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Does age matter alot to you?
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If many forum posts are correct a lot of people are in your boat op.
Age is important to me when we're meeting for sex, it's not relevant socially though. Chances are that if I knew a younger guy well enough socially I'd consider him sexually but not many of any age are willing to put that amount of leg work in on here without guaranteed sex at the end of it. |
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It's the first thing I look at in a profile and if the woman is outside my filters I don't even look at her pics or read her bio.
My lower age filter isn't negotiable so I assume that's true for a lot of people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s tough finding people you connect with on this website in general. But in terms of older women, it matters to most. There’s some cougars on here and some women that generally aren’t that bothered by age. But if you are only open to older women then it’s going to be tough on here. I meet people I think I’ll connect with. As long as they’re older than 23 it’s fine but me |
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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago
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"I like older women and im struggling to find many to meet in this site as most have an age limit which prevents me from being able to contact them! Anyone else in the same boat? "
Nope all good here op but thanks for asking.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Yes age matters to me. I don't agree with the saying on here that age is just a number.
I've zero interest in meeting men a lot younger than me.
I have filters set to help with the amount of messages but I wouldn't go far outside of them.
My upper limit is set because a quite a lot of men in their 50s who were messaging me were actually quite a lot older than their fab age.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fucking love 18/19 year old girls
VAR check
Decision- close but I think it’s ok. Aha. "
It could have went either way. If it was against us I’d be fuming  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fucking love 18/19 year old girls
VAR check
Decision- close but I think it’s ok. Aha.
It could have went either way. If it was against us I’d be fuming "
Improvements needed in the system for sure!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fucking love 18/19 year old girls
VAR check
Decision- close but I think it’s ok. Aha.
It could have went either way. If it was against us I’d be fuming I stick with the on field decision  "
Aha
Wait?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fucking love 18/19 year old girls
VAR check
Decision- close but I think it’s ok. Aha.
It could have went either way. If it was against us I’d be fuming I stick with the on field decision
Aha
Wait? "
And the ref heads back to the monitor… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We arent too fussed about age...Inked is a lil more relaxed about the lower limit to like 20 but im like hmmm my oldest child is 21 anyone under 30 and i feel too old for them haha.
(Mrs)
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Totally agree ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very much so.
Maturity (with personality & sexuality) is just so much better.
Age doesn't always mean maturity, but in my experience it's usually found in ladies a few years older than me.
In all I just rather be with a confident woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah I’ll yap away to anyone, sometimes takes me ages to even look at someone’s age
Not sure he meant chatting 
Surely gotta chat before I get my Willy wet no? "
It seems to be optional here? Would you change your mind about Willy wetting if the person was too old and young by your criteria? |
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"Nah I’ll yap away to anyone, sometimes takes me ages to even look at someone’s age
Not sure he meant chatting
Surely gotta chat before I get my Willy wet no?
It seems to be optional here? Would you change your mind about Willy wetting if the person was too old and young by your criteria?"
No I don’t think so as long as I got along with them and was also, of course, attracted to them |
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By *im494Man
over a year ago
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It's irrelevant to me, as long as there's a connection and chemistry that's all that matters. They could be 30 or 70 if you don't both click the physical side of things aren't going to feel right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah I’ll yap away to anyone, sometimes takes me ages to even look at someone’s age
Not sure he meant chatting
Surely gotta chat before I get my Willy wet no?
It seems to be optional here? Would you change your mind about Willy wetting if the person was too old and young by your criteria?
No I don’t think so as long as I got along with them and was also, of course, attracted to them "
Fair enough! It matters to me so I would always check at the start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age matters to me, but it’s hard to find the right pivot point. I prefer people closer to our own ages, but so many are just not exciting or attractive enough, and I know- I’m no goddess. I like the positive energy of younger people, but not the lack of life experience. |
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"Nah I’ll yap away to anyone, sometimes takes me ages to even look at someone’s age
Not sure he meant chatting
Surely gotta chat before I get my Willy wet no?
It seems to be optional here? Would you change your mind about Willy wetting if the person was too old and young by your criteria?
No I don’t think so as long as I got along with them and was also, of course, attracted to them
Fair enough! It matters to me so I would always check at the start. "
That’s fair  |
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Everyone will always think they can convince you otherwise - I’m older looking, I’m older in the head, you must want the young energy.
Or if older, I’m younger looking, I’m younger in the head, I’m experienced.
Maybe just respect people’s choices and find profiles that match you instead of trying to convince people you are the one that the rules don’t count with.
K |
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"Everyone will always think they can convince you otherwise - I’m older looking, I’m older in the head, you must want the young energy.
Or if older, I’m younger looking, I’m younger in the head, I’m experienced.
Maybe just respect people’s choices and find profiles that match you instead of trying to convince people you are the one that the rules don’t count with.
K"
Yup. "But I'm (what you're looking for)" just says to me, you don't respect what I want. That's an automatic no. |
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It really is just a number for us.We have met older that seem ageless and young that have very old attitudes.The biggest thing is chemistry and attractions and really feel relaxed and comfortable and happy.  |
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"I like older women and im struggling to find many to meet in this site as most have an age limit which prevents me from being able to contact them! Anyone else in the same boat? "
why do they have to be older i just like women, you're limiting yourself  |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
What really annoys me are the people on here who leave the upper age at the default setting of 99.
I have messaged a number of these people only to be told I am too old. 
Thank the Lord for the Real World  |
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Matters to me from my own experiences younger guys speak and treat me with more respect than older or same age guys do.
