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How many times have you voiced a fantasy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots gangbang was a nightmare got let down 3 times trying to set my own up
Then spoke to bambi she’s lovely awwsome person she was willing to set one up for me private without the camera if i travelled down witch wasn’t a problem time lines for the year didn’t run well so asked if I could contact her before next summer and get it set up she sed yes unfortunately she left site before the summer came around
End up in a sanua open play room in lingerie and just let anyone take a go just to tick it off the box
Not the way I would have liked it but never the less got done
Really do want to do a proper private one though |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"
A few.
I've been lucky though and most have been ticked off at some stage, even if just the once.
But yep.
It's frustrating when that happens as you start building pictures in your head about how it will pan out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"
People will agree to anything for a fuck/ wank chat. |
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By *cott14Man
over a year ago
Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton |
"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???
People will agree to anything for a fuck/ wank chat."
Very true x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many times have you voiced a fantasy...
Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"
Don't think that I have ever voiced a fantasy - so never had that disappointment. BUt do have a friend who opens me up to new experiences, and now I want repeats. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"
A lot. It’s happened a lot of times.
There are quite a few things on my fucket list that I’d love to tick off and romantic partners have stated that they would but never did.
It gets to a point where I just stop asking and realise that my interests and pleasure isn’t as much of a priority to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm. Do all fantasies have to come true? I've certainly voiced them to men and they haven't happened for one reason or another. But conversely - ditto for them probably. If we did other exciting stuff, and we got our needs met - is it such an issue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I voiced my fantasies. … and in a nutshell, I’m single.
I think some will just tell you what you want to hear, others might listen and understand enough to want to experience than with you, others just have a negative view on them.
I have fantasies. I should list them in my profile one day, or whisper them into someone’s ear.
Just one, A Balcony overlooking a beach, listening to the waves as I’m stood behind her. Yes, we are both naked.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???
People will agree to anything for a fuck/ wank chat."
So true.
Even in a relationship though they can say they will help you tick them off and they don't.
Not everyone is like that though. But most!!! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"
I've never shit on a cat or anything like that but anything that's come up has usually been done or anything that's been done has meant others felt comfortable enough to try whatever they wanted (for the most), anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It gets to a point where I just stop asking and realise that my interests and pleasure isn’t as much of a priority to them"
This is exactly what I mean about giving up.
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It gets to a point where I just stop asking and realise that my interests and pleasure isn’t as much of a priority to them
This is exactly what I mean about giving up.
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Is it possible that they just don't think the reality will live up to the fantasy or aren't really into it themselves? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It gets to a point where I just stop asking and realise that my interests and pleasure isn’t as much of a priority to them
This is exactly what I mean about giving up.
Is it possible that they just don't think the reality will live up to the fantasy or aren't really into it themselves?"
That is quite possibly a reason but why say you will if you feel that way? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont tell anyone mine. I did once upon a time and he used it negatively against me when it suited him so no...my fantasy will remain just that  "
That's horrible.
I hope you get somewhere where you feel comfortable with someone again to do that and have a better experience. |
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By *stoppMan
over a year ago
Durham |
luckily I've been able to express a fantasy to someone and them help bring it to reality.. outdoor nudity, photograph 2 women playing sex games, pov, sex with another mans wife while he watches, witness watersports. |
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It gets to a point where I just stop asking and realise that my interests and pleasure isn’t as much of a priority to them
This is exactly what I mean about giving up.
Is it possible that they just don't think the reality will live up to the fantasy or aren't really into it themselves?
That is quite possibly a reason but why say you will if you feel that way?"
You'd have to ask them I guess |
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We got together on the basis of helping each other with our fantasises and we’ve carried out so many of them.
This is a fantasy life for us so we choose our play friends to increase the opportunities for completing fantasies for everyone.
If it’s a constant thing where people let anyone down or just talk a good game then people perhaps maybe need to revise their selection process.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont tell anyone mine. I did once upon a time and he used it negatively against me when it suited him so no...my fantasy will remain just that
That's horrible.
I hope you get somewhere where you feel comfortable with someone again to do that and have a better experience."
Thank you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always thought of being stripped by male strippers.
I would love hiring a plane and having a high sex drive. 
Waking up to early morning sex is now a fantasy
Going to wembley and stripping singing anthem...
Then hitting Rugby showers.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me op. Its always those with hidden secret agendas.
Dishonesty sucks.. Saying fantasies will be played out but it is like not turning up and ghosting.
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I don't think I have ever gone out to tell or fulfill one of my own fantasies, they've usually just happened for me, luckily. I don't think I have any more to fulfill. I have helped on occasion fulfill others though. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
Can't say I've ever really voiced any of my own.
I seem to be a bit more of a facilitator to help tick others people's lists off but if everyone is having fun then that's the main thing  |
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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago
Beyond the Wall |
"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"
I tend to be the one helping satisfy people’s fantasies, only for them to bottle it at the last minute.
I’m lucky in that there is very little left I want to do. |
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"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"
Honestly?
I have yet to have that happen.
Any fantasies or wants I’ve had I’ve been lucky enough to tick off with the friends I’ve made on here.
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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago
Various |
I've been trying to remember any fantasies I might have once had, before they were eclipsed by the second hand dreams of other people. I don't think I achieved any of them, and I doubt I shared any of them.
But to use them against someone is vile.
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