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Ladies! What do you look for in a solo meet?
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By *reyjaandFenrir OP Couple
over a year ago
bristol /bath/south west/ west midlands |
Hubs and I are looking to do solo meets and he’s struggling to find women to even reply to messages.
I get that the women here are inundated with messages but damn girls you’re missing out!
I shouldn’t even want to share he’s so yum but when he doesn’t get a reply my protectiveness kicks in
So ladies- what makes the difference in a message/ profile/ offer of a meet? Because he’s hot, great cock, highly intelligent and funny (not as funny as me though) and he’s striking out!
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Hubs and I are looking to do solo meets and he’s struggling to find women to even reply to messages.
I get that the women here are inundated with messages but damn girls you’re missing out!
I shouldn’t even want to share he’s so yum but when he doesn’t get a reply my protectiveness kicks in
So ladies- what makes the difference in a message/ profile/ offer of a meet? Because he’s hot, great cock, highly intelligent and funny (not as funny as me though) and he’s striking out!
Answers on a postcard-
or below as that’s more useful. "
That's what I tell all the women! They don't listen! And apparently it's *men* who don't listen....tsk  |
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over a year ago
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I'd look for pics of him and the fact you do have one is good but a couple more would be helpful. A lot of couple profiles don't have pics of the guy which doesn't help.
Women want to see the whole man (I didn't time package for obvious reasons  )
Need to see all of him.
Then a face pic attached to his message. |
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By *reyjaandFenrir OP Couple
over a year ago
bristol /bath/south west/ west midlands |
"I'd look for pics of him and the fact you do have one is good but a couple more would be helpful. A lot of couple profiles don't have pics of the guy which doesn't help.
Women want to see the whole man (I didn't time package for obvious reasons )
Need to see all of him.
Than a face pic attached to his message."
Yes!!! Why are all the couple profiles mainly pics of the women? I need to know what the man looks like and let’s be honest I’ll be more picky that hubs!! |
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OP one of the things I have heard from couples and single ladies is that a common trick is to get the “wife” to write something about how “hubby” is looking for a meet.
Overwhelming, it transpires that “wife” didn’t write said message.
If “hubby” is a big enough boy then he needs to stand on his own two feet and ask his own questions. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Does he have his own profile?
Because the majority of couple profiles tend to be more appealing to the male gaze.
I don't mind meeting a man from a couple solo - it'll be a tad hypocritical of me! That being said, I tend to prefer to talk to the man separately if that's what is happening - conversations can become quite stilted and guarded and it's a weird dynamic having three way conversations but only meeting one of them.
I like men who have a bit of something about them. Photos are great but only say so much. I also don't want to feel like it's going to be mission impossible to meet him.
Erm yep, that's about it really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP one of the things I have heard from couples and single ladies is that a common trick is to get the “wife” to write something about how “hubby” is looking for a meet.
Overwhelming, it transpires that “wife” didn’t write said message.
If “hubby” is a big enough boy then he needs to stand on his own two feet and ask his own questions."
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Fucks sake didn't mean to delete my comment...so here we go again..
It's the sad reality of fab, searching on here as a single man, will bring the striking out a you describe.
Also, all those things that you described about your husband, just because you see it in him, doesn't mean others will do, and he won't appeal to all.
Patience is a virtue on fab, it's not as straight forward on here as people like to think, there has to be an element of no expectations. However, that being said he will appeal to some at some point. Maybe broaden the search off fab, if you go to clubs he can play there as a solo and meet people that way. If it's solely left to fab then there will times when the struggle is real... |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Welcome to the world of single/solo male, without the backup of the other half as a safety net.
The attraction is all down to him, no room for exceptions because his wife is hot.
Doesn't matter if you think he is, a large number of others won't.
It os just the way it works. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
I know nothing about this because I'm all lonely and coyotes won't make a couple profile with me but.
Isn't it one of those ones where you meet as a couple and then from there maybe play alone if the dynamic and sex was great?
Otherwise him messaging solo is just gonna be like the rest of us and that is BLEAK |
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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago
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You’re a woman looking to meet men, what sets their messages apart from the ones your husband sends?
It’s natural to feel protective that no one is interested in your partner, but thats the rub of this site, not everyone wants what you have to offer.
