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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
Nanna hated housework, but no one else would do it and she didn't want to be judged, so she did it all.
Nanna no longer cares what people think of her house and pays someone to do the housework for her.
Nanna's husband divorced her so he wouldn't feel guilty about fucking someone else.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"How many people lived in your house?
Just Tom and her indoors
The crockery was always left on the draining board and dust on the telly"
Oh no! Not crockery on the draining board, and a dusty telly!!
You and I would never get on Tom, even though we both have Essex postcodes, the county famous for TOWIE and women who dance around their handbags. |
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"How many people lived in your house?
Just Tom and her indoors
The crockery was always left on the draining board and dust on the telly"
Where else would you keep your dust until you clean it ... has to be the telly surely? Can't have dust on the toilet as thats where pictures are taken  |
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"Tom divorced his first wife. When he got home the house was always like a pig pen. She loathed housework and in the end Tom loathed her..."
I didn't know you kept pigs, Tom. Are they on your safe animal list? |
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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
"Tom divorced his first wife. When he got home the house was always like a pig pen. She loathed housework and in the end Tom loathed her...
I didn't know you kept pigs, Tom. Are they on your safe animal list?"
Not you again. |
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"Tom divorced his first wife. When he got home the house was always like a pig pen. She loathed housework and in the end Tom loathed her...
I didn't know you kept pigs, Tom. Are they on your safe animal list?
Not you again. "
Pigs are very easy to keep. They eat kitchen scraps and can live on wasteland. And some of them might fly. |
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"Tom divorced his first wife. When he got home the house was always like a pig pen. She loathed housework and in the end Tom loathed her...
I didn't know you kept pigs, Tom. Are they on your safe animal list?
Not you again.
Pigs are very easy to keep. They eat kitchen scraps and can live on wasteland. And some of them might fly. "
They might fly ? Not THAT would be all over the news  |
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"What happened to Tom's second wife 
Divorced beheaded died divorced beheaded survived
Not you again
Unusually rude"
If you look at Tom's posts, he trots this line out on the regular. Being benign and kindly individuals, we choose the path of forgiving Tom. |
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"Tom divorced his first wife. When he got home the house was always like a pig pen. She loathed housework and in the end Tom loathed her..."
I don't remember seeing that all over the news
What's going on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is simpler than most think. Tom was working full time and overtime and she had just one child to look after and the flat was like a pig style and no hot food on the table.. "
Ahhhh right. Because being a stay at home Mum is a walk in the park. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tom divorced his first wife. When he got home the house was always like a pig pen. She loathed housework and in the end Tom loathed her..."
Was Tom the pipers son ? |
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"This is simpler than most think. Tom was working full time and overtime and she had just one child to look after and the flat was like a pig style and no hot food on the table.. "
Maybe you should have hired a housekeeper instead of getting married. Sounds like she had a lucky escape. |
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Bring back old fashioned way of living husband at work wife sorting house and kids .or could be other way round these days .but unfortunately most households need both mother and father to be at work |
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"Bring back old fashioned way of living husband at work wife sorting house and kids .or could be other way round these days .but unfortunately most households need both mother and father to be at work"
Why is that unfortunate? |
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"Bring back old fashioned way of living husband at work wife sorting house and kids .or could be other way round these days .but unfortunately most households need both mother and father to be at work
Why is that unfortunate? "
Because it should be a choice rather than a necessity? |
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"Can't believe this wasn't all over the news...
It was on p32 of the Gravesend and Kent Sunday Observer.
"Woman freed from indentured servitude; man told to get on his butcher's bike""
Oh, I see. I'm more a Whitstable Chronicle man. Can't believe they didn't pick the story up... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many people lived in your house?
Just Tom and her indoors
The crockery was always left on the draining board and dust on the telly
Where else would you keep your dust until you clean it ... has to be the telly surely? Can't have dust on the toilet as thats where pictures are taken "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tom's second wife was a trad wife...house spotless,kids spotless and a meal on the table at 6pm every night and also womanly duties after dark"
She wanted to wait till it was dark?  |
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"Tom's second wife was a trad wife...house spotless,kids spotless and a meal on the table at 6pm every night and also womanly duties after dark"
She sends her very best, Tom. She's enjoying the freedom of life with her 2nd husband  |
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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
"Tom's second wife was a trad wife...house spotless,kids spotless and a meal on the table at 6pm every night and also womanly duties after dark
She sends her very best, Tom. She's enjoying the freedom of life with her 2nd husband "
No.. she is dead |
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"Tom's second wife was a trad wife...house spotless,kids spotless and a meal on the table at 6pm every night and also womanly duties after dark
She sends her very best, Tom. She's enjoying the freedom of life with her 2nd husband
No.. she is dead "
There's this really interesting story, about a man who "died"..... |
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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
"Tom's second wife was a trad wife...house spotless,kids spotless and a meal on the table at 6pm every night and also womanly duties after dark
She sends her very best, Tom. She's enjoying the freedom of life with her 2nd husband
No.. she is dead
There's this really interesting story, about a man who "died"..... "
There are other threads.. begone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tom divorced his first wife. When he got home the house was always like a pig pen. She loathed housework and in the end Tom loathed her...
