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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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So, let's say you have a social/date/group social lined up.
When do you start thinking about what to wear?
When do you want to know the plan? As in where, what sort of time, what you're doing etc.
Do you have quite a laidback, last minute approach to it or do you prefer being more organised?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really depends on what it is and who it is.
A group social would often require far more outfit planning than a one to one date. (I don't like the term meet). This is because there's far more people to judge me than just one!
A social that is just a social is different from one that might become more so different things to think about it.
Then planning an encounter that is all about the sex is different again.
I am fairly laid back about logistics to a degree.
So I guess there's no definitive answer other than it depends!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re so laid back it’s ridiculous. Whenever we travel to clubs we’re always running around last minute packing things and going to random shops for things we need for the night. It’s something that really need addressing. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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I think it very much depends on who I am meeting, how well I know them etc.
I can quite often over think what to wear but that is usually a sign that I really like the person. Equally if I don't think at all that can mean I'm so comfortable with them I know they won't care if I'm in a sack 
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MLS, I've not given it much thought yet as there's no themes and it's just in a pretty chilled/casual bar.
The Gothica social? I'm already looking at dresses and accessories! 
So it depends on the theme, vibe etc.
Jx |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"Not a Mulan thread 
I'll be back with a proper answer when I' be stopped singing.
J"
I don't care, I'm doing it anyway
To defeat, the huns!
Simply one of the better Disney songs. 
Although, it's clearly very sexist and misogynistic these days... Depending on whom you ask. |
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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago
Beyond the Wall |
For a one on one social I give more thought and consideration than group socials, but that is limited to ensuring that what I am wearing is suitable for where the social is being held. For group socials I make no extra effort than I would nipping out to the shops. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty chill.
Don't really need to be too organised or worry about it all."
As long as my lucky pants are clean I'm good to go.
And if they aren't I just spray a bit of Febreeze on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty chill.
Don't really need to be too organised or worry about it all.
As long as my lucky pants are clean I'm good to go.
And if they aren't I just spray a bit of Febreeze on them."
Sometimes need to scrape off a few skids. |
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"Not a Mulan thread
I'll be back with a proper answer when I've stopped singing.
J
I don't care, I'm doing it anyway
To defeat, the huns!
Simply one of the better Disney songs.
Although, it's clearly very sexist and misogynistic these days... Depending on whom you ask. "
It is, but it works in the context of the movie. We'll just use an "of it's time" disclaimer and carry on singing
J |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Fortunately as a guy, less effort is required into dweling on this.
Smart shoes, shirt, trousers and perhaps a blazer and good to go. Usually decided on the morning of the arranged meet/date/social  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Smart dress... What all men
Hi op
What you wear says a lot about your persona. Do I read into it. No. Over thinking can ruin things.
Wear what your want but not scruffy it does not turn me on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"MLS, I've not given it much thought yet as there's no themes and it's just in a pretty chilled/casual bar.
The Gothica social? I'm already looking at dresses and accessories!
So it depends on the theme, vibe etc.
Jx"
I thought the MLS was fancy dress, theme: Disney villains.  |
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"So, let's say you have a social/date/group social lined up.
When do you start thinking about what to wear?
When do you want to know the plan? As in where, what sort of time, what you're doing etc.
Do you have quite a laidback, last minute approach to it or do you prefer being more organised?
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The minute I know what time and where, I think about an outfit, although that can also be weather dependent - I usually like a social where we can have a walk and sit outside somewhere. If I'm really organised I'll even bring the picnic blanket.
I like to know asap, and it has to be specific, no use just telling me a day and an area... I'm likely to make other plans.
I generally like to be really organised , I sometimes have a busy home life, it needs to fit in with the hair washing routine (no joke) but if I'm already going out somewhere and going to be looking half decent then I don't mind a little bit of spontaneity. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"MLS, I've not given it much thought yet as there's no themes and it's just in a pretty chilled/casual bar.
The Gothica social? I'm already looking at dresses and accessories!
So it depends on the theme, vibe etc.
Jx"
I may have been super organised for a change and have both sorted |
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"MLS, I've not given it much thought yet as there's no themes and it's just in a pretty chilled/casual bar.
The Gothica social? I'm already looking at dresses and accessories!
So it depends on the theme, vibe etc.
Jx
I thought the MLS was fancy dress, theme: Disney villains. "
That would be fun! 
J |
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"MLS, I've not given it much thought yet as there's no themes and it's just in a pretty chilled/casual bar.
The Gothica social? I'm already looking at dresses and accessories!
So it depends on the theme, vibe etc.
Jx
I may have been super organised for a change and have both sorted "
Get you! 
Jx |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"MLS, I've not given it much thought yet as there's no themes and it's just in a pretty chilled/casual bar.
The Gothica social? I'm already looking at dresses and accessories!
So it depends on the theme, vibe etc.
Jx
I may have been super organised for a change and have both sorted
Get you!
Jx"
I got lucky browsing - but the time it comes the the socials I will hate how I look in them
I also now can't stop singing Mulan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty much last minute. I have a few go-to outfits but group socials on here have made it difficult to wear them as I don't want to wear stuff people have seen before. Which is actually ridiculous because of course we all wear the same thing on occasion, but it's still something I'm conscious of  |
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"MLS, I've not given it much thought yet as there's no themes and it's just in a pretty chilled/casual bar.
The Gothica social? I'm already looking at dresses and accessories!
So it depends on the theme, vibe etc.
Jx"
I'm struggling with a dress for the gothic one, the both theme then classy dress threw me, I was going for slutty goth but I don't think that covers classy
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"Pretty much last minute. I have a few go-to outfits but group socials on here have made it difficult to wear them as I don't want to wear stuff people have seen before. Which is actually ridiculous because of course we all wear the same thing on occasion, but it's still something I'm conscious of "
Less is more Joe... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pretty much last minute. I have a few go-to outfits but group socials on here have made it difficult to wear them as I don't want to wear stuff people have seen before. Which is actually ridiculous because of course we all wear the same thing on occasion, but it's still something I'm conscious of
Less is more Joe..."
Noted! I'll keep that in mind  |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
Just starting to give next weekends Manchester social a thought. Pre social outfit sorted and have something in mind for the Saturday, it’s definitely not dressy or sexy but will fit the brief …. I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why wear clothes? Is this not a sex site, we are clearly gonna fuck and the clothes just get in the way.
Long duster jacket or trench coat. Problem solved.  "
I'm longing for the day when dusters or capes come back into fashion. |
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"So, let's say you have a social/date/group social lined up.
When do you start thinking about what to wear?
When do you want to know the plan? As in where, what sort of time, what you're doing etc.
Do you have quite a laidback, last minute approach to it or do you prefer being more organised?
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Mainly last minute  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"MLS, I've not given it much thought yet as there's no themes and it's just in a pretty chilled/casual bar.
The Gothica social? I'm already looking at dresses and accessories!
So it depends on the theme, vibe etc.
Jx
I thought the MLS was fancy dress, theme: Disney villains.
That would be fun!
J"
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"So, let's say you have a social/date/group social lined up.
When do you start thinking about what to wear?
When do you want to know the plan? As in where, what sort of time, what you're doing etc.
Do you have quite a laidback, last minute approach to it or do you prefer being more organised?
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I have a laidback, last minute approach to everything. Anita on the other hand will spend two weeks planning for a night away, and still take a choice of outfits .
Cal |
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