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Are there any threads you avoid here?
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By *dam1971 OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
I’ll be honest, if I never read another “squirting is just wee” thread, it will be too soon.
However, what about those with lots of replies - do you like reading through 100+ to see what people say or do you think your answer will get lost in the noise?
Are there any you always click on? Often these are more about the poster or who I can see as the last reply for me; if someone I know has answered then I’m generally interested in what they think.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Yep.
But that's generally down to posters, not subjects.
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
with one foot out the door |
The smelly ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loads!
And the list of people to avoid keeps growing unfortunately |
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Yeah, normally the really flirty ones as they are not my cup of tea 
If its an interesting thread I would read it, but most of the time, I'll read the OP, dump my comment and leave |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I avoid my own. They're very boring.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I avoid my own. They're very boring.
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Agree! |
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I avoid the poster rather than the topic as most of their threads end up as a public conversation between them and a couple of people which in turn hijacks the thread..don't understand why they don't take it to DM's x |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
I will always avoid (well 99% of the time) "poster above" threads |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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If it's a thread with lots of replies, I don't often comment. Normally because at some point there'll be paragraphs on paragraphs quoted and commented on or it'll just be two/three people conversing so I kind of lose interest in them.
Oh flirty ones or "jokey" ones. Because I don't really flirt and my sense of humour doesn't really fit in to that style. :D
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
cheshire |
my answer will get lost in the noise.. |
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By *dam1971 OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
It’s interesting that the poster is as important as the subject, so when some people say they can kill a thread there’s some truth to it? |
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"I’ll be honest, if I never read another “squirting is just wee” thread, it will be too soon.
However, what about those with lots of replies - do you like reading through 100+ to see what people say or do you think your answer will get lost in the noise?
Are there any you always click on? Often these are more about the poster or who I can see as the last reply for me; if someone I know has answered then I’m generally interested in what they think.
You?"
Now here an interesting thread
I've had many successful threads
And I thank you all for your support and its great when you play along or contributed some great thing of your own . but equally I do threads
That get no interest at all
But you never know what be a hit or a miss |
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To be honest I don't look at the poster sometimes I'll notice sometimes not, unless it's really interesting I don't read the whole lot of comments, I'll comment if I've something to say about the post/game whatever it is, I don't mind being lost in the comments, I never expected replies.
My own posts are generally boring and awkward type questions that I want answers too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t avoid reading I avoid commenting on a lot off threads even though I do tend to comment a lot |
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There are plenty to avoid sometimes. I like light hearted and inoffensive threads. Certainly avoid those 'bait' ones and ones that some highjack and post inflamatory comments or are abusive to others or naming and shaming and such like. They only show how sad some people are and want nothing to do with their posts or them. On the other hand therecare lots of great people who brighten your day and only interested in those  |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
Don't go for serious threads but my answer tends to get lost amongst the usual suspects who takeover  |
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It’s a trap!!!!!
(AdmiralAckbarface) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid the poster rather than the topic as most of their threads end up as a public conversation between them and a couple of people which in turn hijacks the thread..don't understand why they don't take it to DM's x"
This. Even if it’s a subject that interests me as there’s simply no point in trying to join in. |
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Generally the me me me attention seeking ones |
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"don't understand why they don't take it to DM's x"
I have tried to do this in the past and told not to message and blocked.
I agree the threads with conversations and worse, miles of quotes, are very tiresome.
Even to scroll past. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use the forums for a laugh so I try to stay away from controversial threads. I also stay away from anything too serious or deep. |
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"Loads of threads, and people "
Exactly that, especially people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep.
But that's generally down to posters, not subjects.
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Usually the trans / race type threads or politics.
Though the conspiracy theory ones are hilarious to read with all the sheer stupidity posted by some
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, by posters I don’t like. Petty? Maybe, but it feels soooo good to not engage |
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"Generally the me me me attention seeking ones"
Plenty of them in the Lounge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything political or covid"
This it seems like all the self opinionated people are in those forums. |
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If it catches ny eye will comment. Never on here to offend . Like to think my posts are not offensive |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Generally the me me me attention seeking ones"
Ha! Yes. These ones as well.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When poster asks a question of sincerity and it gets hijacked.