Jas he tried going to clubs and flying solo? |
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By *reyjaandFenrir OP Couple
over a year ago
bristol /bath/south west/ west midlands |
"Hey Op, don't take this as patronising but use 'reply and quote' so it's easier to follow.
The person you want to reply to? Click reply and quote. "
Sorry you’re right! Trying to be sneaky at work! Naughty girl! |
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By *reyjaandFenrir OP Couple
over a year ago
bristol /bath/south west/ west midlands |
"You’re a woman looking to meet men, what sets their messages apart from the ones your husband sends?
It’s natural to feel protective that no one is interested in your partner, but thats the rub of this site, not everyone wants what you have to offer.
Jas he tried going to clubs and flying solo?"
We have very little time to do lots of clubs so when we go it tends to be as a couple but we are going to secrets next month so maybe he can try then. Thanks. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Hey Op, don't take this as patronising but use 'reply and quote' so it's easier to follow.
The person you want to reply to? Click reply and quote.
Sorry you’re right! Trying to be sneaky at work! Naughty girl! "
Oh she's gone and done it and now I want to meet her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know nothing about this because I'm all lonely and coyotes won't make a couple profile with me but.
Isn't it one of those ones where you meet as a couple and then from there maybe play alone if the dynamic and sex was great?
Otherwise him messaging solo is just gonna be like the rest of us and that is BLEAK "
I need to see the penis first brucey.
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By *reyjaandFenrir OP Couple
over a year ago
bristol /bath/south west/ west midlands |
"I know nothing about this because I'm all lonely and coyotes won't make a couple profile with me but.
Isn't it one of those ones where you meet as a couple and then from there maybe play alone if the dynamic and sex was great?
Otherwise him messaging solo is just gonna be like the rest of us and that is BLEAK
I need to see the penis first brucey.
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Ha ha a woman who knows what she wants! |
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By *reyjaandFenrir OP Couple
over a year ago
bristol /bath/south west/ west midlands |
"OP one of the things I have heard from couples and single ladies is that a common trick is to get the “wife” to write something about how “hubby” is looking for a meet.
Overwhelming, it transpires that “wife” didn’t write said message.
If “hubby” is a big enough boy then he needs to stand on his own two feet and ask his own questions."
People are weird and gross! He has his own profile but hasn’t had many replies.
Thanks though |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
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"OP one of the things I have heard from couples and single ladies is that a common trick is to get the “wife” to write something about how “hubby” is looking for a meet.
Overwhelming, it transpires that “wife” didn’t write said message.
If “hubby” is a big enough boy then he needs to stand on his own two feet and ask his own questions."
Agree with this - not looking for guys but I have had quite few messages from "couples?" well the male of the couple pretending to be the female and trying to sell their partner "Pimp" - telling me how amazing they are.
So to answer the question (and as other comments) would be better to set up a singles profile and try and meet as a solo guy, rather than a guy of couple trying to meet solo.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hubs and I are looking to do solo meets and he’s struggling to find women to even reply to messages.
I get that the women here are inundated with messages but damn girls you’re missing out!
I shouldn’t even want to share he’s so yum but when he doesn’t get a reply my protectiveness kicks in
So ladies- what makes the difference in a message/ profile/ offer of a meet? Because he’s hot, great cock, highly intelligent and funny (not as funny as me though) and he’s striking out!
Answers on a postcard-
or below as that’s more useful. "
His chances of meeting as a single guy with single women is drastically less..if he wants to have sex with other women ,as a couple look for a single woman that's interested in having a 3sum with a couple that way he can have sex with another woman but there's loads of forum posts about how difficult it is for single guys here . |
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I’m always wary straight off of meeting couples separately. I’ve known it be awkward - I’d usually only do it where I already know the couple.
In terms of what I’m looking for - appealing (non-cock) pics, text that tells me about the person and what they’re after, decent message that doesn’t make me feel like meat. |
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I don't look for single meets. Why? My saftey. I used too meet at our hotels, when Mr was out in the evening at works do's. One guy, turned up did a line. Say no more, I did the deed and got him out quick. Never again! I was lucky, he was quick and went. I only ever meet with Mr now. |
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By *reyjaandFenrir OP Couple
over a year ago
bristol /bath/south west/ west midlands |
"I’m always wary straight off of meeting couples separately. I’ve known it be awkward - I’d usually only do it where I already know the couple.
