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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Obviously this is a secret lifestyle for most . Do you ever think what the public would think or friends etc ? I was just reading through comments on channel 4s programme open house people say how disgusting it is etc . But we are the fun ones right?
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I don't care what people I don't know or care about think of me.
I'd rather be honest with my friends and family than have them think they like a person that I'm not.
I'm not quite as blatant at work, but I also don't hide anything if asked a direct question. But I'm not telling loud stories about my escapades in the open office on a Monday morning either. |
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"I don't care what people I don't know or care about think of me.
I'd rather be honest with my friends and family than have them think they like a person that I'm not.
I'm not quite as blatant at work, but I also don't hide anything if asked a direct question. But I'm not telling loud stories about my escapades in the open office on a Monday morning either."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't think the world cares what a single guy does.
I'm not really a swinger of anything, though.
Most of my friends know fish in a few corners of the internet and couldn't care less
I'm not even sure my employer would care- hence the face picture.
It's probably more controversial for others though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hard question to answer
As it’s both a yes and no and maybe
Yes I do in a away ie people locally and such not because I care what they think more because they all like to gossip and don’t want it getting back to
No to strangers and such who aren’t local or know family or such couldn’t care what they think |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
"Hard question to answer
As it’s both a yes and no and maybe
Yes I do in a away ie people locally and such not because I care what they think more because they all like to gossip and don’t want it getting back to
I'm very similar, I don't brag about what I do in my home town. When I'm away I don't care what anyone thinks about me. It's me that's enjoying myself and having fun.
No to strangers and such who aren’t local or know family or such couldn’t care what they think "
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
I read a saying once that read:
“A Lion is not concerned with the opinions of Sheep”
Many people will have negative & mixed opinions on this lifestyle & it’s not my job or concern to educate them about it  I’m too busy fucking their neighbours, mums & aunties lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously this is a secret lifestyle for most . Do you ever think what the public would think or friends etc ? I was just reading through comments on channel 4s programme open house people say how disgusting it is etc . But we are the fun ones right?
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Never liked nor done secrets Id be no good as a spy.
No. Swinging is a lifestyle and the public are aware.
Only secret if you are married and cheating and she or he has no clue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hard question to answer
As it’s both a yes and no and maybe
Yes I do in a away ie people locally and such not because I care what they think more because they all like to gossip and don’t want it getting back to
I'm very similar, I don't brag about what I do in my home town. When I'm away I don't care what anyone thinks about me. It's me that's enjoying myself and having fun.
No to strangers and such who aren’t local or know family or such couldn’t care what they think "
Same don’t want it carried back to family for them to here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I definitely care what family and friends think. I know for a fact they would judge and wouldn't understand. One reason why I will never show my face on here. I value discretion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I definitely care what family and friends think. I know for a fact they would judge and wouldn't understand. One reason why I will never show my face on here. I value discretion."
That’s a choice cetris paribus you’ve stoked the fire but I’m referring too being able to justify my actions therefore I do not care what people think as I’m responsible for my actions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you’re wanting privacy then hindsight people would think of you a respectful even if they knew you and allow your privacy without intruding in the other hand if you’ve made something open to interpretation that’s completely different. Don’t care hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't begin to imagine how our kids would react. They think it's disgusting their Dad and I have sex, so god knows what they'd think to us fucking others.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't begin to imagine how our kids would react. They think it's disgusting their Dad and I have sex, so god knows what they'd think to us fucking others.
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But grown ups thinks it’s ok  that’s a spolier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't begin to imagine how our kids would react. They think it's disgusting their Dad and I have sex, so god knows what they'd think to us fucking others.
But grown ups thinks it’s ok that’s a spolier"
Many adults think swinging is disgusting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't begin to imagine how our kids would react. They think it's disgusting their Dad and I have sex, so god knows what they'd think to us fucking others.
But grown ups thinks it’s ok that’s a spolier
Many adults think swinging is disgusting."
That’s a closed response and I won’t elaborate on why I think that’s a contradiction as it will offend some people |
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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago
Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton, |
Couldn't care less what other people think.If they want to "tut tut" in some kind of moral superiority they aren't worth bothering with so they can go fuck themselves,because let's be honest,no one else will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We dont advertise it, but if asked, we dont deny it.
As previously said in this post, those important to us know about it.
Our outlook is simple.... if you dont like it, you dont have to be a part of it, but dont judge others or us until you've tried it, and if what we do offends you... tough... we enjoy it. |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"Obviously this is a secret lifestyle for most . Do you ever think what the public would think or friends etc ? I was just reading through comments on channel 4s programme open house people say how disgusting it is etc . But we are the fun ones right?
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Reminds me of the Mitchell and Webb sketch where it suddenly dawns on the Nazi SS officers: "are we the baddies..." |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"Obviously this is a secret lifestyle for most . Do you ever think what the public would think or friends etc ? I was just reading through comments on channel 4s programme open house people say how disgusting it is etc . But we are the fun ones right?
Reminds me of the Mitchell and Webb sketch where it suddenly dawns on the Nazi SS officers: "are we the baddies...""