Or too serious posts.
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The "what's your favourite....biscuit" sort of fare especially with the clickbait title, so I'm rarely in the lounge! |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
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I have no interest in threads that are so called fun threads, self-serving, attention seeking and those where posters and commenters are just looking for some kind of validation or affirmation.
Not here to massage someones ego or have mine massaged, happy with who I am.
I will comment on threads which, right or wrong, feel I may be able to add value or just exchange of information or experiences.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, by posters I don’t like. Petty? Maybe, but it feels soooo good to not engage "
Sometimes it is best not to engage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything to do with race I’d never comment on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously though I just no longer interact with people that don’t like me (have me blocked) or people I don’t like. Except one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no interest in threads that are so called fun threads, self-serving, attention seeking and those where posters and commenters are just looking for some kind of validation or affirmation.
Not here to massage someones ego or have mine massaged, happy with who I am.
I will comment on threads which, right or wrong, feel I may be able to add value or just exchange of information or experiences. "
The last paragraph is me too. I like to engage with giving value. Those ego boosting threads or affirmation are not my cup of tea.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though I just no longer interact with people that don’t like me (have me blocked) or people I don’t like. Except one. "
And I appreciate that I'm the one 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, by posters I don’t like. Petty? Maybe, but it feels soooo good to not engage
Sometimes it is best not to engage. "
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"I use the forums for a laugh so I try to stay away from controversial threads. I also stay away from anything too serious or deep."
Same. I keep saying people take this place far too seriously. It's not the Oxford debating society.
Really avoid political/vax/weird posts. Just sucker you in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use the forums for a laugh so I try to stay away from controversial threads. I also stay away from anything too serious or deep.
Same. I keep saying people take this place far too seriously. It's not the Oxford debating society.
Really avoid political/vax/weird posts. Just sucker you in "
People really get worked up if you make a joke in the virus forums. I learned that the hard way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often avoid the ones where I presume the OP doesn't like me/us. We can be quite an acquired taste. I only want to interact with those that like/appreciate us and vice versa so my time hasn't gone to waste. Time and energy is precious to me.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
No single thing deters me, other than as I said earlier "poster above". It's a combination of the poster, subject, and how I'm feeling in that moment.
I generally like to comment, though not directly respond to the OP of threads created by people I don't like/they don't like me. |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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Loads I avoid
Some cause people just ain’t ready for the coffee (reality)
Some cause I know ‘ass kissers’ will be on me defending bad behaviour’ 
And some cause I don’t know enough about the Topic to give an opinion
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Face pics only because I posted on one and got totally blanked…. Probably for the best.
I probably post way too much crap anyways …. |
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By *dam1971 OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
"And some cause I don’t know enough about the Topic to give an opinion
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With an attitude like that, Twitter is NOT for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the ones by wonko |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Threads where it’s an opportunity to post as if people are superior to others. … I try to avoid those.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We mainly avoid threads started by posters/authors that we just are not that amused by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Threads where it’s an opportunity to post as if people are superior to others. … I try to avoid those.
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Like this one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also avoid ‘woe is me’ type.
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By *dam1971 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Threads where it’s an opportunity to post as if people are superior to others. … I try to avoid those.
Like this one?"
Really? I hope not, it honestly wasn’t my intention! Sorry if it comes across that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Threads where it’s an opportunity to post as if people are superior to others. … I try to avoid those.
Like this one?
Really? I hope not, it honestly wasn’t my intention! Sorry if it comes across that way."
Sorry that wasn’t aimed at you. It’s just threads like this attract those sort of posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rating threads
Flirty threads
They're only fun for a few. My ego isn't that healthy that I want to be skipped over/left out again. |
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Anything political really I'm not a fan of politics I don't pretend to understand it and tbh I really don't want to lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are people on the forums that have me blocked or I have blocked them.