They tend to speak like their my dad and lie about being single when their not 
Everyone needs to know what works for them and leave alone what doesn't which are people's preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know what right, ima put myself in a hole and get battered here.
I don’t go for young guys because they are too energetic, want to do 58 positions in 37 seconds and go all night. Sex seems to be a tick list for that age group.
And I don’t go for old guys because I don’t find them attractive.
There are two young guys on here I fully plan on making an exception for, I’ll have to do some yoga and drink loads of coffee first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what right, ima put myself in a hole and get battered here.
I don’t go for young guys because they are too energetic, want to do 58 positions in 37 seconds and go all night. Sex seems to be a tick list for that age group.
And I don’t go for old guys because I don’t find them attractive.
There are two young guys on here I fully plan on making an exception for, I’ll have to do some yoga and drink loads of coffee first "
58 positions? I only know 3. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what right, ima put myself in a hole and get battered here.
I don’t go for young guys because they are too energetic, want to do 58 positions in 37 seconds and go all night. Sex seems to be a tick list for that age group.
And I don’t go for old guys because I don’t find them attractive.
There are two young guys on here I fully plan on making an exception for, I’ll have to do some yoga and drink loads of coffee first
58 positions? I only know 3. "
Ask brucey |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"You know what right, ima put myself in a hole and get battered here.
I don’t go for young guys because they are too energetic, want to do 58 positions in 37 seconds and go all night. Sex seems to be a tick list for that age group.
And I don’t go for old guys because I don’t find them attractive.
There are two young guys on here I fully plan on making an exception for, I’ll have to do some yoga and drink loads of coffee first
58 positions? I only know 3. "
Magic number! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what right, ima put myself in a hole and get battered here.
I don’t go for young guys because they are too energetic, want to do 58 positions in 37 seconds and go all night. Sex seems to be a tick list for that age group.
And I don’t go for old guys because I don’t find them attractive.
There are two young guys on here I fully plan on making an exception for, I’ll have to do some yoga and drink loads of coffee first
58 positions? I only know 3.
Ask brucey "
I haven’t seen him today. Is he ok? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what right, ima put myself in a hole and get battered here.
I don’t go for young guys because they are too energetic, want to do 58 positions in 37 seconds and go all night. Sex seems to be a tick list for that age group.
And I don’t go for old guys because I don’t find them attractive.
There are two young guys on here I fully plan on making an exception for, I’ll have to do some yoga and drink loads of coffee first
58 positions? I only know 3.
Magic number!"
I need to invest in the karma sutra… unless there’s an app. |
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Not really, but what pisses me off is the number of guys on here who lie. Met a 52 year old guy who turned out to be 64. Met a 55 year old guy a couple of years ago who is apparently now 43 according to his profile.
Own your age! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what right, ima put myself in a hole and get battered here.
I don’t go for young guys because they are too energetic, want to do 58 positions in 37 seconds and go all night. Sex seems to be a tick list for that age group.
And I don’t go for old guys because I don’t find them attractive.
There are two young guys on here I fully plan on making an exception for, I’ll have to do some yoga and drink loads of coffee first
58 positions? I only know 3.
Ask brucey
I haven’t seen him today. Is he ok?"
He’s grounded. Didn’t empty the dishwasher when his mum asked him to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's about connection for me, not particularly age. But at the younger end of the scale I'd be looking for maturity.
I've had a few younger guys message, but I'm afraid as soon as they mention "I really like older women" it instantly turns me off! I don't feel "older" therefore I don't wish to be reminded! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what right, ima put myself in a hole and get battered here.
I don’t go for young guys because they are too energetic, want to do 58 positions in 37 seconds and go all night. Sex seems to be a tick list for that age group.
And I don’t go for old guys because I don’t find them attractive.
There are two young guys on here I fully plan on making an exception for, I’ll have to do some yoga and drink loads of coffee first "
*Woody checks his age |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what right, ima put myself in a hole and get battered here.
I don’t go for young guys because they are too energetic, want to do 58 positions in 37 seconds and go all night. Sex seems to be a tick list for that age group.
And I don’t go for old guys because I don’t find them attractive.
There are two young guys on here I fully plan on making an exception for, I’ll have to do some yoga and drink loads of coffee first
58 positions? I only know 3.
Ask brucey
I haven’t seen him today. Is he ok?
He’s grounded. Didn’t empty the dishwasher when his mum asked him to "
He’s such a rascal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what right, ima put myself in a hole and get battered here.
I don’t go for young guys because they are too energetic, want to do 58 positions in 37 seconds and go all night. Sex seems to be a tick list for that age group.
And I don’t go for old guys because I don’t find them attractive.
There are two young guys on here I fully plan on making an exception for, I’ll have to do some yoga and drink loads of coffee first
58 positions? I only know 3.
Ask brucey
I haven’t seen him today. Is he ok?
He’s grounded. Didn’t empty the dishwasher when his mum asked him to "
This does not surprise me
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Keep looking OP, as there are lots of women out there who like younger men
I only meet young men who are in their twenties and I set my age limits on here to between 20 and 30 to reduce the number of people who can contact me. So it works both ways.
Have you tried using the see who’s nearby search, for users who match your preferences, your desired age group, etc and want to meet someone of your age?
Lilith xx |
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I really do think OP that your preference is your preference… it’s helpful to state it on your profile by the way. And someone else’s preference is theirs. If they match that’s all good. If they don’t then that’s all good too. Just find someone who does.
It really is that simple |
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