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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This word gets thrown around so much but what does it mean to you?
Do you think you are sexy?
Do you feel it? What makes you feel it?
What makes others or situations sexy?
Lots of questions for a Tuesday!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm particularly annoyed with one user that has put the term "sexy sex" in my head.
I can make out I look somewhat sexy in a photo, cameras really do lie.
In real life? Not so much. Unless I've had wine and I'm dancing then hell yeah. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm particularly annoyed with one user that has put the term "sexy sex" in my head.
I can make out I look somewhat sexy in a photo, cameras really do lie.
In real life? Not so much. Unless I've had wine and I'm dancing then hell yeah. "
Oh,.what makes me feel it? Wine...or rum. Men never do, it's not something another person can make me feel. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"This word gets thrown around so much but what does it mean to you?
Do you think you are sexy?
Do you feel it? What makes you feel it?
What makes others or situations sexy?
Lots of questions for a Tuesday!
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To me, sexy is an attitude. It’s about owning your body, whatever the shape.
I think that I can be sexy, I usually feel it when I’m in the moment of engagement, seeing the look of desire in a persons eyes.
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No, I don't think I'm sexy. Attractive, maybe even good looking or handsome to some, but I don't have that sexy thing going on.
That's fine by me - got to play to your strengths/know your limitations! |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
Oh yikes, I'm not sure I ever feel sexy to be honest so not sure would actually make me feel it.
What makes other people sexy to me? Probably the aura they give off, a comfortable confidence in who they are without being arrogant  |
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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
Sexy is as sexy does? I dunno. Would never put myself in that category though!
And don't believe it's been said yet, but to me, beyond the normal physical attributes, I'd say a woman's eyes can be the sexiest thing going... |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
Sexy is perception
One person sexy is somebody else's unsexy.
You can feel sexy, doesn't mean the rest of the world sees you as such. You could feel the least sexy person ever but to others you are beyond the meaning of the word. |
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By *oom_88Man
over a year ago
Grays |
Its all about how you feel about yourself. People have different tastes but if you feel that youre sexy thats the only thing that matters.
As an example, I believe im good looking but probably there will be people in this site that wouldnt agree with that |
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It’s a tricky one, isn’t it?
Sexy is different to hot which is different to attractive which is different to pretty or handsome and different to beautiful and all kinds of other things.
I guess there’s a clue in the word itself. Sexy is about sex. Suggesting it. Representing it. Driving desire for it. Something like that. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I know I'm not sexy and I'm comfortable with that. I don't think I'm unattractive but like Rose said above, they're different things.
Other people make me feel sexy, with the way they look at me or talk to me.
I'm not sure what makes another sexy to me - it's such an individualistic thing, whether that's the way someone smiles one of those devouring grins where you know they want to eat you alive. The way another gets absorbed in a book and I can see the emotions flitting across their face as they read. A hearty chuckle when they're particularly amused by things.
So many different things and I feel it's a whole other thread so I won't go on and on about it. :D |
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Its a complex question for me, because I tend to show my arousal physically, rather than say it in words. Like with sensual kissing, running my hand over his arse when we are out, smelling him deeply, I guess we are so used to not using words and celebrating physically, I'm out of touch of really noticing when guys watch me when I walk in the pub/restaurant in order for me to feel "sexy"  |
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It's likely to vary and mean different things as you progress through the chapters of your life....its the feeling within that counts and differing things can evoke that sexy feeling or look that someone perceives as sexy |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
There are occasions where I feel sexy - that can be when dancing, when I’m laughing at something and I catch him looking at me and smiling because he enjoys seeing me happy to wearing a killer outfit or lingerie.
He makes me feel sexy in the moments when I don’t consider myself to be, scruffy morning hair and wearing his T-shirt whilst munching food on the sofa and that’s special because he sees me, the real version not just the images on here.
I find confident people sexy, certain peoples voices when they sing, the way a person moves when they walk…it varies for me. But mainly
I think it’s an attitude a sense of self and no desire to be anything but you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must give off a sexy vibe in person because women have always come on to me far more than I them.
I’ve never felt sexy. Horny, yes, but I don’t think that’s the same thing. Quasimodo can feel horny.. |
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We build each other up to be/feel sexy.
I see C in all of her glory, not just what gets portrayed here and I find every part of her sexy. The way she’s so graceful, her laugh and smile. The parts she doesn’t like, I love, as I enjoy all of her.
Our togetherness, to some, might be sexy and desirable. To others we might be sickly or unappealing - each to their own. It works for us and that’s all that matters.
Being positive and the confidence we have built up makes us feel sexy.
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