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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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…when deciding whether to meet or not?
For me it’s a strong NO but, yes there’s a but, I wouldn’t want to be consistently footing the bill if one meet proceeded to more 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, it's not something I've ever asked about or been asked.
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Ditto but reading another forum about buying love I got intrigued to ask and see if it’s a thing for some  |
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It should not matter, but unfortunately we are increasingly living in a world where it is becoming a bigger factor in people's life and wellbeing. Sure it cannot make you happy, but it allows change and means to make yourself happier.
All the moeny in the world will not make you a better person though, that is something you can have for free, it does not take money to be kind and thoughtful of others. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No, it doesn't for me.... to a certain extent.
I don't want to be paying for everything. I don't want a person to feel uncomfortable. I don't want to be "treated" or "spoiled" or "taken out" (99% of the time it's me organising socials/dates/dalliances anyway).
For the most part I'm happy to talk to and spend time with people regardless of money as long as it doesn't become... a point of friction, essentially. |
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Swinging wise it's absolutely not even in my mind as a consideration.
Dating/relationship wise it does, past ex's have been takers so I'm wary of someone who has very little to spare, I need to work out their personality so I'm not in the same position again. On the flip side of this I'm also wary of anyone who has plenty but that's my own insecurity, I'm jealous (if that's the right word) of their life choices, I made some seriously rubbish choices when I was young that led to me being less than I know I could of been now so that leaves me with a little 'unworthiness', again unsure if this is exactly the right word for it |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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No in the slightest - and some of the people with the least are often far more generous, thoughtful than those with a lot.
When you’re dating, if there’s a big income equality , if they are a decent person it’s never an issue, you figure it out. |
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It should not matter and certainly not on any list of mine. However it can possibly become an issue in due course as some already mentioned. I certainly don't warm to anyone who flaunts their wealth. It's not a nice trait and it usually applies to some nouveau rich who confuse that we class  |
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