes, no, maybe, sort of, it's complicated!
Does it matter? Technically no.
Attraction is attraction regardless of how, what, or why.
However! The further from my own age the less likely I have found myself to be attracted.
Can I find much younger/older people than myself good looking? Yes of course but it's not really an attraction. I've never found myself to be drawn to by attraction to anyone like that.
Also generally the further from the same age, the less likely I am to have the same level of things in common or relate to in the same way.
15 years younger and 20 years older I guess is the closest I have to a hard limit cut off point. I find it hard to just shut myself off from a potential connection, sexual or otherwise but realistically it's unlikely to be a huge age gap. |
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"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?"
Anyone that has will meet 18-99 year olds on their profile are , in my eyes ,just too lazy to put in the proper age range that they would meet. |
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"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?
Anyone that has will meet 18-99 year olds on their profile are , in my eyes ,just too lazy to put in the proper age range that they would meet. "
Or dont consider it significant enough to be worth the effort for all reasons mentioned above already. |
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"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?
Anyone that has will meet 18-99 year olds on their profile are , in my eyes ,just too lazy to put in the proper age range that they would meet. "
Don't think I'm a lazy kinda person? Shrugs shoulders? I will chat with all ages but won't b shagging all ages! X |
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"If age really doesn't matter why do people refer to older men and women as 'still' being active or looking and behaving younger than they are. I think to most age matters very much and many people actually want the wisdom and experience of age in a body that appears younger. "
Waves that would be me I've the age and experience and the younger body all I ask ladies when we meet you don't wear your glasses . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Generally, Yes it matters.
If for example we're arranging to meet someone through here, we have our age preferences for our personal reasons, and they suit us.
Realise, there are many within those restrictions that we have no reason to venture beyond.
However, in the correct scenario, say at a party for an example, it may be different in the moment, at that moment.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and no
Too young is a no go they could be close to my kids ages .
Too old is also a no go as its potentially my parents ages and that seems wrong to me..
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"Yes age matters in some situations.
Socially it doesn't matter at all but I want a GP who has enough years under their belt to have completed medical school and the appropriate further training. Nobody would be able to suspend their disbelief long enough to see Helen Mirren play Juliet and I want a firefighter who has the physical strength and agility to rescue me from a burning building.
Sexually some people find personality and attitude is what they seek so age is irrelevant others look for different things which might include a certain age group so it matters very much to them.
If you're concerned that your age is preventing you getting meets or you want to meet older people and their age range excluded you, you have one advantage...you will eventually be older "
What light from yonder window breaks
Nah not to bothered see Helen play Juliet's
But to see you on balcony is different story |
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