Hello when I'm in my sub space at times I feel I'm not welcome. Like so many times I have had interactions where this side comes out and that's it boom done. Would be nice to see how many are interested in sub men? |
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"Hello when I'm in my sub space at times I feel I'm not welcome. Like so many times I have had interactions where this side comes out and that's it boom done. Would be nice to see how many are interested in sub men?"
Well I'm certainly not .but there plenty of women that are .but you've got lot of competition here. |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
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Personally as a Domme for me it depends on the type of sub they are, the majority who approach me are pick me subs, their focus is their cock, for me a subs cock isn’t the central focus of a scene
I suppose it’s about finding your type of Domme, being a Dom or sub can mean a lot of different things to different people |
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"Personally as a Domme for me it depends on the type of sub they are, the majority who approach me are pick me subs, their focus is their cock, for me a subs cock isn’t the central focus of a scene
I suppose it’s about finding your type of Domme, being a Dom or sub can mean a lot of different things to different people "
I can agree with that.
Personally think a sub shouldn't sub for their pleasure. I just enjoy making others happy. I get a rush from being told I'm a good boy and them smiling. |
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"Hello when I'm in my sub space at times I feel I'm not welcome. Like so many times I have had interactions where this side comes out and that's it boom done. Would be nice to see how many are interested in sub men?"
I like submissive men, but what kind of scenarios are you talking about where someone backs off? It only really works for you if you're playing with a Domme. Others might not like it |
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"Hello when I'm in my sub space at times I feel I'm not welcome. Like so many times I have had interactions where this side comes out and that's it boom done. Would be nice to see how many are interested in sub men?
I like submissive men, but what kind of scenarios are you talking about where someone backs off? It only really works for you if you're playing with a Domme. Others might not like it "
Its like get into a state where I just want to please them and feel wrong being one way. Like they feel like they are taking advantage me |
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"Sub space or sub zone OP? I think sub space is enough to freak someone out if they weren't prepared for it happening.
Agree there needs to be a certain person or two "
There does. What do you mean not welcome in your OP? |
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"Sub space or sub zone OP? I think sub space is enough to freak someone out if they weren't prepared for it happening.
Agree there needs to be a certain person or two
There does. What do you mean not welcome in your OP? "
Mean as have a great convo chatting with someone we click and get on then I mention this side and it's an instant. Eww no |
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"Sub space or sub zone OP? I think sub space is enough to freak someone out if they weren't prepared for it happening.
Agree there needs to be a certain person or two
There does. What do you mean not welcome in your OP?
Mean as have a great convo chatting with someone we click and get on then I mention this side and it's an instant. Eww no "
Probs best to mention you're a sub from the beginning, just have to find people that want that |
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"Sub space or sub zone OP? I think sub space is enough to freak someone out if they weren't prepared for it happening.
Agree there needs to be a certain person or two
There does. What do you mean not welcome in your OP?
Mean as have a great convo chatting with someone we click and get on then I mention this side and it's an instant. Eww no "
It's not nice to say eww no. But I know it would make someone incompatible with myself. It's quite a niche thing especially on here |
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"Sub space or sub zone OP? I think sub space is enough to freak someone out if they weren't prepared for it happening.
Agree there needs to be a certain person or two
There does. What do you mean not welcome in your OP?
Mean as have a great convo chatting with someone we click and get on then I mention this side and it's an instant. Eww no
Probs best to mention you're a sub from the beginning, just have to find people that want that "
I have found that'd the best way but on here seems to be alot of rejection about 95% so makes it hard to see any good at times. |
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"Sub space or sub zone OP? I think sub space is enough to freak someone out if they weren't prepared for it happening.
Agree there needs to be a certain person or two
There does. What do you mean not welcome in your OP?
Mean as have a great convo chatting with someone we click and get on then I mention this side and it's an instant. Eww no
It's not nice to say eww no. But I know it would make someone incompatible with myself. It's quite a niche thing especially on here "
Can agree with that. Its a very very small group here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sub space or sub zone OP? I think sub space is enough to freak someone out if they weren't prepared for it happening.
Agree there needs to be a certain person or two
There does. What do you mean not welcome in your OP?
Mean as have a great convo chatting with someone we click and get on then I mention this side and it's an instant. Eww no
Probs best to mention you're a sub from the beginning, just have to find people that want that
I have found that'd the best way but on here seems to be alot of rejection about 95% so makes it hard to see any good at times."
Are you on kink sites and you could go to munches...and fetish nights at clubs..you won't have a problem then |
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"Sub space or sub zone OP? I think sub space is enough to freak someone out if they weren't prepared for it happening.
Agree there needs to be a certain person or two
There does. What do you mean not welcome in your OP?
Mean as have a great convo chatting with someone we click and get on then I mention this side and it's an instant. Eww no
Probs best to mention you're a sub from the beginning, just have to find people that want that
I have found that'd the best way but on here seems to be alot of rejection about 95% so makes it hard to see any good at times.
Are you on kink sites and you could go to munches...and fetish nights at clubs..you won't have a problem then "
I am on and off kink sites as they aren't the best.
I need to try club or munches |
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"It really depends... I like a sub guy at times, as long as they're not like a wet blanket and really needy.
Can understand that honestly. Needs to be enjoyable not like a child "
Exactly, I like a man to still be a man, even if he's a sub. |
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"It really depends... I like a sub guy at times, as long as they're not like a wet blanket and really needy.
Can understand that honestly. Needs to be enjoyable not like a child
Exactly, I like a man to still be a man, even if he's a sub. "
Exactly I think takes a certain amn to be submissive and own that side too. Not let it control him. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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It would depend on how you acted as a sub man.
I don't like being called mistress or have a submissive person tell me what to do.
If the dynamic is there my dominant side that is buried deep will rise up.
I don't want to be directed by someone who says they are submissive but are just a bit kinky.
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"It would depend on how you acted as a sub man.
I don't like being called mistress or have a submissive person tell me what to do.
If the dynamic is there my dominant side that is buried deep will rise up.
I don't want to be directed by someone who says they are submissive but are just a bit kinky.
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I follow as I'm told. I want to enhance that inner Domme.
Subs follow and if they get what they want that's a bonus but should come from the Domme |
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but it has happened few times.
All depends on my mood and my partner. 