For various reasons. Maybe in DM's we fell out even.
But I still interact with them on the forums. And most would think we are actually friends.
There are past lovers I still interact with and we are still friends.
So no I don't actively boycott posters unless it's a bit raw for whatever reason.
Threads, I just post wherever and don't think it about it so much. If it doesn't interest me I don't comment it's that simple. |
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I try to avoid threads by people talking about themselves in the third person.
Also, those "why am I being ignored, just reply and say no" entitled threads.  |
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Oh and, " comment and make a friend" ones ... Uurrgghhhh |
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"Rating threads
Flirty threads
They're only fun for a few. My ego isn't that healthy that I want to be skipped over/left out again. "
I hate that when it happens…… |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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The kiss suck bin types of thread I avoid.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t avoid any thread topics as such but the ones that are purposefully posted to cause arguing / offence such as race then I need to call them out on it.  |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
I avoid the virus forum.. like the plague.
It's pointless now. |
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Apart from the Virus room, I can drop sarcastic or flirty comment pretty much anywher
LvM |
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I also try to avoid anything that I know will make me annoyed, whether topic or poster, but I can't help it sometimes, despite my better judgement.
Everything else just depends on my mood - that seems to dictate how much I post more than anything else.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often avoid the ones where I presume the OP doesn't like me/us. We can be quite an acquired taste. I only want to interact with those that like/appreciate us and vice versa so my time hasn't gone to waste. Time and energy is precious to me.
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There’s this couple who for some reason shot me down in flames every time I posted on a thread. It became very obvious and quite uncomfortable. No idea why, I’d never had any contact with them.
I ended up blocking them but of course can still see when they post on the forums.
I avoid those threads at all costs. |
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"I often avoid the ones where I presume the OP doesn't like me/us. We can be quite an acquired taste. I only want to interact with those that like/appreciate us and vice versa so my time hasn't gone to waste. Time and energy is precious to me.
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There’s this couple who for some reason shot me down in flames every time I posted on a thread. It became very obvious and quite uncomfortable. No idea why, I’d never had any contact with them.
I ended up blocking them but of course can still see when they post on the forums.
I avoid those threads at all costs."
Jealous of your alluring chesticles |
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"I often avoid the ones where I presume the OP doesn't like me/us. We can be quite an acquired taste. I only want to interact with those that like/appreciate us and vice versa so my time hasn't gone to waste. Time and energy is precious to me.
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There’s this couple who for some reason shot me down in flames every time I posted on a thread. It became very obvious and quite uncomfortable. No idea why, I’d never had any contact with them.
I ended up blocking them but of course can still see when they post on the forums.
I avoid those threads at all costs."
I thought it was just me! A few times now I've had couples chase me round threads just to argue the toss |
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"I often avoid the ones where I presume the OP doesn't like me/us. We can be quite an acquired taste. I only want to interact with those that like/appreciate us and vice versa so my time hasn't gone to waste. Time and energy is precious to me.
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There’s this couple who for some reason shot me down in flames every time I posted on a thread. It became very obvious and quite uncomfortable. No idea why, I’d never had any contact with them.
I ended up blocking them but of course can still see when they post on the forums.
I avoid those threads at all costs."
I often wish blocking people meant you couldn't see their posts!
(Sure the lots of people feel the same way in reverse!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid the poster rather than the topic as most of their threads end up as a public conversation between them and a couple of people which in turn hijacks the thread..don't understand why they don't take it to DM's x"
this! Becomes mindnumbingly boring - wonder if they actually realise how cringe it looks?! |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
cheshire |
try to stick to the fun ones,,, keep away from politics and race |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will always avoid (well 99% of the time) "poster above" threads"
Same |
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I avoid most threads. Including this one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Threads where it’s an opportunity to post as if people are superior to others. … I try to avoid those.
Like this one?
Really? I hope not, it honestly wasn’t my intention! Sorry if it comes across that way.