In terms of what I’m looking for - appealing (non-cock) pics, text that tells me about the person and what they’re after, decent message that doesn’t make me feel like meat. "
Thank you.
So what I’m hearing is I need to be having some threesomes with the lovely women on here so they would be more comfortable meeting with hubby solo- well it’s a hard life  |
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"I’m always wary straight off of meeting couples separately. I’ve known it be awkward - I’d usually only do it where I already know the couple.
In terms of what I’m looking for - appealing (non-cock) pics, text that tells me about the person and what they’re after, decent message that doesn’t make me feel like meat.
Thank you.
So what I’m hearing is I need to be having some threesomes with the lovely women on here so they would be more comfortable meeting with hubby solo- well it’s a hard life "
Taking one for the team, it's a hard life |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I know nothing about this because I'm all lonely and coyotes won't make a couple profile with me but.
Isn't it one of those ones where you meet as a couple and then from there maybe play alone if the dynamic and sex was great?
Otherwise him messaging solo is just gonna be like the rest of us and that is BLEAK
I need to see the penis first brucey.
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You've SEEN IT |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always had this problem with fab. I tried many approach to even strike a convo, for it to not get any acknowledgement or even read.
It's like being a needle in a haystack I think.
Never had any issue in the real world so I may try going to a club soon to hopefully get some form of fab experience to meet like-minded people. I feel like that's the best way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know nothing about this because I'm all lonely and coyotes won't make a couple profile with me but.
Isn't it one of those ones where you meet as a couple and then from there maybe play alone if the dynamic and sex was great?
Otherwise him messaging solo is just gonna be like the rest of us and that is BLEAK
I need to see the penis first brucey.
You've SEEN IT"
In front of me!! |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I know nothing about this because I'm all lonely and coyotes won't make a couple profile with me but.
Isn't it one of those ones where you meet as a couple and then from there maybe play alone if the dynamic and sex was great?
Otherwise him messaging solo is just gonna be like the rest of us and that is BLEAK
I need to see the penis first brucey.
You've SEEN IT
In front of me!!"
Can't wait for the thorough penis inspection |
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By *reyjaandFenrir OP Couple
over a year ago
bristol /bath/south west/ west midlands |
"I know nothing about this because I'm all lonely and coyotes won't make a couple profile with me but.
Isn't it one of those ones where you meet as a couple and then from there maybe play alone if the dynamic and sex was great?
Otherwise him messaging solo is just gonna be like the rest of us and that is BLEAK
I need to see the penis first brucey.
You've SEEN IT
In front of me!!"
Hey you guys can’t use this thread to hook up- defeats the point!! |
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"I think he'll just need to accept that lots of women don't want to meet a guy who's part of a couple...regardless how hot, intelligent, funny or great his cock is"
This. I wouldn't ever meet anyone who wasn't single. I'm sure there must be other married women who play separately, might be a better option for him |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I know nothing about this because I'm all lonely and coyotes won't make a couple profile with me but.
Isn't it one of those ones where you meet as a couple and then from there maybe play alone if the dynamic and sex was great?
Otherwise him messaging solo is just gonna be like the rest of us and that is BLEAK
I need to see the penis first brucey.
You've SEEN IT
In front of me!!
Hey you guys can’t use this thread to hook up- defeats the point!! "
What if you're both invited?!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been approached by men who play solo with permission. Fw reasons I'm not interested, I want fwb, socialising/overnights etc but the main thing that turns me off is the fact they 'tell each other everything' I dont want to be the subject of their horny chat/jokes/gossip. I'd not wish his partner being told intimate details about me. I appreciate that it turns a lot of couples on to do this but the thought of it leaves me cold. There will be those interested I'm sure, guess h just needs to be patient |
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By *reyjaandFenrir OP Couple
over a year ago
bristol /bath/south west/ west midlands |
"I know nothing about this because I'm all lonely and coyotes won't make a couple profile with me but.
Isn't it one of those ones where you meet as a couple and then from there maybe play alone if the dynamic and sex was great?
Otherwise him messaging solo is just gonna be like the rest of us and that is BLEAK
I need to see the penis first brucey.
You've SEEN IT
In front of me!!
Hey you guys can’t use this thread to hook up- defeats the point!!
What if you're both invited?!