I didn't know you kept pigs, Tom. Are they on your safe animal list?
Not you again.
Pigs are very easy to keep. They eat kitchen scraps and can live on wasteland. And some of them might fly. "
Pigs are also very useful for disposing of bodies - is this what happened to Tom's second wife, or should we look under the patio?
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Nanna hated housework, but no one else would do it and she didn't want to be judged, so she did it all.
Nanna no longer cares what people think of her house and pays someone to do the housework for her.
Nanna's husband divorced her so he wouldn't feel guilty about fucking someone else.
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This is a very sad story 
I left the first one whenI woke up in the night with a steel stiletto embedded in my shin bone. I still have the hole 30 years later. Prior to this she would disappear for days and not tell me where , run up 10s of thousands of credit card debt and during arguments tease me about whether I was really the father of our child.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Tom's second wife was a trad wife...house spotless,kids spotless and a meal on the table at 6pm every night and also womanly duties after dark
She sends her very best, Tom. She's enjoying the freedom of life with her 2nd husband
No.. she is dead "
Third time lucky ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look at it this way.
If you divorce you leave the marriage alive.
The other option to end a marriage ends up with one partner dead.
Consider yourself lucky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tom now lives in the worlds first self cleaning home and joined a swinging site to care of his other needs …. His former wife joined another well known site … plentyofdishes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tom divorced his first wife. When he got home the house was always like a pig pen. She loathed housework and in the end Tom loathed her..."
Woody wonders what you were doing to pull your weight around the house.
*your ex is telling her side of the story on Twitter.  |
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"Tom divorced his first wife. When he got home the house was always like a pig pen. She loathed housework and in the end Tom loathed her..."
Tom soon discovered that marrying a filthy bitch was not what he anticipated |
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By *assy69Man
over a year ago
West Sussex and Wales |
"Tom divorced his first wife. When he got home the house was always like a pig pen. She loathed housework and in the end Tom loathed her..."
Should you perhaps have kept the pigs outside??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is simpler than most think. Tom was working full time and overtime and she had just one child to look after and the flat was like a pig style and no hot food on the table.. "
This is typically egregious |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Tom divorced his first wife. When he got home the house was always like a pig pen. She loathed housework and in the end Tom loathed her..."
Do you not know how to clean? You may like it and even get a fetish for rubber if you use gloves |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"What happened to Tom's second wife
Divorced beheaded died divorced beheaded survived
Not you again
Unusually rude
If you look at Tom's posts, he trots this line out on the regular. Being benign and kindly individuals, we choose the path of forgiving Tom. "
It might be better if people just ignore each other when it is obvious someone doesn't want to converse |
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By *ee04Man
over a year ago
Essex |
My mate got divorced because of swinging. Well I say mate not seen him in 12 years.
Pestered me and my then partner as he knew we were swingers. His wife wasn’t keen but he talked her into it.
Reluctantly took them to an event after years of pestering. Told him what to expect and there was no pressure etc.
He got there was like a rabbit in the headlights, his wife was loving it she ended up in bed with a couple. He never spoke on the way home, next day he left and has never spoke to me since, or his ex wife picks the kids up never gets out the car.
Some people need to be careful
Of what they wish for. |
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"Can't believe this wasn't all over the news...
It was on p32 of the Gravesend and Kent Sunday Observer.
"Woman freed from indentured servitude; man told to get on his butcher's bike""
That made me giggle and all my coworkers to look at me funny. |
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"Tom divorced his first wife. When he got home the house was always like a pig pen. She loathed housework and in the end Tom loathed her..."
So you could not be arsed to help out with the housework then to eh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many people lived in your house?
Just Tom and her indoors
The crockery was always left on the draining board and dust on the telly"
Was she on Fab, maybe..?.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where else would you keep your dust until you clean it ... has to be the telly surely? Can't have dust on the toilet as thats where pictures are taken "
PMSL |
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In my case she was a lazy, incredibly selfish psychopath yet also extremely narcissistic and well hid these alarming facts till it was too late. Hard to believe for those who have not crossed paths with these disgusting monsters... |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Stuffed crust?