Sorry that wasn’t aimed at you. It’s just threads like this attract those sort of posts."
Exactly.
I’ve read so many self righteous posts in the past, ‘I avoid people’. Etc.
see above.
Op. In answer to your actual question, I don’t avoid many. I post everywhere depending on my moods. I’ve even opened the dreaded cheating threads which I hate to see.
But the Squirting or is my dick big/small threads, as silly as they are, are some of my favourite because they are hilarious. And let’s be honest, this place gets a little too serous sometimes. |
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I try to always post something positive on a “kink” thread started by a man/couple because guaranteed there will be ten others above me kink shaming them.
It’s something I’ve noticed doesn’t often happen when a woman starts a thread. So I’ll avoid those ones. They don’t need my support with 100 others blowing smoke.
Also the only thread anyone really needs to comment on are the Ballbag ones |
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For me it's not so much an avoidance (well, there is a tiny bit) - instead I tend to gravitate towards threads whose authors I much admire and respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep.
But that's generally down to posters, not subjects.
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Yep, pretty much this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll also try to avoid threads that involve naming specific users. It's all just a massive circle-jerk and although some may see it as a bit of fun, it can easily make other feel left out.
I know I'm not responsible for their feelings, but I am responsible for not contributing to them feeling shitty about themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought it was just me! A few times now I've had couples chase me round threads just to argue the toss "
It’s bonkers and actually made me stop joining in for a while.
If someone on the forums irritates me I just avoid them. It can feel like a school playground at times |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
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So many! A lot based on who posted them, certain forumites I would never open the threads of for various reasons, a lot because I know they are something stupid like ‘what’s your favourite fork handle colour’ ffs! Anything sport related, or who wants to wank over my wife’s pics, or the ‘good morning/evening’ threads, so many reasons to ignore most threads. |
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"I avoid the poster rather than the topic as most of their threads end up as a public conversation between them and a couple of people which in turn hijacks the thread..don't understand why they don't take it to DM's x this! Becomes mindnumbingly boring - wonder if they actually realise how cringe it looks?!"
Obviously not because they repeatedly do it.. AS at its finest x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid the poster rather than the topic as most of their threads end up as a public conversation between them and a couple of people which in turn hijacks the thread..don't understand why they don't take it to DM's x this! Becomes mindnumbingly boring - wonder if they actually realise how cringe it looks?!
Obviously not because they repeatedly do it.. AS at its finest x"
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I have learnt to avoid threads that I know will wind me up these days! Not allways successfully! X |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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I don't really avoid any but I'm less likely to participate in the Virus ones, the Fab Forum Fanzines ones, the "is it racist? Sexist? Genderist..." ones, and the "look at me" ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you were a biscuit..which one would you be.
If you were a colour.
If you were a dinosaur.
If you were a vegetable.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid the poster rather than the topic as most of their threads end up as a public conversation between them and a couple of people which in turn hijacks the thread..don't understand why they don't take it to DM's x this! Becomes mindnumbingly boring - wonder if they actually realise how cringe it looks?!
Obviously not because they repeatedly do it.. AS at its finest x"
What’s AS?  |
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I tend to avoid any that are posted to cause controversy or division,where you can see how it's gonna go in the first few replies.
Also the attention seeking ones
Plus any that tend to encourage people being left out.
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We avoid most threads - due to the title or the person who’s started it - we use FAB for positive experiences so we don’t bring ourselves down by engaging with negativity or the posts where people start attacking people.
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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I read all sorts. Randomly and rarely I comment. |
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"I’ll be honest, if I never read another “squirting is just wee” thread, it will be too soon.
However, what about those with lots of replies - do you like reading through 100+ to see what people say or do you think your answer will get lost in the noise?
Are there any you always click on? Often these are more about the poster or who I can see as the last reply for me; if someone I know has answered then I’m generally interested in what they think.
You?"