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Got yourself a deal |
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He’s swimming in the same over saturated pond that all the other single guys are in that complain about not having any luck. Maybe he should follow the pages of advice on other threads aimed at helping unsuccessful guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hubs and I are looking to do solo meets and he’s struggling to find women to even reply to messages.
I get that the women here are inundated with messages but damn girls you’re missing out!
I shouldn’t even want to share he’s so yum but when he doesn’t get a reply my protectiveness kicks in
So ladies- what makes the difference in a message/ profile/ offer of a meet? Because he’s hot, great cock, highly intelligent and funny (not as funny as me though) and he’s striking out!
Answers on a postcard-
or below as that’s more useful. "
It’s almost impossible for single males in the world in general. If you wanna prove me wrong just reply to this haha. But no seriously what does a man have to do? |
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"I've been approached by men who play solo with permission. Fw reasons I'm not interested, I want fwb, socialising/overnights etc but the main thing that turns me off is the fact they 'tell each other everything' I dont want to be the subject of their horny chat/jokes/gossip. I'd not wish his partner being told intimate details about me. I appreciate that it turns a lot of couples on to do this but the thought of it leaves me cold. There will be those interested I'm sure, guess h just needs to be patient "
Also this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s almost impossible for single males in the world in general. If you wanna prove me wrong just reply to this haha. But no seriously what does a man have to do?
It's really not that hard. "
I’m trying lol |
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"I’m always wary straight off of meeting couples separately. I’ve known it be awkward - I’d usually only do it where I already know the couple.
In terms of what I’m looking for - appealing (non-cock) pics, text that tells me about the person and what they’re after, decent message that doesn’t make me feel like meat.
Thank you.
So what I’m hearing is I need to be having some threesomes with the lovely women on here so they would be more comfortable meeting with hubby solo- well it’s a hard life "
I know, I know. It’s a tough ask. But that’s how I’ve gone about it with couples in the past - sorry to be the bearer of bad news! |
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"I've been approached by men who play solo with permission. Fw reasons I'm not interested, I want fwb, socialising/overnights etc but the main thing that turns me off is the fact they 'tell each other everything' I dont want to be the subject of their horny chat/jokes/gossip. I'd not wish his partner being told intimate details about me. I appreciate that it turns a lot of couples on to do this but the thought of it leaves me cold. There will be those interested I'm sure, guess h just needs to be patient "
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"Maybe include his solo profile details on your couples bio so people can take a look. "
For me the deal-breaker would be not being able to accommodate, and possible availability limitations - realistically work having a young family and a partner who also meets solo leaves for very few free slots (been there). |
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OP your hubby may be sexy in your eyes but everyone still has their preferences.
Swinging doesn't mean just sharing its more being able to participate in sex freely in a more promiscuous way.
Just try put yourselves out there in the events and take it from there in my experiences most of the genuine people are found at parties than on here.
There are many time wasters on this site and a few catfishes too.
All the best to you both xx |
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By *reyjaandFenrir OP Couple
over a year ago
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"OP your hubby may be sexy in your eyes but everyone still has their preferences.
Swinging doesn't mean just sharing its more being able to participate in sex freely in a more promiscuous way.
Just try put yourselves out there in the events and take it from there in my experiences most of the genuine people are found at parties than on here.
There are many time wasters on this site and a few catfishes too.
All the best to you both xx"
Thank you lovely x |
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By *reyjaandFenrir OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I've never met with an attached guy because I don't want to be the subject of their pillow talk. I'm sure I'm not the only one.
Same. "
So interesting. I’d never thought about that before! I would hear all about it or not depending on how I felt at the time, I hadn’t thought that some women might not want their experience discussed. Thanks for that. |
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Although I like the concept, I’m very reluctant to meeting male part of a couple for two reasons: when we’re done, he gets to come back to you and I go home alone.
I need a substantial amount of aftercare and I’m guessing it will be very limited with an attached person. The other thing is I couldn’t stand a thought of you both having a conversation about me behind my back.
It’s probably just me, but I’m bringing my perspective as a single person. |
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By *reyjaandFenrir OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Although I like the concept, I’m very reluctant to meeting male part of a couple for two reasons: when we’re done, he gets to come back to you and I go home alone.
I need a substantial amount of aftercare and I’m guessing it will be very limited with an attached person. The other thing is I couldn’t stand a thought of you both having a conversation about me behind my back.
