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"Thr best message is one that appeals to them, from someone they find attractive and likely compatible  "
Should it be about me or about what I like about them. How explicit should the message be |
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"Thr best message is one that appeals to them, from someone they find attractive and likely compatible
Should it be about me or about what I like about them. How explicit should the message be "
If it's only about you it's easy to read it as a band copy paste that's sent out to every viable orifice.
If it's about them, make sure it's about them and what theyve shown and said, and not whatever you're fantasising about and want to slot them in to.
How explicit it should be will vary wildly depending in what they say on their profile. I say I don't want wank fodder in my inbox, so don't send me explicit shit. I have friends who ask men to tell them exactly what they want to do to them on their profile, so sending them the smut is the right choice. |
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"Thr best message is one that appeals to them, from someone they find attractive and likely compatible
Should it be about me or about what I like about them. How explicit should the message be
If it's only about you it's easy to read it as a band copy paste that's sent out to every viable orifice.
If it's about them, make sure it's about them and what theyve shown and said, and not whatever you're fantasising about and want to slot them in to.
How explicit it should be will vary wildly depending in what they say on their profile. I say I don't want wank fodder in my inbox, so don't send me explicit shit. I have friends who ask men to tell them exactly what they want to do to them on their profile, so sending them the smut is the right choice."
Thank you kindly, any criticism on the profile |
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"Thank you kindly, any criticism on the profile "
Not especially. To me it kind of reads like an AI wrote it rather than an actual person, and there seems a lot of fluff for not much actual content, but that's probably just my brain being odd. What appeals to me isn't necessarily what appeals to the people you want to appeal to. |
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"Hey ChatGPT, write me an introduction message on a dating profile"
You don't have to go crazy, just be authentic. Not everyone will like the real you, but someone will and if you try to change yourself to fit what you think they like, they will smell it a mile away.
(Mr)
Personally I'm a huge goofball with a daft sense of humour and a massive dollop of self-deprecation. I'm not above sending pictures of my cock with googly-eyes stuck to it, but I only ever did that once for someone special.
Find something about yourself that is real, unique so it stands out and don't be an Everyman. |
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We're not your target audience so this might not be useful.
For us a first message just needs to be an introduction and to briefly show you've read our profile.
If your profile is working for you and you feel it represents you it's the right one.
Good luck |
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