Let Tom qualify this. She fed the infant pizza for Sunday lunch.. and not supermarket pizza but Domino at huge expense
Annnnnnnnnd!?? 
For Sunday lunch ?"
We would have thar if we didn't fancy a roast.
We rarely have a roast and it's usually during the week if we do.
Was the child having fast food every day? |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I do think it wouldn't have hurt her to have a cooked meal ready for Tom when he got home from work, and a clean house.
I used to run my husband a bath and sometimes bathe him after work.
Then he'd have warm towels straight from the dryer to dry himself with.
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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
"I do think it wouldn't have hurt her to have a cooked meal ready for Tom when he got home from work, and a clean house.
I used to run my husband a bath and sometimes bathe him after work.
Then he'd have warm towels straight from the dryer to dry himself with.
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Exactly Toms point. In a marriage people should go the extra mile |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I do think it wouldn't have hurt her to have a cooked meal ready for Tom when he got home from work, and a clean house.
I used to run my husband a bath and sometimes bathe him after work.
Then he'd have warm towels straight from the dryer to dry himself with.
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I think you were slacking there, any good wifey would have dried him with a hairdryer, shame on you |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I do think it wouldn't have hurt her to have a cooked meal ready for Tom when he got home from work, and a clean house.
I used to run my husband a bath and sometimes bathe him after work.
Then he'd have warm towels straight from the dryer to dry himself with.
Exactly Toms point. In a marriage people should go the extra mile"
I bet some women wish their hubbies would go an extra mile.....the opposite way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do think it wouldn't have hurt her to have a cooked meal ready for Tom when he got home from work, and a clean house.
I used to run my husband a bath and sometimes bathe him after work.
Then he'd have warm towels straight from the dryer to dry himself with.
Exactly Toms point. In a marriage people should go the extra mile"
Ya know men are people too Tom? Maybe Tom should have made an effort too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do think it wouldn't have hurt her to have a cooked meal ready for Tom when he got home from work, and a clean house.
I used to run my husband a bath and sometimes bathe him after work.
Then he'd have warm towels straight from the dryer to dry himself with.
I think you were slacking there, any good wifey would have dried him with a hairdryer, shame on you"
... while he was in the bath...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stuffed crust?
Let Tom qualify this. She fed the infant pizza for Sunday lunch.. and not supermarket pizza but Domino at huge expense "
What brought her to mind again? Is it an anniversary this week?
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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
"Stuffed crust?
Let Tom qualify this. She fed the infant pizza for Sunday lunch.. and not supermarket pizza but Domino at huge expense
What brought her to mind again? Is it an anniversary this week?
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No |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stuffed crust?
Let Tom qualify this. She fed the infant pizza for Sunday lunch.. and not supermarket pizza but Domino at huge expense
What brought her to mind again? Is it an anniversary this week?
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Tom was eating a Domino pizza and remembering the good times. |
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"This is simpler than most think. Tom was working full time and overtime and she had just one child to look after and the flat was like a pig style and no hot food on the table.. "
Was Tom the child? |
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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
"This is simpler than most think. Tom was working full time and overtime and she had just one child to look after and the flat was like a pig style and no hot food on the table..
Was Tom the child?"
No |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were away with the Military and came home a day early hoping to surprise the family and it was a Sunday and he was feeding Pizza to an infant on a Sunday... "
Is it ok on a Saturday? |
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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
"If you were away with the Military and came home a day early hoping to surprise the family and it was a Sunday and he was feeding Pizza to an infant on a Sunday...
Is it ok on a Saturday? "
Yes but never on a Sunday |
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"I do think it wouldn't have hurt her to have a cooked meal ready for Tom when he got home from work, and a clean house.
I used to run my husband a bath and sometimes bathe him after work.
Then he'd have warm towels straight from the dryer to dry himself with.
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He had to dry himself?  outrageous! |
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"If you were away with the Military and came home a day early hoping to surprise the family and it was a Sunday and he was feeding Pizza to an infant on a Sunday... "
Was Tom's first wife a he..? |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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"If you were away with the Military and came home a day early hoping to surprise the family and it was a Sunday and he was feeding Pizza to an infant on a Sunday... "
Gbat thinks that if you come home a day early and are only surprised by the choice of the kid’s dinner, then maybe things weren’t so bad after all.
If you came home and found someone else banging her while the child ate pizza, I could see why one would be miffed.
Tom must get a grip. Military overreacting. It’s all over the news.
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