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Happily monogamous but need kink help
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By *zanagi OP Man
over a year ago
manchester city centre |
Hey,
I recently got into a relationship and I'm really happy.
However, we both want to do more kinky things.
So far we have used:
Tens machine
Massive gun
Acupuncture matts
Cuffed
Please can you suggest anything else, we like exploring and I'd love to hear your ideas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kinks are hugely personal and one persons kink is not someone else’s and therefore none of us are qualified to answer.
Read and research. Go to a munch. A club if you’re brave enough.
Mist importantly talk and communicate with each other about likes.
Create a list
Like to try
May consider
Definite no
Then see what similarities you have or are willing to try |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
If you get yourselves to kink workshops and events, then you can experience lots of things and chat with experienced people in those fields.
There’s no rush though, part of the fun with exploring is finding boundaries and pushing through to find what you’re both looking for. Reviewing and communicating is important and part of the joy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're in a major city with a lot of kink events and kinky people - doesn't need to be a club. Munches are very relaxed. The other site is more aimed towards kink and fetish lovers than Fab with lots of online groups.  |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Hey,
I recently got into a relationship and I'm really happy.
However, we both want to do more kinky things.
So far we have used:
Tens machine
Massive gun
Acupuncture matts
Cuffed
Please can you suggest anything else, we like exploring and I'd love to hear your ideas. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kinks are hugely personal and one persons kink is not someone else’s and therefore none of us are qualified to answer.
Read and research. Go to a munch. A club if you’re brave enough.
Mist importantly talk and communicate with each other about likes.
Create a list
Like to try
May consider
Definite no
Then see what similarities you have or are willing to try "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're in a major city with a lot of kink events and kinky people - doesn't need to be a club. Munches are very relaxed. The other site is more aimed towards kink and fetish lovers than Fab with lots of online groups. "
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"Hey,
I recently got into a relationship and I'm really happy.
However, we both want to do more kinky things.
So far we have used:
Tens machine
Massive gun
Acupuncture matts
Cuffed
Please can you suggest anything else, we like exploring and I'd love to hear your ideas. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try visiting a club on a kink night? 
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Is there like a more vanilla type one? She's a bit precious and well I'm full blown autism so the middle ground is a bit rocky"
What does precious mean?
Do you find large groups difficult?
Perhaps look for kink websites and get ideas from there? If it's easier to chat online rather than in person.
Google mojo upgrade. Might not be the kind of kinky stuff you're after but it may give you both something to discuss or give you ideas.
Good luck. |
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