Usually the covid ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have learnt to avoid threads that I know will wind me up these days! Not allways successfully! X"
Me too! I can’t tell you how many irate replies I type before having a word with myself and never posting  |
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I’m not really interested in what the person below me, thinks if I look sexy or not.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The covid ones are the best it's godly entertainment!! |
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People doing the one above thread's and pretty much any that are just sycophantic ass kissing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The covid ones are the best it's godly entertainment!!"
Don’t ever say that the vaccinated can take the unvaccinated in a fight. I woke up to death threats when I said that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People doing the one above thread's and pretty much any that are just sycophantic ass kissing.
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Fuck |
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"People doing the one above thread's and pretty much any that are just sycophantic ass kissing.
Fuck"
He asked I'm being honest.
If people want to do it that's fine their choice,I just don't get involved pretty sure 99.9999999999099999........% couldn't give a rat's ass if I choose to not get involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The covid ones are the best it's godly entertainment!!
Don’t ever say that the vaccinated can take the unvaccinated in a fight. I woke up to death threats when I said that."
I'd launch tinfoil spears |
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I avoid posting on the vast majority of threads. In fact I avoid even opening most of them.
Like many others I only need to see the ops name to make my decision especially when it's the 19th thread they've started that day.
I rarely get involved in really deep threads because they often turn nasty and dramatic.
Certain other subjects don't interest me and despite what some say about educating oneself on meaningful topics I can't be arsed when it has zero bearing on my daily life.
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"I avoid the poster rather than the topic as most of their threads end up as a public conversation between them and a couple of people which in turn hijacks the thread..don't understand why they don't take it to DM's x"
Give us a kiss Sparkle.! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I avoid a lot of threads nowadays. I use to post a fair bit in the forums but really can't be bothered that much anymore for a various number of reasons.
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"I avoid the poster rather than the topic as most of their threads end up as a public conversation between them and a couple of people which in turn hijacks the thread..don't understand why they don't take it to DM's x
Give us a kiss Sparkle.!"
Tongues or no tongues???? |
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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago
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I don’t care about the number of replies, as it’s unlikely I will read them all and I just respond to the OP.
Ones that are created to stir up shit bore me.
Ones that look like they could lead to an interesting discussion are ones I prefer.
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Yes, mostly poster above stuff etc but I judge by the OP too. Mostly I read, roll my eyes and walk away. |
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As I'm learning people on the forums hold grudges and take this very seriously like taking Eastenders seriously
I would avoid threads by certain individuals |
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"I’ll be honest, if I never read another “squirting is just wee” thread, it will be too soon.
However, what about those with lots of replies - do you like reading through 100+ to see what people say or do you think your answer will get lost in the noise?
Are there any you always click on? Often these are more about the poster or who I can see as the last reply for me; if someone I know has answered then I’m generally interested in what they think.
You?"
Not getting any meets threads bore me to tears now. |
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over a year ago
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I like the ones that have a big amount of replies- gives me something decent to read and absorb everyone’s comments/different opinions etc.
Forum games are fun to join and good as an icebreaker/new to forums even if other people don’t like them |
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"I like the ones that have a big amount of replies- gives me something decent to read and absorb everyone’s comments/different opinions etc.
Forum games are fun to join and good as an icebreaker/new to forums even if other people don’t like them "
The games are the best |
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"I'm here for the boobies "
You utter filthy perv!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How does wee come out of your floof? |
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I could give you long list of threads you've all avoided |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could give you long list of threads you've all avoided"
Are they yours? |
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"I could give you long list of threads you've all avoided
Are they yours? "
Yep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could give you long list of threads you've all avoided
Are they yours?
Yep"
Bless you I’m sorry |
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"I could give you long list of threads you've all avoided
Are they yours?
Yep
Bless you I’m sorry"
But I can recomend my latest
OK I'm sick of now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could give you long list of threads you've all avoided
Are they yours? "
No, yours |
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"I could give you long list of threads you've all avoided
Are they yours?
No, yours "
The things you wish you would have said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could give you long list of threads you've all avoided
Are they yours?