I've already thought about this and decided that I am not shouting about my love of cock (love of pussy is a given, of course) from the rooftops, neither am I hiding. If it is revealed in some way, then I just don't care. I refuse to be shamed. |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
Bury/Bolton |
"I couldn't begin to imagine how our kids would react. They think it's disgusting their Dad and I have sex, so god knows what they'd think to us fucking others.
But grown ups thinks it’s ok that’s a spolier
Many adults think swinging is disgusting."
Many adults think being gay, lesbian, trans etc is disgusting, however that opinion is now no longer considered acceptable, it's a shame swinging isn't held in the same regard, the world would probably be a better place if swinging and sharing were the norm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take everything to heart
I can tell. You are a very sensitive soul.
I've been saying this for so long!
The women folk pick on him"
I'm just trying to get my dick wet  and they give me grief what gives!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In our whole general life we couldn't give two shits what people think about us, if people are talking about us then its all good as they leaving someone else alone who might be more affected by their crap talk. Also we have even said we have a profile on this site loud and proud on that zuck owned website with the initials FB. |
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"In our whole general life we couldn't give two shits what people think about us, if people are talking about us then its all good as they leaving someone else alone who might be more affected by their crap talk. Also we have even said we have a profile on this site loud and proud on that zuck owned website with the initials FB."
FuckBuddys.Com ?? |
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I don't when it comes to me, but I do when it comes to my kids, I would hate them to be outcast because of how we choose to spend some spare time.
People can be fickle and don't like what's out of the ordinary.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't when it comes to me, but I do when it comes to my kids, I would hate them to be outcast because of how we choose to spend some spare time.
People can be fickle and don't like what's out of the ordinary.
Mrs "
Yes when it comes to our kids if people shit talk they better have a good place to hide as I'm willing to kill. |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"I don't when it comes to me, but I do when it comes to my kids, I would hate them to be outcast because of how we choose to spend some spare time.
People can be fickle and don't like what's out of the ordinary.
Mrs
Yes when it comes to our kids if people shit talk they better have a good place to hide as I'm willing to kill."
I'm with you on that. It would be war! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do care what others think of me,I mean, not to the extent that I'm afraid to do anything but my reputation is important, to me. No one knows I'm on this site, I'd not discuss the innermost details of my sexlife with friends or family, not because I'm ashamed but because it's really not their business.  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
Yes, sort of, but no.
I don't care what others think of me. They are going to do whatever they feel like and settle on whatever opinion they have of me.
I do care that I come across as I intend to however. |
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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago
Beyond the Wall |
I care about hurting my friends and family, and due to how society looks upon alternative lifestyles choose to keep it a secret from many.
I’m not ashamed I just cant be bothered with the agrevation. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
For me it's more for work that I keep it private. I have a few friends/trusted work colleagues that know I'm on here. My family would probably be fine but in a way it's laziness trying to make my near 80yr old parents understand why I'm on here  |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them "
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I care about hurting my friends and family, and due to how society looks upon alternative lifestyles choose to keep it a secret from many.
I’m not ashamed I just cant be bothered with the agrevation."
This
Similar predicament... |
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"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it "
Can't say I disagree with this statement tbf |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you care what other people think, you'll always be their prisoner. Never care about what others think, most people don't even know what they think of themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you care what other people think, you'll always be their prisoner. Never care about what others think, most people don't even know what they think of themselves "
True! |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
My lifestyle is known to those around me. People are generally fascinated if stuff comes up in conversation.
I also get that many people want to keep their private life private. Everyone is different. |
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"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it "
Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then  |
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"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it
Can't say I disagree with this statement tbf "
You wouldn’t |
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"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it
Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then "
More of the nudity |
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"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it
Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then
More of the nudity "
Are you all taking a vote on this? |
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"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it
Can't say I disagree with this statement tbf
You wouldn’t "
What are you trying to imply |
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"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it
Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then
More of the nudity
Are you all taking a vote on this? "
Votes are in, landslide for more nudity  |
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"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it
Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then
More of the nudity
Are you all taking a vote on this?
Votes are in, landslide for more nudity "
Full frontal? |
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We don't actually care what people think. Our family, friends and work colleagues know about our lifestyle and sometimes enquire about it, but we've found being open and honest - when people ask - has meant we've never had any negativity from them. (even had some friends & workmates come clubbing with us)
We don't shout about what we do, but when asked, we simply tell it straight. It won't work for everyone, but out works for us. |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it
Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then
More of the nudity
Are you all taking a vote on this?
Votes are in, landslide for more nudity
Full frontal? "
LB, don't you dare its Sunday!
Church day and all that |
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"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it
Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then
More of the nudity
Are you all taking a vote on this?
Votes are in, landslide for more nudity
Full frontal? "
Full frontal and pics of arse the public has spoken |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it
Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then
More of the nudity
Are you all taking a vote on this?
Votes are in, landslide for more nudity "
Coming from the man in jeans and a jumper |
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"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it
Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then
More of the nudity
Are you all taking a vote on this?
Votes are in, landslide for more nudity
Full frontal?
LB, don't you dare its Sunday!
Church day and all that "
The baby Jesus is cool with me… all will be good |
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"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys
But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them
I think you're overdressed!! There I said it
Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then
More of the nudity
Are you all taking a vote on this?
Votes are in, landslide for more nudity
Full frontal?
Full frontal and pics of arse the public has spoken "
Not me I'm a gentleman |
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