It’s probably just me, but I’m bringing my perspective as a single person."
A few women have mentioned they don’t like the idea of being discussed after so thanks ladies for making me think about this. Honestly hadn’t considered it! |
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"Although I like the concept, I’m very reluctant to meeting male part of a couple for two reasons: when we’re done, he gets to come back to you and I go home alone.
I need a substantial amount of aftercare and I’m guessing it will be very limited with an attached person. The other thing is I couldn’t stand a thought of you both having a conversation about me behind my back.
It’s probably just me, but I’m bringing my perspective as a single person.
A few women have mentioned they don’t like the idea of being discussed after so thanks ladies for making me think about this. Honestly hadn’t considered it! "
It’s a really interesting point that I’d not consciously registered. But yes, like it or not there is a third person involved in the meet, even if they’re not physically present and it’s is a different dynamic therefore. I think it would feel weirder if I didn’t know that person than if we’d all played previously. |
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"Hubs and I are looking to do solo meets and he’s struggling to find women to even reply to messages.
I get that the women here are inundated with messages but damn girls you’re missing out!
I shouldn’t even want to share he’s so yum but when he doesn’t get a reply my protectiveness kicks in
So ladies- what makes the difference in a message/ profile/ offer of a meet? Because he’s hot, great cock, highly intelligent and funny (not as funny as me though) and he’s striking out!
Answers on a postcard-
or below as that’s more useful.
That's what I tell all the women! They don't listen! And apparently it's *men* who don't listen....tsk "
Oi oi oi!!! |
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"I think he'll just need to accept that lots of women don't want to meet a guy who's part of a couple...regardless how hot, intelligent, funny or great his cock is"
Reality as it stands. |
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"Although I like the concept, I’m very reluctant to meeting male part of a couple for two reasons: when we’re done, he gets to come back to you and I go home alone.
I need a substantial amount of aftercare and I’m guessing it will be very limited with an attached person. The other thing is I couldn’t stand a thought of you both having a conversation about me behind my back.
It’s probably just me, but I’m bringing my perspective as a single person."
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"Hubs and I are looking to do solo meets and he’s struggling to find women to even reply to messages.
I get that the women here are inundated with messages but damn girls you’re missing out!
I shouldn’t even want to share he’s so yum but when he doesn’t get a reply my protectiveness kicks in
So ladies- what makes the difference in a message/ profile/ offer of a meet? Because he’s hot, great cock, highly intelligent and funny (not as funny as me though) and he’s striking out!
Answers on a postcard-
or below as that’s more useful. "
I'd meet him if you were closer Perhaps some people don't like meeting the other half of a couple, but I do. I think it just comes down to personal preference and attraction x |
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"Although I like the concept, I’m very reluctant to meeting male part of a couple for two reasons: when we’re done, he gets to come back to you and I go home alone.
I need a substantial amount of aftercare and I’m guessing it will be very limited with an attached person. The other thing is I couldn’t stand a thought of you both having a conversation about me behind my back.
It’s probably just me, but I’m bringing my perspective as a single person."
100% agree with this |
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"...If “hubby” is a big enough boy then he needs to stand on his own two feet and ask his own questions."
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Completely agree with this. Let's not be employing tactics of cronyism or a couples profile to circumvent the hard work that single men have to undertake.
I applaud your thread - it's a great PR stunt but he's going to have to take a ticket and get to the back of the queue.  |
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"Although I like the concept, I’m very reluctant to meeting male part of a couple for two reasons: when we’re done, he gets to come back to you and I go home alone.
I need a substantial amount of aftercare and I’m guessing it will be very limited with an attached person. The other thing is I couldn’t stand a thought of you both having a conversation about me behind my back.
It’s probably just me, but I’m bringing my perspective as a single person.
A few women have mentioned they don’t like the idea of being discussed after so thanks ladies for making me think about this. Honestly hadn’t considered it!
It’s a really interesting point that I’d not consciously registered. But yes, like it or not there is a third person involved in the meet, even if they’re not physically present and it’s is a different dynamic therefore. I think it would feel weirder if I didn’t know that person than if we’d all played previously. "
Good point. It might be different if all 3 people knew each other, even if the 3rd wasn't going to be present.
And some people might like the dynamic of being discussed. |
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