No, yours "
I know all the people that avoid my threads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely loads. Always to do with the context of the thread, not the person who started it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The daily "does size matter?" "Do women care about dick size" "does height matter?" Thread I tend to ignore cause I think they're non sense
But generally there is no other 'type' of thread I actively ignore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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‘Do women like beards’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The rate me posts
The posts would you shag kiss the person above
The posts about sending pics to each other.
Serious posts
Just my preference not to join in with those posts . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The Apple or Samsung ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The Dad bod or gym bod threads. It's generally created to make the OP feel better so I don't really have anything useful to contribute |
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The shouty ones where everyone is an expert and theres no respect for other peoples points if view. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
Race threads you can't use humour in them |
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"Race threads you can't use humour in them "
Most take things the wrong way and everyone has different sense of humour
I often feel most don't know or understand what racism is  they'll bite your head off the moment you say what race they are LOOOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Race threads you can't use humour in them "
If I posted my humour in those threads the real snowflakes would [redacted] me from a- nvm |
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'What will you do to the person above or below' are avoided. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Race threads you can't use humour in them "
Oh yes you can |
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"Race threads you can't use humour in them Oh yes you can "
Hes behind you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Race threads you can't use humour in them
If I posted my humour in those threads the real snowflakes would [redacted] me from a- nvm "
And I'd be right beside you on that tree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Race threads you can't use humour in them
If I posted my humour in those threads the real snowflakes would [redacted] me from a- nvm
And I'd be right beside you on that tree "
I know you would |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only click on threads that interest me tbh. |
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Any of the kiss, fuck, avoid type threads, who's got the best body part, face pic Friday. There's lots to be honest...
And yes, certain people I'll avoid anything they start. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Race threads you can't use humour in them
Most take things the wrong way and everyone has different sense of humour
I often feel most don't know or understand what racism is they'll bite your head off the moment you say what race they are LOOOL "
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"Usually the trans / race type threads or politics.
Though the conspiracy theory ones are hilarious to read with all the sheer stupidity posted by some
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Some people would look good in a tin foil hat though??
You know they are reading your thoughts, right?.
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
Don't avoid any because of the poster. That seems pretty primary school to me personally.
I check out whatever catches my eye, nothing super deep about anything not sex related though. And the favourite jellybean flavour type ones unless it's been derailed into something more fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't avoid any because of the poster. That seems pretty primary school to me personally.
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Ah, but what if the poster you’re avoiding posts a lot of primary school type humour threads? #conundrum What then, bruceybonus?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't avoid any because of the poster. That seems pretty primary school to me personally.
Ah, but what if the poster you’re avoiding posts a lot of primary school type humour threads? #conundrum What then, bruceybonus??"
- Juicy Brucey |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Don't avoid any because of the poster. That seems pretty primary school to me personally.
Ah, but what if the poster you’re avoiding posts a lot of primary school type humour threads? #conundrum What then, bruceybonus??"
Key but there is you saying 'alot of' - people can post fun silly threads but also more thought provoking ones. But I don't ever make judgements on people based on one or two threads or posts they have made personally. I think humans are a little more complex than that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't avoid any because of the poster. That seems pretty primary school to me personally.
Ah, but what if the poster you’re avoiding posts a lot of primary school type humour threads? #conundrum What then, bruceybonus??
Key but there is you saying 'alot of' - people can post fun silly threads but also more thought provoking ones. But I don't ever make judgements on people based on one or two threads or posts they have made personally. I think humans are a little more complex than that "
Fair do’s |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Don't avoid any because of the poster. That seems pretty primary school to me personally.
Ah, but what if the poster you’re avoiding posts a lot of primary school type humour threads? #conundrum What then, bruceybonus??
Key but there is you saying 'alot of' - people can post fun silly threads but also more thought provoking ones. But I don't ever make judgements on people based on one or two threads or posts they have made personally. I think humans are a little more complex than that Fair do’s "
I also really can't feel that passionately about a bunch of sexy strangers on a forum. I can think they look sexy and are cool but anything negative I can't care enough! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't avoid any because of the poster. That seems pretty primary school to me personally.
