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"If you didn't 1st meet swinging how did the subject arise"
As a couple, we always had a good sex life and as time went on we did fantasy and role play then this when more and more to us wanting group sex so when to a club in Edinburgh The After 8 met a cool couple who got us on fab and been here 8/9 years now.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you didn't 1st meet swinging how did the subject arise
As a couple, we always had a good sex life and as time went on we did fantasy and role play then this when more and more to us wanting group sex so when to a club in Edinburgh The After 8 met a cool couple who got us on fab and been here 8/9 years now.."
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
A field somewhere |
I (mr) mentioned it years ago. Mrs was horrified & upset so I didn't mention it again.
This time round, about a year ago, we were laid in bed one Sunday morning and Mrs looked at me and said "shall we try swinging?". Obviously I said yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I was ill and unable to have sex I told Mr he could find someone else to satisfy his needs. He never took the offer up. Then once I was better I brought swinging up, for him but also so I could indulge my bi side. 
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"I (mr) mentioned it years ago. Mrs was horrified & upset so I didn't mention it again.
This time round, about a year ago, we were laid in bed one Sunday morning and Mrs looked at me and said "shall we try swinging?". Obviously I said yes."
As you do |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
I raised the subject. I had a curiosity about watching her with another man that simply would not go away.
It took quite some time to get Rach to consider the idea too, she certainly did not jump into it. |
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Mr raised the subject, I had a think on it and agreed to give it a go. Unfortunately first time round on here was a bit mixed and ultimately put me off. Several years later I surprised Mr by suggesting we go to Xtasia and this time round we've had a lot more fun. Been better at working out what club nights we want to go to and who we want to meet. |
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I suggested to my husband about 20 years ago we should find another woman and my husband was all
For it obviously  .We joined a site and the next day we were in a orgy .
.We’ve been on and off Over the years and our dynamics have changed a lot but we are definitely still enjoying ourselves.. |
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By *ammymacMan
over a year ago
darlington |
Friends visited and after a few drinks in the garden one warm evening they suggested strip poker. We weren’t wearing much anyway as we were in southern France and we were all naked very quickly. A great evening followed when we all ended up in one large bed together.
Sadly my wife doesn’t play as a group anymore. |
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"Friends visited and after a few drinks in the garden one warm evening they suggested strip poker. We weren’t wearing much anyway as we were in southern France and we were all naked very quickly. A great evening followed when we all ended up in one large bed together.
Sadly my wife doesn’t play as a group anymore. "
Our experience was similar. Innocent dinner with a mutual male friend ended up with drinks flowing and an invite to stay on the couch for the night. Conversation turned to fantasies, sexual experiences and everyone got more than a little turned on. 10 minutes later we were all in bed, Debs in lingerie and blindfolded whilst the both of us started kissing her all over.... |
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"Mr N raised the subject.
Bet tht took balls. "
Yes it probably did. We talked about it a lot before I was happy to go ahead. I didn't need to be persuaded, cajoled or coerced but I did need questions answered, certain reassurances and to sort things out in my own mind. |
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
A field somewhere |
"I (mr) mentioned it years ago. Mrs was horrified & upset so I didn't mention it again.
This time round, about a year ago, we were laid in bed one Sunday morning and Mrs looked at me and said "shall we try swinging?". Obviously I said yes.
As you do "
It would have been rude to have refused |
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"I (mr) mentioned it years ago. Mrs was horrified & upset so I didn't mention it again.
This time round, about a year ago, we were laid in bed one Sunday morning and Mrs looked at me and said "shall we try swinging?". Obviously I said yes.
As you do
It would have been rude to have refused"
Ooh totally, happy wife happy life and all that jazz, I know you did it to keep the peace |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I (mr) mentioned it years ago. Mrs was horrified & upset so I didn't mention it again.
This time round, about a year ago, we were laid in bed one Sunday morning and Mrs looked at me and said "shall we try swinging?". Obviously I said yes.
As you do
It would have been rude to have refused"
She was like shall we try swin....
And before she could finish the sentence... yes yes yes please I know this great site lol |
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
A field somewhere |
"I (mr) mentioned it years ago. Mrs was horrified & upset so I didn't mention it again.
This time round, about a year ago, we were laid in bed one Sunday morning and Mrs looked at me and said "shall we try swinging?". Obviously I said yes.
As you do
It would have been rude to have refused
Ooh totally, happy wife happy life and all that jazz, I know you did it to keep the peace "
Well she's very happy now, so I have a happy but peaceful life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We originally came on the site for a woman as I'm bi and felt I was missing out on that woman's touch.
I then starting perving at men... 
Got a little d*unk one night and while we were having sex I told Tom I wanted to get spit roasted.
Rest is history...
xx Jess |
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"I (mr) mentioned it years ago. Mrs was horrified & upset so I didn't mention it again.
This time round, about a year ago, we were laid in bed one Sunday morning and Mrs looked at me and said "shall we try swinging?". Obviously I said yes.
As you do
It would have been rude to have refused
Ooh totally, happy wife happy life and all that jazz, I know you did it to keep the peace
Well she's very happy now, so I have a happy but peaceful life "
Winner winner swingers dinner |
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We first connected socially through an Internet chat room. We lived in different countries and didn't expect to get together so didn't have anything to hide. We had frank conversations about our sex lives and I (Luke) was open about being on the scene and how strictly monogamous relationships didn't appeal to me. By the time we got together she had thought about it decided to give it a whirl. |
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When both and my wife were courting we experimented any way we could with sex. We were out one night and a guy made a pass at my GF which amused me. We later discussed this in bed and after a lot of pillow talk we decided we would both want a mmf. We then went about how do we find meet someone, we even bought the contact mags which were available back then with no success really. And then one day we both attended a trade show where I was introduced to a new supplier and this rep made a lot of suggestions and a day or two later we all ended up in bed. And not for the last time ! |
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