Ah, but what if the poster you’re avoiding posts a lot of primary school type humour threads? #conundrum What then, bruceybonus??
Key but there is you saying 'alot of' - people can post fun silly threads but also more thought provoking ones. But I don't ever make judgements on people based on one or two threads or posts they have made personally. I think humans are a little more complex than that Fair do’s
I also really can't feel that passionately about a bunch of sexy strangers on a forum. I can think they look sexy and are cool but anything negative I can't care enough! "
Yep, can understand that |
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Anything that mentions cake. Usually ends up being a yawn fest of in-jokes. |
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Oh yes anything that starts with somebody talking in the third person about themselves out of fear I may say something inappropriate and get banned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The political, gay, an any other threads I feel sound boring or uninteresting |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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The ones where people stroke each others egos and say all the predictable bullshit.
Hot woman “I’m fat and ugly’
A million men ‘yes, but I’d still do you ’
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"The ones where people stroke each others egos and say all the predictable bullshit.
Hot woman “I’m fat and ugly’
A million men ‘yes, but I’d still do you ’
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Tell me I'm pretty already! |
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At 8pm a message will appear in your mailbox.
Can't cope with the one's I already have I'm afraid. |
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Political, religious, covid related, conspiracy theories. All those bullshit threads plus any others that cause division and tension. Why even talk about this stuff on a swingers site?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ones in the politics forum that descend into the Monty Python argument sketch.
"An argument is a connected series of statements intended to establish a proposition.'
4 hours later.. "No it isn't!" |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"The ones where people stroke each others egos and say all the predictable bullshit.
Hot woman “I’m fat and ugly’
A million men ‘yes, but I’d still do you ’
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agreed those threads always always get the same people bumming each other up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Watch threads.  |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Watch threads. "
time has no meaning when you're enjoying yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Watch threads. time has no meaning when you're enjoying yourself "
A second ago, my reply would have been different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Watch threads. time has no meaning when you're enjoying yourself
A second ago, my reply would have been different. "
This (my reply) should be taken at face value. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Watch threads. time has no meaning when you're enjoying yourself
A second ago, my reply would have been different.
This (my reply) should be taken at face value. "
watch face |
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Yes, there are threads I don't click on or contribute to.
I don't deny their existence and don't complain but I don't have the remotest interest in many threads.
Those I generally enjoy is where people exchange their ideas and thinking.
Occasionally, I'll join in on a jokey thread.
I used to find the majority of threads to be interesting , inclusive and participatory.
I now find most threads to be juvenile facebook type shite.......
It's like looking for a ripe avacado without it dripping through your fingers |
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Rate my dick / please look at me.
How do I get my wife into swinging?
Too many fakes on here.
I've had enough, this site is shit and I'm leaving! (But they dont).
I've been on here 1 week and can't get a meet. Where an I going wrong?
Critique my profile.
Why do my messages get deleted rather than saying 'no thanks'?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Watch threads. time has no meaning when you're enjoying yourself
A second ago, my reply would have been different.
This (my reply) should be taken at face value. watch face "
Just winding you up. |
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"Watch threads. time has no meaning when you're enjoying yourself
A second ago, my reply would have been different.
This (my reply) should be taken at face value. watch face
Just winding you up. "
Got to hand it to you |
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"The ones in the politics forum that descend into the Monty Python argument sketch.
"An argument is a connected series of statements intended to establish a proposition.'
4 hours later.. "No it isn't!""
Ive told you once |
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I rarely post or comment. If your not one of the in crowd then you're ignored |
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"I rarely post or comment. If your not one of the in crowd then you're ignored"
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Not always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely post or comment. If you’re not one of the in crowd then you're ignored"
Post, comment away ! If the ‘in’ crowd are the ones I think you mean - they’re more I find, too uncool for twitter/insta et al (X) so come on here |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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oh yes many threads |
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